₦airaland Forum

humilitypays:
Without sugardaddies, most ladies will live a miserable life and will never be where they are today in life; financially, career wise, business wise, Japa wise.


Married men keeping single girls as side chicks is one of the major ways Nigeria's wealth is circulating, because without that, tell me how Bola Tinubu, Adam's Oshiomhole, Yahaya Bello, Governor Dickson, Governor Ben Ayade, Dangote, Femi Otedola, Orji Uzo Kalu, Obi Cubana, E-Money, Davido, etc money will reach the poor Nigerians?



Yes promiscuity maybe bad because religion, society and civilization painted it as bad, but it is sure playing positive roles in Nigeria and around the world in making sure wealth circulates.


As a single girl dating and sleeping with one broke boyfriend whose only contribution to your life is I love you, baby I cannot live without you, and hoping he marries you tomorrow while he fvcks you weekly freely, you are committing the same sin of immorality with the single lady sleeping with a married man that helps her life financially, helps her career with promotion, job offers, helps her business with capital, help her academic dreams with financial funding and help her Japa dreams with funding and visa connections.



In this life, be wise, if you are wise and use your wisdom, you will be at the top without minding what people say.


Any sex outside marriage is the same sin.


If you are having sex with a guy you call boyfriend or fiance' in the name of he is your boyfriend or fiancee and another lady is having sex with a married man she calls sugar daddy who helps her life get better, both of you are committing the same sin of immorality so ladies choose your own sin and immorality wisely

You have said it all. I agree with you 100%.

Omoapena:
No let these girls bobo you
No sugar daddy will pay 500k for a round sex...

You don't get it. It doesn't have to be after Just one round of sex but what they get for upkeep. It could be weekly, monthly or every forthnite.

purples25:
Which man would give 500k to 1million for sex. All these lies. No man will remove such an amount for sex alone. Unless you guys are business partners as well as sex, as he would still benefit from that your business.

Dey play. Some mumu Nigerian men even give more than that. I used to know a babe whose sugar daddy would drop money like he plants it. .

500K weekly for just groceries, 100K for fuel, and other expenditures. Girls are cashing out!

The truth is, if you are a sexually active girl, then it's no big deal dating a married man for monetary gains.

If you can sleep with your 'chewing gum' boyfriend for almost free, then sleeping with a married man for millions is just you being smart.

Most men will gladly do the same if they see the opportunity but will be quick to condemn women.

nairamaniac:
So you finally realized that "you can't plan money that hasn't been earned yet, yet you initially said the bolded. Calling it a mistake that "most people make before getting into marriage.


Ogaaa, pick your motive when u enter a discussion.


Are you entering the discussion so people would respect you as a very intelligent person

Or you are entering the discussion to contribute positively/Substantially.

I advice you choose the latter.

Yuck! What are you even on about? What has the statement you highlighted got to do with planning for unearned money?

Did Sheila tell you she was planning for unearned money or wanted her husband to establish a business or build a career without asslicking his boss?

This is why I said she should have discussed it before marriage. What has that got to do with planning for unearned money?

I'm more concerned about the lady in question who is pregnant and already living with you. Does it mean she's got no plans for her life and wants to end up as a baby mama? What about her family and what's their take on this?

As for you, I think you are still bruised and needs healing. If the said lady is going to be just a baby mama, then why did you allow her move in with you? I think it's better to define your relationship early so she can know her place.

As for the mutual respect you think you have for each other- This is more like a lack of connection between both of you and not respect per say. It is how two strangers living together feel toward each other.

Unfortunately, this isn't a healthy relationship for someone who is carrying your baby and already living with you.

I find it repulsive when a woman thinks she can use pregnancy to compel a man to propose marriage.

A woman can NEVER get pregnant if she doesn't want to. So, if you get pregnant and the man tells you he doesn't want the baby, then do away with it or keep the pregnancy and do away with the man.

Do not force a man to accept a child he never wanted or planned for. In addition, learn to close your legs because after the pleasure, comes the pain. Men do not get pregnant, but women do, so be wise!

nairamaniac:
Are you saying there at the bolded that "they should be discussing how to spend an amount of money that has not been earned yet before the marriage"?


As in they should discuss EVERYTHING with FIGURATIVE-ACCURACIES/CALCULATIONS prior to when what your are calculating has arrived?


They should be discussing how to spend/invest 10million naira, with imaginary one-one million from 10 different places?

Oggaaa your response was convoluted.


I doubt you can easily answer if;
1. You were agreeing with my post.
2. Disagreeing with my post
3. Adding to my post.


Cos it seems you were doing all 3 of them.

I guess you just feel like talking. As an individual, do you plan for money that hasn't been earned?

nairamaniac:
Are you:
1. Agreeing with my post?
2. Disagreeing with my post?
3. Adding to my post?


Which of the 3 precisely are you doing?

Read and comprehend first before trying to be sarcastic.

nairamaniac:
Discussing something especially an illness that is hereditary is mandatory as it could affect the couple's children.
I'm sure if they were both AS-Genotype, they would have discussed it severally before marriage.

Now, on the other hand, discussing diversification/expansion of Streams of income may not come up before marriage. But it wd come up as the marriage gets older and capital flows in from current-stream.

What I'm saying is that "it's not EVERYTHING one can discuss before marriage. At times, change in conditions brings up those discussions.
It takes some level of respect, education, love, trust and confidence to discuss and listen to your partner when these sorts of topics are due to come up.


If it's true that She wasn't carried along by Israel for planning of the wedding, then it should also be true that Israel wdnt listen to her as regards finding other means of earnings besides depending on Davido.
It's her right to talk to her husband about it either before or after marriage.

You can't discuss everything that boils down to things that are negligible and petty, but you should discuss everything that you think will either make or mar your marriage.

How can you get married without discussing about the number of kids both you and your partner expect to have? There is also the issue of home financing, likes, preferences, visitation from relatives and everything that are important.

If you don't feel comfortable discussing these important things, then perhaps you ain't ready for marriage yet.

Morbeta11:
Forget that one.....these ones na my blood hook line and sinker!!! From spermatozoa to full fledge humans...no adulteration.

Lol......I admire your confidence sha. But what if they are not really your blood, what will you do?

DNA is very affordable now and he should be able to foot the bills. Why must he ask Nigerians for help to sort out a family's issue?

I would also like to believe that he received some donations during condolence visits. He should use part of it or ask some of Mohbad's close friends for assistance. It is irresponsible of him to ask Nigerians.

Morbeta11:
Am so grateful to God that my three kids, all na mini-me from hair to toes.....I have no business with DNA.

I don't want to be the bearer of bad news, but if you live with someone, you begin to look like them.

Your children's resemblance with you is because you live together and has nothing to do with you being their biological dad.

Mexicans should stay in their country and help develop it. As for the apostle, I am curious to know how he makes his money.

This 70 year old man is childish and unbearable. Now I understand why the wife left him.

ademola2017:
When people say this[b] "Don't make your new woman pay for the sins of your ex wife"[/b] i always think they dont know what they are saying.

I am hoping for the best. Relationship/marriage is not meant for me...

I made that statement because sometimes, we humans change our relationships with new people if we feel exploited in our past relationships.

ademola2017:
After coming here to share my deep concerns in 2017, i gave the marriage another chance but yielded nothing. Things went from bad to worse and we eventually separated.

8years of no kids, no peace and nothing to show for the marriage.

Love is really a crime!!

Too bad bro! I just read your old 2017 post and was wondering how things turned out.

Just try and move on but if you do, continue to be the reasonable human that I think you are. Don't make your new woman pay for the sins of your ex wife.

A 21 year old deceived a 70 years old man. Israel should bury his face in shame.

TwoPheus:
I don't think this man is a Catholic priest.
Whoever brought this report should investigate properly please.

Satan used to be an angel of God.

LieutGen:
The media have successfully achieved their aim.

No one emphasized that the young man has been dismissed as a priest since 5 years ago. But all media have to tag "catholic priest" to get more reading attention.

He is still a priest. The post says he was expelled from a faith based congregation and not from the catholic church. Those faith based organizations are autonomous and are not necessarily controlled by the catholic church.

My concern is, they could have shot and killed the guy just to cover their crime. This is what you get when citizens join the police force not out of passion but because there are no jobs. Pathetic!

Truths9ja:
you are wrong here joor. I’m pulled a video news from a blog and i add the news on it irrespective of the video I pulled. Oga respect the way I post here. If you watch the video, you can read more of the video on the news I posted on paragraph 2,3 or 4 to complete the details of the video news. Just respect the way I post.

Your type will never learn. Continue!

Skid off the road. What else if not that?

Truths9ja:
I post news 📰 that pertains to the video I post on the page now. I even post links of the news too. So what else. I’m only here to make the general public to read more on the videos I post on my page. Thanks 🙏

Your post comes off as unprofessional! You don't need to keep repeating the same words over and over. I had wanted to bring it to your attention before that guy did, but was too lazy to type. I know others feel the same way too!

If I were you, I would change my methods. If you must post it, then it shouldn't go beyond one paragraph. Just my 2 cent!

Matinox:
This your talk no follow at all.

Thrash

Ha...ha...ha...I said what I said! Some one's trash is another man's treasure. I hope you ain't one of those that demand for sex from their wives just after one week of child birth?

Child bearing for ungrateful men should be abolished. I have seen women give birth today and their stupid husbands wanted them to resume their bedroom and home chores almost immediately.

When some men say marriages benefit women more than men, I just shake my head. To my greatest knowledge, a pregnant woman is at risk of losing her life and should be worshiped.

This is why even if DNA proves you ain't your children's biological dad, just manage it like that because the woman risked her stupid life to bear you kids.

Did you discuss this with him before marriage or waited to get married first before bringing this up?

This is the mistakes most people make and that is why we have lots of marriages crashing everyday.

I have realized that couples don't have real time discussions before tying the knot. They use the little time they have to plan for weddings instead of marriage.

Some women don't ask questions and prefer to play dumb just to give the 'she is a good woman' vibe. A woman I know got married to her husband whose older brother is sufferring from an ailment which could be hereditary.

When I asked her to know more details, she told me boldly that she didn't ask her husband so it doesn't look like she was prying.

Imagine if the illness is hereditary and one of her children is unfortunate to inherit it, who will bear the brunt? People need to be more open with each other before marriage and discuss vital issues to avoid stories that touch.

Although the dude acts like a mugu sometimes, this is not that serious.

cigaricon:
I've tried to several times but it's hard. I only know their first names, I don't even know their surname, I don't know the state they are or if they're in Nigeria at all. When I reunited with my biological sister, she told me she only met them once and at the time, they were in Enugu. My aunt from my mother's side who is the only family member that I know from my mother's side (we also reunited after so many years), I asked her about them and she said that the female one now has a child, but is no longer with the man whom she has the child with. Even she doesn't care about them. I was heart broken cos I didn't even know that I have a nephew.

Many times I've shed tears due to the dysfunctional way my family is. My family has never been united. My father hates every single memory of my mother, and my mother's family hates him as well, even up till today. At some point, they accused him of being responsible for my mother's death which is absolutely not true. Sometimes I feel my father doesn't care much about I and my biological sister cos we came from my mother. I have a tattoo of my mother's name and a heart shape on my left wrist. The day my father saw it, he was filled with resentment and kinda withdrawn from me. He didn't make it obvious but I knew cos I have a very strong discerning spirit and I know him very well. I know he doesn't hate us, I just think we bring back memories of her.

So sad to read! I just hope you have a good relationship with the biological sister you know. You guys can grow in love and change the narratives. Don't allow history to repeat itself.

cigaricon:
I can't really say it's healthy, neither can I say it's toxic. We just don't have a strong bond with each other.

To begin with, I have two elder half siblings I've never meet before, these are my late mother's children she had from a previous marriage before she married my dad. I haven't even seen their pictures so I don't even know how they look like, I only know their names. And any time I ask a family member who've had contact with them, they just waive it off.

In my family, it's not the younger ones (siblings, cousin) that are toxic, it's the elder ones (parents, uncle's, aunties) although not all Sha, and it's rubbing off on some of the younger ones. To say the least, my family is very dysfunctional.

We are just two who share the same parents, I and my younger sister, the rest are my half siblings. My biological sister and I didn't grow up together due to my mom and dad's separation. We reunited after 15yrs and still had some misunderstandings due to individual differences. Then I decided to be away from family and find my way through life. The last time we saw was about 2-3 yrs ago, we only communicate via call and WhatsApp and it's been cool.

My other half siblings, the children my dad has with his present wife we barely communicate, not because we hate each other but they are still young and are still under parent's custody so they follow whatever their mother tells them. I think they'll come around when they're much older.

I eager look forward to spending some with them in the coming hollidays though.

Your mom should have tried to unite you and your half siblings before her death. It is said that half siblings who share the same mother are closer than those who share the same father. I wonder why you never met with your siblings.

I believe you are old enough. You should make an effort to trace them even if it's obvious they don't care. Because if they actually care, they could have linked up with you before now.