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Romance › Re: Top 10 Public Alpha Figures In Nigeria, The Red Pill by vislabraye(m): 3:14pm On Dec 18, 2020
tobechi74:
Donald Trump would be one If he were a Nigerian,

Alpha male are also loosing it in other aspect of life. In Soccer, Jose Mourinho, an alpha manager is highly sought by so many clubs. His tenure in each club lasts a maximum of four years. He quarells with his players, fellow coaches, referee, football association, Physiologist, Ball Boy etc. The cost of maintenance is greater than the goal . Arsene wengar, A specialist in failure stayed over ten years in the club. Today, the beta coach works for FIFA. For immediate success, sign an alpha coach. For sustainability and long term project,sign s beta coach. .The highly successful persons are those who have mastered the art of building network. That involves cooperation and ability to compromise - an act beta male are understand quite well. Alpha leaders tend to be autocratic and conservative imposing his will on the majority. Beta politicians drift towards democrats. He is willing to let other person's view override his own . Alpha male may need to be more emotional sensitive. Beta male coul do better to improve their confidence and self confidence. Sleepy Joe defeated Alpha Trump in the last United State election. The top three richest men in the world do not qualities of a tough man. Mark Zuckerberg of Facebook is definitely not a macho Man. Bill gate is an introvert. The society is shifting towards computer and beta guys who enjoy working from home recorded huge profit during the covid 19 lock down.The law of diminishing returns is taking hold of Alpha male.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/13/passion-of-desire/
Calling Arsene Wenger a specialist in failure is very rude and disrespectful. I don't think you will as successful as he is.
Secondly, would you say Alex Ferguson is a beta Male coach since he stayed with Man. U for 26 years ?
By the way, Alphaness and introversion are not mutually exclusive.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Pierre Buyoya, Burundi Ex-president Dies From Covid-19 by vislabraye(m): 2:36pm On Dec 18, 2020
My bad
Romance › Re: Uneducated Men Who Sponsor Ladies To School With Intention Of Marriage by vislabraye(m): 2:29pm On Dec 18, 2020
IamPlato:
Only Fools Do That.

An Educated Man Will Easily Marry An Uneducated Woman but An Educated Woman Will Never Marry An Uneducated Man Because once You Give A Woman Power Above Yours she Will Over Power You and Seek powerful Men Because She Automatically Feels She Is Above You.


Its Like Give A Woman Wings When You Have None, she Will Fly Away Leaving You On The Ground. Dont Make That Mistake
Yes oh..
Men who train women through school with intention of getting married usually suffer afterwards.
It's very dangerous. If he wants to marry an educated lady, let him look for one to marry.
Car Talk › Re: Check Engine Light And How Do I Resolve? by vislabraye(m): 9:29pm On Dec 09, 2020
Kelvin30286063:
My check engine light has been on for weeks now. I know it's bad but I barely have time to visit a mechanic except for recently when I had a brain box issue.

The follow warnings are on my dashboard.

1. Check emisson system
2. Check Tire pressure sensor
3. Check ABS system
4. Check VSC system

That's all. I'm worried that this may not be the reasons why the check engine light is on.

I have ran a diagnostic scan and they pointed to the same things but this things are not easy fix cuz I drive an Acura and some of these things are not easy to comeby.

I know the emission system is a big issue cuz my car engine area is always very hot and I noticed some disconnection in some of those big pipes that channels air through the car but how do I best fix this! Help a brother.

Is it advisable to just wipe the warnings or I have to fix them cuz the guy that ran the diagnostic said he can just help me to wipe all the warnings and I won't have to worry anymore. Is that right sha!?
Check Engine sign is not a bad thing. It's an indication that something is not right with your engine.
Like people have been saying, take it to a good mechanic. You will spend quite alot but the problem will ne fixed.
Politics › Re: Governor Zulum Recommends the Use of Mercenaries to Defeat Boko Haram. by vislabraye(m): 1:47pm On Dec 01, 2020
dynicks:
Jonathan tried accessing that angle, they referred to him as daft and baptised him with all sort of derogatory names.....Today , they are equally heading back to eat their dungs....

Until people of the north decides to tackle this menace head on, I see no end to its existence...!

Meanwhile buhari won't wanna agree to such suggestion cus he still got pride in himself as the GCFR....
Everyday, GEJ is getting justified. The likes of Bakare and Mbaka are silent. CNN is equally silent.
People are killed like houseflies and no one cares. No security. Poor Economy. Imagine the military saying farmers should have taken permit to go to their farms.. angry
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Chris Oyakhilome: It's Not Trump That They Hate, It's You, The Christians by vislabraye(m): 12:43am On Nov 08, 2020
Jah1:
it's not Trump they hate, it's you (the Christians), because before he stood up for Christians they all love him - Pastor Chris Oyakhilome

WATCH VIDEO:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JY0jjplA07s
When there was shooting in Lekki toll gate, we didn't hear your voice.. huh
Education › Re: FG Slams ASUU For Using UTAS As Condition For Ending Strike. by vislabraye(m): 6:02am On Oct 30, 2020
Nukilia:
I dont pity ASUU at all... I was surprised to see professors supporting APC during the last election...I now understood the reason why our universities are nothing to write home about.... grin grin grin
When you support someone who doesn't value education to someone who does, that's what you get.
Politics › Re: Fela Durotoye's Wife, Tara Visits Her Vandalised Store In Lekki (Photos, Videos) by vislabraye(m): 10:36pm On Oct 26, 2020
Yankee101:
Your husband collected his share from the government during 2016 elections, I'm not saying that justifies this, I'm saying at least una be beneficiaries of the system
Thank God it is not in GEJ's tenure that this happened. I feel for her but it goes to show you that what goes around comes around.
Celebrities › Re: Orezi On Palliatives: No Hope For Nigeria Until Politicians Start Going To Jail by vislabraye(m): 7:41pm On Oct 26, 2020
Emotionss:
I think we should blame the usual scapegoats for all the corruptions going on in this nation.
Blame Goodluck and PDP
Politics › Re: #EndSARS: Goodluck Jonathan Condemns The “Use Of Deadly Force” On Protesters by vislabraye(m): 6:05pm On Oct 23, 2020
Gbemini:
This one too na mumu wey his wife dey control ...hiss ...make he no dey form nonsense here jor ...during his time na bomb boko haram dey use dey kill inside town .... grin
When he was leaving Bokoharam was almost destroyed. Go and find out.
Crime › Re: Police Break The Head Of Arise TV Cameraman, Hours After The End Of SARS by vislabraye(m): 9:33pm On Oct 12, 2020
1StopRudeness:
Nigerians just went to shout for nothing as if SARS is one special security force... are they not the same police men with a different name....

They disbanded SARS....they will not sack them naaa, they will only become normal policemen and continue the harassment and brutality...
Na the thing. That's what I've been telling people. SARS is part of the police. SARS is just a name. If they are disbanded, they will be reabsorbed into another unit.
What we need is police reform.
Romance › Re: The Red Truth by vislabraye(m): 11:33am On Sep 22, 2020
Dpsychologist:
6.) HYPERGAMY & BRANCH SWINGING:

Female hypergamy is dual in its approach to men, a man is either deemed superior, or inferior.


If a woman believes a man is inferior to her, he’s sexually invisible, only when a woman deems a man superior does he become visible.

Women want men who demonstrably exude power in a way that makes them feel inferior. When a woman feels inferior to a man, she is attracted to him.

We call this hypergamy( to date up and/or social climb) that is why women are highly sensitive to signifiers of high status (good genes, wealth, confidence, popularity etc.).

In constrast to this, men practice hypogamy(dating down) or horizontal dating (someone within their status that is why guys are afraid of a lady with high status ladies, they can't cope with them, that is Probably the reason why Genevive and linda ikeji are not married. However these same ladies are crushing on men with higher status than them such as Dwayne Johnson and Tyler Perry respectively.
Let them continue crushing on Dwayne Johnson and the Tyler Perry. Lolz
TV/Movies › Re: Nengi Dodges Ozo's Kiss After Eviction, Vee watches and goofs by vislabraye(m): 4:02pm On Sep 21, 2020
RomanianNinja:
I admire the way Ozo behaves. Truth is always pursue what you want in life and that's what he is doing. There is no shame in loving someone rather it is a shame not to love
At what point do you stop ? It's a shame to be made a fool of.
Romance › Re: Damilola Adegbite Buys New Range Rover (video) by vislabraye(m): 10:40am On Sep 14, 2020
Ayemileto:
She must have acted well. cool

I just wish Nollywood actors will start getting high paying roles like the actresses. grin
I wonder Oh !!!
huh
Nairaland General › Re: Best Man Of The Groom Who Died 3 Days After Wedding Breaks Silence by vislabraye(m): 10:30am On Sep 14, 2020
UDOKABESTLUV:
Reports!

The best man to the groom who died in an accident just days after his wedding, has finally broken silence on the unfortunate accident, Reports.

From The Information Gathered By , Sleek, took to his WhatsApp status to advise Nigerians on the negative effect of over-speeding.

He wrote:-
Sept 5th was the happiest day of my life I watched my son get married, it was a movie, sept 8th I survived the accident that killed my son, life is short. I have only one advice for everyone reading this.

I will always love you my boy, till we meet in Valhalla.

According to reports Gathered By , Rex Ebube Amatu was trying to overtake a car stopped by some policemen at a police-check point when a tipper rammed into him.

See The Photos Obtained By Below:

See The Previous Thread About The Man That Died In Accident - https://www.nairaland.com/6112491/man-dies-car-accident-asaba

Source: BLOG
Alot of road accidents are caused by policemen. When will they learn to be civil ?
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze: Mike Bamiloye Reacts by vislabraye(m): 9:32pm On Sep 13, 2020
ACRI:
When they came to arrest Jesus, one of the disciples cut off the ear of one of the attackers

In this unusual time, the church has witnessed enough persecution, she does not need another one from a deranged individual

For the fools talking about tithes, we love God that's why we give it, it's none of their business.

The young people in this country ll never hold their leaders responsible for mortgaging their destiny but they ll be persecuting the church which is the only semblance of sanity we have left.

It is a bigger fool that ll follow a fool like Daddy freeze!
And what did Jesus do when the ear was cut off? Did he encourage it ? Did he clap for the disciple ? Read that scripture to the end before using it as an example.
As for Daddy Freeze, he needs to be mature. He should not have referred to Oyedepo as a bald headed chicken.
Christianity Etc › Re: When Daddy Freeze Called Bishop Oyedepo "Bald-Headed Fowl" (Video) by vislabraye(m): 12:20pm On Sep 11, 2020
joseph1832:
which year did Freeze call Oyedepo this? And why did Ibiyiemi take so long to come to his 'father's' aid?
The fact is that DF did what was wrong. It doesn't matter how long it takes Ibiyeomie to reply.
I even thought Ibiyeomie was responding to Daddy Freeze scriptural disagreement with Oyedepo.
Christianity Etc › Re: When Daddy Freeze Called Bishop Oyedepo "Bald-Headed Fowl" (Video) by vislabraye(m): 12:13pm On Sep 11, 2020
tempex88:
I have learnt u don't fight evil with evil. An eye for an eye will make everyone blind. That's one of the faults of the old testament Jesus came to correct.

IMO, pastor ibiyome should have ignored freeze. But we all know pastors are human too and they can make mistake. I expect him to withdraw his statement and pray for the salvation of freeze.
You have a point, though. But many people are of the opinion that Daddy Freeze never insulted Bishop Oyedepo. I even thought same.
I felt Ibiyeomie went overboard by calling him names just because Oyedepo was corrected with the scriptures (as I thought). Here, you can hear DF swearing and cursing and yet he's playing victim when he was called a bastard.
Christianity Etc › Re: When Daddy Freeze Called Bishop Oyedepo "Bald-Headed Fowl" (Video) by vislabraye(m): 11:56am On Sep 11, 2020
ebukajay184:
IgbereTV captured the moment Daddy Freeze called Bishop Oyedepo a bald-headed fowl.

See video below.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-H2CwhpZwI

Recall that Pastor Ibiyeome on Sunday had threatened to kill Daddy Freeze for insulting Bishop David Oyedepo.

https://igberetvnews.com/1364087/moment-daddy-freeze-called-bishop-oyedepo-bald-headed-fowl-video/
I thought David Ibiyeomie was going overboard. Daddy Freeze deserves it. After all, he called someone a bastard. He started it first.
Politics › Re: David Ibiyeomie: Reno Omokri Reveals Daddy Freeze's Parents' Identity by vislabraye(m): 9:22am On Sep 08, 2020
bolaayenimo:
Why is Pastor Ibiyeomie taking it personal?
If you attack David Oyedepo, you attack him
Politics › Re: Buhari Blames Middlemen: 1984 And 2020 (Photos) by vislabraye(m): 10:19am On Sep 07, 2020
allthingsgood:
Buhari is your problem or the decayed and dead morals of Nigerians. Even u that is talking if they give u chance u will do worst. Buhari remain the best president is 1999.
He's making an important observation. You can't be blaming people up and down.
Romance › Re: What Do You Dislike About The LGBTQ Community? by vislabraye(m): 2:47pm On Sep 04, 2020
HuntSon:
A lovely afternoon to the queers and the LGBTQ community.

I saw a post sometime about grievances from gay people about the things they dislike in the community, so I decided to bring it up.

Is there anything you've noticed that you disliked about the community?
Homosexuality is an anomaly which they refuse to accept. My ideology is not the same as theirs . Tomorrow someone will start sleeping with goat and he will tell us that's his nature.
Politics › Re: Senators Protest Fuel, Electricity Hikes by vislabraye(m): 7:40am On Sep 04, 2020
This year don rugged
Sports › Re: Boxing: Efe Ajagba Vows To Dethrone Anthony Joshua by vislabraye(m): 7:36am On Sep 04, 2020
Efe is good but not as skillful as AJ. He will definitely rise, bit he should not compare himself to AJ.
Science/Technology › Re: Inside Unhatched Egg Of Dinosaur That Lived In Argentina 80 Million Yrs Ago (Pix by vislabraye(m): 2:14pm On Aug 31, 2020
Golan007:
It is easier for a black man to believe a tribe of people are God's chosen, a woman had a child without intercourse and the product of that birth ended up walking on water, dying and thereafter resurrecting and ascended unto to a place called heaven, than to accept that dinosaurs whose remains we see all the time ever existed.
Of course, I believe in Jesus and that he walked on water and died for us etc. But that doesn't invalidate the existence of dinosaurs
Sports › Re: Lionel Messi's £95MILLION Salary Is More Than Neymar And Kylian Mbappe Combined by vislabraye(m): 9:29pm On Aug 27, 2020
obicoolnino:
Finally FTC.... Messi is a super star and he's worth every Penny earned, meanwhile it's time for the GOAT to move on and silence his critics about hw good he can be in other leagues.... Pls where are the good old days of early morning literature on front page?
He has passed his prime though he's still good. But don't expect to see the same person 10 years ago
Christianity Etc › Re: Chris Oyakhilome: Black Is Evil, Africans Must Stop Saying They Are Blacks by vislabraye(m): 8:07pm On Aug 26, 2020
Nbotee:
Why do we like to focus on what is irrelevant and making a big deal out of nothing. Black is a reference to skin color for chrissakes... I've seen him wear black a couple of times, why does he wear dem since black is d absence of light?
What's the color of gis hair ? Abi is it colorless?
Politics › Re: US Cuts Nigerian Oil Imports By 11.67 Million Barrels by vislabraye(m): 2:51pm On Aug 23, 2020
GamalNasser:
Well because of the prolonged lock down the demand for oil in the US has reduced , this is better than Obama that even refused to buy a single barrel from us just because we didn't approve his gay marriage
I'm even surprised to hear US still busy oil from us. Cos I know years ago, the evil Obama didn't buy oil from us.
Sports › Re: Chidi Nwanu Speaks On Gang-up Against Westerhof At USA 94 by vislabraye(m): 9:56pm On Aug 22, 2020
Pacesetter123:
Uncalculated tackle by Austin Eguavon leading to him being redcarded n award of penalty also cos us de game.
The thing pain me sha. Eguavon unfortunately was our weak link. Don't know why he always started.
Sports › Re: Chidi Nwanu Speaks On Gang-up Against Westerhof At USA 94 by vislabraye(m): 9:50pm On Aug 22, 2020
Queenlovely:
nearly cannot kill a bird... aboki proverb.

will English premier league be fun to watch if they masturbate on the glory days of the past and halt progress, talking about kaka, Rooney, drogba, tevez, Nani, etc. new blood is what washes old blood away not this useless history,





 A dying people tolerates the present, rejects the future, and finds its satisfactions in past greatness and half remembered glory 
John Steinbeck


all we talk about is past glory in this country, what about newly minted stars
It's part of history and it should be said. Just as Nigeria has it's own history whether good or bad. It will pain him as a player cos he probably could have made history.

Now that they successfully executed the coup, I hope they're happy.
Romance › Re: I Felt Cheated By My Girl by vislabraye(m): 2:45pm On Aug 22, 2020
davedy:
Good evening Nairalanders

I'm sorry for bringing up to this platform but is of necessity for me to bring it . I've been hearing it from people but I don't know how they do feel about it. I've heard stories about how a lady cheating on her guy and a man cheating, but all these stories I do see them as fantasy or something that is not real. I've heard about a lady killing herself because of her boyfriend and I've heard about a boy taking sniper because of a lady.

Recently, I was in love with a lady in my office and this lady she is 35 years of age, I am 37 years of age and I asked out, we started dating after a period of time, she told me about herself, after all in the place of her work, she has dated about three different persons that she had sex with them. People in the office do gossip about her because of how waryward life. They do call her prositute. With all that, I still love her.

Before I came on board, she told me about her neighbour and all what they've done like touching and kissing was the highest they have done and I said ok.

We started dating and working towards marriage. At a time, we got intimate. I never knew that she was still seen her neighbor. She do go to his room to charge her phone. I never knew that they were having sex and she was having sex with me. she always claim that I'm the only person she is having sex with but I have this kind of feeling that she is cheating on me. I do always argue and challenged her faithfulness and at the end, she will put up a defensive mode accusing me that I didn't trust her.

Some days ago, when i challenged her with evidence of cheating. She confessed to me about how she and her neighbour been having sex and I was heartbroken, that night, I slept in a house I couldn't get it, I never knew that I love her so much, that was a period I knew that I was deeply in love with her. I feel like dying, I feel like everything is over. I love her so much, I want to marry her. Few days ago, I travelled to meet with my parents and discussed my marriage issues with them, I told my girl about it but she didn't blive. With all these, she didn't feel remorseful. I wish I had never met her. I am in pain.. What should I do? I am a confused man now.


Please move to front-page. I will appreciate it. Thanks.
You knew she was wayward, what else do you want to do ? A prostitute or wayward woman can hardly change. Sorry !!
Christianity Etc › Re: CAN Rejects CAMA, Says Government Cannot Control Churches by vislabraye(m): 10:46pm On Aug 20, 2020
BabaRamota1980:
The churches brought this upon themselves.

There are many muslim communities just like Zakzaky group in North. They mind their business and never get involved in govt issues. Zakyzaky stays in govt business all the time. Thats why he is in trouble now.

Jonathan set a bad precedence when he will have these pastors meddling govt business. They got too comfortable and started commenting on what govt is doing or not doing. When you are a tax exempt organization, stay away from govt the best you can. Put a long distance between you and govt. Govt has all the rules and ways to fvk up anyone, if they choose to. These churches did same thing Zakyzaky did, started fvkng with govt. So now govt wants to fcvk with them too. Its unfortunate but its reality.

There is a pastor in America called Pastor Dollar or something like that. He used to condemn govt and live large and flaunt. One of their legislators got on his case and wanted to probe him and his church. The Pastor got the message at that point.

If CAMA can bring out same result in Nigerian pastors it will be great. The money they waste on acquiring jets and building for-profit private institutions should be better used in promoting wellbeing and supporting needs of communities and people. At the end of it people benefit when churches come to their aid in time of distress and need.
Nigeria belongs to all of us, whether xtian or Moslem. I don't know what you mean by saying "pastors meddling in Government business"
I agree that there should be accountability but I don't trust this Government. This Government is used to abusing processes.
It's possible for CAMA to wake up one morning and remove the leadership of a church for a flimsy reason.

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