₦airaland Forum

chukwudi44:
Olodo am i a boko haram sympathiser like you? I am criticizing Buhari so he shall use some of his maistateine skills he told us during the campaigns!!was I the one that said we will defeat boko haram in 2 months?

If i lament about bomb blast now, dem go call me wailing wailer. They were busy screening ministers while Borno is on fire.

lifenajeje:
Hmmmm. Shows people are still ignorant about HIV.

Op Don't be surprise if a test is conducted using a determinant kit its you who would come out with a positive result.. Symptoms of different illness are alike so she may not be positive until a determine kit reveals so.

For the general house ...we have discordant ( one of the partner is living with HIV) and corcondant ( both partners are living with the virus). In both senarios there are millions of people happily married allover the world.

Don't abandon your love one cause of HIV else u would loose something special.


Marriage is a thing of the mind its either you are ready or not... If u can't marry someone that is positive you let the person know the truth and keep on being friends with the person. There are lots of issues that would make one not to settle down with their partner and they bring up other excuses.

What most people don't know is that there are lots of virgins who are living with the virus as I type this.. These are innocent children who were infected from birth with the virus before the emergence of PMTCT(Prevention of Mother To Child Transfer) presently people ignorantly still give birth to positive children who would grow up and get married.... What am trying to say is you could end up marrying a virgin but don't know he or she is positive with HIV..

SEX is not the only means which HIV is transmitted.. How many guys on nairaland have personal hair clippers .. How many ladies use their own hair pin.. Forget those crap about sterilising equipment..using lighters to burn clippers..clinically it's only bleach that can kill the virus..but as humans we can't drink bleach.....

Op even if that lady turns out positive u abandon her and she commences treatment someone better than you will know her value and keep her.

We all have different problems in life ...what u don't know about seek advice from the right channel always.

So in other word, he should marry an HIV+ person ? Anyone can be positive and we should not discriminate but I won't advise you to marry an infected person.

Fmartin:
Hmm... My girl friend is HIV/AIDS positive and we are into relationship not up to a month.

Though we have never had any coitus. She loves me soo much as do i.


It has not being confirmed in any of the laboratory that she is HIV/AIDS positive. But a reliable source close to her affirm to me that she is a victim. Yes! I would have Carried out a test for her but if she refuses the test, my relationship with her will be retarded. Because i will conclude that she is really HIV/AIDS positive.

Actually i don't want her to feel as being stigmatize if she realizes I know about her predicament and at same time not being close to her as before. Am a health worker, and I have also seen series of HIV/AIDS signs and symptoms on her.

Please nairalanders, I need your solemn advice. (advices..hehe) should I try and conduct a test for her or just quit the relationship?

And if am to quit the relationship, how do I convince her? Love y'all.

What do you mean that it has not be confirmed in a lab that she's HIV/AIDS positive ?
Has she ever gone for a test ?
I'll advise you two go for so that you guys status will be known. Avoid sex. No use konji as excuse O. Your life is important. Btw, how well do you know her

Omotayor123:
This is serious! But what kind of a man does that He should blame himself for not able to protect his wife and having to stand there like a dummy and watch the whole show. Why does he have to put his wife into emotional trauma? Why does she have to bell the cat

Men and their Useless Ego.
I have heard of cases where robbers made tenants of a compound *sleep* with the wife of one another. That kind case nko


God save Women. I feel sorry for the poor woman. After going through rape her husband is still making making her feel miserable.

Protect his wife? With what ?
It's very painful. I am sure the man would find it difficult to 4give himself. But he should move on.

Let Ghana pay what they owe..

OZAOEKPE:
"the truth is that most men love slim chicks for marriage, but prefer fleshy girls for flirting. When men see a big fleshy azz, sex comes to the mind, like the begin think of how to bang her. So if you are dating a big azz babe, my sister that man should go and do jazz, cause aristos are ready open their vault just to give her 'backy'.

O boy, how you take know ? Na the thing wey I get for mind...

bronzegoddess:
Quite a number of us ladies are in this situation. That guy comes along, is caring, God fearing, hard-working and all, but we don't get that romantic vibe with the person. I'll say keep him close, not necessarily date him, just keep him close



Y'all are allowed to read whatever meaning u want to this ^^

Keep him close means friend zone him. haha.

But so e waffi girls can be so brazen no be small. My advice is for one to tread carefully.
There's an interesting and funny story I was told by a friend who attended UniBen. There was a particular course they offered which was a bit difficult to handle. You know say e dey common to sort your way for school. The guys go give cash but the woman go give in kind.

So there was this girl that met the lecturer because her grade was low. The guy chop this girl and clean mouth. The bad thing be say he still fail the girl after him chop am. The lecturer come dey prove stubborn say he no send the girl.

So this girl tell her mama wetin happen. O boy, the mama come with craze for head. She just stay for the man office begin dey shout. "Which kind man you be? After you don focck my pikin you still fail am."
"Na so dem dey do? Wicked man. You focck woman you still fail am"
"See him head. So you get mind focck. After you don focck finish you come fail my daughter."

This woman just mentioned focck, focck, focck. The whole activities for the department come stop. The shame and humility wey do this man no be small. School sacked the man.

cocaineaddict:
rugged you. Urhobo girls wicked nobe small. When I was in dia land, one boy kari im sister come my house. I gave dem food and drink o, d next day naim de guy come back and told me that his sister likes me, I collected the girl's number from him. I called her later that day, she came the next day( on thursday), by sunday afternoon naim I Bleep the b1tch. I Bleep am again monday. By wednesday naim d babe come back again.as we were still inside the house, his brother kari crowd of boys enta my house o, talk say na me de corrupt his sister, say I de Bleep girl wey don marry. the girl no talk, she jus de chew her gum. These guys made away with my tv, fridge and 6k.

Lol. Na local 419. But which kind brothet go toast boy give him sister Me I never see.

latfun22:
@SundayOOliseh: I dedicate this scintillating victory of the super eagles over Cameroon to all 'true' Naija fans who irrespective of all the lies believed.


https://twitter.com/SundayOOliseh

SE were vibrant against Cameroon. We want to see more of this. However, Oliseh should be matured and focus at his job at hand. The victory is a huge morale booster but Oliseh should realize that he still has a long way to go. SE should continue playing well.

frinx:
Since you are not from the Region then i won't read further.

That's the best response...

Vinshu:
It's not by force to comment you are so angry. Here is the gist, I hate men when they make it seem like they are doing women a favor or trying to play king. So yes I would do it over and over even to you if needed.

You can do it where you live but not in Naija.

In fact the reason you slashed his throat was because you were scared of losing him. It actually shows that you were desperate

Vinshu:
It's not by force to comment you are so angry. Here is the gist, I hate men when they make it seem like they are doing women a favor or trying to play king. So yes I would do it over and over even to you if needed.

You can do it where you live but not in Naija.

In fact the reason you slashed his throat was because you were scared of losing him. It actually shows that you were desperate

aberyomi09:
I was washing cloths only to hear noise coming from the next house to mine, at first I thought the mallam gateman was being attacked, later I heard "halleluyah", I climbed my decking only to see one of them holding a crocodile.....I guess its called Anta in Yoruba

Op so this is you in the picture. Cool.
But you guys should preserve our wild life.

siamia:
I am a she (is that good english? Lol) and yes, I am above 40.
Actually am not here to discriminate or disrespect anyone. I went thru several threads before starting mine.
Actually, anyone from 37 can join up bcs great minds think alike.
I wud just like to chat with people who remember Mirror in the Sun, Village headmaster and stuff like that. Lol.

You look young for 40. Village in the sunm, I heard that is the name of Tonto Dike new movie. Lol.

Harmony10:
Why do we believe so much in luck here in Nigeria!

Ok Keshi was lucky to get us the cup yet our darling super eagles were not really a force to reckon with. Our SE were not playing 'tasty' food. If we understand what quality is we will not wish for some achievements some times.

You can differentiate between the eagles that won Tunisia 94 and the one Keshi coached. The difference is clear. Many nations wanted to engage the former SE in int'l friendlies because they were true match test. Very competitive and entertaining team with lots of individual players.

Now we don't have much of individual player except Enyeama (even Mikel can't make the cut). In such a case you focus on the team effort. That was the difference btw Ivory coast and Egypt.

In my opinion like the other guy said Siasia seems like the man who knows how to work out a team from a group of players based on his way of working.

Keshi gave us a cup but not a good team who can reign for a while. I prefer the latter.

I'm a big fan of Siasia.
You say you prefer Siasia ? Fine. He's a fantastic coach. But why didn't he qualify us despite being the best coach ? Btw, I'm a big fan of Siasia also. I saw what he did to our U23, so I believe he's good. It wud have been better appointing his as a SE coach once again.

As for Keshi, whether luck or not, we should still give him credit. I don't think Nigerians have given Keshi the credit he deserves.

successinlife:
We don't like truth in Nigeria. It will continue to hunt us till we come to good reasoning and value what we have.Sorry if it pains alot of people but i will repeat it to whoever that cares to listen to the truth. SIASIA is the best indigenous coach we have,nobody is perfect but if you know football a little you will agree with me that,Siasia team score goals,the midfield is compact,his headache then was defense and i believe he would have got it right before he was fired.No African country defeated his team during his short spell as the super eagles coach.Mind you,i don't know Siasia for nowhere but if we continue like this,Chad will defeat the super eagles,God forbid though.

Siasia was a good coach but he was not just lucky. I believe he would have done well if he had stayed longer.
As for now, Keshi is still the best indigenous coach based on hid achievements. When Oliseh was appointed, I felt it was not the best choice for obvious reasons. People were quick to say he would do better than Keshi but the forget that Keshi did not become a SE coach overnight. He understudied someone.
Oliseh should take it easy. Afterall, when he was a player, he was a rebel.

safarigirl:
CAPTAIN MUSA!!!....Shoots wide again! Such consistency! What a leader!

No mock Musa. It's not his fault that he was named a captain. He tried his best.

stepo707:
See flexing ooo.Thought enyeama resigned abi which news is true again?

I dedicate this FTC to my wonderful family.love yall

So make him no chop before him comot !

Rexnegro:
Professionalism wasn't observed...enyeama won't be able to do this to mourinho if he's our coach...because he's oliseh abi everyone is siding enyeama...burial is usually done Friday/Saturday....he still has time to be in camp on Monday...nigeria wasn't his priority hence the late coming into camp.

Don't even call Mourinho to it. He too has had issues with his own players. I don't think it has anything to do with Oliseh being a Nigerian coach.
On the other hand, Oliseh should have taken it easy Enyeama. Coaching is being able to manage players. How do you think Alex Fergi would have handle this issue ?

4bobo:
This guy should take it easy. Enyama dosent deseve this type of ash treatment from the so called bossy. I bet you that he is one of the most dedicated , player we have in SE. Infact, he always display his best and enjoy each game in good mood. Some one just buried his mother few days ago, and you expect him to be in best form.
Even what about if he came late to the camp, what sunday olishe should have done is to use his discretion, to express condolence to his family, and tell him that he understand his trauma he has passed through in recent times, that he might not be fully participate in the training due to his current trials, but with his experience, he should support whom ever given the captain ship .To me it would have resolved this issue... Olishe is not wise enough.....

You said it all. Oliseh doesn’t gave a good excuse. I was thinking Enyeama may have done something wrong but hearing this explanation just doesn't add up.
It's just too early to fall out with players . What's wrong with our so called ex professionals ? Why are they so egocentric? When Sunday Oliseh was a player, he was very heady.
He should give Vincent a chance. Even the criteria for choosing a captain doesn’t make sense. Keshi was retiring in 94 but was still captain, Frank Reikhard was retiring but was still captain his last game, Okocha, Dunga and even Oliseh himself.

chukwudi44:
Will you shut up this hypocrite!!! Boko haram was bombing and hypocrites like you said we should bring back our "General" who defeated the maistastaine sect in the 1980s to come and defeat them!! Fast forward four months later what do we have? It was never this bad under GEJ a bloody civillian!! Besides on May 29 when Buhari took over,boko haram was almost obliterated.Today they are fully rejunevated and are now carrying out daily attacks!! How long more before Buhari is branded a failure for what he is!!! Instead of the DSS to focus on intelligence gathering,there are busy chasing witnesses at election tribunals!! What irresponsibility!!

You know, it's just that we want Nigeria to move 4ward and make progress irrespective of the party.
But if you listen to these hypocrites, you will feel like gloating at them. It's so funny that some gullible Nigerians compared maistataine sect to boko haram. Those sect that made use of bow and arrow and knives to bh that use explosives and guns cannot be compared.
Now that bh has not ended, the likes of Tunde Bakare and Rev. Mbaka are quiet.

Demmzy15:
Where's barcanista that was opening his brown gworo teeth this morning?! Hope you don see am now, "pinshure or adonbelievit!"

Which one you dey talk ? This morning we heard bh struck in Yobe. What are we to believe ?

PushMusic:
Perhaps she's performing her brand ambassador/endorsement duties.
Btw She really looks sexy in that top.

"Customer Service Week #ForteOil #Ambassador #lekki #WorkingMummy" She captioned it..

http://ink361.com/app/users/ig-31224410/tiwasavage/photos/ig-1090471128293764131_31224410

This her uniform covers too much...

PushMusic:
Perhaps she's performing her brand ambassador/endorsement duties.
Btw She really looks sexy in that top.

"Customer Service Week #ForteOil #Ambassador #lekki #WorkingMummy" She captioned it..

http://ink361.com/app/users/ig-31224410/tiwasavage/photos/ig-1090471128293764131_31224410

This her uniform covers too much...

morbeta:
My bro, is a long story. Sincerity and self control play a major key in my life. I was being observed by a white South African, who admired my skill and strenght forward life stly. When i was done with the Senator, he didnt waste time to employ me. I was taken to Ghana for a training. From there the rest is history. My advice goes thus, while dealing with anybody be truthful and plain mined. It pays.

Sounds interesting. You can make an ebook about it. Lol. Just kidding. I'm considering doing something like this but I need more insight. Would like to pm you if it's ok.

[quote author=morbeta post=38744761][/quote]can we speak later about the process you went through. ?

morbeta:
Op you did very well, someone adviced that you shld look inwards and make use of the treasure buried inside of you, i concur 100%. After my graduation in 2003, i was priviledged to work for a Senator who never gave me a dime but impacted me with basics of suvival unknowly. I discovered that most of these politician are clever businessmen. I was clam i learnt alot from him. Today i have my very own firm. We are licenced miners of Precious stones(Diamond, Gold) in Sierra leone and Ghana. We also into real estate in Lekki area of Lagos. There is a gaint in you, do be discouraged.

How did you get there ? Did you get a loan ?