₦airaland Forum

midolian:
As clean as a whistle!

Baba probably doesn't trust his source of wealth.

If a man can divorce his wife for taking money from someone he sees as corrupt, then it shouldn't come as a surprise that he did something like this.

Hmmm... But baba trusts the wealth of Tinubu and Amaechi

pus30:
[size=28pt]American University 5,927,147,948
Bingham University433,477,000



Universities in the country of western Nigeria
Bowen University 2,592,060,000

Covenant University 4,878,722,000
Redeemers University 1,610,226,000[/size]

Bingham university costs that much ? What currency ?

bushdoc9919:
Yes...tutition fees in Germany and Sweden are free....

And in return for the free fees...the people pay heavy taxes.

Plus.....German economy is several times larger than your Nigerian economy....so the taxes from the companies in Germany are enough to fund all manner of projects....including free educaiton.

Same in Sweden.

If you want Nigeria to be like those countries....be prepared to pay more taxes.Nothing goes for Nothing.

Nigerians and awoof....

The tax we pay what do they use it for ?

VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,

I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.

At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.

He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).

I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....

Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.

You wouldn't love it if another woman does this to you. The fact is that you are torn in between your greed and morality.
Do what you think it's right cos I believe you do. On the other hand it's not a sin to be tempted. We all get tempted with the things we like. Better don't gey preg.

oluwaKStar:
go to private universities abroad and you will understand what expensive is...havard costs 45 million or there about

But can you compare Havard to any of our schools.

Btw this professor forgot to tell us that tuition fee in Germany, Sweden and a few are free.

guccidriver93k:
Now, I am a student, furthering my studies. And he is working, he has worked for sometime too.
Ok, so I have some money that I am saving to do something later next year, when I will be graduating. But my fear is that he doesn't sound like he will give me back this money. Two, I have a problem with him wearing a 93k shoe in this harsh economy knowing that the money can be saved and invested in something of worth. His choice at the end of the day sha.

Do you think I should buy it Opinions pls

. Wow and you're still asking whether you should buy the shoe ?
I want my gfs to be like you oh.

damiloladuke:
You are so much right, I don't work alone.. I create contents and have guys doing the publicity for me.

Thanks for the good words

What's the genre of your blog ?

MosakuAW:
Church business will continue to be lucrative till the end of the world.

He gave a pastor a N29million car and he doesnt own a car himself. Hmmmmm!

God is watching us, God is watching ussssss... from a distance.

The pastor didn't demand anything from him in the 1st place. I don't have problem with people showing appreciation as long as they are not coerced into it.

dearpreye:
I'm also in the same Nigeria with you. I've been applying a lot of those rules and they have improved my life a whole.

No doubt the system isn't enabling or encouraging but I can assure you folks are still making it all big.

I've got mentors for myself. I watch TV less. My vehicle is a mobile university. Bro, it's all in you.

Stop seeking excuses. We still have failures in the mist advanced of nations. What we become is entirely OUR making. Failure is a choice.

Yeah, it's better trying than not. But what are you into ? Let's pm.

DaBullIT:
He nor easy abeg

Guy wey hol no dey roll with guy we no get

Mentor just wan use you reach greater height ni

Nigerians no too dey do date night

I dey always high I no fit write

Exercise kwa? Wey pikins go dey house dey disturb you daddy I want to go to school

All the books especially ebook dey lead to another book as in volume 1, volume 2 but no real information

Hehehehe dem go call you mugu for your face

Nobody dey get chance come meeting if menu menu nor go dey

Where I wan see 30 mins

Engineer wey never do one project billing finish go find time plan another thing?


If I dey hear instruction, he mean say na there my mind dey, you want make I get accident?

So make I dey subscribe dstv make I no watch one film finish? Na lie


No be every talk talk be gossip

If no body do me good think na who I go thank?

You mean say make I no dey pay tithe?, Transport 20k, housing on loan 600k, salary 280k pikins school fees 130k nepa water and other things 10% no sure


Go tell people for Osun say make them no buy credit

He don do for here so Okobaba1 come argue

It's true what the writer said and it's worth trying. I agree with what you said about the e book thing.
But if you can find one nice rich dude, probably in church he could roll out with you.

pure2012soul:
I don't know what excites some folks about gory scenes. See how they are busy taking pictures. I suspect that it's not only those that fly at night that are witches or belong to secret cults

Funny thing is that the picture you are looking at was also taken by a passerby, probably using a camera phone too.

armyofone:
Try thinking about how to make money and provide huge care for your kids and building them maximum financial security. ..it cures extreme attention and take your mind off romping

Bobo. Most rich successful men are randy.

Naff24:
Wait, do u really have a mother
Do u pray for a lady like you to treat ur mother dis same
Do u ever pray for a happy home

I don't see any big deal in what they expected of this said lady, and am sure if it was her mother she won't dare ignore her a bit.

Well, I can see you are the type that always pray not to meet your mother- in-law alive.. And so shall your daughter-in-law will not meet u alive as well.

NB: ain't cursing you, but it's just a KARMA
You shall definitely reap whatever you sow.. Be it good or bad!!!

No mind am. All these women dey see themselves as wives but dey forget say dem go be mothers and then their daughters inlaw go treat them the same way.

KanwuliaJara:
After all this noise, is the husband-to-be complaining?
If not, abeg carry ya mouth go bury for evil forest!

Lessons learned: NEVER EXPECT FRIENDSHIP OR LOVE TO BE RECIPROCAL!!!!

The husband to be probably hasn't experienced her true colours. If you have a brother whose wife is using him for selfish purposes, you won't keep quiet.

rebranded:
What is this Ambode guy's problem!

What do you meam ? Are we not the ones asking for change ?

dominique:
Life insurance, no.1 motive for spousal homicide in the States.
I'll look out for her on the next season of SNAPPED-Women who kill. Most of the women featured on that show also kill because of life insurance. Greed kills!

Or 50 ways to kill your lovers, or Evil I. Dem plenty well well

cbrass:
Am sorry to say this Pastor Adeboye is the problem of that church but blind members will not want to see this. If Pastor Adeboye dies today am just wandering how he will face Pa Akindayomi

How is he the cause of the problem ?

@ FreshGreen.

Your comment is a direct indictment on the GO. Well, it's not as if anyone is above correction but is a heavy statement.
One reason I like Adeboye is because I have never heard any scandal about him. So I can say he is a man of integrity. However, I believe you when you say RCCG is full of politics and scandal. I have no objection to that. Even in the camp, I've heard a lot of abominable things. But who should we hold responsible ?

As for what you said about a choirmaster and a chorister, men I no fit shout.

Mariojane:
What is the big deal with inviting Pasuma? Is it not a church? What right do they have to condemn human? Who knows maybe the Pasuma is holier than them. Afterall music is his source of livelihood, what if by inviting him he can change for good and change his style of music. That is, if he is not better than them.

People should stop condemn others cos through your condemnation your are sinning while the person you are condemning is living his life. He is invited to church he can't bring naked girls to dance there, he is wiser than that, you should have allow him come before condemning or suspending your pastor.
Nigerians Christians are acting more Catholic than the Pope.

Is Pasuma now a gospel artiste ? What type of song will he sing ? Will his song tally with the message of the church. No one is condemning Pasuma but fact is that he should not perform in a crusade. Haba !!

Gloryblossom:
What the op said is true,some guys here r already claiming rich guys,u tink iz all girls in nija d@ comes after a rich dude,when he meant broke d@ those not mean just finacially broke and some of us here will come out n b claiming they went to university,dat u r broke those nt mean u don't v just d@ u don't enough to gt exactly w@ u want.keep formin rich dude n let d sharp babes keep scammin u,2mrw u will complain forgetin that u started it ist by takin dem to mr bigg instead of mama put.any guy that quote me is fuckin broke.

That's word.

ilobasama:
Why not advise a broke guy on how to get money .....fact remains that for u to have a happy relationship/marriage, finance plays a key role

True talk. But b4 you make that big cash, wetin you go do ? Funny enough, I know a broke guy that was dating some babes.
But there's nothing like having enough cash and good game.

... Sue them.

Stelvin101:
I read so many people comments about Fulani revenge and i laugh. Let me make it clear to u guys, Delta State be like North Korea in d eyes of a Fulani man, they know Deltans worse pass ISIS so they won't even think of misbehaving or else..... action speaks louder than words

True talk. They know Delta is home to militants . If they dare do nonsense, O boy all the Fulanis go miss including their cows.

InfinityEstates:
Hope they were butchered immediately

So it's now a norm for cows to ply the roads like vehicles, right? Naija, I hail thee...

That one is even small sef. May be you have forgotten when some cows entered a runway in PH. A plane landing killed a few of them.

donholy28:
Lolz this one na Spartacus

Na spiritual Spartacus

Cool... . When I was her age, I could do sone of the things she do including back flip.

LaurelP:
Every guy knows that its not an easy feat to successfully approach and woo a lady. Even the most confident of guys usually need to "gather morale" before doing the needful.

This could stem from the fact that you don't know what the outcome of the action you're about taking might be.

Another reason is the fear of rejection, nobody wants to feel ridiculed or like a looser sort of. We are all created with a sense of self worth and we crave for respect and regard which is normal.

However, society has made it look like a guy who cannot approach a lady is not a "real man". Such a guy is mocked by friends, relatives and even the female folk. As a result of this utter mockery and in order to live up to the expectation of the society, guys come up with some funny excuses to defend themselves and also to remove their mind from trying to approach ladies.

Below are some of the excuses guys give themselves and others for their inability to approach women.


1) Naija girls are gold diggers: I'm sure you've heard or read many guys make such comments. They be like "Naija girls too like money jare, if you no get money forget am!" The truth is that this is not a valid excuse at all. No matter your level of economic power, there is always a woman out there who will accept you the way you are. you don't need to have money to find love anywhere, besides I know some really poor guys dating rich chicks and even eating from them sef. What you need more is self confidence and social skills.


2) I Don't Have Time for Girls Now: I hear this all the time and all I see is a guy who is frustrated about his inability to successfully woo a woman. I mean is there any such thing as a separate time you need to have for a woman? Lolz... Guys please enlighten me on what it means to have time for women. U ask a guy "What of your girlfriend?". He goes like "Which girlfriend, I don't have their time oo". When I hear this I just laugh!

3) Girls are a Distraction: For real? You that has been jobless for 5 years after graduation, how is it a girl's fault? It is you that is a distraction to yourself not girls. How come all these footballers, musicians, entertainers, bankers, doctors, oil guys that I see change chicks like wrapper don't get distracted, na u come dey get distracted. My guy forget excuse and do the needful.

4) Women bring Badluck: Lols... I don't even know what to say about this one. You hear guys say that if you want to make it in life, forget women. Funny thing is, they can't! The more they try, the more they fail. Men and women have been created to 'complete' each other so my guy, unless you're gay.....

5) She's too Pompous/disrespectful: No my guy, you're too timid, that's the truth. You have the right to woo any woman you like, she has the right to agree or disagree. Don't give away your right, exercise it!
Btw, research has shown that ladies who seem too pompous are usually much easier to convince than guys tend to think.

6) I can't Satisfy her Sexually: Most guys won't voice out this excuse at all, only to very close friends if he's the very open type. This however is not a valid excuse. How do you know you can't satisfy her? How do you even know she's after sex? Must you Bleep every girl you date? Enough said jareh...

7) I Prefer Foreign Women to Nigerian: All na wash! So of all the millions of women in Naija, you can't find a suitable one for yourself, na for foreign land you go see am? My guy, your problem no be Naija women, your problem is internal. Search yourself and tell urself the truth!

No Responsible Woman Anymore: If I hear! Maybe you want a Mary magdalene or virgin Mary. Guy, if na responsible woman be your excuse, why not enter Deeper life, Jehova Witness, mountain of Fire and the various mosques and look for them? Why look for responsible women at Allen Junction? Mtcheeew...

9) I Prefer to Roll With my Fellow Guys: You be gay? Yes its good to have a good rapport with fellow guys, to have fun and drink with guys with no chick around once in a while. But my guy don't use it as an excuse, because very soon those your guys will start asking you to go and look for a chick. They will soon start laughing at you bro.

10) Complete it.



LaurelP

As par no. 1, where you go find rich chick, wey fine , dey humble, respectful and very very rich ? . With man this is impossible but with God all things are possible.
.

LaurelP:
Every guy knows that its not an easy feat to successfully approach and woo a lady. Even the most confident of guys usually need to "gather morale" before doing the needful.

This could stem from the fact that you don't know what the outcome of the action you're about taking might be.

Another reason is the fear of rejection, nobody wants to feel ridiculed or like a looser sort of. We are all created with a sense of self worth and we crave for respect and regard which is normal.

However, society has made it look like a guy who cannot approach a lady is not a "real man". Such a guy is mocked by friends, relatives and even the female folk. As a result of this utter mockery and in order to live up to the expectation of the society, guys come up with some funny excuses to defend themselves and also to remove their mind from trying to approach ladies.

Below are some of the excuses guys give themselves and others for their inability to approach women.


1) Naija girls are gold diggers: I'm sure you've heard or read many guys make such comments. They be like "Naija girls too like money jare, if you no get money forget am!" The truth is that this is not a valid excuse at all. No matter your level of economic power, there is always a woman out there who will accept you the way you are. you don't need to have money to find love anywhere, besides I know some really poor guys dating rich chicks and even eating from them sef. What you need more is self confidence and social skills.


2) I Don't Have Time for Girls Now: I hear this all the time and all I see is a guy who is frustrated about his inability to successfully woo a woman. I mean is there any such thing as a separate time you need to have for a woman? Lolz... Guys please enlighten me on what it means to have time for women. U ask a guy "What of your girlfriend?". He goes like "Which girlfriend, I don't have their time oo". When I hear this I just laugh!

3) Girls are a Distraction: For real? You that has been jobless for 5 years after graduation, how is it a girl's fault? It is you that is a distraction to yourself not girls. How come all these footballers, musicians, entertainers, bankers, doctors, oil guys that I see change chicks like wrapper don't get distracted, na u come dey get distracted. My guy forget excuse and do the needful.

4) Women bring Badluck: Lols... I don't even know what to say about this one. You hear guys say that if you want to make it in life, forget women. Funny thing is, they can't! The more they try, the more they fail. Men and women have been created to 'complete' each other so my guy, unless you're gay.....

5) She's too Pompous/disrespectful: No my guy, you're too timid, that's the truth. You have the right to woo any woman you like, she has the right to agree or disagree. Don't give away your right, exercise it!
Btw, research has shown that ladies who seem too pompous are usually much easier to convince than guys tend to think.

6) I can't Satisfy her Sexually: Most guys won't voice out this excuse at all, only to very close friends if he's the very open type. This however is not a valid excuse. How do you know you can't satisfy her? How do you even know she's after sex? Must you Bleep every girl you date? Enough said jareh...

7) I Prefer Foreign Women to Nigerian: All na wash! So of all the millions of women in Naija, you can't find a suitable one for yourself, na for foreign land you go see am? My guy, your problem no be Naija women, your problem is internal. Search yourself and tell urself the truth!

No Responsible Woman Anymore: If I hear! Maybe you want a Mary magdalene or virgin Mary. Guy, if na responsible woman be your excuse, why not enter Deeper life, Jehova Witness, mountain of Fire and the various mosques and look for them? Why look for responsible women at Allen Junction? Mtcheeew...

9) I Prefer to Roll With my Fellow Guys: You be gay? Yes its good to have a good rapport with fellow guys, to have fun and drink with guys with no chick around once in a while. But my guy don't use it as an excuse, because very soon those your guys will start asking you to go and look for a chick. They will soon start laughing at you bro.

10) Complete it.



LaurelP

As par no. 1, where you go find rich chick, wey fine , dey humble, respectful and very very rich ? . With man this is impossible but with God all things are possible.

Everfrank:
I sympathise with you for your lost. But some Fulani folks who lost their loved ones are equally grieving. You have presented your case well but can we now hear from a cattle Fulani man? Definitely not because while you have this mouthpiece they don't. We can only judge your matter here out of bias, malice or hatred for the cattle fulani. Some gullible posters above have already done that. The fulanis talk on radios and are painting even a worse picture of their predicament. How about that?
You people must sheath your swords and end this vicious circle of revenge and counter revenge. It's not doing you any good. It was bad leadership of former governor Joshua Dariye that was the Genesis of the uprisings on the Plateau not only between you and the fulanis but the resident hausas as well. Dariye was on record inciting the berom and others against hausas that that have coexisted for over a century. He was reported to have personally ordered attacks against resident hausas which led to imposition and extention a state of emergency and his suspension as a governor.
To be frank with you it's only through give and take, forgiveness, understanding and mutual respect that you'll attain the peace that evade you. The berom are fighting a war they cannot win. The nomadic nature of fulani and their massive population, spread and determination not to forgive or forget put them at an edge above you. They are tougher and know exactly where your people are at any given time but it's very difficult for you to trace them in the bush. Even when you do you only get two or three of them at a time. But you people are sitting ducks either in in your villages or in the next villages as refugees. So seek for genuine peace.
I hope your plea will reach your intended recipient. Buhari will definitely intervene as he promised. But be ready to give and take and to accept whatever settlement that may be reached. We suggested the inclusion of the cattle fulani representatives in the Constitution Amendment Conference organized by former president Jonathan but nobody took us serious.

Well, I may not know much about the Berom people but it's a well known fact that the Fulani herdsmen are very deadly.
They've had conflicts with people down South, the Yoruba towns, Igbos, Delta State and Rivers state. They've raped, killed women and children, and even robbed. I don't want to be bias here but can we analyse this properly ?