₦airaland Forum

Mrnairalandd:
Why are the likes of Davido, Banky W, Mariam OAP and more Celebrities who have Americans and British passports had to come to Nigeria before making it in Life? Why can’t they stay in USA or UK to make with their passports?

Most of the children born in UK or USA struggle to get a job too. They sometimes end up in Tesco, Walmart, Asda just like Shoprite in Nigeria

Trust me, it doesn’t worth it if you have a job or business in Nigeria.

Do you know how many Nigeria living in UK and USA? They are over 5million. Now, look at this, how many of that 5million do you see in Nigeria? Few! Only those few are the ones who are able to make it. The rest 4.9million are just struggling like people in Nigeria but they won’t tell you.

If those 5million Nigerians make it in USA/UK, trust me, all of them would be heading to Nigeria tomorrow. Lagos Airport ll be fully packed with Nigerians coming home to enjoy their success.

you know those celebrities, their service is needed down here. Although left to me i need an averagely good job here then I'm good to go. I don't consider travelling to those countries as a do or die affair.

What i just observed is that people go there for a better life. You can do more than s job and aqcuire much money than when they're in Nigeria

They believed having a child there is better than Nigeria considering the goodies that comes after the child till he/she is grown. Such child is pretty sure of quality education, healthcare, secured future and many other. There's unemployment benefits over there, but we don't have it down here. During the covid we saw what their government over there did for her citizens which doesn't exist down here.

People believe there's orderliness and things are working well over there compare to Nigeria

They assume why can't they go to a place where things are in order and working absolutely well?

caandi:
My dear, so far you’re pretty, they will come for you. Actually from camp, the general camp commandant was asking me out, soldiers followed me wherever I went, he bought food for me and promised me a good job at the capital city of kogi that’s lokoja but I was scared, actually I have much in meeting men of importance but I’m a scaredy cat and don’t have mind to extort money from men o,so back to these politicians, my PPA boss thatmade me know this one, the man comes home once a year to gift food and money to his hometown people and also extends his hands to serving coppers. As a matter of fact.. he built houses for coppers to lodge in for free. He’s just a show off I guess...so I just meet them and voila! They get attracted to me and ask me out!!

Interesting.
Probably you don't have friends those period that you can confide on. I know at times taking decisions solely on your own is somewhat hard to come by. Especially these kind of decision of dating those that matters in the society.

If you were my friend then. And i know you don't have a job waiting for you at home after service. I mean a good job. I will advise you to go ahead with it. But be very careful. And make sure you achieve what you want from him which is a good job. He can even help your friend sef if the need arises.

This country is upside down o babe. People got jobs through different routes. You were so lucky to have met with those calibre of people seriously. But you were neive to utilized the opportunity.

I know you will still meet, please don't jeopardise that chances again. Let your beauty paved way for you. That doesn't mean you are into prostitution. Absolutely no. Even some guys that are very cute and handsome do get luck. Talkmore of ladies.

angelfallz:
Men who bleach their skin have No sense of purpose.
A man that has a sense purpose would not waste his time bleaching, rather he would be working to better himself.

I said it today, I would say it again. I pity men who think looking handsome would take them anywhere. Its not only bleaching, look at the way some men pose while taking pictures, they would be pouting like women, ozo those it a lot.

I wouldn't be surprised if some men actually rub lipstick on their lips, so that their lips would look red or pink.

We are living in a generation of confused men.

Lastly, Women who bleach, have inferiority complex

some girls dey fall for handsome and cute guys o

FutureIsFemale:
Any man that still rapes or support rape is a he-goat.

how on earth will someone be a rapist and at the same time justify rape?

Such kinda person do not deserve the oxygen we breathe in together

kenzysmith:
am not bleaching o but who gave u the power to chose who u liked? Who like u too. Am natural fair but that ur last line get me piss ote

Lol

Na crime say we fair or wetin

Mrnairalandd:
Nothing in US or UK unless you r a really poor in Nigeria.

If you have a job in Nigeria that fetch you around N110,000 per month with future prospect, don’t go to UK or anywhere cos you might regret it like most Nigerians who are just living from hands to their mouth

Like are you for real?

Not even having a dual citizenship for your future kids?

[quote author=AgentGoat post=104645008]You, your friend and the NGO are maddd.[quote]

What of the FG?

caandi:
Yes at 19!
Got into school at 15!
Finished service at 20!
And the honorable was an efulefu, he wasn’t so connected. The two men were different parties, hence enemies

how were you meeting these politicians? I'm presently serving and i wish to meet these politicians. I need a good job seriously

Lisaint:
One question sir
Did you use medical report or what ?

When you get to ogun state,
Are you the one that find PPA yourself or you got one from nysc ogun?

Yes I used medical report.

Yes i went with a request letter and I was posted to the place

Lisaint:
Please house

I’m currently deployed to Kaduna camp from Lagos State
for orientation

But i wish to redeploy to Abuja Or Ogun state base on Insecurity!


Will they approve my redeployment?
Which of the state will you advise me to go too?


Abuja
Or
Ogun?

Ogun state is much easier

I got Ogun state redeployment on a plater of Gold

mzBEAM:
Move to Lagos asap.


How can somebody be earning $17 per month nitori olorun. A beggar in South West earn more than that.

less than $15

crackhaus:
I can see that you just feel like typing.

You be comedian i swear

crackhaus:
What I want is irrelevant, I'm just telling the gentleman what the west calls people like him.

Unless what he intends to do is take up his political appointment in countries like China, Russia, or North Korea, where they don't give a fvck about what the west thinks.

Who tell you Buhari government gave the fvck about what the West think or say?

You see Buhari, OBJ and some military head of state don't give a fvck about the West o

crackhaus:
There's a name for that type of government in western philosophy.

DICTATORSHIP.

But good luck anyway.

You want freedom of nonsense?

Iamdbull:
I try to take responsibility for everything that happens to me. On the issue of the guy am trying to evacuate I might be the problem.

I am a very TIMID person and a people pleaser someone that finds it hard to dominate people and doesn't know how to say no or hurt people's feeling. I am always trying to avoid any form of confrontation. I always feel it's normal because am shy and an introvert but I just realized this is a menace I really have to curb if I want to go far in life.

This timidity and lack of confidence to dominate people is one of the things affecting my music career, I always find it hard to be in control when I want to create a song and at the end of the day the sound engineers do what they like for me. I can't handle people not liking me am a NICE GUY. And if am not careful I won't be able to control my wife and my home.

I have decided to use this as an opportunity to change for good and Mark my territory on people. I will go back to that house and try to show him am the owner of the place and he has to play by my rules.

The problem now is all these things are sweet to say but not easy to put into action that's why I opened this thread, PLEASE HOW CAN I STOP BEING A PEOPLE PLEASER?

The whole attributes you made mentioned was all i possessed

A friend usually say and i quote "I know you can't stop pleasing people around you. Perhaps, you can only help reduce it"

Some humans tend to take advantage of people who exhibited such kinda trait

Lest i forgot, the guy smokes right under your roof. Why not try get close to him. Make him your friend. Let him be outrightly free with you. Talk to him. Invite him to your church. Let him meet with your pastor. Who knows, God could use through you to make him turn a New leave

Btw, marry a woman you love and truly love you back in return. Your wife is an Adult just as you are, you can't control her like a TV set

You are free like a bird to control your kids, lol

isaacsegun:
Nigerians and hypocrisy are like bread and butter. Must you force your perception on others? If you are in a position your own tyranny will worst than Buhari. Because some like to watch bbn while you didn't like it, they are now a fool? God will heel you!

he's actually wrong calling them fools

But the message he conveyed was somewhat right

Let us all get our pvc. Not everybody have the luxury to travel out of the country. This is the only country we have. Let's make it better with our vote

lekonso:
The thing is when you lack something, that particular thing looks the most valuable to you on the earth. But when you now have an abundance of it, it is then you know that it is not the most valuable thing.

You said it all bro

pacespot:
If Nigeria is a country that works where people work hard for every penny they make, this kind of lady will get low patronage from men. But as long as we have some people in this country who are making stealing money at the expense of others, then lavish their ill-gotten wealth on women, this will continue to encourage women like this and make it look like the hardworking men are not doing anything.

Show me one business man that started his business from the scratch and built it up only to start lavishing his fortunes on women, or an employee with a multinational coy working day in and day out but will only choose to spend his salary on prostitutes, definitely you can't find such people. When people are productively engaged, they will be selective and prudent in what they spend their money on. But a politician getting rich through an illicit money can afford to buy mansion and cars for his mistress.

What are you driving at Now?

Are you saying spending on a fiancee, wife are wasted efforts? Like it's a waste of resources? Come down to our level biko

debbydams:
Lol,my Immediate younger brother can't cook anything we'v tired all possible best to teach him its really not working,3 days ago he made Eba, even the gods will reject it, before he made it he actually called my mom to teach him how to make Eba..wonder how he will cope when he traveled for his nysc

Are you kidding me? A grown up guy in higher institution?

This must be nollywood

VillagePipu:
It's his house, his perogative. He doesn't need to provide you or anyone with reason for sending him out.

Then he shouldn't come to the public seeking for advice when he can just send him packing. Or you think the public will just dish out advice to him without having a clearer picture of what's on ground?

Drella:
All the people I know,I only know them on the surface.They are not people I can call friends nor bank upon.

Being an ambivert is my goal.But then,it scares the shii out of me each time I try...I envy extroverts!

it's not easy bro

May God see us through

Chrsbenn:
Didn't you see where I said I glad accommodated him for a month but couldn't cope again? I hate bad mouthing people that's why I can't say anything about him here so I said he's been chased away from 5 different places just so you can have an idea of who we are talking about here

This is not an excuse guy.

If you can't say the reason behind your actions towards the guy to leave, then be rest assured that you will definitely have to say it to his people.

Be specific with what he has done wrong to avoid painting you bad.

This has nothing to do with bad mouthing anyone.

CharisEleos:
Then let him spill it all out
Abi which one is keeping us in suspense? .

Good morning.

if he can't say specifically what the guy has done or doing wrong in his house, then there's no other point he wants to send him out other than his past

Chrisbenn:
Didn't you read where I said he has been chased from 5 different places or do you want me to start explaining to you the kind of person dey keep chasing from different places or the kind of person people warn you not to accommodate

What exactly has he done wrong to you within the period he has stayed with you? Though he might be a bad person as you said. But don't you think you could make him turn a New leave?

Is there something wrong he has done or doing in your house that you want him exit?

Or you just want him to leave according to the agreement his father had with you?

Unlettered:
With osinbajo as presidential candidate, i guess it will only be fair to take el rufai As his running mate.

These re two focused people that i believe regardless of how people view them will make a huge impact to the direction of this country. Age is on their side and they have qualities of administrators. Nigerians dont need anyone that doesnt have political will like tinubu or atiku who both re just going to be in that position for revenge or control.

Fyi: Only nigrrians should accept my opinion or give a different opinion. Let me not catch any ipobian or oduduwar national or even UAR member qouting me. Because i’ll tribalise your ancestors no time

God bless nigeria and its people

Absolutely

I will prefer both as president and vice truly

They are very sound

Fahdiga:
Just like Lai Muhammed calling me a liar

why you no get sense?

Gokoyer0:
Life isn't a race. When your time comes, you shall shine.

sure life isn't a race. Nonetheless, you can't compare ladies life to guys

It's a normal thing for ladies within your age group to get married to guys way older than you and possibly doing pretty fine

Nobody is competing with them. It's nature.

1x2x3:
Money attracts money. Be rich or at least come from a rich family before you can find a wealthy man to marry........ Onyi22 who's your daddy?

You are right though

But some ladies that are from poor homes are sometimes lucky to marry rich guys o

You can never compare ladies life to guys

We just graduated last year o. 3 of my female course mates are married now. 1 is out of Nigeria. The other base in ikoyi doing pretty well. Though the third got married to an average guy.

We the guys never even know our left from right sef in terms of good job or businesses

SILVERLINES:
what can she do cos she is so desperate to serve

DM me. I have the right plug

SILVERLINES:
Please just asking this question for a friend, she was 30years and some months (not yet 31) when she graduated. Please can she be mobilized for NYSC or will they put her on exemption?

She will automatically be placed on exemption

Though she can influence it, if she has the right plug and money

Abba114:
i start nysc on january 19,2021 when will i finish cuz im tired is it dec2021 or jan2022

December 2021

GracefulBunmi:
the jobs available are not for the depressed. Okay!

I am not depressed. Can you give me the job?