₦airaland Forum

delishpot:
Men are getting it left right and center and they are not happy. Once upon a time it used to rain everywhere for women. Now its raining gbas, gbos, gbas for men

Men, get thibgs right, women are also sexual creatures. No be only una sabi chop all kinds of soup

Me I will just sit back and enjoy the wailing.

Before una say na baby mama sure pass. Women come show una say dem sef dey ready,.... after una say cheating dey DNA therefore the men are not to blame, now women with cheating DNA have learnt that self control is not possible so they are flexing their natural instinct.
Next una say sex doll is the way to go... Women face cucumbers

Now una say stingy will solve it and soon women will start hussling by all means . We go see where these human foolishness will lead us.

My dear, lastly we go all they alright.let's just enjoy the new normal.

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nedekid:
Sorry about the perfect part
"What you should be advocating for is that men should shine their eyes and marry women with the right character and attitude"
The main point of my response to you is how do you shine your eye and marry women with the right character and attitude?
As I said earlier, character and attitide might be a reflection of the current circumstances and enviroment. It applies to both men and women. So how do you shine eyes to know?
A man might be rich, have a good character woman with all the right attitide, he runs in to financial or health problems and sees the worst character he never believed the woman could ever have. Vice versa.
Same applies to a man that shines his eyes, disregards the chicks abroad and his mum or him picks up a very well brought up girl with good attitude and character, they relocate as the op says and few years down the line the enviroment brings out the worse. Same way you have some married couples in naija that relocate to Canada etc and you see the man or woman misbehaving or divorce after few years.
It applies both ways.
So in sumarry, the bottomline is mutual respect, understanding, the grace of God or call it luck that makes marriages work.
That was why in my first response I said the mythical good character woman. same applies to men.

Surprise this is coming from a man.truth is ,it takes a mediocre to yoke with a mediocre,if you are a good man ,you will certainly attract a good woman.

CHoccolaTE:
Lol
Nigerian men want submissive mumu zombies as wives.
Women that will forgive their excesses like infidelity or just plain nasty, rude behavior to their wives.

So they run home after getting abroad Visa because women abroad or so called akatas refuse to be disrespected so of course Nigerian men don't like them. They think, "why will a woman expect a man to see her as an equal human being? Why? Why can't I have a woman that contributes to home finances and pays bills but also tolerates my nasty behavior and infidelity?"

Look, nobody likes being oppressed and subjugated, nobody, not even women. That is why many women always seize the opportunity to emancipate themselves when they get to a liberal society.

I dont blame you males for expecting docility and timidity from your Nigerian wives, you grew up in a country where women are 2nd class citizens and taught to accept almost anything marriage throws at them that is why you find it hard to just get married to foreign women instead of looking for a wife with high bullshit tolerance thresholds.

You said it all dear.

yinkus6750:
Most women don't appreciate the men under such conditions, majorly due to the fact that the women become more financially successful than the men, hence they felt the man can't control them due to the culture of the new society they are.

Why would you want to control an adult.

mosho2good:
how can I get started

Don't be fooled it is not as easy as he paints it.

MummyD2020:
What baffles me is the way people just type trash here without restraints and with ease. I just dont get it. Bashing women as if they were carved out from trees. Na these ones dey slap their mum and sisters at home swear .down. insults are welcome. Na una go tire.

Just because the modern day woman can not be dominated and controlled. That's just the pain

Seyzcham91:
oga shut up! must you insult or is your name female,

The female gender during my mama time and set na Real female with real love and not for money or some burden relief shit, but now adays females and gender are shits and i hate them with passion cuz all they do for affection, attention and love is only for benefits as you yourself with your fish brain don't think and use your sense to figure that out and for eveery reasonable person on this place that read my mention would understand quite well my point and assertion


so Bleep off and don't mention me again

Sad you just have to adapt to the new change.the game is sweeter now.if you can not manage them the way they are,then remain single.

Hmmmm seems any where I hear forex na to run far.

Theoutsider:
First you are a damn liar. Women are not paying for sex.
You must be confused with women are paying men with the incentive to stay.


BTW who said anything about women not being capable? Are you responding emotionally?? feminist

Men are not lusting over rich women. END OF STORY! These are beautiful women who happen to be wealthy.

A mans looks has little value to women in the over all scheme of things... She is attracted to a six pack (good looks) during her peak ovulating stages of life and once life kicks in (kids/ bills) after she has sex with multiple men her priorities are resources. This is why Nigeria has a high paternity fraud rate of 30% and a huge population of step fathers.


Nigerian national daily, the Vanguard, reported that 30% of Nigerian men are not the biological fathers of their children.

Even below average women have access to men all day long so you are talking B.S.

On a biological level it makes no sense for men to be stimulated by a woman that has wealth (resources) Sex is on most men's mind and after sex is providing provision.

in the end woman getting more money does not make her more attractive. and if she does she uses the money to make her self more attractive using beauty products. You better go back to biology class sister... 100 million years ago a woman can not rely on a mans look for survival (a six pack) is simply an identifier of provision and protection and so does wealth and biologically a man cannot rely on a woman's resources to produce the best offspring genetically. If you think in the last 50 years the human brain changed so you can run a false narrative good luck

You are literally the definition of penis envy. You think money is an equalizer for looks in an ugly woman as it is for an ugly man.

You must be a man in your sixties to reason this way, sad

BRATISLAVA:
Is she? Is there a manual for how all women must behave?

Whenever a man dies, in Nigeria, it is his wife who did it.
Even when she knows nothing of how it happened and was not present. Somehow she's responsible. It just must be the woman behind it.

This is how a lot of wizards escape scrutiny, because people are always looking for old women to call witches.

If he divorces her, it would still be her fault as she caused it. Fear women, right?

If he cheats, she pushed him into it.

If he marries her, she must have tied him down nevermind he's a thinking adult too.

If he's nice to her, well -- of course it is juju she used on him!

There needs to be a shift in how people think. The way Nigerians think about Nigerian women is disgusting.

Now that there's a 2nd side of the story unveiled, let us the see logical deductions the misogynists and their supporters can come up with, since logically, with his side of the story, it was concluded she killed him.

Don't mind that one sad to know she is a female, a man that moved on and got another woman pregnant.people talking as if he wallow in misery and died as she left,a Nigerian women liberation is the pain and night mare of a Nigerian man ,take this to the bank.

cococandy:
Whatever led to the stroke probably led to the cardiac arrest too. Hyperlipidemia is a silent culprit.

If he spoke with the kids just this past thanksgiving, that means he probably was still having a good relationship with the kids. How do people know she told him he wasn’t the father? Only her knows who the true father is.

People should stop saying that’s what killed him when that’s not an empirical measure of cause of death.

Are you minding them,the tunde of a guy already moved on ,and even got another lady pregnant.no one is pointing to that funny clows.is always so painful when a woman cheats but very cool when it is a man,this is a taste of you men antidote more to come in the new era we find ourselves.

meobizy:
She’s sexy yet dirty. This type will sit on the couch all day smoking weed, eating crisps and posting shit on social media. Trapping a man is not all about possessing a good body.

Did she tell you she needs a man. Trap all the men and share to your female relatives.

crazyclown:
How about I put my WhatsApp no here den remove it once u copy it

To a virgina person,aren't most of you guys shameless, the same you that has been echoeing so much hate on women is now crawling and begging for number to be taken,alpha by day simp by night,una go dey alright lastly.

MrNipplesLover:
dem don fvckkk brain out of this one head, e come remain empty skull will echoing bullshiit.


shameful.

Hypocrite even your username is shameful.

tyup:
Take it from me, women deserve the harshest and the worst treatment they can get

I wonder why Nigeria and the World at large can't tow the path of Saudi Arabia and further make Female worthless

Kai who hurt you this bad,pls forgive her.

BRATISLAVA:
You may not believe it, but a misogynist described how he murdered his girlfriend in a long post, and astonishingly, many men came out to sympathize with him. The posts were never censored. That same guy is on almost every FP threads spilling his hate. And he gets a lot of chest bumping on them. It makes one wary of these men. Very soon the dark web kinds of posts here will yield a danger to sane people in the society.

And if this trend continue there is going to be a full blown gender war .

tyup:
So are you judging the man rn? You're a disgrace to men you simp

You are more of a disgrace to humanity you daft,I wish such act to all your female relations.

SeunWedsLinda:
Women heal easily when the money is right

No dear they only play along .

showafrica:
MBA is people's nightmare this 2020. As they survived Coro everyone trusted them, hopefully they will make profit and settle everyone gradually. This is the time they need to prove they are into forex trading. There will be no more new investors so, they should trade the forex and pay everybody otherwise, they are scammers.

The thing opened my eye self... All you need to make 22% profit monthly from forex is just 1 pip daily from EURUSD @ 1.00 lot. Simple thing that is 95% certain... Na wao

At what equity size.

Advision:
When people cannot intelligently or truthfully answer questions, they typically result to abuse. That has been the key strategy of MBA forex promoters on this thread. Once you attempt to scrutinize the scheme, they result into shameless attack and curses.

Anyway I mentioned it some weeks back, I'll keep checking in from time to time.

There's poverty in the land but when MBA forex is done, you'll see the havoc it will leave behind

Long live MBA forex

I went to their port Harcourt office and ask to see one of their in house fx traders,but was told all of their traders are base in abuja.it didn't quite sit well with me,and as a trader myself the market has been very erratic and they don't have draw downs.hmmmm don't put what you can not afford to loose. The early birds takes it all not the late comers

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DbitterTruth:
I thinks its a credible assertion based on biblical standards... a damsel by Gods plan shld remain chaste till she meets her husband. those days in is real if a man gets married to a Jewish lady & discovers she was broken before matrimony... he was to return d bride to her parents with the white linen evidence with which she was laid that wedding nyt(if not stained wt blood).. he must be refunded & the brides parents will face the shame & public ridicule... the worst u can do to an Israelite woman is to disvirgin her b4 matrimony.. she pours ashes on her head & weeps hopelessly bcus her marital destiny & family name has been destroyed... 4get d corruption in d world today.. Gods standard remains dsame....
But in reality today, u cant just go away with someone's daughter without paying bride price... by d cleansing power of d blood of Jesus, any lady who genuinely repents will still be viewed as a virgin b4 God, for OLD THINGS HAVE PASSED AWAY & she is now like a newly born -BORN AGAIN.. However, this benevolence of Gods grace shldnt be a licence for immorality.. God is not mocked.

Only a virgin man should seek a virgin lady.

OJay360:
You too, cover your forehead

And rotten teeth's.

sammysneh:
Where dey in a relationship be4

ike can't control Mercy she be olosho

must you control some one.

efficiencie:
Patriarchy does not necessarily result in men seeing their women as second class. Patriarchy as a construct has its nuances determined by individuals. Just as feminism has its nuances reflected at the level of the individual. You cannot dress everyone in the same robe because we are fundamentally different. For example some regard the Bible as being anti-women but the same persons will cleverly avoid reading about Deborah, the daughters of Zelophehad, Huldah, Esther, Miriam, Jezebel, Delilah, Jael, Queen of Sheba, Rahab, Athalia, Ruth, the daughters of Philip, the widow and prophetess at the temple who witnessed the birth of Christ, Mary Magdalene, Cloe, etc...who all were influencers in their own right!

Patriarchy is evil ,and has only been able to raise egocentric monkeys.a lot of men will chicken out at the sight of another man but will stand tall and tell a woman am a man,but can't mention that to a fellow man.

MhisTahrah:
Why are you shifting goalpost?The issue here is that mothers are portrayed as dependants in a kiddies book.

Don't mind the asslicker,guess she is hustling had to a ring.from one of the NL alphas. Go through all her post and you will get the drift.

bukatyne:
1. What have we evolved to?
2. What's wrong with patriarchy?
3. How does wives cook and husbands provide equate thinking a wife is a second class being?

I wanted to do a Q & A thread on patriarchy however I haven't gotten around to do so.

What would solve madam's issue with the curriculum is to establish feminist schools. Kids can be taught sex orientation, sexual liberty, LGBTQ~ and any other thing that catches their fancy.

Accept it or not ,we have evolve, go and check a lot of homes today women are paying rents ,picking 60% of the bills.and its not going to change soon,also cause of the new economy.so if you are still holding on to your backward patriarchy then sad .every man now needs to tone down on his patrichal ego for a balance family and home.and if I may ask you what is wrong if a man cooks and wash.

BRIGHTRIVERS:
The man try. How can i be sharing her mouth with d so called male actors? my village elders will call meeting for me

And that is why her marriage has lasted.