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martyns303:
I shouldn't have to bring this here, but I have exhausted other options.

mid last year I had to make an interstate journey and the only means available was by road. Shared a sit with this girl, around 28yrs old, tall and lighted skinned, didn't take long before we started talking. we got to our destination and thought we should exchange numbers, she was a lively person.

fast forward 2 weeks later, she called me that she needed to attend a wedding and that she's looking for money to buy "asoebi", she was like she wouldn't have called me if she had other options, i understand these things can be important to women, so I sent her N10k, she thanked me, called a couple of times to say hi.

Roughly a month after that, she called me again to say she went to visit someone in another state and what not and now she's stranded. I was going to say No, but my conscience won't let me, I tried to imagine if I were the one stranded like that, so I sent her money again. in all of this, I have never met her again after the first and last time we met.

December came and this girl called me to ask me what's for Christmas, laughed over it and told her nothing. she later sent me an sms asking me to please send her some money, at this point I felt I have had enough. I ignored her sms, she started calling me unending, sometimes I get as much as 15 missed calls from her. I blocked her number but then she would call with another number, blocked that too and she started calling me with private number. just this morning she sent me an sms saying why am I being WICKED. as in I don't understand, she's acting like I owe her or something.

Edited:

I am surprised at the number of people calling me names for helping someone. I wasn't looking to start anything with her, I have never given her such impression. I saw a grown woman who I felt was in need and I helped. I am no stranger to help, we have all helped people in different capacity, people we don't know, even here on NL, a faceless forum, people get help.

Are you sure?

Alariiwo:
From a critical point of view.. I think some aggrieved, disgruntled elements who wants nothing but PMB's downfall are behind this unrest in the country..

Or how do we explain killings in Benue, Taraba and co. after those ones rejected Kanu and his biafra dream some months back.

I don't know what such people stand to gain, but our government shall never be truncated again. Any group so desperate for presidency should go to the polls.

I wish you speak intelligently. People like you act like zombies. It would have been better you kept quiet and appear to be smart.
The people who will bring the downfall of Pmbs are the herdsmen.

akeentech:
Reason why I keep telling people, you can start your own blog or online business today and in two years time you will be earning passive income while you are sleeping. If you don't know how to, I'm here to help. you can start with less than 2k investment.

Would like to know more about it...

nonut:
Excuses... A lazy man's way of dodging work.
Keep piling them up while others are making it happen.

Success is not easy but living in Nigeria makes it harder. Well, except you have the right connection and resources. Stating the obvious doesn't make one lazy..

jaymichael:
No, it was APC that shared the money meant for the procurement of arms to fight boko haram better "ATM" Dasuki, Methu et al. I forgot GEJ was so serious about fighting boko haram that he went to Kano to dance "one corner" a day after a serious bombing. A president asking "where is Gwoza sef" is that one not clueless about the job he was employed to do? was GEJ not a fisherman and a son of a boat maker? was that one an insult? Nigerians who are tired of his misrule gave him the tag of a buffon. We had the PDP, GEJ and PEJ's hate and divisive comments on record. That was only what they has as they had no agenda.
NB: your failed god GEJ wasn't insulted more than Nigerians have insulted their past leaders like OBJ, IBB Abacha et al but none of them used our fault lines of religion and ethnicity to divide Nigerians for cheap politics.

Your president that does not know the name of is VP.
Your president that does not know the name of his party
Your president that does not know West Germany does not exist. If that is not clueless, I wonder what you will call it.
I'm amazed that you're accusing Gej of dancing one corner dance after the bomb blast. But you have forgotten so soon the Pmb did not pay condolence visit to the 79 people killed in Benue state. Or how many times has he visited places that have been attacked by herdsmen?

jaymichael:
Any God forsaken fool cursed from his/her mother's womb can just wake up and publish any nonsense from their imbecilic mind. How did Buhari divide Nigeria, the fool did not elaborate Did was what I posted in one thread today how the PDP introduced politics of hate speech plus religious and ethnic division in the last electioneering
The same hate campaign and religion that PDP used
for the 2015 electioneering that failed them is what
they have started employing again. They never learn.
We still haven't forgotten how they say PDP is a
Christian party and APC is a Muslim party. FFK as
campaign spokesman labelled the APC a "satanic
Janja.weed Islamic party" PEJ said Northerners are
bornthroaway. GEJ said Yoruba elders are motorpark
touts. PEJ, GEJ and the PDP have said many times
over that PMB is brain dead and he will die on the job
if elected president. South east PDP elders termed the
APC an "ewedu and amala" party.
My friend, we remembered how hate speech campaign
started in this country. The PDP created that demon
when it was clear they had nothing to offer in the
2015 electioneering. The originator of this bullshit is indeed a cursed fellow.

And you want to absolve APC of hate speech?
Who called GEJ a buffoon?
Who mocked him by calling him a fisherman?
Was he not called clueless severally?
Maybe you've forgotten how APC frustrated Gejs fight against Boko Haram.
Whatever you think Pdp is doing, APC did worse.

OmoOshodi:
Pastorprenure ... The business is blooming
The sheeples are paying



Who Holy Spirit eep

I lost my dad 2005 only because he believed. Mantle from papa, fasting and prayers were unable to rescue him from kidney failure @70yrs......instead of going for his routine check up in UK.

Note: Faith Oyedepo was revived by the best hospital in the whole world

We are too gullible in Africa

It's not the fault of the Holy Spirit. Sorry about the death of your father.
I know many MOGs will shout that they don't take drugs or go to hospital. Well, that's for them. It's not a sin to take drugs.
Well, I don't know the issue with Faith Oyedepo but I know for sure that these MOGs go for regular checkups.

ufuosman:
No joy, police na doctor Na. The police and the guy look alike

Policemen have doctors as well as other specialists such as accountants, engineers etc.

BigBelleControl:
It's quite sad that a physical exercise that is meant to make people fit and keep them healthy has claimed lives on several occasions.

Can we say it's due to undiagnosed internal health challenge or over stressing of the heart during physical exercise.

Congenital heart failure..

BigBelleControl:
It's quite sad that a physical exercise that is meant to make people fit and keep them healthy has claimed lives on several occasions.

Can we say it's due to undiagnosed internal health challenge or over stressing of the heart during physical exercise.

Congenital heart disease. It's very common amongst Africans from observation .
It usually shows up later on in life. If not for advanced medical care, Kanu would have died on the pitch as well.

Fidelmalek:
so cech can never keep a clean sheet...

Did you know?
Cech has never caught a penalty for arsenal
Cech out!!!!

Cech should have been substituted after that injury.

AntiWailer:
He has heart ailment and can not appear in court but he can tweet

Shattap . What do you know?

Interesting. I can understand certain things. For instance if she becomes irritable when she's pregnant. Women have different cravings and so on. I can bear with that.
But I won't tolerate any woman who is excessively angry, domineering and so on. We should not give excuses for bad behaviour.
However, both parties have a lot to do.

Factfinder1:
That white man on short 3quarter combat might be the owner/principal of that school but here in Nigeria if you are goin for a 25k job interview they would ask you to wear suite shave your beards bring a nice CV and all manners of nonsense requirement...I love to dress free and simple I once bounced an interview because I went in jean and a T-shirt the interviewer asked why I didn't dress cooperate and I asked her if it was my dressing they needed or my skill...I just turn back dey go...thunder will fire all the people making heinous rules for poor people in the name getting a petty job

Corporate environments implies you must dress corporately.
BTW, in the picture who do you see wearing suites? Who wears suites when going for sporting events?

Those herdsmen killed could be innocent. BTW, why did they carry along with them weapons?
But if the presidency had acted earlier on, it wouldn't have gotten as bad as this.

HeWrites:
Timi Dakolo's wife, Busola shared the photo and captioned it;


https://torimill.com/2018/01/singer-timi-dakolo-wife-busola-loved-bedroom-new-photo.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

He's putting her where she belongs.. (In the other room)

Amakavula:
don't be so bitter. No single guy have all of these qualities. We are only saying you should try with some. Over 50% maybe.

So married men have all these qualities.... . Don't worry I know what you mean.

buhariguy:
Where is the 11 dead people.


RIP to the 11 dead people, before idiotic pigs of Biafra will swallow me.

What a shameful post.

buhariguy:
Where is the 11 dead people.


RIP to the 11 dead people, before idiotic pigs of Biafra will swallow me.

Something is definitely wrong with you.

kevoh:
Those replying him actually missed the point. What he is saying is being educated for the most part involves Primary and secondary school education and not tertiary education. A Unviversity dropout is not necessarily uneducated and then he cites the case of Davido and others who have sufficient level of education having attended Primary and Secondary school. The likes of Mark Zuckerberg and other billionaire University drop outs that Nigerians like to mention also have this particular basic education he is talking about.

A rich man without the basic skills of reading, basic maths and writing will only end up being cheated in 2018! You learn all these in Primary school!

Mark Zuckerberg also has technical skills which he learnt from school.
Many people

jrusky:
Can't you guys see his name, Oyolo pls is this a normal human being name? He that has degree should pls tell us what is his achievement with his 're free?

You guys don't understand where is going the bollocks is only angry because he Oyolo is a failure.

Oyolo you are a disgrace to yourself and to your family infact a disgrace to facebook. Pls what degree does Suckerberg that owns Facebook has but you are using his platform to post your failure? Oyolo go to hell who your degree help?

Education is one thing, degree is another.
The truth is that degree (not just education) has made many people rich and comfortable.
It does not make sense when someone rubbishes University Education.

MissAprokoMedia:
Nigerian Facebook User, Mazino Oyolo took to Facebook to define who a primitive Nigerian is, Nigerians blast him after he said the likes of Davido are primitive Nigerians for making money as a school drop out.

He wrote:




And fans respond:


News by JoelsBlog:https://joelsblog.com.ng/primitive-nigerian-is-one-that-makes-money-without-a-university-degree/

The heading is quite misleading ....

rxmusa:
By Musa A Bello (The Insightful Observer)

It's very common these days to hear people accusing others of having excessive blind love for President Muhammadu Buhari, these people will try to subliminally make impression that what they are against is not the too much love people have for him but the supposed assumption of his infallibility. To be quite fair to them we may have such insignificant fraction of those that fall into that category, but majority of us belong to the category of "Optimists/Moralists".

President Muhammadu Buhari is but human, and we all know to err is human and to forgive is divine, so we know he is prone to mistakes/errors, but what we believed is that his innate good nature and tendency towards goodness, selfless sacrifice and unwavering commitment to serve this great nation far outweighs the little mistakes he could make.

The current situation of Nigeria needs political hygiene, this nation has experienced every form of filth that hinders progress starting from corruption, nepotism/regionalism, ethno-religious intolerance and a host of other vices. So therefore, for remarkable and effective long lasting change to be felt, there is need to set the stage, this setting up of the stage would surely come with repercussions and, such is the nature of change. When the President of Tanzania John Magufuli initiated political sanitation in his country, he was nicknamed "The Bulldozer" and was vehemently criticized by the cynics while being praised by the masses, but not long enough his people have started feeling the positive impact of such change.

Similarly, our beloved President Muhammadu Buhari is now being vitriolically criticized by some self-acclaimed perfectionists while being hailed by the masses who understood that their current plight is not something that happened overnight but the end result of long accumulated actions and inactions, history is being recounted not to put blame on the previous administrations but to enlighten those who are expecting miraculous change overnight, that what took several years to be destroyed should at least take few years to be rectified as we all know it's easier to destroy than to build.

We shall continue to have good faith in our beloved President and the good constructive criticizers who meant well for this great country of ours while still urging our fellow Nigerians to be more patient as beam of the light at the end of the tunnel has started getting visible.

May Allah strengthen our beloved President Muhammadu Buhari and grant him more wisdom and sound health to lead this nation.

Long Live Federal Republic of Nigeria

The music has changed abi?
When he said he would make N1 to be equal to $1, he didn't know he was human.
When he said he would build 1refinery each year, he never thought of his humanity.
Buhari has failed. Stop making excuses for him. If at least he could fulfill half of his promises, I would have been his biggest. But all we hear is excuses. Blame game, here and there.
Nepotism in his government is even more. Don't think people hate Buhari because of his tribe. Yar Adua was a Fulani man but we never experienced what we are experiencing now.
If people who supported him are beginning to turn their backs against him, then there must be a reason.

Afrojuju2017:
There is nothing malicious about the judgement, yes the system has failed the respondent however the failure of the system is not a good reason for violating the laws.

He had legal recourse and that option is never off the table no matter how many times he fails he needs to keep trying. The farmers need to also set in place protocols and be in agreement with the local security apparatus

You agree that the system has failed. Have you heard of any herdsmen paying for damages against farmers?
This same thing happened to OluFalae, it happened to several others . What has the government done?

whirlwind7:
The owner of the cows went through a legal process to seek justice, and that's quite commendable. Quite certain he didn't choose the violent way because the ex naval chief also have armed guards at his disposal.

Now the farm owner can sue for the damages done to his farmland. Let's see how the court handles that.
Here's the first piece of farmer-cattleherder dispute that didn't end in bloodshed. Nice!

And will it go to his favor? BTW, the farmer only seized the herders cows. He did not even kill one.
The court should have looked into his claims .

Poor man . At least he made the right choice by leaving her.

Donald3d:
Not again , person come dey fear to marry na , una wey don marry just dey make person fear everyday .Shey I go marry like this sha ,chei
Anyway.....
Situations like this to be honest would be very hard to solve(she is unwilling to do anything about it) , this is why you should always make it clear the things you like and the things you dont like before marrrying your partner .

Your madam was very very very very wrong on all levels ,
1.She is not supposed to go to a single guys room and vice versa
2.She is not supposed to collect anything from him , You should be the one to go to him if your family needs his assistance.
3.The height of it is her inivting him to your house at night to watch match by 10pm !!!!, like what the ....

Now to your own part
-If she has not always being like this, then something is wrong , and its at the foundation
-How often do you and your wife do things together ?, because from the look of things , if you observe critically and psychologically , its not just about collecting things from him , and she also might not be cheating on you, the koko here is SHE ENJOYS HIS COMPANY.Thats why she finds it hard to stop .
-Is your wife your best friend ? , how do you correct her when she is wrong (by shouting or in a loving manner)
-How well do you tell her sweet words and comment on her beauty
-How well do you give her time just to listen to her
-I know its hard creating time for all these with work and everything but you have to try .
-Women love someone who makes them feel safe and alive, someone who listens to their fears and worries and anything they have to say -Be her friend !
-Have a heart to heart talk with her, tell her calmly why what she is doing is wrong .
-Never stop telling her you love her , even when you are angry with her
-Try and get her busy , so she would have less time to even think he exists
-Bring back respect into your home , not just her respecting you , but you also respecting her .She has obviously lost respect for you
-Above all while you take actions talk to God about everything .

Act fast , because that guy na sharp guy, he knows where you are lacking and he is capitalizing on it , thats the advantage side chicks and side guys always have over the main partner "filling the empty spaces"

No matter what you do ,use wisdom and be calm and loving about it
God bless your marriage


MODIFIED : Women please stop assuming your husband would automatically know what you are thinking or feeling , talk to him if you feel he is not doing something right , not all men are mind readers biko, sometimes he honestly has no clue what you need until you open up,same goes for men too

Abeg make una check my signature

Her husband might be lacking those areas you talked about but like you said the husband should get back his respect.
Enjoying a single man's company is a no. Is she high or what? That means if her husband travels for 2 weeks, she'll start cheating. That is how infidelity starts.
Who knows whether they've not done something before.

stanluiz:
Can you imagine playing arsenal for 5 straight match this season but No cannot win anyone.Conte is not a tactician at all.If na Jose mourinho I know what he can do.

As if Arsenal name small team
BTW, Mo Man U has not beaten 'conte .