₦airaland Forum

HitRun:
Go and report the man who damaged you to your dad...oh, your dad is probably a Nigerian man.

will you tell that to those broke men writing trash about women on nairaland? Or you are blind to see them in numbers?

Nefort:
I am a guy and I like the way you serve Nairaland guys the same treatment they dish out to women. Nice one.

seriously i love seeing ladies dish out what these guys dish to them. It gives me joy

I'm also a guy

KingDash09:
Bros... your entire money wey you get na my weekend flexing money be that

yes i know. We're all Dangote on social media. We get money pass Seun Osewa the owner of nairaland where we engage ourselves

Sureboyy:
I feel you, your words still don't negate what I did say initially

A big chunk of women who are unmarried and past 40 are so miserable.... there's a sense of belonging, self worth and family values that comes with having a family as a woman...they may tend to be happy but majority are not.
I get your drift about married and unhappy which there is also inevitably but the same thing that keeps a married woman going in a marriage is almost the same thing an unmarried 40+ woman long for....let's be frank, there's no perfect marriage and those women in marriage who are hanging by a thread would prefer to keep being in marriage than to come out of it.... simply put, companion is something every woman long for together with security and even the richest woman in the world still want someone they can come back to after work.

Notice also why if a woman want to run for a high position like presidency , it's always imperative to show the idea of your husband backing you even though they may be chaos in the home...have you seen under any Democratic government whereby a female president gets sworn in without having a man by her side that she can tell the world is her spouse?
Lol

one will always long for what he/she doesn't have. Be it marriage or whataview. Don't you think women preferring to stay put in marriage miserably was what their parents, society and African culture sold to them? Don't think these women stay put because they are happy or prefer being referred to as Mrs somebody than having their freedom. These women don't have financial backing hence, they stay put. A woman who can survive solely on her own wouldn't take half of what these women had taken all in the name of marriage. An educated woman know and understand her children could become anything in life as a single parents. The last time i checked, most of the inmates in our correctional centres across the nation aren't raised from a single mother.

My mother for instance will be better as a single mother than what marriage has turned her to today all in the name of Mrs somebody. Even she herself said it. Although marriage favour some women greatly. I know a lady from a poor home. She's educated and well mannered. Marriage took her from one remote village in Lagos to Canada. She has 3 beautiful Canadian kids now and live happily with her husband. She's one of the few ones marriage really favour

I personally know lots of women are miserable in their marriage and they are willing to leave but nothing as back up. I have them in my neighbourhood. Imagine these women are doing fine or has siblings doing pretty fine, some would have left long ago

At bolded, it applies to both gender. A successful man without a woman wouldn't be respected in the society likewise woman. It's just a cultural thing in Africa. We place so much emphasis on marriage and child bearing.


In summary, married men cheat more in marriage than married women and still get away with it. Why? Because we're Africa. These set of Men wouldn't try such once they leave the shore of Nigeria.

KingDash09:
Women go use you tire

i am not responsible for your poverty bro

Lanre1st:
Is Banky W fornicate with fellow men? Is it not you women, you will act as his wife friend to enter the husband, Evil being.

I'm sure nairaland will cast your news whenever you impregnated by your friend fiance.

is the man not aware that she's his wife friend? Is the man supposed to be found cheating irrespective of who the person is?

KingDash09:
Make God bless you a gold digger as wife amen🙏🏾

your reasoning is wack and shallow. Your pocket make you a man. Is it your wife that will pay her bride price? Is it your wife that will get accommodation? Is it your wife that will feed you and herself? Is it your wife that will pay the children school fees? Will the children bear her name?

I know you're a small boy probably in his 18. You will understand as you grow up from your father and other men in your family

Sureboyy:
There is something called companion...you can't buy that anywhere with your money

Statistics also showed that wealthy women above 40 yrs who are unmarried are mostly miserable...they then tend to buy companion from younger boys (because most older men wouldn't even look at them twice) who just use them for financial stability and run whenever they are tired

Lol

An average Nigerian married women are miserable. Take a research on average married women with a promise to give them a backup, 80% are willing to leave their marriage. They aren't happy in their marriage if you care to know. They stay put because of finance, societal and their kids. Marital status doesn't determine happiness, misery, sad or whataview. You can be single and be happy. You can be married and be sad and miserable

An average Nigerian married women go through alot in the name of marriage

KingDash09:
Bros Na lie oh... who talk that one??!

maybe pray make your wife dey feed you if that's what you wish for your life. As for me and my friends and family. We shall all be responsible to our future wives. Amen

Ajione:
This girl state of mental health about men has been affected.
If men are cheat did men cheat with fellow men.
Capital no but men cheat with woman.
If you want a good man it depends on where you position your self.
Always position your self at the right place so that you will meet a good man and not a man that will put you into depression when you are at the wrong place.

where is the right place? I am a man and i know very few do not cheat. Majority of Nigerians men whether rich or poor cheat, but the moment they leave Nigeria, they dare not cheat. They already know the consequences over there

KingDash09:
This one go use billing kill her husband

it is the man responsibility

Hannaleeyah:
MSc or PHD degree?
Do you mean how to find one now or the application process?

please which is better for future prospects. MSC or PhD?

doneback04:
You are 40th and single and your budget is 4million, and you are thinking of leaving the country,
So at your age you are not even thinking of getting married with the 4million and settled down and have a child who will bear your name in case of anything happens to you,
Rather you are thinking of traveling abroad

I just hope you remember the Old saying that a fool at 40th is a fool forever

he's far better than you and millions of Nigerians living in abject poverty with multiple children. He's doing the right thing not to bring a child into this miserable world. He was born poor, he will not follow his forefathers route. He is educated. He must make amends legally. It's not a crime having a child at 50 provided the child has good foundation that most poor kids lack. You're looking for people to recruit into poverty

emmybobo1:
Where do you live, I’m in the US too. Though I’m doing a PhD

please can i get a scholarship with 4.43 CGPA on a 5.0 scale?

MechanicMike:
bro Nigeria is fully of lazy youth....I only send MOINEY to women!!(no oofencse)

I understand it's your money and you have every right over it

I'm only curious to know why you prefer helping women?

Blaze14k:
Mr tribal bigot we've noticed you

I love how Yoruba are giving you guys hot hot. They aren't northerners that will ignore you guys and speak with their votes

You've met your match.

onuman:
Good Nigerians in majority voted for the Igbo man. And he won. But the INEC boss appointed by APC subverted the ELECTORAL ACT OF 2022 BY DISABLING THE SYTEM FOR ELECTRONIC TRANSMISSION OF VOTE RESULTS OF THE PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION. HE TOOK TO ILLEGAL MANUAL COLLATION WHICH HE NOW FOOLS YOU THAT HE IS ALLOWED TO USE BY THE CONSTITUTION. WITH HIS SERVER OR NO SERVER IN 2019 SUPREME COURT HEARING, THIS MAHMOOD PLAYED ON THE INTELLIGENCE OF JUDGES AND LAWYERS AND GOT AWAY WITH IT BECAUSE OF REASON WE KNOW. HE COMES AROUND AGAIN IN 2023 TO DO THE WORSE - A MOST PRIMITIVE AND BRAZEN MANNER OF RIGGING ELECTION.

you guys are comedian. Which good Nigerians voted for your Obi. Who told you two southerners contesting for president can become president without winning substantial number of votes up north? Who know Obi in the North? His running mate lost his polling unit and you're here hyperventilating claiming good Nigerians


I guess Nigeria in your own definition start and end in the 17 southern states right?

Chetas81:
you must be a slave of the present day or the future 😜✍️

you need slap abi?

Chiefpriestt:
Take easy boy, Peter Obi is not the cause of your frustrations. Tighten your belt very well in defending Tinubu because the journey ahead is a rough one for you his praise singers. $is now 815 and pounds over 1k but you lots can't see the handwriting on the wall

My own is must Obi have hand in every pie? He was once a presidential candidate, he should be cautious of what he post on social media. Especially what hasn't been officially confirmed. He should focus on his tribunal since he believe he can unseat the sitting president

Nazgul:
The man is just worried that if you get married while in school, childbirth and other family issues might hinder you from concentrating on your studies, so to him it's going to be like a waste of his precious money. Cos what's the point of spending money to sponsor someone who might end up having 2 or more extra years? What kind of result would you come out with at the end of the day?

If you really want to get married and still go to school, you can meet him and iron out things with him. Promise him that you'll maintain a CGPA of not less than 3.5 per academic session. That if you fall below that, he can withdraw he's sponsorship. If he sees your determination, he'll go ahead and sponsor you.

The potential husband in question is willing to see her through school after marriage but she isn't sure about it. You understand how men do promise heaven and earth but hardly fulfil it.

[quote author=Sa ;Dvedday2 post=123990331]See this one, people are thinking of important things, you are thinking of how to waste ur resources on a 9ja girl.

I just dey sorry for you![/quote]Sadist spotted

I super love Kumuyi as a man of God

Honest man

chidiokay:
A lot of the comments are just fixated on the "INCREASE" no one did a mental calculation of 114% effect.

If you are earning 30k before and your boss calls you to increase your salary by 114% he just blow breeze on your wound nii

114% of 30,000 is just 34,200 can any of pray for that kind increment.

Although News like these shouldnt be coming at a time you are telling Nigerians to tighten there belt but i guess RMAFC just had to fulfill the constitution make e no be like say dem no do anything after 16yrs

That's #64,200. I hope they did same 114% QUICK for the civil servants. And provide other coshon effect for the masses

patoski39:
except u re part of the ruling class.
U should pray the court case goes 2 Obi favor

I am a poor Nigerian but i don't decieve myself like you lots. Court case to favour a third place holder?

LikeAking:
U can't compare any private uni in Naija to UniBen.

Besides stop encouraging people to attend p uni...

I will choose Covenant university over uniben or any other federal university

Not even UI nor Unilag

patoski39:
Peter obi is far better than tinubu.

your opinion

crossfm:
Hehehe .

As for minimum wage, workers must wait and committee's must be constituted, which in turn will take months or even year's before the 5k will be added,but it took the speed of light for their own increments to happen.

I don't blame our politicians at all,it's the common Nigerians I blame. Instead of tackling our common enemies we are busy talking about religion,tribe and defending our politicians.

The politicians know our mumu spot. Just the mention that Christians or Muslims are taking over and see action.

all those politicians na the same guy. If you think one person is better than the other then you're joking. Those politicians no be am abeg

vickydevoka:
Lol. Ask your parents, how long they dated. Besides I can't the person I'm dating currently. Any relationship way pass 6 months na fûcking relationship and hardly lead to marriage. When a guy is ready to marry he knows. Besides you can save up if you are into relationship in Nigeria. You are just waiting for an opportunity to get the girl pregnant

My cousin dated his wife for 5 years before marriage. People dated for many years and they still get married. People dated for months and they still get married

ForG:
Please can anyone help with where I can find a guarantor for passport in Lagos? Alausa, etc.

you don't have anyone among all your contact that could help as a guarantor?

FahBuLous:
OP, you fall my hands over, why u no arrange some guys make them beat nonsense commut for him body?

you will just go to jail for nothing with this your wrong way of resolving issues

vickydevoka:
You girlfriend will soon join the acquaintance

everyone won't be like you sir. Except you don't plan to get married, you must have a serious relationship before marriage