₦airaland Forum

DaFlash:
Virginia is NO mans land

omowolewa:
Educating Fulanis is not S/West's responsibility but keeping them a far.

But I thought he would talk about Biafra who is already acting their treat, all to see him talking about Yorubas who only told the 'North' to warm their children.

Has he ever heard of Radio Biafra or Nnamadi Kanu or IPOB. This man no dey visit NL sha.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Guys, yesterday a male coworker told me I look like the devil which was hilarious.

He was like " You look like the devil men".

What do you all think?[/color]

nickkylawve:
but not my type of guy sha

EroticAngelina:
and after they start calling us gold diggers

if u don't date the students, who will ur sister??

Oliviaarims:
Lately,the way some ppl in romantic relationships get possessive of their partners and begin to impose Dos & Don'ts is funny...There are things I hear ppl saying their bf/gf won't permit them to do and I'm like "seriously? I don't see anything wrong in that." And when one partner begins to entertain or continue communications with "toasters" and other admirers,the other party frowns at it. So I'm asking....
Is it advisable for someone in a relationship to keep all other "doors" closed? For sb already dating,to what extent does relations with the opposite sex cross the boundary?
What's ur personal opinion on this...what actions and relations of ur bf/gf,fiance/fiancée with the opposite sex are u not willing to tolerate?










#Philosopher Quëën#

greenprayer:
There’s this girl in my department, same level. We’re very good friends who flirt a lot and equally share the same dreams.

In fact, most of the activities we’ve carried out in school were all her ideas. She’s just all over me and attached herself so much in my future. She sometimes jokingly says she wants to marry me. People recommended that we are going to make a good couple. So, I then thought of all of these and how compatible we are, I then took the bold step to ask her out. She only responded that she has a boyfriend and we should drop the dating discussion for now since we’re still best of friends and we have
enough time to talk about it. I dropped it. After sometimes, she started complaining that she doesn’t like my being strange. I told her I loved her so much, she replied via chat “I understand but I love my boyfriend, he’s the best part of me”.

Please help me with what to do. I love her and I want to marry her. She knows but the only challenge now is her boyfriend.

What should I do?

drnairalov:
its love... i did that for some girl when i was in the Nigeria law school Abuja in the final bar II exams. she was my good beloved friend,I loved her to pieces, and was hoping for a lovely future with her, i was friend zoned, so i took it on my self to help her after she promised to love me forever, bla bla bla!!!

The law school system of marking is negative marking, hence you are graded with your least result, she was scared, hence i wrote the exams for her that is i put my name in my work while she put my name in hers. she came out with a 2.1 while i came out with a pass

to cut the long story short.. she dumped me to date some richer guy who had range-rover...i was saying nemesis will catch up with her, but nope they got married this last july

niggi4life:
29,000 people many ooo! These set of people go come still dey hustle for the little jobs wey dey here.
Abeg make una stay put for una obodo oyinbo ooooo



We dont need u guys here.........

eDoctorr:
Let me start with a brief introduction:
I am Olayemi by name, Ibadan is my home town and Nigerian by nationality.

Now to business; What the hell is wrong with nairaland.com and some other news site in Nigeria. 98% of nairalanders including the moderators were aware of Nnamdi Kanu's arrest for leading the biafrans, and to the my greatest surprise; No news in nairaland discussed about it despite being a very important issue which could even lead to Nairaland extinction peradventure if Nigeria breaks and naira is not considered as nation's currency again.

I am a typical Yoruba and not a coward. The Biafrans deserved to be free. And Nnamdi KANU has never highlighted his agitation in a violence way. Let's stop being bias; it won't stop them from requesting for their freedom- it will only worsen the matter.
God bless Nigeria...
God Bless Yoruba land...
God bless Hausa....
God bless biafrans (Igbos)

rozayx5:
i wonder how apc folks will be drooling over winning rivers

i was at an atm.line on ada george and ph people said they were expecting the rerun that they will cancel and tire .. that wike is the man... wike is really grounded

intbizoil:
My sister your man is cheating. Like I always say all men are divided into two those that cheat and those that are violent. Your man falls into the first category. Never you think he will change because he will get worse. So if you care about what people say then go ahead but know that those people will leave you to face your marriage woes alone.

charlesucheh:
NA me you dey ask that question?
Hah! NoooO! It can't be me!
Look for some that is as stupid as you, then ask him...... OLodo for Nairaland...
What's the JTF comprised of? Answer this and get your answer....

dazzlingd:
when political appointments come from north and sw, u will lament claiming marginalisation. now majority of beauty pageants are selected from se, u claim they are blessed...

anyway enjoy ur beauty pageants marginalisation and let the rest enjoy political appointments....We are balanced

Macelliot:
Out of 36 states and FCT, Igbo girls are representing a whopping 26 states.

1) Yobe,
2) Zamfara,
3) Sokoto,
4) Osun,
5) Ondo,
6) Niger,
7) Nassarawa,
Kwara,
9) Kogi,
10) Abia,
11) Imo,
12) Kebbi,
13) Enugu,
14) Katsina,
15) Kano,
16) Kaduna,
17) Anambra,
18) Gombe,
19) Ekiti,
20) Ebonyi,
21) Benue,
22) Bauchi,
23) Adamawa
24) Akwa ibom
25) Delta and
26) Abuja.

Icecomrade:
This Boko Haram is not being fair. The south west fought hard to bring PMB to power. Why then would they think of Bombing south west locations?

These Northerners are ingrates.

Drfinn:
Precisely, on 31st March, 2013 I asked my now ex to marry me. Not in some fancy restaurant, shopping mall or some heaven on earth theatrical setting. It was via a phone call. Surprisingly, we had never met in person! What madness!! Did she accept??

Love they say is like a butterfly, it perches wherever it wants. It's like a lion, it devours whoever that comes his way. How we fall in love at times is mysterious. We seldom have control in matters of the heart. This is how I felt the day I saw her picture carrying a child. Her little nephew. I love kids to a fault. In that split moment I told her how I wished it was our son she was carrying. That remark set aglow our hearts.

Initially, she doubted my sincerity. She had been hurt not once, twice but severally. Worse still she has a medical condition. A condition she erroneously thought will forever rob her of love. Hence her skepticism. Furthermore, my reputation with 'the ladies' on some social network we had met some years earlier was daunting. I had to prove my sincerity. I had to win her love.

As am typing this, my alarm just beeped! Its October 24th- the day I had slated for our introduction. Alas! It was never to be. Our love could not survive the divide. The 'hypocrisy' of the church has prevailed. I cannot believe am still hurting this bad. Maybe I was in a hurry to have ended it all. This is my story. Our story.

After the initial 'gragra' women exhibit we settled into a beautiful but distant relationship. She was based in Lagos, I in Port Harcourt. Days became weeks, and weeks months before our first physical encounter. I did first visit as a gent. We had wild fun!! Then came the moment of truth; a visit to her kit and kin to intimate them of my intention. Her brother-in law gave me his word. The only snag which was to destroy all we labored to build -the church! she is catholic, am protestant. She is Igbo am Ijaw.

True to his word, her brother-in law accompanied me to see her parents in her hometown- some community in Imo State. I was well received. Such a loving home. I made my intentions known with all seriousness. It's no child's play explaining while you consider a man's daughter worth more than other women to him. Thankfully, the son in-law gave me all the necessary support. However, convincing a retired teacher, a respected and unrepentant staunch catholic requires more than fancy words. I left that home with mixed feelings. Her father had plainly told me what mixed marriage entails. My wife and children will become 'properties of the catholic church'. It was non-negotiable.

I sought the advice of family members, and my pastor. All were of the opinion that her father's stance undermines my role as the head of our future family. Personally, I saw it as an 'indirect rule'. I enlisted one or two of her siblings, her mum inclusive to get her father to shift grounds. The old man wouldn't bulge. At my fiancee's suggestion I paid her uncle a scheduled visit. A Priest in some parish at Owerri. His stance was same as his elder brother's; convert to Catholicism or accept the terms of mixed marriage.

I was devastated. More so by my fiancee's shifting positions. Today she's all by my side, tomorrow she wants me to please her father. I saw it more as a character weakness than a woman drawn between love and the hands that fed her. Perhaps, it was a miscalculation on my part. She had her flaws. Mine was so glaring. But i found in her the woman of my dreams.

In the midst of this storm I had boldly gone ahead to fix today, October 24th my introduction day. I had called my Pastor to inform him, and a couple of family members. This decision was informed after my now ex had told me her siblings and other family members had prevailed on her father to soft pedal on his stance. He unbelievably agreed. So i thought. Until I made one more call!

The old man true to his principled nature remained unchanged. It was a blow too devastating to bear. I saw a relationship of over two years with countless sacrifices on both sides evaporate on the grounds of dogma. It hurts so bad to have met that special one only to realize you can not be with them for eternity. Should I have converted for love? That would have betrayed love itself. Love is without condition(s). Should I have settled for mixed marriage? Its unbearable! It's my responsible to provide both spiritual and physical nourishment for my future family.

So, it was only appropriate I let love go. If she finds her way back to me. I had be most fortunate not lucky. Fortune befriends the bold. A life of service to all humanity now beckons . It's a call I must answer. Who knows love maybe around the corner. Love knows no religious boundaries. Let's spread the glad tidings of ecumenism.

niggi4life:
[b]This wonderful lady here got married in her teen. Yet her marriage didn't make her lose focus in her career or her family, Look at her first child how grown she has become

To all the late twenties and 30s single ladies still waiting for the right time and right man, make una dey dere ooo

Reminds me of one girl i was dating back then, her momsie told me to wait till she finished her Nysc, i did wait o, after nysc her papa say make i chill till she finish her Masters den we fit dey think about introduction... Na so i bone am, the last time she called me early this year telling me she misses me and her dad wants to see me for our introduction, i told her i have been married for some couple of years with a beautiful daughter..she almost fainted on the fone.

Marriage doesn't stop or reduce your efforts in becoming someone in life. It's also high time guys start dating reasonable women and ignore those cheap girls begging for recharge cards all over, both online and offline...I am so proud of you omosexy, keep making the women proud... Cheers and congrats!!!!!!![/b].

charlesucheh:
A Full scale Military operation including the - JTF, air force, Army, Navy ( if creating water ways), MJTF. Should be launched in areas stipulated by the anonymous military source, especially in that Monster forest "SAMBISA" so as to meet up with the deadline of FLUSHING those walking corpse out of our affairs.
ME DON TIRE!!!