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AtoningBlood:
I need your input people.

3 years ago, my dad sold our house without informing anyone of us. Meanwhile, we all had things left at home, including my mum's items. He never told us where some of those things are till date.

He sold that house and went to the village, he immediately started having issues with the village people. Fight today, fight tomorrow. Everyone in the village I heard now disrespect him due to how he reveal his secrets to anyone who cares to listen.

My dad wants to leave the village to go rent an apartment in another state. His financial responsibility has been on me alone. My siblings abandoned him.

He's being nursing the idea of leaving the village and never informed me. Last november I spent almost 2 million naira fixing solar power and inverter for him in his house at the village and immediately after that he started saying he wants to leave the village..

I told my dad never to relocate to the village yet, that he should wait till his is older as he is still agile and all his friends are in the state where we lived or around. He also gets contracts once in a while so I don't bear much financial burden. But no, he failed to listen and sold our house and left.

My dad wants me to cough out another 1M to rent a house, he wants it big, 3 bedroom. I told him to look for a 2 bedroom but he said where would visitors stay.

I am not even comfortable seeing him in a rented apartment, what would my cousins say, they would mock us. I have some of them who are very naughty. He is bringing shame in us.

We have two properties and my husband wants him to come and stay in one, I vehemently disagreed because he will be controlling us, some of my extended family members will come visiting him and carry the news to the village, as well as discussing my own family and I don't want that. They contributed to what is happening to him now. Through him, some of them will come to stay and I can not start what I can't continue with. So I told my husband to dead that idea fast.

He wants to leave the village latest by February. How do I convince him to get a 2 bedroom flat? 3 bedroom would mean 3 mattresses, and everything triple. My dad doesn't like anything less. All the expenses will be on me alone. My siblings don't care.

I can't turn deaf ears to his needs. I don't want him in the village and I hate to see him in a rented apartment but that is what it is now.

I need contructive advice especially those of us with retired parents, how do you relate with their needs? I told him to think of a small trade so he won't be idle like he's been since retirement and he is talking about setting up electrical pole business, I laughed. Sebi he wan rek me. Same way he did not manage hid wealth.

One of ur problem is that you think those ur siblings that don't care about his reckless life styles are wicked but you are actually wrong they not....you dad has his life to live do you think if you die today he won't cont his life?now he is using his reckless life styles to affect you
You better cub all this excess ND unnecessary emotions towards him sometimes you need to be hard if not he will finish you with emotional blackmail.you better wise up before ur husband would get fed up with you ND ur father attitude

CaptainStephen:
Good one but there is need for more.

The South eastern governors haven't done enough.

Is this a federal road or state road?
Do you expect the governor's to construct this
Road ? If you criticize them based on other lapses yes I will agree with you but if it's cos of this particular one then you wrong

EreluRoz:
My dad's driver son is right here in our house and he's the first child of his dad, he's totally different from the rest, he doesn't look like his dad neither does he look like his mum, there's no resemblance from both parents at all.

I stylishly dig up stories of how his mum was married because he's been driving my dad even before I was born and I was told she was already pregnant before the marriage ceremony was held and as at that time of their wedding, the woman lived in a different state, she just came and told him she was pregnant and that was how marriage happened .

I have watched this boy from head to toe so I can see at least one feature in resemblance but I didn't see anything, not even from the mom, he's just totally different. The other kids are ok, two share a striking resemblance with their dad while the last took after her mom but with some of the dad features, so are you thinking what I'm thinking?

Should I tell my dad my observation? What do you think?

Share his picture and that of his dad let find the root cause here

Onyé eriri eri 😂😂😂

Nigerians bring in empathy into everything and expect the rule of law to be enacted.
From the write up it was stated that the state assembly had at one point in time passed a law prohibiting lavish burial in the state now the governor is trying to make such law stand you people are now playing emotional blackmail games just because it affects you . constitution doesn't recognize you nor whom you are .

Good one hope they maintain it well

Skyfornia:
Honestly...400k a month with two kids and a wife..even expecting another baby? That money won't be anywhere enough to carter for 4 people. If your wife is not working, I suggest you look for fund and set up a business for her to argument your present income.

Who Dy tell this rubbish
Why won't 400k a month be enough for him he should check his life style
There are people earning 70k a month with 3kids all depends on the life style you living

Jewessgratitud3:
What's all this noise about? As if you men don't do worse. Abegi!

Na girlfriend she be, not your wife. She still has the right to dump you for a better man. Abeg make we hear word.

You need serious counseling
I mean it anybody with this ur goat mentality really need a therapist

God1000:
Nice one, but no Nigerian female referee among them

Nija babes still Dy wait for men to take care of them

When a girl leaves a guy to marry another guy he is not off age or he is broke or she doesn't see feature with him



When a guy leaves a girl to marry another girl he is wicked😂😂😂una mind no go touch ground

People are always ready to dish out moral advice to others untill it's their turn to practice such morals then you will see the rubbish personal that has been advising you.

Chinese company Dy do party Dy celebrate nija police man own na to go Dy shoot for air ok oo

Drop location

Josephamstrong1:
I don’t really understand some schools this days. My baby girl cleared all her subjects with distinction, all As and she was given 3rd position. She has been sobbing uncontrollably since yesterday. Yes, she was promised Christmas gifts and present if she takes first position in class this term.
I think she deserves the 1st position. I want to go to the school on Monday and appeal for result recheck. It can’t be!
I am not taking this o! My baby deserves 1st position with this result.

You no even happy say ur pikin Sabi book
Mtchew
Those legends wey carry last them no be human being abi 🙄🙄 I Sha know say na scope you wan use tell us say ur pikin Sabi book ok we Don see am ur pikin try

Drsnives:
Kweeeeeeke oo.
The drug Baron is dealing with agbadorians seriously

How this thing wey u talk take relate

obinna58:
Somewhere inside your heart you’re wanting to dig her again but your mental capacity is unable to understand and agree to it bcoz it’s against your principle

It happened to be an involuntary action

Man of the year😂😂😂

Disclaimer12:
I am Emeka Benedict,

You be clown 😂😂😂

naijamerican:
You must not know how elections in Nigeria work. Mumu

Stop capping nonsense ogbeni

Sometimes I wonder how all this our politicians feel when they visit other countries ,use their facilities enjoy good things done by their government then come back here to do rubbish .just imagine we are celebrating a governor for constructing road in 2023 mhen this is so ridiculous....like what did they vote him into office in the first place sef I not to provide amenities ☹️

Omoawoke:
Com from the east to block Lagos roads, who does that? Can they do that in Anambra?

Yes
You can try it on next birthday if possible use onitcha main bridge
Ozuo

plaindealer:
Always demanding accountability from other people and never from your own poor and unproductive states where your leaders collect taxes and allocations and still have nothing to show.

You cannot survive or make it in life without leaving your poor and unproductive regions to look for food and survival in the places you always demand accountability from instead of your own states that you ran away from.

Ask your village leaders what they are doing with your taxes and allocations, the SW is not your governor and the SW is not collecting your taxes and allocations.

Nawa oo you sound so dumb why?

God1000:
Hmm, please I don't believe such fake miracle


He was lucky to have escaped, that was a close shave.

Israel is not a christian country, they should stop using the bible to prosecute this unholy war

The biblical Israel is different from modern day Israel

Wake up christians.

I can feel ur pain
But in reality you don't need to be pained because weather you like it or not God is still doing miracles in our lives

Omo
See rat meat stew oo
Henceforth na to Dy hunt down all this rats from r my compound oo meat cost
Thanks for this update

Svoboda:
Netanyahu is heavily embarrassed. He has failed. Kill one hamas leader, 10 more will spring up. Hamas is more than a resistance movement. It is an ideology.

Just as Biafra is an ideology...
Foolishness is when you support palestine against isreal and support Nigerian govt against Biafran agitators

Throwback:
Igbos looking to discover the anarchy they have been craving for.

Very soon they would tell us that one of the Judges is a human being.

Finding fault that was defined as a fault by the fault finder.

This is what grasping at straws looks like.

Igbos should make their peace that they lost to the Yorubas and move on with their failure.

Wake up from this fuulishness
It's not about Igbo or Yoruba
We are talking about the welfare of our nation

The way some nairalanders are always happy over negative news baffles me
A country where civil servants are crying for increment of salary but reverse is the case yet some folks are praising the government
It's really worrisome ,do we actually want the best for this nation?

We actually need state autonomy and restructuring in this country anything else na wash

VawulentMan:
Everything calm and normal after you don kill inspector
On a serious note, who dey motivate all these police to go find army

Them no tell you say there is law guiding every citizen of this country? because u b army u feel you are above the law?

pricklewane:
Igbos will still wail.over this harmless news. I repeat igbos n not ipob or Obidient but igbos

Why do you choose to be so ignorant ...
You people will just come online talk rubbish without reasoning . painful part is you don't even know the Genesis of so many things yet you wallow in ignorance

FuckingMachine:
Say the truth and let the devil be ashamed.

Why u come wicked like this 😂😂

Ur trap no Dy shame na RAT e Dy get power for

Pakute:
You for talk say make fashola for construct the road to your sitting room. The same people saying GEJ had done all the roads in SE in 2015 are now screaming Fashola like say na Fashola dey collect allocation from the pocket of your Governors. Buhari built more roads in the SE than 16years of PDP, argue with your redcap.

U b moomoo
So na allocation money State govt go use build federal roads ?