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Anambra and structures una too much.

CardiNice:
Op which Apostle are you talking about?
Because going by the picture you posted, that's Apostle johnson suleiman and he resides in Auchi in Edo state.

However i understand what he is trying to say but he shouldn't have generalized by mentioning "SU"(scripture union) Ladies.

Yes it's true that most ladies putting on skimpy dresses are better partners than some bad eggs in the church but not in a culture in Nigeria or Africa.

In Nigeria, our culture totally frowns against indecent dressing in public, right from birth and as we grow up we get to know this about our culture so therefore any lady In that grew up in Nigeria and purposely put on skimpy dresses In public is nothing but a prostitute.

But in the western world in Europe and America it's not necessary the fault of the Ladies because putting on skimpy dresses is allowed in their culture so a lady that grew up in USA or The UK can put on skimpy dress and yet be a better partner in marriage but here in Nigeria, if you put on skimpy dresses, you are nothing but a prostitute.

Backward culture

femi4:
A queen doesn't exist in isolation. If you don't bring out the King in him, forget about getting the treatment of a queen

Dude take it or leave it,she targeted right .try and make yourself a target ,let see if you will be targeted, I doubt

DaddyRochie1642:
And what has what you're saying got to do with this man buying his wife a gift

A lot dear,that is one of the adelekes,repeat adelekes.submission comes naturally and respect .but not with broke dudes.

femi4:
You can say that again....To get the best from your man, treat him like a King

To get the best from your women treat her like a queen.which he just did.

DaddyRochie1642:
She will Continue to receive more gifts from that man as Long as she remains Loyal and Respectful and Submissive to that man.

Check properly the guy is super rich he deserves it.note he his super rich

Ikillbrokehoes:
I wish him speedy recovery, I loved the DMX in the 90's, I remember vividly how we used to party hard with his songs.

Then you should be a man in your four ties ,and your username is ikillbrokehoes don't you have a family. The future is truelly female.

In the next twenty years ,we will surely have a lot of mad men in their thirties and early fourties roaming the street mad,churches need to start budgeting for chains cause they will surely need it,even the government should not be left out in building rehabilitation centers.take this and bank it

orohbiro:
This zubby can behave like mumu sometimes enh, low self esteem at is peak

If na woman him go show ego,is that zubby not over 10years older than davido,hmmmm the power of money.

BLOODYSPERM:
Another emotional estrogenious beings prone to mood swings and histrionics especially during ovulation,menstruation and pregnancy , who thinks with feelings and wants to feel right, soft and like a baby, very weak and vulnerable, highly solipsistic and childlike with infantile Narcissism, having capacity for logic but failing to utilize it, good with Rationalizing emotionally layered thoughts and making it have the veneer of plausibility and credibility , they are here but they have insignificant political or economic power..

They came during endsars but instead instead of fighting for women equality they fought for Queer LGBTQ lives and became highly unpopular, they are here but will continue to remain a minority and off course there is uproar since they want to destroy our traditional and Patriachal values with their small force but they will be cast down and treated like wild animals in our society where men rule via the tools of culture and religion unlike western Societies where women rule via systematic legislated laws and policies like affirmative actions and quota policies

OGA,
This thing cool down pain you more than any male on this nairaland.well the center must give way and their is nothing you can do about it.let's all enjoy the fresh air

Martinez39s:
I won't pay them śhit, I assure you. In fact, you will be first in line for a free, nourishing slùt treatment; I will even spit on and slap your ugly face. Silly hòe.

Hoès and bitçhes, even you, ain't worth a slice of bread; it's a favour, and privilege for you all to near me and have my attention. You all should pay me, but I will be lenient and degrade you all for free and discard you all like trash.

Hmmmm a dog without a leash. Junkie

Vinnie2000:
Feminists and their Unending Rants once again..
Like I said in a previous post, Feminism seems a good idea as it wants better life for women in social, job, educational circles..
But it has been grossly abused by girls/women all round d world..
It's now an avenue for insubordination n irresponsibility for most young ladies..
They don't wanna cook
They don't want to do chores.
They don't want to take care of their children..
*They Argue dat the Man should also do all of this..
They want to attend night parties.
They want to smoke
They want to drink alcohol
They want to fvck 'outside'
*They crave Men's lifestyle and Wants to Usurp n Claim the Headship of Men, using Feminism as a camouflage!!..
ALL MEN ON DIS NAIRALAND!! NEVER MARRY A WOMAN WHO IS MORE ASSERTIVE DAN YOU RE..
ITS BETTER YOU MARRY A DULLARD!! A word, they say is enough for d Wise!!

With all you wrote ,I see nothing wrong here,isn't it a free world.the dullard woman you mention is even the one you can not stand.relax the one thing that is constant is change and the change has come.lets all enjoy the change.

Obi1kenobi:
There are so many buzzwords here that conveniently ignores the misogynistic dinosaur that justified violence against women.
Yes, patriarchal societies are inherently oppressive. What part of that do you have a problem with? What does "patriarchy" and "oppression" mean?
Yes, feminism will be resisted because those who are privileged to profit from a status quo will resist change. The United States South went to war against the North to defend their right to own slaves. Simply resisting something does not put you on the right side of history. But resistance is futile. Of course I'm not surprised that misogynists are homophobes too. Hateful intolerance is deeply etched into the African psyche.

Man wey kool down go school.you be man.

Obi1kenobi:
No fool who justifies violence against women deserves respect. If he chooses to disrespect women, there is no foul in returning the same energy he wants to channel out.



Culture is not something stamped on people by invisible hands. It's the way a society chooses to live. To justify grotesque anachronisms as "culture" would be as silly as justifying slavery, human sacrifice etc as culture. Culture changes all the time as societies evolve. Christianity is a recent import into Nigeria. Why not reject it because it was not the "culture" of your ancestors?



Black people wear Western clothes, observe Western religion, speak Western languages, use Western technology (like both of us typing here on Western originated tech). How convenient that we only remember our own regressive culture when it comes to subduing women as door mats who serve at the pleasure and will of their male masters. Culture my arse. If feminism is not "something black people are known for", does that make it illegitimate? Is that a rational basis for evaluating the net good of feminism to the society?

Plenty of women don't "leave their parents" to meet their husband. Plenty are independent working professionals. If he married a housewife who he took from her parents, it doesn't mean every woman is one and he may have to readjust his dinosaur mentality to the realities of the modern world.



Every adult in our culture, man or woman, single or married, can do as they like within the ambit of the law. So it's not for him to dictate anything under the weaselly toga of "culture". If one can't win the respect of their wives, that speaks to their own failings as men. Not for a dinosaur to be justifying violence against women because of "feminism".

Thank you sir
May you forever be in abundance

BLOODYSPERM:
Equality of opportunities only, but she delusionally wants equality of outcomes by affirmative actions and quota policies used in western Societies

It won't work in Nigeria , Patriachs like us that are planning on using our businesses to influence politics in the future by God's grace we won't allow them , these radical misandrist would be put down with strong Patriachal laws


Not in Nigeria
What Nonsense

Its already here in Nigeria, if not there will be no uproar

Martinez39s:
Sometimes these hoès and bitçhes need to know they are not special and that they ain't shit. Forget all the shameless suçkers in their dm and offline making them feel like they are something special and of worth; these slùts just ain't śhit.

Don't pity them. If you happen to be fùcking anyone of them currently, fuçk that pusśy mercilessly, call her all sorts of degrading names, rubbish her, cum all over her worthless face, discard like her trash, and move on like nothing happened. No hard feelings, nothing personal, no pity!

No time to be soft or start prioritizing them, wasting time and energy catching feelings, or attaching any importance to them. Fuçk many and commit to no woman.

I move. Make I go sleep.

Provided you pay them,last last na you go tire.

MrColdsweat:
We say nagging is a feminine trait.
Why do Nigerian men spend so much time and energy ranting and nagging about women?

They are scared of loosing control and dorminance

DaddyRochie1642:
Love still dey shack this one

Tomorrow na you'll start Weeping and gnashing your teeth saying this girl "Used Jazz on me".... How can the girl know your password and have Unrestricted access to your phone and Privacy and she'll deny you access to hers with Idiotic excuses.

Oga are you not a Man that knows what he wants, I believe you have goals and priorities that you wish to accomplish in this Life, So why is it difficult for you to Let that girl know that you're not here to "Play games", why is it difficult for you to Express yourself and let her know with a serious tone in your voice that you will not tolerate such behavior and excuses from her.


Oga it is your type that finally gets married and start lamenting "I Made a Horrible Mistake by Marrying this Woman", meanwhile it is your Fault from the beginning because you failed to set Boundaries and stamp your Authority as a man that knows what he wants.

People won't like to hear this and I personally dont give a FÚCK, nowadays, Respect is what makes a Relationship last longer and Stronger especially when the Respect is Mutual, Love is just secondary.

If that girl had a good Percentage of Respect for you, she won't have the guts to go through your phone and your Privacy and start giving excuses when you want to go through hers.

You're seeing the "Red Flags" now and you're forming gentleman, your eyes go soon Clear

OGA hold your breath, which authority are you talking about in a relationship. Na army cantonment African man with ego,everything na war.

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descarado:
See maid.
They didn't care to dress her up on this great ocassion.
How much will it cost to dress her up traditionally like the rest?

Because they don't want guests to mistake her for who she isn't which is house maid. Somebody beneath them.

Such a beautiful young lady.

Since you care this much,go and marry her and elevate her

BLOODYSPERM:
You are innately solipsistic and due to your estrogenious hormones leading to mood swings and feelings can you make such a baseless comment without introspection

I can't blame you,you are a woman, as women aren't capable of thinking they only emotethink and rationalize their feelings

Who doesn't know men have insatiable desire for sex and would want access to pussy but would only remain in relationship after sex if the woman has character

Rest all the women you men here term olosho are married to who donkeys?

DEMZEE:
By pedestalizing women ahbi

Thank God their forefathers were smart enough to make good of their resources.....anyways their civilization is already collapsing

And yours is intact Pete edochie junior.

IYANGBALI:
See creativity! Nigerians will be shouting unemployment up and down without thinking of creating something with their minds

When there mind is analog

DEMZEE:
Western men are the biggest cucks, simps and beta males in the world


WTF!!!!

But they are still far better than you the Almighty alpha male.

Queenlovely:
I hope I am not arguing with a child.

mummy loves you, be a good boy and listen boy.

black people where sold like goods in the market. it was a normal thing. normal things becomes cultural.

until some people challenged the culture, people died to challenge the culture, because it has become a way of Life

Hmmmm truely the future is female,just start reading from page 1 of this post and you will weep for the mind sett of some suppose men,see constructive arguement of 90% of females am in their post ,but take a look at 90% of the reply from men hurling insults like insane children .well feminism has come to stay ,there is nothing an ocean of tears can do

Ladycewhy:
Blame shifting?


So in your mind Nigerian men who give money and even codedly escort their girlfriends to unathorised abortion clinics are not in support of abortion? Or the ones who pull a chemist attendant aside and be like " bros you get drug wey she go fit take make e for flush" are not in support? Lol


And I am appalled that you will want to compare a woman who carried a pregnancy to term and pushed twice only to have her children taken away and killed because the rain god might send drought if twins are allowed to live to a foetus that can also be lost in a miscarriage.There have been cases when abortion had to be carried out to save the life of a woman e.g etopic pregnancy,does that make it less of an abortion?



Admit it or not ,there is nothing humane about your so called authentic african culture. Most were barbaric and thanks to the colonists for freeing your people.

And if you want to be proud and brag about being upholder of culture and traditions ,you should look back at your ancestors that started it because left for your snuff sniffing brown teeth ancestors women should not be allowed to access education which was "tradition and culture" for them and I bet they will not have approved women having access to a phone either as they might just tell us women having access to a phone will anger the god of fertility
Goodluck.

Girl ,why waste your energy hitting your keypad on a brain dead donkey,is ultimate desire is to dominate and control, which is fast becoming an illusion to him.a dream that is evaporateing

nick50:
Yes after listening to feminists most women go home feeling like jackie -chan only to be beaten mercillesly by thier husband...who else noticed that linda ikeji's brain has be reset ever since she gave birth to a son if not she would be at d fore front of this feminism madness

You have easily answered your self,don't you see that the men that beat them up mercilessly only have one thing to offer which is strength, put strength aside the man in question is worthless and damage.

DEMZEE:
Women cannot love men until they submit to those men.

Women are hypergamous and they are attracted to masculinity and superiority

Why are you confusing your already dead brain,women are attracted to what you just mention ,yet your are still fighting them against been a feminist. An adult be it a teenager or a grown women detest been control,a lot of men desire is to dominate and control,sad the enlighten women are saying no to that,which is now every man night mare.our mothers time has pass deal with what you have.

EmekaA125:
Will tear ur eye direct to divorce or kicked out to ur papa house. Once it's done, you can continue living the way you like. U can't be under a man, bearing his surname and also exhibit ur feminist madness. Like, it's not possible. Just better remain unmarried and don't get me upset.

My uncle was more egocentric than you dear,today he is in his sixties ,married four times and divorce, living all alone broke even his kids don't need him.you better watch your action. Before you end up like. Him

BLOODYSPERM:
Off course I will
I won't settle with untrained mannerless women devoid of feminine traits and character

Research the single motherhood crisis of Norway and black American communities and show me how these women are happy

Then you will need to head to ogbomosho to pick a wife.a lot of docile and naive women there.

emonis88:
As u weh get digital mind ,can not even comprehend dat he is not saying men should beat their wives, he is telling u y there is an increase in domestic violence!!! make we shout am so some digital minds which need rebooting can atleast be rebooted.

Nothing will ever be rebooted. Today's women are enlighten and empowered., if the marriage doesn't sooth them they quietly take a walk ,no too much talk.rather you need a change of reasoning. And quench your desire to dominate and control.

johnpaschal:
No matter what happens stay where you are do not......I repeat do not travel to meet them...

Let them know you cannot make it but pay whatever is asked for her burial and let your boss sign an agreement of compensation to the family every month or a one time compensation

Please if you love your life as of present do not travel with them ....I beg you

E get why .....stay where you are and continue your duties to the people

No matter the pressure, no matter who tells you to travel

Do not, I repeat do not travel to pacify or see anybody

This is an instruction from Jesus

Do not this and do not that ,no be akwa ibom pips again,if they seriously wants him he will answer present in the family compound.enough said