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toujurs:
i hope you make your own money o, this lonely introvert. You can't hate some one and still be collecting money from the person. Online feminist.

Wawu! The tables have turned and women are more independent.

oz4real83:
The woman must be a very wicked, thoughtless wife and lacks empathy. The man did it out of love but as a loving and empathetic spouse, not all sacrifices of love should be accepted. When a spouse intentionally allows the other spouse to suffer, as a proof of love, when it is within his or her power to prevent the suffering, that is no more love, it is wickedness . Is it wrong if the woman lies on the man while he is sitting? Must the woman be 100% comfortable while the man suffers? Partners must learn to share, it makes the union stronger.

Wawu! Don’t go and commit suicide over this.

Firstly, there is no proof that the man stood for 6 hours, it’s just mere speculation. Airplane ain’t a Molue bus that a passenger is allowed to stand.

Secondly, that picture could have been taken for clout and social media validation.

Thirdly, perhaps the woman wasn’t feeling too good and needed to nap for a couple of minutes.

Fourthly, perhaps the man wanted to stretch his legs and gave up his seat for a couple of minutes. Then the woman decided to take advantage.

A lot could have happened and since no one knows the true story, it is better to stay silent than sound stupid.

Counterfeit red pillers are coming for him.

Will meeting them add any value to my life?

Unrated900:
Go away we aren’t talking about trust here
A
Sensitive man would act like the op.
All this child boy like u would just seat near
Your android phone and start gabbernishing shit.

A sensitive man is a man with low self esteem. He is probably scared cos the cousin is hotter.

He should have a cousin like Aki or Pawpaw and let’s see if he won’t travel to China for 10 years without his wife.

By the way Agbaya, if you know who is behind this moniker, you would beg to befriend me.

iramure:
Trust is just a word
Trust at your own peril
I trust my wife, DNA proved my children not my biological product( just for illustration)

A man should trust his wife. If he marries a woman that cannot be trusted, then that’s his problem.

seanwilliam:
It seems I was right when I said you’re mentally slow. How does being respectful and submissive translate to not having ‘ a say ‘ in relationship?

And why must I imbibe and worship the western culture? Does that me your culture is inferior? You’ve been brainwashed and formatted, I’m sorry I can’t be of help. You’re damaged beyond repair.

Your response is full of whataboutery self

My last reply to you dimwit

A black kettle looking down on a golden plate. Agbaya, keep looking for a woman to control. You’re the type that will sexually abuse your female kid and expect your wife to keep quiet in the name of submission.

Unrated900:
Go away we aren’t talking about trust here
A
Sensitive man would act like the op.
All this child boy like u would just seat near
Your android phone and start gabbernishing shit.

Agbaya, marriage isn’t for kids. If you can’t trust your wife with a relative, then use your fish brain and don’t get married.

iramure:
trust wetin?
Na wah for u oooo

Then why did he marry her if she cannot be trusted?

seanwilliam:
Telling me that talk is cheap clearly shows two things about you
1. You compromise a lot and never a man of your own words which means you have low self esteem
2. You are too ’slow’ to think for yourself and set your own standard.,

Also marrying a billionaire’s daughter is not an achievement to me, I can provide my needs I don’t need my in-law financial support ( like you that worship them and their money )..

If we’re to go by our tradition or western religion, a woman is created as a support , of whom you give directive..


And if we’re to go by the new norms, then every man has the right to choose a woman that ticks all of their boxes and not woman to manage with , after all woman too have preferences and are selective..


I don’t know what is difficult in being respectful and submissive to your partner as a woman to guarantee peaceful and healthy environment .. if she can’t compromise for her own family ( husband, kids ), I wonder what her usefulness is..



If my daughter or sister fails to use common sense when it comes to family issues, and she chooses to follow the bandwagon in the name of feminism , then she should be ready to face the consequence herself..

You should give x2 of respect you give to me to your husband ..

It is only someone with a very low self esteem that would subject his partner to unnecessary rules and regulations just to massage his ego.

I am a liberalist. I am free spirited. I am an advocate for the emancipation of human beings.

I am of the belief that absolutely no one should lord over another; whether males or females.

If a woman is in a relationship and walking on egg shells, then that relationship isn’t healthy.

If a woman cannot be herself or freely express herself then that relationship isn’t healthy.

Your type would insist a woman must cook and wash for you even if she is under the weather. Why? Because she is your partner and must be submissive.

Whenever I listen to people in their 20’s,30’s or even 40’s speak like these, I weep for this generation. This is because, your mentality is archaic and practiced by our forefathers.

Instead of you to think like a modern man, you are still hinged on the past like your forefathers. This is clear proof that the one who is suffering from low self esteem is you.

The only way you feel like a man is if you can control a woman. Other that that, you’re worthless.

Hmnnn….. people are just evil. Sometimes I sit and wonder why anyone would want to hurt his fellow being, talk less of a child who is innocent and harmless.

When a man sexually abuses his daughter, I wonder what goes through his mind. Is it out if sheer wickedness or because he doubts the paternity?

The woman should also be punished. The stupid mother knew what was going on and did nothing to protect her daughter. What is this world turning into?

Each passing day, I am becoming more convinced not to give bring a child into this world. The evil that abounds just keeps getting worse.

Na wao! This means you don’t trust your wife at all. In other words, since you harbor such thoughts, you can’t be trusted with your wife’s female cousins.

seanwilliam:
First of all, I am not broke by any standard,
Secondly , wether she’s a billionaire’s or trillionaire’s daughter , I don’t give a damn, she must accord the respect I deserve unless no be me she one marry ..
This clearly shows you suffer inferiority complex and you worship money .., As rich as DJ cuppy is, guys Dey dump her if she messes up , na her papa one Dey feed me




Secondly ,” respect “ is mutual, I’m equally obligated to respect my wife and family in general and to discharge my duty to the best of my ability..

Thirdly , when a woman is submissive, respectful and supportive ( not necessarily finance ) , she’s already bringing something tangible to table. And mind you , if she’s bringing money to table, IT’S for the betterment of the FAMILY and not to myself only . My husle alone can feed me till I leave this world.. if she’s respectful and submissive, it’s also for the betterment of the family not only for me as that will guarantee peace and healthy environment for us and the kids.

So demanding those things , doesn’t mean I’m selfish , it’s because I love my family and I want the best for us..
And common sense demands that she should gladly provide all that except she’s Selfish or doesn’t have the love of the’ family ‘ at heart..


Being respectful and submissive doesn’t translate to slavery ..
Only a mumu with zero reasoning will equate that to slavery ..

Funnily enough , women with those qualities are directly or indirectly in control of their homes..

Males are most mumued gender especially to something that boost our egos ..



Also, I am personally a traditional young man, 90 percent of time I put on traditional / native attires..


And yes, I must tell you, my culture is not perfect same way the western culture is not perfect, so I need to joggle and find balance between the two culture.


I won’t like women tying wrapper upandan ( it’s in our culture ) same way I hate seeing my woman body being exposed ( western culture), she should cover sensitive part of her body .. that’s my own..


More so, I am not the religion type and I’m not a fan of white wedding too. But I associate myself with Christianity and that’s because the doctrine is ok by me even though I’m from mixed traditional and Islam background ..



So??

Talk is cheap and that is why a beggar once called me ‘broke’ and a mad man called me ‘stupid’.

I will wait for you to marry a billionaire’s daughter then come back and continue with the rants.

It is people like you that make marriage seems very difficult; almost like a woman is in bondage.

Why should any sane man lay down rules and regulations for his partner? Is she your partner or servant? Why should a woman be married and still be walking on egg shells?

Groom your sisters, daughters and wife to be submissive and leave other women alone. Is that too difficult to understand?

seanwilliam:
I don’t need to groom my sister, common sense demands that a woman should be submissive and respectful in every way to her husband .. that will gurantee stability and peace in their relationship and also will ensure their offsprings are raised in healthy environment.


I am not in anyway supporting domestic violence . And if a woman does the needful ( submission and respect ) and the man still finds fault with her, then she should honorably walk away .


No man in his right sense will want to lose such woman.. you can’t be treating your man like trash and expecting him to treat you like a queen .. you’re not his boss, this is Africa, he’s the boss . And funnily enough , men are easily controlled by women with respect and submissiveness.. ..



And yes, you can’t run a home without money , Only money pays the bills ..

This is Africa and you are the boss entails that a man should bear 100% of the family’s financial responsibilities.

Why then do you men complain if the woman is not bringing anything to the table?

Why do you complain if the woman isn’t interested in working?

Why do you complain of exorbitant bride price?

Why do you wear European dresses and frown when your woman ties wrapper across her chest?

Why do you identify with Christianity or Islam cos they’re religions that was introduced by the west?

You cannot remember to be African when it suits you and cry foul when it doesn’t.

A wife isn’t slave to her husband and mutual respect should be encouraged.

Any man who is polished and sophisticated will not ask his wife to be submissive. Only men who are scums with very low self esteem and inferiority complex demand for such. The late singer’s husband is an example.

If a woman should be submissive to any man, that should be her father and not some goddamn bastard of a man who will still dick another woman behind her back.

And now that I think about it, why is it that most men that want their women to be submissive are either broke or married to broke women?

If you were married to a billionaire’s daughter, would you have the guts to question her to the extent of calling her to be submissive? The answer is no. So stop being a hypocrite by asking that a wife should be submissive when it suits you.

Senomii:
Which kind nonsense blogging be this Only she be teenager only she be 36yrs??

I just tire.

The chic is drop dead gorgeous.

SmellySperm:
Go and get schooled about the redpill movement, don't be unfortunate

Alaye, why not ask one of your comrades to accommodate you?

seanwilliam:
just shut up . Not every one can refrain. It’s easier to say ‘ walk away’ when you’re not in their shoes. . People react differently and that doesn’t make them less of a human.

Some women will make you lose you patience and sanity , that’s why it’s better not to marry such lady than to marry and manage.
And the example you gave doesn’t make sense, husband to wife relationship is different to employer and employee relationship..
Imagine someone you’re housing, feeding, talking to you with total disrespect compared to someone paying u salary for job you’re doing..
I’m not justifying domestic violence then it’s what it is.


Ladies should learn how to be submissive and respectful.

Marriage is not all about enduring nonsense..
Although there are some beast in human form ( in some men )





To men out there, pls , no matter what , make sure the woman is 100% submissive and respectful before you marry her and be a good husband too.

You know why? If things go south , na u people go blame ..

Groom your sisters to be submissive and leave other women the hell alone.

You talk like running the home is all about money. A man provides in cash and the woman complements in kind.

On top of that, one stupid man still wants to control the woman because he thinks he is superior.

The example I gave above is just to illustrate that women assault women just to massage their ego and flex muscles.

They can only bully their wives cos they are cowards and suffer from low self esteem. Like I said earlier, groom your sisters to be with men like that.

SmellySperm:
These niggas are unpredictable, trust none.

Please someone should assist me with accommodation for 1 month in Lagos, preferably ibeju lekki axis or even ajah and within.
Been having several job IVs around those places mentioned. After securing a job I'll sort myself out,I'm not a difficult person, thanks.

Na wao! So red pillers too seek for favors?

lexy2014:
Do they bottle juice in Nigeria?

I meant beverage companies that produce Maltina and stuff.

yankison:
Fool

Another agbaya on the loose.

It’s like she used African juju to hook the guy and now his eyes have cleared. How can someone who was professing his love for her a couple of weeks ago change suddenly?

What’s so special about their faces and what are we supposed to do with it?

Premiumwriter:
makes me wonder why a wife should be so uncouth as to be endured.

Same way a dude is promiscuous but the woman still endures. If you can’t endure, then walk away.

dacblogger:
We all have a story to tell...
My own say here is that we the ladies should learn how to control our mouth so as not to push men into hitting us...
Cos sometimes na our mouth cause am...
Most men are not voilent , na their wives push them.
While most are beast in human form.
If you marry the non violent ones, try not to push them into hitting you.

Stop justifying domestic violence. If your partner is uncouth, then walk away.

Do you know the number of toxic bosses some of these abusers have? But they choose to keep silent because they are afraid to lose their jobs.

If they can endure their bosses at work, then they should also learn to endure their wives at home.

He took your youth away at 15. What were you thinking dicking a guy at 15? You were supposed to be in school mama.

Omoh! I have come to realize that beverage companies don’t even wash their bottles properly. Most of those bottles are old and rusted with left over particles. I wonder what NAFDAC is doing about it.

Forbes that has lost its credibility. They are missing because they didn’t pay Forbes what they asked for.

ThEGodFaThEr129:
To those still questioning if Pac and Pinkett had a thing together, Here you have it.

What does the video proof other than 2 teenagers having fun on stage? Get a life.

YoungLionken:
Imagine little August Alsina making such infamous revelation about his love affair with a man (with a world wide recognition) like Will Smith's wife..

Dear men, never you abuse your woman by subjecting her to severe beating(one or two correctional slap is okay), no matter the provocation. Again, never you get blinded by love, to the point of losing your pride and regard as an African man, if your woman can no longer respect you as she should, then show her the exit door..

A man's destiny is determined by the love of his life; Adam and Eve, Samson and Delilah, Ahab and Jezebel, Solomon with his women, etc

Alaye, one or two slap is okay right? Is your wife your employee that you think she deserves to be punished? African men are useless and Nigerian men are more useless.

Forumobserver12:
Jada Smith brought this show of shame upon her family, why must she go public about her affairs with the guy in the first place?

She said she was separated from Will at that time. I think the guy wanted to expose the relationship but she beat him to it.

This is getting stale already. She slept with that dude when she and Will were separated. So kini big deal?

Besides, she and Will practice an open marriage so why all the unnecessary criticisms ?

All over the world, spouses cheat on each other in the closet and pretend like nothing happened.

A woman practicing an open marriage hooks up with another man while separated from him. She opens up and suddenly the world won’t let her experience peace. Such hypocrisy!