₦airaland Forum

Reminderz:
unless he asks for forgiveness and seek amendment for his ways, such children doesn't usually go far or end well in life, especially if the parents sacrificed everything for the child... it's such a shame to deny your parents in front of those who don't give 2 fvcks about you...

personally i don't believe in karma or parents curse

My neighbour whom we've live together for decades has 3 sons and 1 daughter, the daughter was the eldest. She took 8 years from her immediate younger brother. This lady has been married for 18 years and she has never for once visited her Parents. She doesn't send them money. She doesn't care about her siblings and old parents. Do you know what? Her parents took care of their own parents. Her mother's mother died right in the hand of her mother. Her father brought his mother from the village after the demise of his father, and took care of her until she died. Her parents didn't forsake or abandone their parents but their only daughter did abandoned them. All these while when her grand parents died she never show up for the burial, including her husband. Her mother do call her once in a while to remind her that is it when they died she will come for burial?

I also know parents who abandoned their children from small and those children took care of them when they are grown. This life is just mystery seriously. My experience with these two families and what some people use to say made me not to believe the word KARMA

My view

Cassandraloius:
First of all as a first daughter, you're automatically the mother/second mother of the house, although some siblings don't depend on their first especially when thier parents are financially stable, but a situation whereby the first child is well to do, and sapa is the surname of that family, both the parents and the other siblings will be expecting alot from that first child, whether male/female.




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any child that has money from a poor family become the hero, parents, and well respected above every other child

You automatically earn respect with money. You have the final say in the family even if you are the last born.

Bible wasn't wrong saying, money answereth ALL things

Vinnie2000:
Akpororo is a FOOL.

A Married man that started Plaiting and Dyeing his Hair, and wearing Rugged, skinny Jeans.😕

His Comedy Talents are DEAD currently. He has nothing to Offer in the Entertainment industry and lives on some Peanuts Endorsement. 😒

yes, we know all these happened since he's mocking your Obi. Davido career too will end the very day he mock your Obi including Wiskid too

We hear you

Samogloby:
I don't believe PDP lost 2023 election to APC because of G5 idiots, PDP actually lost the election because of Obi. Anyway, Obi and his people actually help APC to win the election. In as much i like Obi, and I admire him,I can never use my finger to vote him. Since he decided to help APC to continue ruling Nigeria.

LOl

You're right anyway. A common sense ought to have told him that he can't win the presidency. Atiku would have won it truly. He did helped APC to remain in power

Love56743:
Wike didn't make pdp lost it was Peter obi, Assuming Peter obi didn't decamp from pdp Apc could have lost this election it was Peter obi this destroy pdp, wike is somehow overstated, if Peter obi should come back to pdp today and pair with Atiku wike can't do anything..He just been overstated..

how old are you please? Same Atiku and Obi that paired together in 2019?


Will Atiku or Obi stop Wike from giving rivers vote to his choice party?

NewDelhi:
Lol they don catch am.

You keep painting husbands in bad light like they're useless whereas you women are worse. To make matters worse you contribute so little or nothing to the family. At the end of the day, the man dies at a very young age while you women live to your 90s. The fact that women outlive men in this part of the world says alot.

Although both are unique, but you can't compare Mother to father. Most father's may be the bread winner of their families but children will pick their mothers one million times over their father

It is nature. Mothers love are priceless

You see that 9 months pregnancy and childbirth is the PRICE

Concerning the age, even in developed countries women live longer than men. We have more male child mortality than female.


Respect to every woman out there


Btw, happy fathers day to all fathers

Beautiful voice

Beverlyjean:
Are u sure you are in this country.... kwankwaso that left APC since ... then shettima is who then??

LOL

Who's talking about past kwan? Tanbuwa is a small fry where Wike is. You want to defeat someone who's wife had been in the national assembly for decades? You want to defeat someone who's running mate was 2 times governor and national assembly member? You want to defeat someone whom himself was 2 times governor of the most populated state, most economic viable state and 4th in Africa? Don't forget he was once member of national assembly.

This same person had built human resources across the nook and cranny of the country.

Despite Buhari cold attitude towards Tinubu, he did came out victorious.

madridguy:
No man is an Island and no man will have it all. Though i select people i mingle with and there's no way such a man will be inside my list.

Only if he tell you. Women are salt of the nation. You can't live without them

madridguy:
Who is seeking help from you?

Stop seeking help from anyone. Especially married couple.

madridguy:
I am not exploitative its just me. I see men doing so as lesser men i swear.

Then Stop seeking help from people. How can you ask me for help and i discuss it with my beloved wife your business?

Beverlyjean:
Tambuwa would have been vice
Father of drug pushers and not politics...if not that he used stolen lagos funds to bribe and rig his way thru ...remove rigging and bribes...and he will become useless ... father of politics that needs bribe , intimidation and rigging to win elections ...

LOl, Tanbuwa is a small fry beside TINUBU running mate, Elrufai, kwankwaso, Zulum

You don't know more than those PDP power brokers crying up and down that TINUBU shouldn't be allowed to appear on ballot. Tinubu is a known God of politics. Apart from Buhari and Abiola, no politicians dead or alive can match or compete with Tinubu shoulder to shoulder. I'm pretty sure you know that Tinubu will mercilessly floor any candidate come 2027 for his second term?

3 hrs

nabiz:
he will be the next to cry after orji uzo kalu. Their brain is full of opotopoto

But it was Obi and Datti that cried first, before Aisha Yusufu take over

Suspect33:
lol, I used to think that people who said things like this were just hating, but now being in the system myself, it's all now beginning to make sense, Nigeria's education system does very little in the way of impacting knowledge. Just cram, pour and forget.

LOl

Go try am if e easy

You think say you fit cram for empty head

Beverlyjean:
So u think APC would have won over obis as candidate in PDP ?? U are not being honest to yourself .. with Atiku and Tambuwas backing of Obi in PDP... obi would have won more votes in the North

With which running mate? Datti or who? If Tinubu isn't in picture then i can assume Obi might win with the support of Atiku, Tanbuwa and Wike. If Tinubu is on ballot, no politician in this present dispensation can defeat him. Many PDP power brokers try all they could to make sure Buhari pick anyone else aside Tinubu. They pretty know Tinubu will give them real headache. You could imagine how Tinubu could floor other 22 candidate in the presidential election despite Buhari 8 years failed government, naira redesign, poor economy policy, same religion as presidential and vice candidate, insecurity, coupled with internal crisis within APC

Tinubu is a known father of politics

madridguy:
But they provide enabling environment that will bring investors. The US government and other countries are doing that but our own are busy sending them away with their useless and selfish policy.

most of these men has something doing. Just that it can't cater for the family because of too many children. An average Nigerian man needs to get enlightened on the need and important of family planning.

Mrfeel:
I did not mention people here, I mentioned one person , you should also mention me not people

guy rest

You're guilty of what you accused others of.

Beverlyjean:
Wikes greed solely destroyed pdp... pdp said if it will go to the south , then it should be SE , since SW and SS had ruled thru their party..Atiku confirmed that he will step down if the party agreed to zone it to SE.... but wike decline saying that every southerner in the party that indicated interest should contest, knowing that he will use his influence and money to win, that y Obi left for LP and Atiku objected saying , if it dint go to SE ,then it should be open to everyone... wike is the evil person that killed pdp ... obi would have been president now , if not for wike

Obi cannot win the presidential election without the northern backing. Datti is an empty politician up north. South East votes and some states in South south cannot give Obi victory. ATIKU is truly the only man that can give Tinubu a run

Debater:
Please oo
So PDP still exists
The only parties I know are APC and LP
PDP is now a destroyed structure
By the way, Wike is an evil guyy
Will be a shame if his Agbado president doesn't appoint him as something
Sha, God bless us all

PDP came second in the presidential election and won more state governorship election than LP


PDP Ofcourse exist more than LP

milann:
what manner of wife can't for her husband? You must be a lazy woman

LOl

Poor man mentality

Gone are those days women cook or wash

Provided she's married to a rich or comfortable guy. All that can be sorted with cash

ivandragon:
Lol.

Becoming an obsession...

What exactly is her aim or purpose of beating a record recently set by a fellow country woman?

Why the sudden & aggressive drive?

We know Hilda as a Chef. She has been in cooking competitions... what are Dammy's antecedents?

Is Dammy just out to outshine her fellow country woman or is it a case of using this to 'show' herself.

If Dammy feels she must hold the world record for longest cooking hours, what will she do when another person cooks for 200 hours?

Will she continue to 'outcook' all comers? Or is her competitive spirit only activated when a fellow Nigerian is doing well?

She didn't commit a crime. GWR are meant to be broken. The last time i checked, there's no time frame or limit for that

Rayban25:
She didnt apply for the first one.


But when I said so, they tagged me as a hater

it was confirmed and recognised by GWR despite her not registering. They promised to look into it.

A poor person do not have access to Director

madridguy:
You are still not getting the point. If government provide jobs that make everyone to be busy you won't have time climbing your wife all the time. An idle man with bunch of time on his side will always have erection and the result is what we are seeing. Let them provide jobs for both male and female.

government cannot provide job for everyone. It doesn't exist anywhere. Not even in America.

Hassanmaye:
Blood of Zachariah! Are thought such things only happens in the north

we have it in South too. Infact, you can easily find at least one person in a family with 5-6 kids. I have it in my family. My mum sister had 6 children

Poverty can never depart Africa no be swear. We're so backward and myopic.

A poor wretched man with 10 children see himself better than someone with a kid or no kid

Very primitive set of entity

madridguy:
If you must be factual with yourself you will know it is our government that has the whole blame.
Why do you think they're encouraging Almajiri?
A serious government will look into everything the citizens are doing. From A to Z.

government will look into how you always have erection as a poor man right? Government will also help you look into how you're busy looking for male or female child which led to having half a dozen of kids right?

louistearer:
Thanks for this but don't think it's necessary I don't want our parents involved even though she told her mum abt it

at this point, you have no choice than to invite a third party. Not necessarily her/your parents. Perhaps someone trustworthy, someone she respect alot.

garriAndsugar:
I still stand with what Im saying.. No man should apologise for cheating. If e pain you too much you fit break your phone screen

You talk too much. Keep your opinion to your pocket.

Op please ignore this person like plague. He's likely in his teens

mastermaestro:
This is an exaggerated figure please. By implication, you are saying that 8 out of 10 youths are into fraud? It's not this bad yet, oga. Don't use your location to draw a blanket figure on the whole Nigeria. Go to market places, you will see many youths pushing wheel barrow, riding keke, riding bike, doing 'agbero'.

Many youths are still living legitimately despite the level of economic disadvantages that they face. :(

I beg to disagree

I have a friend who served in public secondary school in Lagos state. He confirmed that over 70% of those boys in Senior secondary class are into cyber fraud (Yahoo)

I have a cousin in public school too, she confirmed same to me. I guess if you could make findings amongst any school teacher in public school then you might get the clue

He said those small boys are nothing but criminal. They don't even see what they are doing as something bad. That's the funniest part of it. Ss2 students using iPhone, using gadget more sophisticated than their teachers. These small boys pay their family bills at home. Their parents support their fraudulent act

It is a known fact that at least 6 out of 10 youths from the southern region of Nigeria are into cyber fraud (Yahoo)

DJBIGGY:
I'm a victim of such tho... Always wanted to read law. My mum said she doesn't want because she wants a school nearby cos of my physically disability. Na so Dem pick mass comm for me. Till date I still regret reading it even though I have an msc in it

I understand your parents honestly. I wouldn't blame them for that.

Why not consider studying law now? Is it possible?

wentroublecomes:
I appreciate how you try to help me in Ur own way. God is my witness, I don't have 1kobo I would call my own. I'm even on debt but what I need at this point is a permanent solution. If possible you can get me a better job or a connection

honestly speaking bro. Getting a job in this country is somewhat difficult. I applied to nestle, wrote exam twice and did interview. I was later called for medical. It's getting close to a year after the medical i wasn't called up to resume. None of those we exchanged contact with was also called to resume


Guess what, we later heard that those boss at the top had replaced us with their own candidate. It's really frustrating. They don't want the poor to survive. Not everyone will indulge in crime to survive. But how do they expect us to survive if they can't allow us with some of these opportunity? It's really tiring