₦airaland Forum

SoNature:
Please where are Arunma Oteh and Omobola Johnson? Goodluck Jonathan worked with bright minds. Buhari took Nigeria back to the stone ages while Tinubu is the chairman of tribalism.

Bright, but corrupt minds.

BigBlackPreek:
Well deserved. whenever the thought or news of this woman comes to me, it made me to ashamed of Alisson Madueke . Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, one of the few trusted leaders we still have in this country

She was trusted but under her watch as finance minister, billions of naira was looted. Dey play.

Fahvvy:
Money and chores isn't a gender based thingy, but pregnancy is ...

So putting them in the same context comparatively, is the du.mbest thing ever in the history of dum.b ...

Pregnancy is a natural thing but due to the risk involved, a woman may choose not to bear that risk.

A man is adjudged 'head of family', so he should be responsible for taking care of the family completely.

If he wants to share that responsibility with a woman, then the woman should also share hers with him too.

But of course you are too slow to understand the message I'm trying to pass across. Only smart people can decipher my point and since you ain't one of them, then get off my mention.

Sofistcatdmoron:
Mind what u say oga, God didnt create murderes they became murders for one reason or the other best know to them,
Some people where created with female and male body part or behavior naturally, at birth
Somtines they have to do undergo surgery to correct it ang choose the right sex

You are very funny. You sounded sarcastic by saying that God created transgenders, and I returned the sarcasm by telling you same God created murderers and the likes. And now you want to preach to me?

Listen, don't confuse yourself as there is a difference between 'transgenders' and 'hermaphrodites'. Hermaphrodites are people born with both male and female sex organs. It is a birth defect and it's completely okay to correct the anomalies surgically.

A transgender on the other hand is someone who feels woke and has choose not to associate with the natural sex that they were assigned at birth. Transgender is more like a social norm just as we have murderers, rapists and other vices. God didn't create them to be transgenders. They made a choice!

I can eat yellow corn for one year and won't get tired.

No problem, as long as they share the domestic chores and the man can also carry the second pregnancy after the woman must have carried the first. Let every task be 50-50 so everyone can rest.

They will never learn! Regardless, I must applaud Dami for her maturity in keeping her private life under wraps even after her ex husband remarried twice.

Although, I had hoped she would date a non celebrity and not someone who shares similar traits with her ex husband, Chris. Dami is fresh, hot, sexy, pretty and smart. I wish her the best!

Sofistcatdmoron:
The same God that created transgender people,
Is ur head paining u?

Yes, the same God who also created murderers, rapists, paedophiles, ritualists, fornicators, corrupt Government officials and the 'almighty' herdsmen and book haramists. The one and only God who also groomed these people to do the evil in the world today. Abi you lost your memory?

She looks trashy.

id4sho:
Viola Irene Desmond (July 6, 1914 – February 7, 1965) was a Canadian civil and women's rights activist and businesswoman of Black Nova Scotian descent. In 1946, she challenged racial segregation at a cinema in New Glasgow, Nova Scotia, by refusing to leave a whites-only area of the Roseland Theatre.

Thanks for clarifying.

I don't use sugar. If I were to drink quaker oats or any food that requires sugar, I may opt for milo instead.

That picture looks like a black woman though.

The dad was very good looking. None of the kids took after him.
The youngest kid looks like a dwarf in the picture.
Was his mom related to the Ransome Kuti's family? How come they all bear different names?

I am not hating, but whenever a wealthy Nigerian man loses his wife suddenly, I don't usually trust that his hands are clean.

These men belong to one society or the other where they are expected to sacrifice a close relative at some point. While some choose one of their kids, others may opt for their wives. I don't trust these men at all!

Your post is ambiguous. Are you saying you haven't received your salary since March? If he paid 5K for extra lessons, then how much is your salary before he added 7K to it?

God help us! It is not God that will destroy mankind. We will destroy ourselves and it is already happening.

royalfly:
Well thank God this nigeria, we are dumb, no problem, let's leave it that way. Early Nigerian ways or culture, women don't run away with kids when they want to leave and if they do, they know it's thier duty to take care of that kids. Thats the Nigerian way we dont need no foreign ways. He is not punishing the kids, the woman is the one punishing the kids with her decision. It's only when it's the man that trew them away u can say that. Its a pity what we have all become.

Keep justifying nonsense. You remember you are African when its convenient, right? The early culture you mentioned, were the men not the sole provider? If he was providing enough to cater for his family, would she have run away?

You can use the salary to marry 2 wives.

royalfly:
Wonder what. He should rent house for the ex cos of the kids? Have u followed the story b4 now, do u know the pain he has felt always this while. Some people just want to sound woke and forget reality. If u have never been through things like this u will never know the pain. He never wanted the family apart. She can't eat her cake and have it

You obviously don't know what you are talking about. I have followed the story and know he wasn't smart enough to marry a good wife. Why must his kids pay for his bad choices? Who asked him to marry a bad wife in the first place?

So, because his ex wife is bad, he should neglect the kids welfare, right? Have you ever heard of 'spousal support'? No court gives a damn whether your ex wife is bad or wanted to kill you.

As long as you have kids together, then you must put your ego aside and support them. That is the price a man has to pay for choosing a wrong partner. It is only in Nigeria that dumb men punish their kids for mistakes made by their ex wives.

Fuckyoumod:
shut up there! See your mouth like rent apartment for your ex wife.

Yaba left escapee! Get off my mention.

royalfly:
What am I; a big fool even saying? Seriously I am a fool.

No wonder.

The basic salary is nothing to write home about but a commissioned officer lives a larger than life lifestyle. I suppose their allowances are juicy or they are good at stealing public funds.

Jesus Christ was finer, so no big deal.

Why are some covered and others are not?

Lovely family! Their connection is admirable.

You love your boys so much, but the girl doesn't matter, right? The money you used to rent an apartment for your mom could have been utilized in renting a decent accommodation for your ex wife and kids.

If you had done that, there is no way she would deny you access to your kid if you continue to be a responsible dad. As it is, you are doing more harm to the triplets by separating them.

Do you want them to grow up and begin to see each other as strangers? You guys should sit down and resolve your issues for the kids sake. Life is simple, but people just love to complicate things with their over bloated ego.

Too bad! Something similar happened to someone who was very close to me. I won't be surprised if he was posted to replace another staff and he was taken down spiritually. There are too many spiritual battles in the work place and only the strongest survives.

OP, what is the financial capacity of your husband? Isn't he the head of family and expected to provide the basic needs for you and your kid?

If he actually walked away knowing full well you had nothing to fall back on, then you don't have a husband. That dude is tired of the marriage and is using your joblessness as an excuse.

You mentioned that you studied Chemical Engineering. How have you not been able to utilize what you studied in school? There are so many prospects for people like you, did you explore any?

I implore you to get your acts together and go search for a viable means of income. Then divorce the thing you call husband. Stooping so low to call him shows how dependent you are on him. It is making him feel important. Any man that doesn't prioritize the welfare of his family is a dog and you are better off without him.

dangotesmummy:
Mothers train your sons especially your teenage sons allowing them to be misbehaving and always covering up for them will bring you disgrace

All this overindulgence in the name of boys will be boys without checking their excesses is what will make you go to police station and be begging to your younger brothers age mate

A lot of women are a complete disgrace to motherhood.they will be allowing their sons to bring a,b,c,d to the house under their nose

The said sons don't have fathers?

finallybusy:
White westerner kee you there, Adewale. What do you children gain from typing these stupid write-ups?

Lol. This is the family section of Nairaland and we need to keep it active with either fiction or reality.

Legalcriminal:
Got these coins on my Blockchain app since 2021. Until recently August this year I needed to sell it off that was when I noticed I can’t withdraw from Account, I was only able to withdraw the one I had on Defi Wallet.

I tried uploading my ID but it’s not getting verified I only get error trying to do that.

Mailed blockchain several times but I only got response theyll look into it but still nothing has been done since August.

Found out many people has this kind of issues on there social handles and even accusing them of stealing there money.

Does anyone here have this kind of problem and later got it solved please quote me and see how you get it done.

I am trying hard to understand what the problem is. Are you saying that you cannot send out the money from your wallet?

I have been using blockchain for ages and each time I tried to verify, my documents were always declined. Regardless, I can still receive coins in my wallet and also send out whenever I choose to.

Why not get an external wallet and 'send' the btc to that wallet? I think you are being denied because you are using the 'withdrawal' option.

Blockchain has made verification hard for people because they don't want many people to enjoy the benefits that comes with a verified account.