nurez305: The first red flag was when she started ignoring my calls.
I went to her house to know what is going on and I met a guy there but he excuse us immediately, later she went to take her bath and drop the phone on the sofa. I was with her phone when the text message from that guy that left enter with only "OK" . then I open the message and I saw the previous conversation between them.
The guy said : when you know your boy-friend is coming to your house today, why did you invite me also to come
My fucking GF replied : he is not my boyfriend, he is only a friend
After reading that, I started sweating inside their house after I have spent on the idiot.
I bought her the phone, Pay her school fee, Give her money whenever she ask When her father died, I paid her trip to and fro and also give her change to hold to her village.
I felt like a loser and was very heartbroken. I summon courage and told her to return back my phone after telling her what I saw in her inbox, she accuse me of checking her messages without her consent and she refuse to give me the phone.
I threten her that if she refuse to return my phone that I won't take it lively with her. She reported me to police and they set a trap for me, she told me to come to somewhere to collect the phone, on getting there, I was arrested and the police force me to write a statement that I will never disturb her because of this phone again. I did and they told me to call one of my relatives to come and bail me and be my witness. I did that and I was granted bail and told us to come the next day.
The next day, the police woman try to settle the issue between us and she said we should not fight each other again and continue our relationship. And the police officer told her to delete all the threat messages I sent to her which he did.
NOW IS MY TURN TO REVENGE After about 2months that will depart, she taught I have forgotten everything she does to me not knowing that I'm only waiting for the best time to strike her back. I went to area command to hire police, the man charged me 30k and told me not to worried that what she does was very bad. I lead the way to her house and she was shocked to see me again, she quickly call her mum and to tell her, we arrested her in her shop then and the police put an allegation on her that she hire tug to beat me up because I requested for my phone from her. She started crying that is a lie. The police ask for the receipt of the phone from her and she told them that I bought it for her, they collected the phone and detained her until her family show.
I later tell the police to allow her to go but I need to collect the phone. The man said it is important I do that.... After everything, I collected the phone and leave them in the station.
Foolish olosho
It wasn't necessary. Journey of life is farther than that.
Ddokie: If Wike is behind it then Dave has a lot to worry about because Wike appears to have more influence at the supreme court.
Influence?.... And you think that sounds normal to you. Something that suppose makes us all sober. If judiciary is kept in the pouch, what then is the faith of few of us that refuse to japa?
A couple was into a very serious argument over where the woman was going with her child, father violently collected his child back to go back home. The child mother raised alarm for help that her child was snatched by the man. Yours truly, people pursued caught the man and beat him to a pulp before being identified by a passers by as the child's father and the woman his wife.
I met a man in mechanic workshop whom shared his experience with me. He said his father ejected him from his flat and rented it out. That was when he tightened up. Today he is a proud owner of 3 buildings.
brutal1: Don't feel bad, most of us that grew up with our parents living in a face me and face you practically watched the process of the making of our siblings, there was just one bed and that's for the two of them so we had to sleep and the floor and me I even love to peep until my dad gave me a deafening slap one night...i still have this sharp pain in that part of my neck and ear till now as a result of that everlasting correction so dont feel bad...you can avoid looking them in the eyes for days but it will go away....also it is unfair on the part of parents to deprive themselves of fun because of the children in their own house ooo...i have two boys now and i know how difficult it is because these my own boys are investigative journalists...they work hand it hand ...if you put one to bed ...the other will be up...if you know how much carry over we get now ..im sure your parents must have been praying for the rain because you guys wont allow them do it when they want to ....and there comes the rain..(do you know how happy they were when the weather started changing?...you just ruined nature's gift for them) ...and you still went there at that time but u sef nor try ...wetin u dey find sef? What exactly were you looking for that you cannot wait till this morning??, it's no big deal...it is what it is ...they still continued after you left okay...wait, how did you think you got here ??
That deafening slap... I can't stop laughing. That your palee dey town gan gan.
Barims: Who told you that there's a place called heaven?? There's no God, no place like heaven/hell.... After death that's the final nothing like judgement day
Stop trusting religion crap they are just deceiving you
Nairaland is like a jungle city. In the jungle, you meet different types of dangerous animals roaming around.
Guys, please don't stop helping people to grow. I helped so many ladies in the past to become someone in life including my sisters. In education, in business development and by just talking to them when they were going astray. I am happy to see many married and working in a cooperate environment and taking my referrals seriously based on trust and relationships we built then.
immortalcrown: Wow! Lagos is trying in every aspect. I am tempted to say that what Lagos has done in the past 7 years is bigger than what Bubu has done in the entire naija in the same 7 years.
gistmega: We live in a country in which citizens rejoice when a law enforcer dies. It is not a coincidence given the litany of crimes committed by the policemen.
The biggest evil in Nigeria are the supporters of these politicians. By the time the mobs go against the supporters who are the spine of these politicians, things will change. If any Tinubu supporter is burnt alive or given cement to drink, others will rethink. There is no need why a man who cannot type 25 words per minute should hold any office in Nigeria.
Nigerians are industrious. If there were steady power, many inventors would have invented magnificent things that could rake in billions of dollars. Buhari will leave this country broke and broken. He has killed every dam sector in the country. Even drovers are killed and slaughtered because of the divide that Buhari has created.
I hope all the assets of those Nigerian Oligarchs be frozen too. The west should Freeze all their stolen loots
You seem to be more wicked and dangerous than people you castigated.
When men were boys. One time or the other, guy man found himself in same scenario. A cute met while on transit came to town requested to be picked up within university community for a night out. Yours truly, one guest became 4 waiting at the bus stop. Long story short. We found ourselves in karaoke bar with all eyes on my table with such beautiful damsels. It took aggressive pressure from my friend to maintain my budget. Last last I gave them transport fare to take a drop back to campus at 12am when they insisted on waiting to hear their booked songs. At that point, one of them have called her male friend whom eventually came to meet us there.
ceaser: Haba. This man is not Nice ó. At all at all.
It is getting established beyond reasonable doubt that he is indeed a serial rapist who uses the tools of his work (BRT bus) for his crimes. The fact that he got away with previous ones including that of this november evidence (which most likely wasn't his first) was the reason he continued in it.
Ordinarily, public buses including truckers always have cameras installed to monitor the driver especially and also the entire spaces in the bus. Just one camera is enough to pan the whole interior of the bus and the cameras are usually installed at the side of the front passenger of the bus so that it pictures the driver and the whole areas behind him to the rear of the interior.
But no, Nigeria matter na always half cooked. At the end, a life has now been lost and most likely this issue of camera will still not be considered until another similar incident happens again.
I kept thinking why this was not done. It has to be a night vision camera. BRT can actually do better. Lagos state government is still far ahead of many Nigerian states despite this shortcomings. We need to encourage Lagos state government to do better. Please protect Lagos infrastructures if you throughly love Lagos. Eko o ni baje o.
press9jatv: Meanwhile , Ilesha Leader Chief Ebenezer Babatope prays for Senator Ademola Adeleke in his country home in Ilesha. Prays for victory in the polls.
This guy should go and take tutorial from Kanu. He learnt not to respond to criticism but remained focused during his day in the national team or Okocha that would just laugh at irate fans and media whenever he missed penalty. Long way for him to go.
What has Dangote safety managers have been doing wrongly? How do they employ, whom do they employ, what are the criteria used to employ, what training do they offer to staff and contractors drivers? They need to sit down and think outside the box or ain't they embarrassed with all these accidents here and there?
Rule one, immediately she shared the video, she should have boldly made the driver knows by shouting 'DON'T TRY NONSENSE WITH ME O' like a typical Lagos girl. Drivers brain and his team would have been re formatted.
pansophist: I like the Chinese method better. They won't take sides like the west does, or pressure others to do the same. They won't sell weapons to either parties to keep murdering each other, they won't twist the narrative and see conflicts as a playground to advance political aims. They won't start sanctioning, or cut off ties with the country they dislike.
Instead they call both countries to the round table, mediate between them and diplomatically reach an agreement for ceasefire. No country should be forced and punished if they didn't take sides. That should be the ideal. Nigeria has immediately took sides against Russia, a very bad move. We lack spine and just want to please the western master. This is what slaves do, not a truly independent country.
It's obvious you really don't know those guys. If you know them one on one, you won't make them your friends.
alcaptainero: Don’t allow Amaechi to deceive you. He is a very smart guy when it comes to money. Which one is “ we have given them “SOME MONEY”? Mr. Minister, tell us how much money you have given them. Rivers state would have fared better if someone else had gotten her ministerial slot. The guy can’t boast of a single completed people’s oriented federal project in his home state. Always focusing on those states he thinks will make him become president. Don’t worry, Rivers youths and elders are waiting for you and your party’s usual fake promises next during the core electioneering time
Kindly name the Rivers man that you had in mind that had surpassed identifiable ground breaking records Lion of Ubima have in his pouch?
This will take special grace and mercy to be found. Sex automatically take us away from God's mercy. He might have been abducted by his transporter. Solution to societal problems lies in states and local authorities's hand. Lets have Okada riders and any other form of transportation registered.
What do you hope to achieve? To get the lost information back or to extort the school?
Now, nowhere in your story did you mention that your wife saw someone operating her device thereby breaching her privacy, technically that puts you on a lower ground legally because it's all assumptions.
Phones can factory reset themselves when the limit of wrong password input has been reached. It could be this.
But,
You have evidence of messages that didn't originate from her to her contacts. But that is no proof either. A good lawyer could pin those messages on your wife, claiming they were sent by her with a malicious intent to blackmail the school or that she has a dissociative indentity disorder which would further cast aspersions on her sanity as well as her credibility.
So,
As long as your wife does not have nudes of you or herself on the phone or any other incriminating file, you should not be bothered.
If she does have nudes or other vital information she wants back, I could help you retrieve those lost information.
But,
By default, I do not trust women. I'd advice you not to. Do not excavate a graveyard except you are hunting for skeletons.
Apparently, your wife is a threat to the HM who does not want her taking advantage of connections she garnered in the course of working for her.
Just let sleeping dogs lie. So you do not go and find out that the preek of a rich parent is the reason behind your wife and her HMs' squabbles.
I'm not saying that teachers are as wayward as nurses, I'm just saying I know someone who is a big benefactor in his kids' school; the story of his goodwill and philanthropy brought the Proprietress and most of his kids' teachers to his bed.
The proprietress found out she was was sharing his preek with the same people she was paying salaries and it brought about squabbles amongst the teachers and most of them just like your wife, tendered resignation letters but never told their husbands the true reason behind their leaving.
Those husbands till today see their wives as victims of unjust treatment in the school they served in not knowing that they, the husbands, are the actual victims.
Ogbeni, you talk too much. I almost covered your mouth while reading your illustrations.
NOETHNICITY: What? Only the west that guarantee quality human life? What have they done with you bro. Are you even living in this world? I don't live in the west and I am having a blast. Although we have challenges and a long way to go. The west too have challenges. Wake up bro. The Canada you mentioned, I've people who have relocated from there to the US, vis and vis, siting living conditions. Some countries in Asia are doing amazingly well too.
Don't get me deviated. What I am saying is that prototype of how humanity should live with minus and addition of few (helpful African culture) is already with the western world. Asia and others copied the west too. I hope you get it and if you don't, fo...... about.....
I still can't understand why Tinubu wasn't there. People should live this roforofo fight and brain storm on how to move this country forward. If the best guy is an international igbo woman or international yoruba man giving loans to African countries. They better bring them and persuade the populace to vote for them. They know how they use to do it.
Hannover: That prison break which occurred 2 years ago in Edo State is the major cause of all this problems... Nigeria lately is becoming very unsafe.. Most especially for our ladies. Just 4 days ago there is a young lady who got missing in Lagos. She entered a wrong bus till now no one knows where she is.
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