₦airaland Forum

talented321:
He said so because she was a woman'' there is a different beween man and woman'' no matter how u do or make research

please what is the difference between man and woman? Did bible frown at adultery for only men or women? What of fornication? Was it only for Men or women?

If that man truly committed that offence, that woman should divorce him with serious fine. She had evidence for his promiscuity and abortion committed. He will dearly pay for it. I am a man but i don't support anything just to favour my gender. God forbid.

That man don't deserve a woman in his life.

xavuv:
Madam, first confront your husband with your evidence just to listen to what he has to say.

If you punish your husband, then you also punished yourself. Just move on

if table should turn tomorrow, would you say the same thing to the man to move on??

Daisy101

Sue your husband with evidence of infidelity and abortion. He will definitely pay for it and lose the custody of your kids.

Mightyguy:
show us the way boss

he should show you the way to fraud? The one you have been doing isn't enough for you right?

VinnyBaba:
Yes in some Cases! 😕

Some People are destined to be Poor or to live Average lives!

Everyone CANNOT be Rich.

But Personally, If you fall in that Category, I believe you can Challenge Destiny!🤔🙂

Like the way Jacob wrestled the Angel in the Bible! It's like his Life changed after that Moment.

I always use that Biblical Story as Evidence that Man can CHALLENGE Destiny. ☺️🙂

you also believe some people are destiny to be rich?

VinnyBaba:
He believes in DESTINY.

That Some are born to be Rich, while others Poor.🙂

do you believe it?

SamuelLoch:
1. By birth
2. Acquired skillset/by work/business/career/
3. By marriage

I could have added fraud, but let's just take it out of the list

I personally know someone who escaped poverty through marriage. She was from a poor home but educated. She met a man who took her to Canada after marriage. She's blessed with 2 lovely kids. Her family in Nigeria are doing pretty fine now

MrBroke:
The shit is pre programmed. Nothing anyone can do.

I don't understand you

BoldBrainz:
Oshoala does not have bress.. .

She's as flat chested as Bola Tinubu.

I'm glad you've learnt your lesson

BoldBrainz:
You get luck say you no dey near me. Na headbutt I for use reset your brain.

learn your lesson and move on. You don't make fun or catch cruise with everything. Not even someone's private life. Catching cruise with a lady body. Very wrong. I hope you learn your lesson though

BoldBrainz:
Young man, don't come under my mention and seek to display your supposed sense of enlightenment. Some of you have the habit of creating issues where there should be none.

I was having a pleasant cruise session with one or two other users just for the laughs and you're in no place to school me on the concept of body shaming. I hold and reserve the exclusive right to clearly spell out observations as I darn well please. When a man is short or bald, people never hesitate to point out those features. So do not, in your foggy delusions of self-awareness, seek to put limits on my willingness to exercise my conversational liberties with your "woke" nonsense.

Oshoala has no bress and I'll repeat that statement anytime and anywhere it bloody suits me. Take this your petty sentimental sermon elsewhere, I'm in no mood to accommodate your dramatical nuances!

Take to correction please. Don't catch cruise with someone private life. The person might not see it the way you view it. We love her for who she is

enemyofprogress:
I've already spoiled her bottom plate

I will not be surprised if you are not more than 18

BoldBrainz:
We were not discussing anybody's personal acquaintances here, but athletes. Please stick to the subject matter.

That's how you Nigerians will digress from issues with unnecessary instances, before you know it, the conversation would become personal and people will begin trading insults.

you shouldn't raise the issue from on set. You're somewhat body shaming them. You probably might not had the intention to body shame them but do you consider how they'd feel seeing your comments? Someone scored a goal for her country and celebrated it but all you could see was her body.

I am not making comparism but to let you know that i love her. I love model girls. There are guys who want them skinny. That doesn't mean i should see busty or chubby ladies as weird

BoldBrainz:
Abeg it is common. Lot of female footballers have bress. Make I show you pictures ?

my female friend isn't footballer nor athletes. These girls has boobs more than her. She's happily married with 3 lovely kids.

MESS11AH:
Am talking about exterior ugliness.

Those girls are beautiful on the inside. They are a good human being.

some guys love slim girls like model shape. I mean very slim girls. While some prefer bursty and somewhat chubby. It's a choice. Successful men will fight to have them as a wife

BoldBrainz:
Ehe?!
Have you not seen athletes with boobs before ? Did you not like the sight of it?

It is not common. Outside sport. Some guys prefer slim girls. Like model shape. While some prefer bursty and fat. It's a choice.

BoldBrainz:
Oshoala get mind remove jersey .

She don go spoil beautiful goal with display of small bress.

do you expect an athlete to be bursty?

MESS11AH:
Bro, let's learn to call a spade, a spade. Those girls ugly no be small.

It doesn't mean I don't like them.

Oshoola Ajibade isn't ugly

robosky02:
Do Nigeria tops this group

I think so. With goals different

lexy2014:
Offpoint. You haven't answered the questions.

1. Can you produce for me where you say I "claim they raise the best kids"?

2. What reality are you talking about?

3. Who raises a child without love?

4. How does a parent function as a parent devoid of love?

5. How is a child's mental capacity, future and health catered for without love from the parents?

6. What do you think keeps a home together?

off point


You contradict yourself endlessly trying to be a questionnaire

Love will not pay your bills
Hunger doesn't recognise love nor hatred
Illness is a respecter of no one
Christ fed thousands of people with bread and fishes not only with love

Go to correctional centres across the 36 states and FCT and show me 1 single child from rich home

Take a walk in your community and show me one single rich amongst those Yahoo guys walking elmlessly with short knicker and phone

Take a walk on the high way and show me 1 single out of school children hawking on the street or begging for aims that belongs to a rich man

Take a walk to public school around and tell me which rich man children you will find there.

I know my community more than you. Likewise you know yours more than i. These children had become nuisance as a result of poverty.

The girl follow men to feed and buy clothes. The boys are tools, errand boys to those Yahoo guys

Continue with your questionnaire. I won't respond to you anymore

akanbiaa:
Many got married with far less than 60k mostly and they are better off today, so it depends on conviction and mindset if you believe you can't then you can't and if you believe you can then you can and the positive is better than negative mindset.

why is Nigeria the capital of poverty and unemployment?

lexy2014:
Did I tell you that money isn't important in life?

What has an angry man and a hungry have to do raising a child?

Is the child now the hungry and angry man?

You personally know the kids. Do you live with them in their house that you now conclude that it is because of poverty that they are wayward?

Did you witness poverty making them wayward?

Which research did you do to have arrived at the conclusion that "You can never have a good children with poverty"?

How many children have you raised that made you say that "If you think you can raise a responsible kids with poverty then you must be joking"?

Are you saying that there are no kids from rich homes that are wayward?

When yahoo boys were sending kids message, where were their parents?

Go to correctional centres across the 36 states and FCT. 95% are raised from poor home. The rate of Yahoo Yahoo is as a result of poverty. Parents now encourage their children into cyber fraud. Before you see one single rich man child useless or wayward then millions of poor men children are already lost. An hungry child can easily be influenced. You can never raise a responsible kids without money. Stop blabbing

lexy2014:
It isn't sarcasm. It's not just a fact, it's the truth. Raising a family goes just beyond all these expectations u have. Whether u like it or not, many kids will be raised in poor homes where they don't have everything. What do you think keeps those families going?

Children being wayward isn't just a function of finances. It is a function of good values. A parent being poor does not necessarily mean he or she can't impart good values in their child.

So guy put away all these your idealistic theories. Life is more dynamic than that especially for parents/families

money is very important in life. An hungry man is an angry man. I personally know some kids that has become wayward as a result of poverty. Their parents are extremely poor. You can never be strict on your kids when you couldn't provide them ordinary food. These children are sent home from public school as a result of debt. They wear tattered clothes. The first daughter is 17 and already sleeping around to fend for herself. The boys walk shamelessly on the street begging for food. You can never have a good children with poverty. Hunger can make adult misbehave not to talk of children. An hungry child will not be focus in school. An hungry child can steal. Yahoo boys now send these children errands during school hours just because of little change they'd get to feed. I know someone who lost his child due to poverty. He couldn't afford taking the child to hospital.

If you think you can raise a responsible kids with poverty then you must be joking.

akanbiaa:
Not opposing or supporting you, just want to get your marriage experience that made you have that conviction.

Nigeria poverty level is a clear case study. Majority followed your mindset getting married with 60k monthly income, and they all end up being worst

It can't feed you a day

TenaciousOrphan:
My Visa Interview Transcripts (Caveat Long Read) Sorry for posting it now, I wanted to see how my visa looks like first. Accept my apology.

I started applying to schools since 2019 but I promised myself that I won’t go to the embassy until I get full funding. I have been making application mistakes since that time until I discovered what I was doing wrong.
So I applied in 2019, 2021 but was not successful. In 2022 applications I applied to 11 Schools and got 5 Fully Funded PhD Admissions.
My Interview Profile and Transcripts is below:
NB: This white VO on earpiece was denying plenty people, so I was always pretending to use the toilet. 3 times I left the queue but was still sent back by the CGI official.
Profile:
School: Florida State University
Program: PhD in Sociology
Funding: Fully Funded ($52, 211)
Interview Location: Lagos
Interview Date: July 7th 2023.
Interviewed by: The dreaded VO on earpiece.
First Time.
Status: Visa Approved
VO: He signal me to come forward.
Me: Good Morning but he didn’t respond.
VO: Where do you work and what do you currently do?
Me: I work at xyz University as a Research and Administrative Assistant and my duties includes…VO cuts in
VO: Are you married?
Me: Yes, with a son.
VO: Why are you applying alone without your family?
Me: My wife is currently busy at her work place and her annual leave was not granted.
VO: So are you saying you will be staying in the US for 5 to 6years without your family? It is better you guys go together for this period of your study, are you processing hers already? -set up question 1.
Me: My wife wanted to accompany me to settle down and return to resume her work but her annual leave was not approved…..because she’s currently very busy in her place of work.
VO: So you mean they will never come to the US throughout your program?
Me: She will visit when she is free at her work place. She also needs to develop her career too as I am doing mine. I will also be visiting when I have the time.
VO. Since you are going for a PhD, will it not make sense to get a job in the US after your graduation? Because you will earn more money in the US and so many universities will be looking for your service. - set up question 2.
Me: That will not be possible because I am signing a bond with my University in Nigeria and if I disappoint on that bond, they will report me to all the universities in Nigeria and the school I am attending in the US. And this will seriously affect my career. So even though it would have been better it’s not possible.
VO: Where do you work again and what do you do?
Me: I work as a Research and Administrative Assistant at XYZ university. At this point he checked my Linked profile and search google to confirm. I saw his computer reflection in his glass window.
VO: How many schools did you apply to?
Me: 11 schools and 5 gave me fully funded PhD admissions
VO: I will be approving your visa.
Me: Thank you and I did not hear any other thing he said. I just left the hall very fast. Though I later came back because the applicant before me mistakenly packed my documents.

I left the embassy after giving out some free Will gifts to the few beggars I saw on the way. When I got to my hotel I started playing a song by Edna Ogholi titled: ‘Okeoghene Omai woma’ in my language; which when translated means “God time is the best” and shared tears of joy.
Thanks a million to those who have contributed to my success in this Journey. Especially Mr
Firebreeze (a candle loses nothing by lighting another), Fairheart, Faith-my sister that got her Visa at the 11th time of asking amongst others. I am honored.

congratulations bro.

Please do you mind sharing what you've been doing wrongly and how you get back on track. Let's learn from you. Thanks

I don tire

talented321:
I don't think so' because 90% women are always shy to toast men, but i can toast up 10 girls a day and bleep like 5 or more' what about those men who bleep olosho' men get more advantage people just want to ruin their life.

you won't understand.

talented321:
Those men & women who dey rape na kpekus/penis una no dey see bleep or una just find pleasure in causing others pain and trauma.
Because kpekus full everywhere and is very cheap,

men are cheaper and easier to get than women

DEBJOCH1:
I THOUGHT AS MUCH, WANTED TO MAKE A COMMENT BUT I SAID LET ME HOLD MY PEACE FIRST. ANY BODY WHO FINISHED HIS NYSC AND SAID HE/SHE IS INBETWEEN JOB OR HAS NO JOB, IS NOTHING BUT A DAM LAZY BUDY. HOW WILL YOU SPEND 4 YEARS IN SCHOOL, SERVED IN ANOTHER STATE FOR ONE YEAR AND AFTER ALL SAID AND DONE, YOU WILL OUT COMFORTABLY TO SAY U DONT HAVE ANYTHING DOING?, ABI VILAGE PEOPLE DE FOLLOW YOU?.

I HATE LAZY PEOPLE BEING AROUND ME, THERE IS NO HOW YOU WILL SAY YOU DONT HAVE A LAND TO TILL AND PLANT, GET SMALL CAGE START BROILER FARMING EVEN IF IT TAKES U STARTING WITH 50 BROILERS, IF YOU CANT DO THAT, GO AROUND GET WOODS FROM THE BUSH BUILD A SMALL WODEN PEN, START WITH A PIG. LET'S ASUME YOU DONT STAY IN A RURAL AREA, YOU CAN LOOK FOR A FACTORY JOB AROUND, PUT PRIDE ASIDE LOOK FOR SOME ONE WHO WILL BUY YOU A BIKE OR A KEKE, THEN LET'S FURTHER ASSUME YOU STAY IN A BIGGER CITY LIKE LAGOS, ONITSHA KANO, ABA ETC. SINCE YOU ARE EDUCATED YOU CAN LOOK FOR A BIGGER MARKET AROUND, GO AROUND MEET PEOPLE CLITCH WITH THEM, YOU CAN BE HUSTLING AROUND LOOKING FOR CUSTOMERS FOR THE SHOPS AND GET YOUR OWN CUT.

INFACT, THE ABOVE GUY SHOULD PERMIT ME TO CALL HIM CHIEF IN-COMMAND OF ALL LAZY PEOPLE PEOPLE IN NIGERIA.

I have done all that you mentioned. Life is always hard for someone who has no one to run to. I reared local fowl, do small mini farm behind my house. I am currently teaching with 20k salary. I graduated with 2.1 but i don't look down on any job. I am planning going into cassava farm. I have large acres of land available but i don't have money to get the cassava stick and pay some labourers to support me since its a large farm I'm considering. I don't have anything to my name beyond my mobile phone and certificate. This is my reality.

Stormisova:
Nothing like middle class for this country.. If you're not a politician or Yahoo boy just know that you're poor. Infact you're very poor

I know lots of Yahoo boy that are also poor. They only gp about with their iPhone