₦airaland Forum

Thinktwicemybro:
You people should stop this media show off, you are not encouraging the minds of innocent youths. This country has gone down the drain. Look at Japan and China, discipline made them what they are today. Build industrial village for youths to become employed and stop all this nonsense. Keep your life private am personally not interested in your life.

They don't have sense bro. They'll tagged you a poor man. These youths are money monger. Now i understand why some people do say we deserved the kind of leaders we have in Nigeria. We truly deserves them. When the subjects are empty headed who run after licking the asses of those men with dirty money. They resort to cyber crime, street urchins, thugs et al.

Save yourself the stress bro, they don't even deserve your councel. They are mannerless. All they know is money, money, money. And show off their dirty money on social media for their likes to see.

Just avoid them completely, they got no manners.

Kazim88:
I stopped reading at that point. Why not marry a feminist first, and come back to tell us the "why".

LMAO


Your mind is messed up already guy. There's no point engaging you any further. My cousin who got married some years back was a feminist. They are both feminist and they live very happy than those anti-feminist who go out of their way looking for a submissive woman that they can toss left, right, centre.

Marry your type baba. A female feminist will not be dumb to settle down for less. A female feminist will not be foolish enough to marry a man whose mentality hanged on superiority, submissive and what have you. Same applies to the male feminist. We don't settle for less. Do you expect us to marry a nonentity who doesn't know her right? Or a woman that my family can easily icontrol?

Abeg go sleep guy. Go for your type simple!

Gerrard59:
The biggest mumbo-jumbo I've read today. At the end of the day, you said same thing I advised OP.

Nonsense and ingredients!

desist from over hyping western countries. They also got their flaws. Stop slamming your home country. This is your father land no matter the decade spent in the Western countries

Btw, I'm not against seeking for greener pastures anywhere one deemed fit. But the over hyping of those West at the detriment of your home country is what i don't buy.

NaijirianKing:
Leave them, life and time will handle them.

In the next ten years, we will see a whole generation of these types who have been left alone and unmarried in their late 30's and 40's, by that time, their youth and beauty would have faded as with their chance to ever be married.

Once they realize that all of that man-hating-rhetoric made them fail at being wife and mother material, they will be left to grow older, and older and die alone, while seeing their mates who weren't fooled by the ideology, happy with children, a husband, a home and a marriage. Give them time, their bitterness will only grow.

In the next decade we will see the largest number of unmarried, aged, women of any time in history. This will get interesting before we even know it.

Feminist of both gender are getting married on a daily basis. Better wake-up from your slumber

I myself can marry a feminist. Why? Because i believed in equity and equality
I don't seek for what I'm not capable of myself

Why would a sane man be looking for a submissive woman? What happened to mutual love, respect and understanding

Iron sharpen iron. Become a husband materials first before soliciting for wife materials. Any man who believes he's superior to a woman. Any man who believes he's doing a woman favour by accepting to marry her. Any man who believes a woman is less of human to him. I know such kind of men always go out of their way to marry who they can easily manipulate and flex their muscles on. Make una no worry una go soon meet una waterloo someday

Gerrard59:
I'm of the opinion that every young and ambitious Nigerian should flee the country, the earlier the better. Unlike many young people in Nigeria, you've people who are WILLING to sponsor your education overseas. Not many young Nigerians have able sponsors let alone those who are willing. For them to say they will sponsor you, they will likely spend the minimum of N10M especially if it's in a western country. That's what you want to let go for a federal job? Same job in a country which is about to be declared bankrupt? A country that with the way things are going, most people would resort to slamming their heads five times daily? Where there is runaway inflation? The future of Nigeria is precarious and she is going to be either or all of the following: Lebanon, Venezuela, Afghanistan and Zimbabwe. That's Nigeria's future, don't allow anyone gaslight or deceive you. Is that what you want instead of a sane life in a place where things work?

I beg to differ. It is just general inferiority complex that makes Africans assume everything western is the ideal or gold standard. The mindset is so rampant. If it is not American or European dictated or defined. Then it isn't good, ideal, right for the rest of the world. It is a very stinking mindset. We have been so badly conditioned in such ugly ways. Virtually all Asians Economic power houses today defines WESTERN economic model and predictions to become who they are. Good and bad governance can manifest through any system of government. Democracy, Absolute Monachy, Military/Authoritarian et al. It is not system of government that guarantees good governance. It is the values and ideals that power the quality of governance, not the model of government. Democracy creates and give the people the most convincing illusions of representatives government. And you know, for humans, perception is often stronger than facts. The extremist liberal who insists on imposing alternative social and sexual lifestyles on others is not different from those with extreme religious views and practices. The former utilizes social and economic terrorism to further their agenda while the latter employ brute force. It is why we have cancel culture today. It is why some government or organisations will withhold funding or threaten to sabotage trade relationships unless certain social or sexual lifestyles are accepted. What's the different between the two? One now finds it offensive to even call humans by their naturally assigned gender. It is even now offensive to describe pregnant womaen as such but pregnant people. You either accept or get cancelled. A man in the US was forced to pay for his son's gender re-assignment even though he strongly opposed the idea of sex change for his son. A teacher in one of these western countries referred to certain students by their natural gender and she was sacked immediately for trying to install a bias on their minds. That, at such a young age the group of female kids in particular haven't made up their minds yet about their sexual orientation. These are various degree of forces of the law and social apparatus that are being used to perpetuate their evil agenda. These people resort to force because they cannon make their cases on basis of logical reasoning. Two-gender is not a social construct. And fluid-gender has no basis in science. To the Op, the best bet is to leave this country. You can consider Norway, they had free tuition fee for masters students. Just get about 6million as block account, then you are good to go. Moreso, Canada, New Zealand and Australia aren't bad either. You should endeavour to stay put after your studies. Coming back to the country after your studies could likely be disastrous. Also, we all should know that the government (Federal, state and LG) can't give every teeming Nigerians jobs. It is their sole duty(government) to provide enabling environment and standard infrastructures.
Finally, we must all learn to be as realistic as possible in our disposition to life. We that had almost free education in Nigeria, from basic to college. How do we survived without job? We all have friends, families, course mates, neighbours et al who are in same mess with us. We had siblings and aged parents who are dependent. We got no connection, no money to buy job slots or venture into business. We all can't resorts to cyber crime. What is the way forward? Some of us are pushing through against all odds. Against the difficulty in the country, against all the depression and frustration Nigeria brings to our way on a daily basis, against those who told us we are not doing well, against those who tries to downplay our efforts and against those who tries to make us feel terrible for the life we are currently living.

Life isn't fair to us all.

stephenponti:
Lol my brother na 50-50 the economic situation in Nigerian demands divine wisdom.
If the op has a sponnsor to fall back to 4 years after the masters prog he can go ahead with the masters. If he is An ajikpako he should learn a lucrative skill or venture into other sources of income.
If he secure a good paying job with his current qualification he can still do the masters as he progress in his career.

In fact if i be op i will take advantage of the burning desire to do masters and seek out the admission abroad at least there he stand a good chance to earn better if he gets res permit.

Why i mention Buhari is because here in Nigerian certificate is just formality na who you know. Oya provide Buhari WAEC Results make we see?

You always give a brilliant point. Like I will also follow your advice to see how useful it is

But eh this your last phrase about bubu no be am o

iamGholdaniel:
I never wanted to do masters programme after graduating this year.
But After writing AEM 521(Accounting and production Economics).
I have changed my mind today, I cannot allow my Efforts in this course to go in vain.

It took me 1hr to start solving.

I used one hr writing my name ...... Ogah Nkem daniel


CC: fynestboi

wetin happen, Naso the course hard reach ni? 1 hr to write your name?

This must be seriously serious

OKOATA:
No I am not doing anything for likes, I didn’t even know it would make front page. Educational system in Nigeria is bleeped up and that’s the fact, with all the amount of money wasted in private universities when COVID-19 came how many vaccines did we produce. All we write is exams and nothing to show for it. No practicals nothing. Abeg shift.

The system is faulty not necessarily the teachers. Do you expect them to fund research with their personal money?

An emergency is urgently needed in our educational sector.

stephenponti:
Oga if you have chance to do masters no look back. You will be at advantage over people after the count of years. If you doubt Ask Buhari.

You start your sermon well, but end am badly

Which one be "ask Buhari"

EndBuhariNow:
me without even primary school certificate dey receive higher payslip than what you can't imagine in 5 months in single month... so who is fooling who

interesting

You must be swimming in money then. I hail thee

legendEMT:
What I know is that, I am doing masters

Or better still. what i know is that, I'm doing masters

[quote author= post=104824661]How people can still do this to another human is beyond us.
Even slaughtering chickens and goats we use for our Barbecue dey always do us somehow[/quote]in a saner climes, those mobs will be put behind bars and be prosecuted. What a barbaric act

evil1:
One thing I'm scared of hitting a woman especially my wife.

The moment you start hitting her, it becomes a norm for correction.
I rather leave a troublesome wife than to engage in physical hurt that might end up escalating to something else.
I love peace of mind to the fullest

please don't hit a woman

HRMK:
another feminist!if u blv ur equal to a man,u need no hubby!!

I'm a guy. I believe in equity and equality of both gender. I believe in mutual love, respect and understand. I don't have to seek for a submissive woman. That word submission has elements of slavery, patrichy and abuse.

A man demand for submission and think it is mutually exclusive to him alone.

It is not just about the word "Submission," it is the believe and sense of entitlement that they (Men) alone deserve to be respected and heard

Their own version of love is devoid of mutual respect, love and understand.

Anything that contradicts mutual love, respect and understand as our core values has no place in our marriage.

zombieHUNTER:
Please are you a fulani or Yoruba Muslim?...
I really want to know

What makes you believe the Fulani and Yoruba Muslim are in particular in support of this government?

Zealme:
Na because of this hit make me go buy electric cooker yesterday.......I no dey use hotplate before but now I don get one u can't come give me brain tumor with this fucking inflation

I assume you don't use prepaid metre

HRMK:
THE CREATOR DO NOT MAKE THEM EQUAL!

I pity the woman you'll end up with. Which your creator do not make them equal?
You mean one gender is superior to the other?

Nawa o

Natural disasters are inevitable.

This is huge mehn

DrizzyJeri:
I swear I don't know what to expect come April next year �

we are in the same shoe bro. I'm freaking tired of everything man

Pentagon007:
Yea bro but mehn its been a long way coming for me. I graduated 2017 and have been battling with sch issues. Now, at this moment everything seems to have been through, this issue just came up. This is just a minor something that shouldn't take up to some few hours to settle. Just for me to Give sch my Admission Letter and they forward to NYSC for them to Post my name on the Portal. Mehhnnn.

I quite understand how you feel bro. It's not easy waiting to get mobilised for service since 2017. Though you probably ought to have checked for your name on jamb matriculation list. Having observed that your name isn't on the matriculation list. You would have proceed printing the jamb admission letter and result slip. This would have made it seamlessly possible and easier to join this prestent Batch B stream 2 doing her registration

Be strong bro. You'll definitely join the next coming batch. God knows the best for the delay

dobnina:
This scammer is still a learner.
Please upgrade your skills.

Who do us this thing for this country kwan

Everybody just dey so greedy and gullible

I just tire for this country

Lostchild:
One thing you should understand is that most women always take advantage of tender and quiet men. As long as the man keep enduring them, they will keep abusing the man and make his life living hell.

As a gentle person, I nearly slap a pregnant woman, if not the fact that I had to control and restrain myself and walk away from her to cool off. She was a terrible person who sees quarreling and gossiping as her daily meal.

I am not the type that lays hands on someone but some women deserve hot dirty slap to reset their brain

better one

no matter what a woman does. You have no right whatsoever to lay your hand on her. Know this and know peace

Prozico22:
This jss 1 girl make I talk
She dey Bleep

Everything na bleep for your village

No go sleep for one place. Come nairaland dey shout bleep bleep bleep. Ode

GOFRONT:
Same ass wey one guy the rough handle anyhow yen yen yen........Na the same ass she dey warn cross ontop......

Bbnaija......A show of shame..

in a saner climes, that nonentity is in trouble if she presses charges

So many Nigerians guys are guilty of this mess. Some will even went as far as body shaming ladies

Though they dey look face sha

Some of them had met their match and being kept where they rightfully belong

ityP:
Truly. I really want either PDP or APC to bring up a Christian southerner that is hardhearted. Person like Wike or the Christian equivalent of El-Rufai

I swear o bro. That El-rufai christian version will be so nice. Wike isn't bad either. But I'll prefer El-rufai Christian version to him.

ityP:
Very stupid people. Same Twitter that their supporters called Jonathan a pig. Many heaped insults on the poor man. Lies and propaganda was spread by this same persons in this administration but their turn has reached and they are angry. I blame Jonathan. The dude was a pussy. If he had remembered that he is the president and given us hot hot, this mistake of a government would never had assume office. The next southern President must follow the manual of this administration; give it to us hot hot. I doubt Osinbajo can do that. Dude seems soft like Jonathan. We don't want a weakling. I would have solidly campaigned for Tinubu but that idiot is Malo man and cannot be trusted

Lol
Tinubu has the trait of giving Nigerians hot hot. But he's not to be trusted

ezewealth:
Buhari is in london for medical treatment, tinubu is in London for medical treatment, our medical doctors are underpaid and our facilities is in sorry state
Buhari is a our sitting president,
Tinubu is the next president probably,
They got huge fans in Nigeria.
My God!!, this the country I found myself, how I wish someone can help to secure a job in USA or Canada, I am ready to abandon my bizness here without batting an eye!!, Things I encounter in this country daily is not good for my mental health. I am too sane to be insane!!!

Your own better, at least you get business wey you dey do. Many of us have nothing doing o.

Na God hand we dey

ruggedtimi:
jobless and you get fiance

As in eh. I wonder myself

Maybe the guy dey look him age as criteria to marry. He no look him pocket

AreaGovo:
Greetings to you all. Let's have a small family meeting.

Based on my course of study, I have mapped out plans and strategies (blueprint) on setting up my firm where I'll do my private practice once I'm stable economically. By God's grace, in the future, I see government and even private firms coming to seek my services as a technocrat cum consultant in that field. But my woman (fiancée) is saying those who didn't serve and receive NYSC discharged are not regarded as graduates even though they've exemption letter citing discrimination and even example coming from her uncle of how people were disqualified from appointment for not having NYSC discharged. Please how true is that submission of hers? Does such discrimination actually exist in government and private organizations?

Below are my reasons for not desiring to serve. First, I'm above 30. Second, not really freak about the NYSC of thing. Third, at the moment, I'm unemployed but applicant. Fourth, I don't want to waste another one year when I should be hunting "cool cash" instead of 33k. Fifth, even if I want to start going back to do all those age forgery stuff and the rest, like I said, a jobless/applicant like me can't boast of 70k (or even more) to start running all those stuff but she's hell bent I serve. Is NYSC really such a big deal?

What advice do you have to offer? I'll appreciate.

You don't have something tangible doing for now but you already got yourself a fiancee? My only concern is, if you truly know what you are doing.

As for your question, since you ain't really occupied for now. Why not look for fund to influence your service to your state of choice? Possibly your state of resistance. With that, you can continue with whatsoever plan you had concerning your career and at the same time earn something little (33k)

You can consider taking exit out of camp after registration. If you know you can't stay put in a particular spot for 3weeks or you got something tangible to do those period.

Your fiancee and his uncle can't be dumb at the same time. Opportunity might show up unexpectedly from anywhere. You need a discharge certificate or excemption cert to secure a government job and perhaps some private jobs

You don't need it if you plan to stand on your own though. Following the route or guideline i gave earlier. I don't consider it a waste of time for you. You can use a stone to kill more than a bird if you know what you're doing.

Why not give it a shot!

Bizibi:
they don't connive with white guys,the blacks are the ones doing it.... Even in Nigeria companies they play politics against each other infact I heard about one incident in a company in Abuja this week.

There was a company in bayelsa that almost folded up because the employees were stealing money.when the employer brought in auditors to audit the accounts,some of them sent in their resignation letters and left immediately.

The chaiman partnered with some expatriates to manage the company for him.

That's interesting. Blacks with their gullible mindset

urchcoded:
I have a 30k job already from playing the piano in a church. I plan to look for any job especially a teaching job, while I buy a laptop and learn data science full time

That's cool. Keep pushing bro