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Go for the second girl. I understand you may not love her pretty much. Maybe you consider giving her attention and care, who knows you may begin to love her

ekitimanalways:
There's no cause for concern here. Before you go for capturing tomorrow, make sure there's no disparity between the data provided on your passport application form and NIN.

please bro, can i get the guarantor form stamped on my capturing date or i should get that done before my capturing date? Also which part of the guarantor form is compulsory to fill?

Alausa is my capturing location. Thanks.

juman:
There are jobs in nigeria.
Look around you, you will see some that are doing wonderfully well.
Not everybody get their money from corruption.
Many get theirs from their sweat.
Open your eyes and learn from others way of doing things.
Hard work is necessary to be successful in your chosen path.

please do you mind sharing any? I don't want to join the bandwagon painting the government bad. I've been out of job after service.

Nawa o

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merits:
For me, I can't even recount how many odds job I did before baba God picked my call 🤙
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why not share how baba God picked your call, to inspire people like us that are still hoping on God's call

Emma09:
Finished Secondary school in 1996, worked as a factory worker for 3yrs, went to college of Education for another 3yrs, gained admission into the university thereafter, graduated in 2007, got a state Government job in 2010. Still there till date.. I also have a bus I use as side hustle. God no go shame us.

lucky you bro. I tap into your grace.

Dele Alake is very sound and highly intelligent

This country is tiring

Security
Fight corruption
Enabling environment to attract foreign investors
Create jobs opportunity (FG, state and LG)
Empower graduates with low interest loan
Quality primary and secondary education
Agricultural and industrial revolution

If this is put in place, i believe unemployment will reduce to the minimal

onumadu:
There were big differences between ethnic groups' sexual and marital cultures in Nigeria.
Like I said, the Igbo (from where I speak) didn't have anything like "Magun", and Igbo didn't have any word for "bastard".
Those alone speak volumes about cultural differences.
Igbo of old valued children more than the female sexual organs. But let me not digress because that topic is huge.
The "economy" of ancient Igboland was not masculine as today. In those days, women also made money and accumulated wealth just like men.
Secondly, there was polygamy, and women married very young (like 13 yrs young), and by the time a woman was in her thirties, her husband had already married a second wife or third etc.
Women who were in their forties and fifties were simply overlooked as "old". They were only patronized by unmarried young men who were "learning how to do". And NOBODY cared about such happenings, because people were busy hustling in farms, making handcrafts, trading in markets, engaged in manual labors, fighting wars, etc.
NO OFFICE EMPLOYMENT AS IS TODAY.
What you are describing in your comment is simply a narrative depicting the failure of the marriage/sexual systems brought by the colonizers.
Why would an ancient Igbo man scavenge for sex? He had more than enough from his wives and concubines.
Men today are emasculated and cannot even control one woman, even though their sexual needs transcends what one woman can provide.
So, nobody worshiped sex in Igboland, because they were not sex-starved.
You need to read some good hist-anthropological books about Igboland to understand what I'm saying, because you seem to be arguing from a "modernist" or contemporary paradigm position.

I wouldn't want to dwell more on ethnicity so it wouldn't look like a tribal haunt or whataview. From what i read, do i need to remind you that the so called Magun was meant for promiscuous married women whose husbands couldn't take or accept her promiscuity? I guess it's a culture thing of nabbing a promiscuous woman and the man she's seeing while in marriage. I'm not in anyway in support of that though, but i guess that's the best way they believed or thought they could nabb their promiscuous wives and the so called men outside.

What would you say regarding the barbaric culture where the female folks are emptied, forcefully shaved, sent packing or forcefully give out in marriage to another man after the demise of her hubby? What would you say regarding the barbaric culture where female folks are stripped naked, forcefully shaved and sent packing without the option of being given out to her late husband siblings. Why? Because she couldn't bore a child or had all girls. Remember, those so called men are either married, divorced or widower. Are you indirectly telling me the same upright men when it comes to women affair aren't sex starved? Why the obsession over their late brothers wives? Don't tell me some of them killed their brothers because they had an eye or somewhat interested in their brothers wives? These are the calibre of men you claimed to be upright in the aspects of women.

The Islamic part of Hausa and Yoruba ethnicity do married more than a wife. I guess it's a norms according to their religion. I noticed their Christians counterparts don't involved in polygamous. I wouldn't want to consider thatas being running after women because it was backed by their religion with proof in the quoran.

Men naturally run after the women folks, it only differ but none are exempted.

Exkandayee:
With the same toasting of oyibo and she finally drops something, or rituals

That i can't say o but i know some are bailing large from Yahoo proceed

lildush:
He wunt smell dat office as long as the Lord lives

who go smell the office?

Exkandayee:
Are you trying to say they are still cashing out from yahoo

Those guys are cashing out o. Two of my course mates left the country with proceed from Yahoo. Others are bailing high too in Nigeria with same Yahoo money

OloYeOfEgbE:
Hmmmm..

If you pack all the southern youths..who go remain?

I'm not seeing them parade Deborah killers like this ooo

northern youths

Nawa o

All these ones too will claim their politicians are corrupt. Kettle calling pot black

onumadu:
You are addressing the wrong point.
I never said that our (Igbo) ancestors were sexually irresponsible (like the 80 year old man you are referencing).
In Igboland we say "ofeke dibalu gboo (meaning foolish men always existed even from ancient times!)
All I said is that Igbo ancestors never worshiped sex or sexual organs like is the case today.
I keep referencing Igbo because that is the culture I know for sure. I don't know about other cultures.
For example placing charms on married women (like Magun) is not part of Igbo culture.
But let me not digress much ...
Igbo ancestors valued women, but they NEVER worshiped vagina like men do today.
In fact they looked down on men who guarded their women's vagina, wondering whether those men "don't have important things to do".
To the Igbo man of old, fighting wars, wrestling, making masquerades, making money and building wealth are the only important things.
Things like sex are things that lazy and irresponsible men preoccupy themselves with.
That culture and worldview still survives in Igboland, but it is dying daily. And that dying culture is why men (at least in Igboland) are losing power.
They have been diverted into vagina worship rather than focusing on important things like wealth, wars, conquests, etc.
Women respect only those types of true power. She can get good sex from any idiot, but she can't get wealth and valor genes from every man.
Once a man focuses more on his wife's vagina, the woman will simply start looking for a man who "gets it",
That is why adultery by women is increasing daily.
Simpism is a trait of irresponsibility and cluelessness.

The last time i checked an average Nigerian married men cheat and sleep around recklessly than an average Nigerian women. Some of these men cheat right in front of their wives. We live in a patrachial society, i wouldn't want to dwell on that much. It's easier to find married women in Nigeria who hasn't cheated on their hubby ever since they got married but you'd hardly find an average Nigerian men married for decades without having a record of infidelity.. It's easier for women to remain celibate than their male counterparts. You can easily find a widow woman who lost her hubby for years without getting remarried nor has a side cock, rather busy looking after her kids. On the other hand, their male counterparts (widower) easily moved on in less than a year or two. You'd hardly see a married man without having a side chic somewhere, but reverse is the case for the married women. We've seen men sleeping around because their wives are heavily pregnant, on her menstrual cycle, breastfeeding et al, and they couldn't engage in sexual activities at that period and they couldn't hold or control their excessive sexual urge. There are much more men out there that are pervert and rapist compare to their female counterparts. We know how married men are running after single girls, but that's a topic for another day.

I doubt our forefathers, even in the south eastern region don't worship the female genital during their dispensation. There was no social media during their time, the economy was pretty much good then that they could chase women and build their career simultaneously. Yes, i understand promiscuity wasn't that rampant during our forefathers generation irrespective of tribe or ethnicity but i wouldn't excuse them not running after women as we do experience now

I think the male folks makes it look like they will all die if they couldn't get hold of any female for sexual activity. The female folks already know that men need them more and can hardly live nor survive without them.

ekitimanalways:
Has your friend submitted the online application form...?

yes. His capturing will be next month.

onumadu:
I'll tell you why it is happening.
In summary: men of today value the vagina more than men of old.
Take this to the bank.
I was lucky to experience the mindset and worldview of an old Igbo man who died at the age of 97 years.
That man epitomized MANLINESS throughout his life.
His hallmark language choices are vastly different from latter day Igbo men language choices.
For example, every time he spoke about sexual organs, he called them (he usually spoken in loud voice) exactly by their names, and not euphemistic names that Igbo call them today.
The coming of the Europeans dealt a blow to our mindset and language philosophy.
My grandmother used to say that when the Europeans came to our part of Igboland, they were shocked at how sexual organs and sex was treated with little regard. And they (Europeans) went to work to change all that.
Today when you want to say vagina in Igbo, you use slang to mask it. WHY?
So, it started little by little, and today, vagina and penis have become sacred parts that people worship as gods without knowing.
Men these days cry over women's sexual discretion, and you see lots of them in this website searching for virgins to marry.
Why? Because they don't want to ever imagine that some other man may have sex with her.
But why should A MAN preoccupy himself with such useless vanity? Doesn't he have something important to do?
Sex is vanity, til the end of time. But today, all a woman does to control her husband and make him a simp is to preserve her toto for him alone.
Once she does that, everytime she says JUMP, the mumu asks how high. Because he has sold his soul to the goddess of the vagina.
Go and check, the men who can NEVER be made simps, are the ones who don't give a flying fkc where their wives spent the day.
Once a man learns to disregard and even totally ignore his wife's sexual games, the wife would fear the man, and even work extra hard to earn and retain his trust and interest in her.
But all the men who guard their wive's vaginas are either current simps, or future simps.
QUOTE ME.

I disagree with you completely. I personally know a man in his 80s who lost his children because he was all over women. The whole children abandoned him now in his old age because he spent most of his resources on women. It's just like food, some people love it excessively that they could eat more than 3 times daily. Some can make do with just two or even one square meal. We are different just as our faces differ

I know guys who doesn't really have time for women. They don't even have a girfriend but that doesn't mean they won't get married in later years if they chose to.

My sermon is that our fathers and forefathers also cherish pussy, it is natural and also nature call. Though it may not be too excess compare to what we see now.

I think internet and social media contribute to these menace we experience in the society. Go to secondary school and see how these children engage in sexual relationship. This probably don't exist during our forefathers time or perhaps it's not that rampant then.

Lonestar124:
Vagina you can get as many as you want elsewhere... some men are clownish that is all...

you're still saying the same thing bro. If you could get one million of the vagina, you'd have to cherish and value the very one you will get hold of. Don't forget women can also get one million of pennis too. Also, i need not to tell you that it's easier to get pennis than pussy

ekitimanalways:
No, guarantor is not one of the requirements for passport renewal.

please a friend omitted the area of occupation while filling his passport online, could there be any effect to that?

BaddestQueen:
you mean he should contact your alternate handle ?
na wa ooo

go have a life young man

floflo12:
Good day my people please i need a sure link for dob change on nin in Lagos.

contact Spherical77. He helped me get my DOB changed in less than a week without documentation. He's also into NYSC related stuff.

Very painful

Escobar98:
I'm studying Political Science.

Hi

I'm also preparing for fall 2024 admission. I had 3.7/4.0 GPA. Studied Geography

I sent you a mail

CuriousStudent:
Frustrations? You that is worked up over a girl wanting an 800k salary earner and not a struggling guy like you

Lol.

No be me wey ask your papa to born you in this harsh economy. Go and strangle him for not bringing you to this world in wealth.

But free this lady. Let MEN come to her,hunt for your virgin in peace or keep up your obsession with single moms,but just leave the lady alone.

You get luck sef, virgins no dey demand rich man. That means you are more likely to finallu get a woman accept you as a failure that you have proven to be

One love.

hahahaha

See finishing o

Nicenixon:
Nigerians are frustrating, they are attacking because she is even trying to address the issue, what about the ministry of foreign affairs or Nigeria ambassador to Sudan?

I am a Nigerian. I am not happy with almost everything happening in my country. I'm saddened seeing graduates littered the street unemployed, which I'm inclusive. Things are hard for average Nigerians no doubt. Nonetheless, that doesn't mean i should go about social space throwing all form of shades to any opinions that doesn't suit me.

It is well.

Rahkman:
Where's the insult on the tweet? Yoruba women are always insultive and razz just like black American women always vulgar

Majority of uncouth troll on Twitter are Obidients and we all know the region that constitute the highest numbers of Obidients according to the outcome of 2023 presidential election by each region

Olumeme:
This things always surprise me.
Why would a public official throw insults like a toddler?

why would a sane and well brought up adult insult his/her leaders? You are eligible to call out your leaders for accountability irrespective of tribe, religious or political affiliation et al. Not throwing tantrums and expect them to keep mute. No one has the monopoly of wawulence

Lol

Abike no dey ever gree

The only GOAT I know

Messi the star

Drey1:
Sha dey play. Nah una mate them dey use do same money ritual wey them take dey buy the house. If you like wise up, and work hard for ur own money, if you like continue in your oshofreeism

LOl, nothing like money ritual o bro. Some people are making money truly through a legitimate source