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liberty300:
You can't solve a problem if you can't first admit that you have a problem

Nigeria's worst problem now is that we won't admit we have a problem. Buhari and his followers won't admit that we have a serious problem in this country.

They won't at all. If you criticise the government, you'll be called a wailing wailer .

AnneMomoh:
Jose Mourinho, you hve killed mikel obi oh; You converted a good striker to a midfeilder that is good in giving back pass.

Pellegrini thank you for playing Kelechi in his desired Role

Lol. Mikel was never a striker oh....

klem93:
President Buhari alongside other African countries Representatives wears the India ethnic wear as they go on a dinner as they Stitch together the fabric of a new partnership with Africa. Prime Minister Narendra Modi hosts a special dinner for ‪#‎IAFS‬ leaders.


http://www.maxgist.com/2015/10/president-buhari-goes-indian-way-as-he.html cc lalasticlala ishilove

Buhari do quick and come home Oh. There's problem in the country. No jobs, businesses are closing, the rich are crying and I wonder what the poor are doing. You have BH to contend with, the call for Biafra and a poor economy in general.

gemiclem:
2-0 nil,, it is finished but am only concerned about the injured boys,, who gives a rat butt about carling cup anyways

Chelsea gives a rat..

That former Chelsea doctor must have placed a curse on Chelsea.

phollybee:
please Stoke City do not beat chelsea,someone's job
will be lost, kindly reserve the beating for Liverpool to do the Job in the EPL and besides that, kindly be informed
that,aston villa are already in danger of losing their
bottom place,as chelsea puts pressure!

Lol.

enm:
Someone rightly said earlier, everyone got problem.

Some broke up friends are the cause of why their friends dump them or stay away. Being broke is not licence to be demanding for assistance from your friends and expect them to always meet up with your demands, they too have issues to take care of.

I once have a friend who was always demanding. In his joblessness state he gave birth to another child and got his wife pregnant again. He has a second lady whom he intend making his second wife, an aged father and mother to take care of and here i am a bachelor at over 30 trying to settle down, and with my own financial responsibility. Even when you are complaining of cash crunch, he still expect you to attend to his need first.

During all this i always remember my father who was dump by his friends and relatives, people that he help at the detriment of his family. There are friends he single-handedly paid their house rent, went ahead to provide them feeding money for them and their family, fuelling their cars and so on but they deserted him when things changed and some where saying " what did he do with his money"

So before we critize our friends action let try and know where they are coming from. You will have friends who will want to help but their family first and some, is our attitude or reaction is what drove them away.

That's another angle. I know some people who are good at begging and not even giving back. There was a guy I met who lost his job. He had a nice apartment, a wife and two sons. According to him, he has a housr Ikorodu. When this guy was financially down, I used to help him with the little I have.
That was years back. We spoke recently on phone and I was glad to hear from him. He said he was coming to Lag ( he works offshore) for business. When we met, the first thing he said was, "o boy I dey stranded. Though I couldn't help him, I showrd him where he could spend the night. He expected me to give him something like 4k.
There are people like that who find it easy to beg. Just be friendly to them and the next thing you hear is o boy you fit give me 100 card there.

Luizkid:
it's always been like that. When u're successful, pple will run ur ba3 down with calls, but when d table turns u hardly even get a flash..

Yes.There are both sides to it. Some people when they make money, they stop flowing with their former friends. But when money is no more, they come back to the same friends they've forgotten.
I know a relative that when all was well with him, he didn't care about us. (It wasn't as if we needed his money, though.) He was rather friendly to other family members who though were rich, but they exaggerated their wealth.
Things went bad for this particular dude and the relatives he was close to ignored him. But today he's no coming close to us and sometimes gets assistance. Life can be funny.

missbronze:
Is only a fool, that underestimates the power of a woman.

Congrats.... . That is the power you can boast about.

ThisMeansWAR:
Fulanis have raped
and killed more igbos than malaysians and south africans combined, But
none of them dares raise his voice... No
wonder them call 5th class citizen... Even
minority ijaw used and dumped them... Talk
about empty barrel that makes the loudest
noise on the internet...

Fulanis are menace to everywhere in the South. It's not limited to SW alone. We both need to sit down and address this problem. Personally I would feel insulted if Kwakwanso said that to my people.
It's good Afenifere stood up against it. But it's sad that other Yoruba elders are keeping quiet. Is ut because Afenifere supported PDP? You guys should stop playing politics. Elections are over. There's no justification for the herdsmen to kill and rape women. Haba.
When some Yoruba youths fought and killed Fulani herdsmen in retaliation, Buhari got up from Duara to Ibadan and said, "why are you people killing my people?" But no prominent elder has stood up to confront this evil. Not good enough.

janellemonae:
Everything was written by an igboman though. And why didnt u give d minorities any autonomy like the SW did to the midwest region (edo and delta) when they asked for it, knowing they had oil? And why did biafra invade the midwest region even after collecting rivers state from d federal govt? Was d midwest region EVER part of d SE? Please give sincere answers to these questions. Why are u intent on secceeding wt d southsouth? Why am i stupid to think its ALL about oil? Any thinking person can see dts what it is. Someone even said they drew edo out of biafra cos it has nothing & has muslims. So clearly what else is it about?

Well, I read the quote about the Igbo man. I don't want us to change the topic and start talking about tribes.
Truth be told, the Fulani herdsmen are menace to us. They are as menacing as feral pigs to Australia. The Igbos have their faults but the are not as irritating as these herdsmen. But if you want to look at it from the Igbo man's perspective, they have a point.

blackboy:
FFK making Kwakwanso important. Ignore the former governor who has corruption/stealing case to answer. What you should do and all state n traditional leaders should do should talk about fighting corruption and improving the life of their ppl and standard of living. Those we call gov, senators from the south west should stop stealing/corruption then ppl in Nigeria will respect us and we can talk n make sense and ppl will listen.
Tell me which SW leader is not corrupt/thief? But in the North the country can sing Buhari not just the north what a shame to the SW and other parts. Let's fight the right fight in the SW, fight corruption/stealing from the top down.

Corruption and stealing is entirely anothet thing. I believe these Fulani cattle rearers issue should be dealt with. Have you 4gotten when Buhari said, why are u people killing my own people ?
This is not right and it should be addressed. I can assure you that Buhari does not care at all.

logica:
Maybe we should read between the lines - if Fulani cattle herders are disturbing the peace all over West Africa, we should indeed give them an "education". There are different kinds of education you know; like when you catch a thief and educate him to death on the streets with planks, stones and koboko.

May be that's the education they need.

Mztarstrechy:
It was a joyful moment at Fufore IDP camp in Adamawa state as two refugees Abba Yusuf from Mararaba Bama and Halima Lawal from Tarmuwa Village of Banki, Borno state, wedded on Sunday at 11:45 am.

The wedding ceremony was attended by other inmates of Internally Displaced Persons at Fufore ‪IDP‬ camp in Adamawa state.

Source: http://trezzy2..com/2015/10/love-at-idptwo-refugees-wed-at-fufore.html

Good for them. But na where dem go come live ?

ddippset:
matter of fact they won't. Why is he afraid to play his own game? If buhari and amaechi decide to do half, I repeat only half of what wike and patience did, they wike is a goner!

What did Wike and Patience do ? And who was the governor tben ?

ddippset:
This man claims he got 900,000 votes more than his opponent yet he's jittery over a re-run. This man claims pdp is fully on ground yet he's jittery over a re-run. This man claims he will win election 10 times yet he's jittery over a re-run. What manner of man is nyesom wike?

The re run may not be free and fair. Do you think Buhari and Amaechi won't try to rig the election ?

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Okotie should let the issue to die. If he was convinced abiut this, he should have said it long ago.

DaFlash:
Virginia is NO mans land

Hahahahaaa

omowolewa:
Educating Fulanis is not S/West's responsibility but keeping them a far.

But I thought he would talk about Biafra who is already acting their treat, all to see him talking about Yorubas who only told the 'North' to warm their children.

Has he ever heard of Radio Biafra or Nnamadi Kanu or IPOB. This man no dey visit NL sha.

I read his comments and I can see his arrogance. He should be apologizing to the agrieved party but rather he is giving excuses for the wrongs of his people.
So who should educate the cattle rearers ? Northerners practically rule Nigeria. They have more oil blocs, they are in the most strategic offices but yet they want us ro believe the Fulanis are educationally disadvantaged. Whose fault is it ?

Bleaching is wrong, but liking fair skin over dark ones is a personal choice.
I've seen both beautiful dark skinned ladies as well as fair skinned. On the other hand, I've seen ugly fair skin and dark skin women. Once a lady has nice skin and nice physique, she'll be attractive.

How she take do am ?

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Guys, yesterday a male coworker told me I look like the devil which was hilarious.

He was like " You look like the devil men".

What do you all think?[/color]

I just had to check you profile picture to confirm.

That MTN worker deserve am well well.

nickkylawve:
but not my type of guy sha

I know your type.

EroticAngelina:
and after they start calling us gold diggers

if u don't date the students, who will ur sister??

No mind the Op. Promise to date a student ?

Op, that's true. However, there are levels of introversion.
Introverts are smart and analytical. They are kind that's one reason people would like to take advantage of them. You know as we Naija like awoof too much.

Oliviaarims:
Lately,the way some ppl in romantic relationships get possessive of their partners and begin to impose Dos & Don'ts is funny...There are things I hear ppl saying their bf/gf won't permit them to do and I'm like "seriously? I don't see anything wrong in that." And when one partner begins to entertain or continue communications with "toasters" and other admirers,the other party frowns at it. So I'm asking....
Is it advisable for someone in a relationship to keep all other "doors" closed? For sb already dating,to what extent does relations with the opposite sex cross the boundary?
What's ur personal opinion on this...what actions and relations of ur bf/gf,fiance/fiancée with the opposite sex are u not willing to tolerate?










#Philosopher Quëën#

If you relationship is an open one then all doors should be open

greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

You shouldn't have brought that "I love you" into that equation. It spoils everything. You could have gone ahead and treated her as if both of you are dating.
I've noticed that when you tell her you love her or want to go out with her, she'll begin acting funny. She wants to enjoy the emotion she gets. When you propose to her, it spoils the suspence. As for now, don't bring up any such issue.

drnairalov:
its love... i did that for some girl when i was in the Nigeria law school Abuja in the final bar II exams. she was my good beloved friend,I loved her to pieces, and was hoping for a lovely future with her, i was friend zoned, so i took it on my self to help her after she promised to love me forever, bla bla bla!!!

The law school system of marking is negative marking, hence you are graded with your least result, she was scared, hence i wrote the exams for her that is i put my name in my work while she put my name in hers. she came out with a 2.1 while i came out with a pass

to cut the long story short.. she dumped me to date some richer guy who had range-rover...i was saying nemesis will catch up with her, but nope they got married this last july

What you're saying must be a joke. I wonder why any sane man will make such sacrifice. If I be your papa, I go use double barrel shoot you.

niggi4life:
29,000 people many ooo! These set of people go come still dey hustle for the little jobs wey dey here.
Abeg make una stay put for una obodo oyinbo ooooo



We dont need u guys here.........

UK is getting leaner and meaner.

Oya, Buhari use your body language.

Wike will win. But my fear is that he should not be rigged out.