₦airaland Forum

RickyE:
I'm the one thinking of leaving her. The school fees was increased when we already got inside.
What I don't understand is why everybody just depends on me. I even assist most of the guys here in my hostel when they are unable to do things. I don't know if I should shut out my conscience and focus only on my life. My mother is completely my responsibility because she is old and can't work anymore. I don't want to regret these things later in future.
I don't see the assistance I render her as investment I see it as just help

Support your parents if you have the means. Others are secondary. As for your girlfriend, if you can't pay everything, you can pay half or part of it. That's if you insist you must help.
Or, alternatively, why don't you teach her that online biz you're doing ?

hopefulLandlord:
Olukoya is a pastor that keeps his flock in constant fear of mundane things by spiritualising them

a student failed exam? the enemies of his mother's house is responsible

you don't have a job or you lost your job? there's a spiritual snail in your life

finding it hard/near impossible getting a husband? spiritual husbands are involved, they're the ones chasing your prospective husbands away

did you see a cockroach in your closet? that's definitely agents of your enemy at work

your business failed? its the gods of your grandfather that is responsible

so almost all prayers are directed at enemies/demons/gods of my father's house etc telling them to DIE!!!!!

but I understand cuz doing that's what the sheeples want to hear not the bitter truth, make them think they can pray away their problems and that some undetectable, invisible and intangible entity is responsible

No student really wants to hear he failed cuz he studied wrongly

No bachelor/spinster wants to hear they're finding getting spouse hard due to the fact that they're too damn ugly or have a shitty attitude or lack manners

someone whose business just failed doesn't want to hear its normal for businesses to fail as 9 out of 10 businesses fail within 5 years and he should take the lessons from that failed business to make another attempt


If Olukoya were Ray Croc's pastor, Ray would've died killing witches and wizards with prayers day after day

If Olukoya were Edison's pastor he would've spent the rest of his life fighting spiritual battles cuz he was declared "Too dumb to learn anything" by his teachers

Sir James Dyson who failed in business over 5000 attempts before succeeding would've died in church fighting witches and wizards if he were an MFM member

Splendid.....

PFRB:
This is not good. Ekweremadu is the senator who spoke against the killing of IPOB members on the floor of the senate.

Ekweremadu is the most influential politician from the SE. He has a voice. This is one of the reasons Igbos are not United. Biafra project will fail.

frowland:
He wasn't playing snooker with his uniform?

I'm referring to his occupation.

Irresponsible people in uniform

coolestchris:
thunder fire this flat head..
so your drug sales purchased car is more valuable than a human life..
be like make I use those stick weh Fulani herdsmen deh hold use am whip his head to flatten his already flat skull

How does sitting on a car save her life?

spartan50:
So if you add all e money cars he no one Mark zukerberg car... And looks so modest

That's not true. If you add the cost of each of e money's car, it's about the same thing as Mark.

BTW what's your definition of modest ?

Philpham:
She doesn't need a husband anymore and forever, she is a trillionaire, she has a baby and she is happy. Men are over rated now and use.less to successful women.

So in other words, men are useful to women who are failures

5thElement:
You still haven't answered my hypothetical. I accept Jesus today and then a year later, I come to your house, rape your six year old daughter and kill her in your presence. Will I still make heaven if I die the following day without repenting?

Maybe you don't realize that you have to carry your cross and follow Jesus of you claim to be his disciple. I guess that's not a part of your Gospel.

People have done worse and they still make Heaven. You have to see things from God's perspective and not man's.

Hier:
One that is wide spread now. I really don't know where they got that revelation from. I mean it's a misunderstood one, we will talk now, some people would say we are under the influence of religion, that's the sad part

Consider this: The gift and calling of God is without repentance Rm2: 11.
God doesn't change his mind concerning a believer. But a believer who loves God does not derive pleasure in sin.

LibertyRep:
PMB is already demystified. If he had not won in 2015, we would have thought he was the best president Nigeria never had especially on security, himself being a Retired General.

We would have believed he would lead from the front and pursue Boko Haram across the border.

Sometimes I believe God allowed him to win for a purpose. People like Tunde Bakare and Mbaka can now answer their true calling.

Ibramamahi:
When you order u will know it power

How does it work ?
Is it by giving a man hard erection ?
Is it by making a woman magically glued to him ?

He made some valid points.

goldfish80:
Beauty queen my foot. For every action there's an opposite reaction. I wish her safe trip on the dark and lonely journey to great beyond.
Although questions must be asked about the physical weakness of the boyfriend,who allowed himself to be knifed down defenselessly by a girl.
He is the biggest looser in this sad story.

He may have been taken unawares.

EnterprizeRK:
Huh ?

He is better than Debruyne, ? Silver ? Needless to mention Moddriç ?
Mtcheeew

Maybe they are attackers. .

IstandWithGod:
You wanna know how to literally frustrate Nigerian youths? Then do this:

1. Ban watching of football(European and local leagues)
2. Ban every form of football betting (bet9ja & co.)
3. Ban listening to Davido, Olamide, Wizkid, Falz and other popular artiste's songs
4. Ban watching of porn and sex outside wedlock
5. Ban the use of makeup by females
6. Ban visit to nairaland, Linda Ikeji blog, Stella Dimorkorkus blog and allied gossip sites
7. Cancel all forms of political engagements by youths
8. Ban cultism and every form of thuggery
9. Ban seductive dressing by ladies and foolish dressing by gents
10. Cut off their access to the internet

Finally force all of them into Agriculture (back to farm)

Nice points. I hope you keep points as well.

madone:
OK next time look out for people in public and help them how can u be there eating and a girl like tat is looking a ur family you no even notice. Selfish looking family

What do you mean by that ? Why can't the owner of the restaurant help the girl ? Or is it only her family that ate there ?

ipobarecriminals:
i pity Man UTD with their fire brigade approach. mUf u must sack him,why not wait till the end of season/allow him 4 yrs to rebuild the team.Hope dem no jam him in future sha

He was not getting better in Man. U cos he lost the dressing room and it wouldn't get better.
It's not about rebuilding or not rebuilding.

Denikayan:
Amnesty international need also give us reports about North Korea, Syria and Yemen


Abi their jurisdiction no reach there

Trust Assad and Kim, They will jail all of them

Stop double standard. When AI said things like this during GEJ tenure, you praised them. But today, they're saying similar things in this government and you're here complaining.

Samunique:
The body claimed that 2,075 persons were killed in the clashes in 2018 alone.
According to the report, the Federal Government failed in “fulfilling its constitutional responsibility of protection of lives and property by refusing to investigate, arrest and prosecute perpetrators of attacks”.


Imagine this ?


And the BMC on nairaland will not read this


Buhari is complicit, take or leave !!!

The fools in NL will blame GEJ

Samunique:
The body claimed that 2,075 persons were killed in the clashes in 2018 alone.
According to the report, the Federal Government failed in “fulfilling its constitutional responsibility of protection of lives and property by refusing to investigate, arrest and prosecute perpetrators of attacks”.


Imagine this ?


And the BMC on nairaland will not read this


Buhari is complicit, take or leave !!!

Are you minding them ? AI were heroes when they spoke against GEJ. Today, the zombies are attacking them.

myboy2111:
You mean Atiku...he confessed to have over 1000 cattle to Mr Buhari's 150. Atiku is Patron Maiyetti Allah

Who is the president ? Buhari or Atiku ?

victorian:
When you don't value the wife, you have at home and she eventually leaves.
A better man, richer comes along, take her with the kids join. Lol


Same thing happened to a friend of mine. She's now remarried to one of the shareholders of Silverbird group of companies. Her status has tripled, she travels abroad like water. While her ex husband is still there in okokomaiko doing fine boy.

Serves Ik ogbonna right!

Cause a woman love you to the end, and has given birth does not mean she is automatically useless. There is someonelse quietly waiting for una divorce, so he can take her for himself. Lol

And how do you know he didn't value her. Hope you're not adding pepper to the story.

OMOTOWO:
The day this guy go follow my G.O Dr D K olukoya yar n dust..na fire go consume him..

The good thing about Dr. Olukoya is that he doesn't hammer so much on money.
He doesn't blackmail his members by saying they will go to hell for not paying tithes.
He's modest and he's focused more on doctrine rather than structures.
But his messages is the issue.

To tell you the truth, if Freeze yan anything against Olukoya, nothing will happen. People have said worse about Jesus and nothing evil befell them.

Story sounds questionable..

She try. She must have had the children when she was 12..

yarimo:
See as GOODLUCK jonathan still they mumu himself, so it was OBAMA that tell nigerians to votes you out as an incompetent president abi?

Is it not the same way Obama and the Democrat are accusing Russia for meddling in US election ?

AutoJoshNG:
Do you know that no car has ever been made for a specific gender? All cars are produced without specifying if it’s for male or female.

But intuitively, we think there are cars that are meant for just ladies and not for “men”. It looks very creepy seeing fully fledged grown men joy riding them. We won’t just say it’s a total turnoff but it just looks somehow. To understand what we mean, can you imagine Gentle Jack of Nollywood driving in a Kia Picanto? Just an imagination of it tells you something is wrong. The Kia Picanto won’t match his masculine physique.

Any man is totally free to buy or drive whatever he wants without giving a damn about what people think. We can’t tell you what to drive; it solely your choice.

What we can do is tell you how awkward it is to own them as your personal car. It will totally look somehow to see men driving any of these cars as their personal car.

In case you have plans of buying any of these cars, just pause and have a rethink.

4 cars that are not very suitable for men to own or drive.


1. Toyota Rav4:

Even if you’re not told, the Toyota Rav4 have ‘not meant for men‘ written all over it. With your third eye, you can see it perfectly.

The fourth and latest generation of the Rav4 isn’t that too bad for a man but the first, second and third generation Rav4 is a no-no for a man. Get it as a birthday present for your wife.

https://i0.wp.com/autojosh.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/cars-not-suitable-for-men-toyota-rav4.jpg?resize=600%2C387&ssl=1[img][/img]


2.Toyota Sienna:

This goes for most of the mini vans like Honda Odyssey and the rest. If your sole aim of buying the car isn’t for commercial transportation which we understand perfectly well, just opt for another manly car. Toyota Sienna especially the 1998-2003 models are for mummies and grannies.

Be a man and don’t buy Sienna for your personal use; you can buy one for your wife or your mum.
https://i2.wp.com/autojosh.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/cars-not-suitable-for-men-toyota-sienna.jpg?resize=600%2C379&ssl=1

3. Volkswagen New Beetle:

Back in the days, the Volkswagen Beetle used to be “people’s car“. Then it looked rugged and was driven by many regardless of gender. The newer generations of Beetle other than the “Ijapa” aka “okpokoro-mbe” we use to know doesn’t looks girly and does not give men befitting acceptance when inside of it.

The Beetles produced from 1998 are more for women than men. They don’t have the rugged look they used to wear back in the days. The car was reduced to a lady type of car.

If you really want a small car like that as a man, go for Volkswagen Golf instead.
https://i0.wp.com/autojosh.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/cars-not-suitable-for-men-volkswagen-new-beetle.jpg?resize=590%2C400&ssl=1


4. Kia Picanto:

With the level of economic recession in the country, people tend to go for smaller cars with impressive fuel economy.

This car is small, easy to park, easy to maintain etc but men can look creepy inside of it. Instead of buying it as a personal car for yourself, buy it for your daughter.

Please, don’t use your Picanto to race other heavier and well balanced cars on highway so you don’t land yourself where you don’t like. The car is light.
https://i1.wp.com/autojosh.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/cars-not-suitable-for-men-kia-picanto.jpg?w=600&ssl=1


Feel free to add yours using the comment section. Which other cars do you think are not very suitable for men?

https://autojosh.com/4-cars-that-are-not-very-suitable-for-men/

You didn't mention Toyota Matrix

basty:
I hate that guy Paul

A very local somebody, God has his way of making some Idiots rich and he is one of them. The wealth and fame he is enjoying today comes from his attachment to Peter. However, I can say that, their mother caused the rift in the family. She is dead and the wahala she created is living after her, what a sad memory. We have to be careful of causing division among our children. What a sad mother.

Paul and Jude are benefiting from what Lola did for Peter for the sake of love. Paul that used to wear only one baggy trouser back then and now forming Big boy. Nonsense tribal bigot.

Leave their mother out of this...

chineji:
I am many things an engineer, an auto enthusiast but most importantly I am an average Nigerian youth hustling to get a better life.


A brief introduction.
A year ago I left the university bagging a degree in one of the most uninteresting engineering fields you can think about. I found it boring throughout my time at the university but I made sure to put in my best but came out with a miserable 2 2 . I left school like everyone else and started applying for jobs and got nothing. I got tired of the whole process and decided to start a business while learning the basics of what I have always loved (automobiles). Running my business while learning and working on automobiles was quite difficult. I gained a lot of traction but tried to raise money and was so unsuccessful at it and then when it seemed nothing was forthcoming an important email came through.

The opportunity
When i left school, i applied to more than 500 jobs. Most people think I exaggerate this figure but you could do the math. I started in January 2017 and was sending out at least 5 CVs a day. I did this till June but never got a reply at least not until after a year.

I got an email from an NGO I applied to a year ago asking me to come work for them. This totally blew me out of the water. I was gonna go to Gabon and the work will take me through Liberia and the canary Islands before I finally disembark in Italy. They covered my flights and were gonna give me a tiny stipend I felt I could use to get something to use for my business. We did the interviews over Skype and they were so impressed with my exploits over the year and told me they couldn't wait to have me. They asked me if I had any problem with vegan diet (I had no idea what this meant as of then) but I answered no and felt I could cope with it after all I am from Nigeria (we are rugged people afterall)

Nigeria is 200 years behind. My pain is not being able to obtain scholarship to study abroad . May God help us here.

chineji:
I am many things an engineer, an auto enthusiast but most importantly I am an average Nigerian youth hustling to get a better life.


A brief introduction.
A year ago I left the university bagging a degree in one of the most uninteresting engineering fields you can think about. I found it boring throughout my time at the university but I made sure to put in my best but came out with a miserable 2 2 . I left school like everyone else and started applying for jobs and got nothing. I got tired of the whole process and decided to start a business while learning the basics of what I have always loved (automobiles). Running my business while learning and working on automobiles was quite difficult. I gained a lot of traction but tried to raise money and was so unsuccessful at it and then when it seemed nothing was forthcoming an important email came through.

The opportunity
When i left school, i applied to more than 500 jobs. Most people think I exaggerate this figure but you could do the math. I started in January 2017 and was sending out at least 5 CVs a day. I did this till June but never got a reply at least not until after a year.

I got an email from an NGO I applied to a year ago asking me to come work for them. This totally blew me out of the water. I was gonna go to Gabon and the work will take me through Liberia and the canary Islands before I finally disembark in Italy. They covered my flights and were gonna give me a tiny stipend I felt I could use to get something to use for my business. We did the interviews over Skype and they were so impressed with my exploits over the year and told me they couldn't wait to have me. They asked me if I had any problem with vegan diet (I had no idea what this meant as of then) but I answered no and felt I could cope with it after all I am from Nigeria (we are rugged people afterall)

Nigeria is 200 years behind. My pain is not being able to obtain scholarship to study abroad