₦airaland Forum

Good. They should have a feeling of what unemployed Nigerians have been experiencing. By the way, oil workers are egoistic. I used to have about 3 as neighbours back in those days, and their pompous attitude was out of this world.

Mindlog:
From what you shared, it means the man's was "spiritually".manipulated into descending into alcoholism and other addictions he may be battling with?

I work in a psychiatric facility and most relatives of patients insists that the mental health issues has roots in "jazz" and they have gone to many prayer homes and healing centres before finally resorting to getting them admitted in a psychiatric hospital. For me, I interrogate that "jazz" angle they come up with while being culturally sensitive.

Yeah, that's what I meant. The perpetrator said he travelled far to the west for a potent "charm" to harm the victim. In this case, the man confessed and wasn't even coerced.

Joshmodest:
I don't understand how somebody would be tired of life , and now leave his fan , sniper on the table , cement at the backyard , knife in the kitchen and go to a river to jump ??

Because, it is less painful to die by drowning.

Mindlog:
And has he been released from the bondage of alcoholism and womanizing?

His family is doing everything to help. Mind you, they got to know about the bondage cos the man responsible confessed to it before he died. A once loving dad just woke up one day and became a different person entirely. I mean, it was strange cos we all knew how chilled and level headed he was.

Whenever people say such things don't exist, I just laugh cos I have seen it all. Sometimes, I wonder where those powers come from, then I remind myself that we are Africans and the devil must have lived with us.

Ovo04:
Don’t tell me you fell for that covid 19 prank?
That’s an advert. She’s telling you she’s single. 33 days from today Na December oh

This actually cracked me up.

Zoroaster:
Are you mistaking nengi for erica?
Nengi never bodyshamed anyone in that house.
It shows you didn't the show.. Smh

Maybe you should go back and watch the show again. Was your TV streaming in Spanish? She called Lucy "ugly" and an "amoeba" on several occasions. Isn't that body shaming?

But this woman was one of those that wrecked Nigeria during the PDP era. Sentiments aside, I don't think she deserves the position cos she has proven in the past that she can be fantastically corrupt.

Khloe is now a full figured woman. I love her confidence and her "I don't give a damn" attitude.

And who isn't ambitious in Nigeria? In Nigeria, we are ass lickers, sycophants and hypocrites. It doesn't matter as long as you're benefiting.

But, if you can proof you ain't one of the above, then you're a rare gem and I would like to take you on a trip with me.

CHoccolaTE:
You forced her and she covered face as if someone is raping her because guess what,

Forced sex is actually rape.

Yes, your being married doesn't change that. And here you are talking about how you felt rejected as if you are the victim here, my friend will you gedifok!!!

If she is still breastfeeding she will have very low to non existent sex drive because thats how the bodies of nursing mothers work, their sex drives nose dive because nature and evolution has programmed females to not want sex (pregnancy) when there is a little one still depending on them.

When I say marriage is not natural frustrated men will jump on my neck to start yarning rubbish. How is a man with very high sex drive supposed to cope for the two years his wife breastfeeds their baby with low sex drive? Or not even wanting sex at all. Some breast feeding moms dont even have ovulation or monthly cycle or period until they wean their babies so the vagina is extremely dry and sex is usually painful.

Stop raping your wife Mr man, help her get into the mood instead of having selfish sex like many of you married men do, you get married then start having only 30seconds sex that satisfies only yourself and yourself alone then you start wondering why your wife does not want to keep submitting her vagina for you to use like say na short time ashawo you carry.

Damn! You just said it all. You're my type.

Loveandwar:
My dad has been living a lonely life for a decade now and his life style scares me a lot. I really your advise on how to improve his life style.

We are a family of 6 with 3 girls and a boy. My Dad is a loving, funny, caring and responsible father but he is a drunkard(not an insult but a fact).

Due to his drunken nature and irreconcilable differences between with my mum , the home was always hot with everyday fight between my dad and mum which affected we the children alot. We practically lived with curses which they rain on each other morning, afternoon,night and many midnights.
When I gained admission into uni and thought I had escaped, I would receive calls almost everyday about my parents fight especially during exams.
Family members, police, court and even the Oba of the community had intervene all to no avail.

My mum could no longer bare it 11 years ago, so she left my dad without notice and took us along except my brother because she didn't want my dad to be alone.
My dad wanted to move in with my mum but she refused because she wanted peace. He brought my brother to us that he doesnt want we the children to be separated which my mum accepted and that was how my dad started living alone.

After my mum left, my dad lost his job (forced to retire as a civil servant), lost his car and his inherited house was 'grabbed' by the so called omo-oniles. They paid the family off which was shared between my dad, his brother, his mum and he also gave we his children some percentage out of his own share. He refused to rent an apartment and told us he would sort himself out because he doesnt want to be a tenant. I kept my own share just in case. He squandered his own share and was thrown out of the sold house, Btw, I was married and had just delivered my baby when the house was sold.
I later heard he was sleeping on the street so I rented an apartment for him with my own share that I had set aside. He didnt live up to one month when the landlord refunded his money excluding agency fee et al and asked my dad to leave his house because of his alcohol nature and fights. He lavished the money and was back on the street. When i heard and asked him he told us he now squarts with a friend till he gets another apartment , he never allowed us to know or visit him at that friend's house.

Finally he was paid his pension which he had been waiting for so that he can buy a house but I had travelled to a remote area for work at that time. Someone that knows my family well reached me and informed me that my dad had been sleeping in front of a church, I was shocked and sad when I heard about it, I requested for 2 days off to come to Lagos and sort things out. When I arrived I lodged my dad in a hotel for 2 weeks so that i can go back to complete my remaining 1week rotation at work and still have the time to search for a good house for him to buy. When i returned a week later, my dad told me he had already rented an apartment. I said no problem we can still buy the house but he refused and said he has to utilise his one year which he just paid for before buying his house and that was how he squandered his pension lump sum on alcohol and women and dashing people on the street money anyhow.

He started living on his monthly pension which was okay for him initially but due to his alcohol nature, he is in so much debt and his pension allowance N49k lasts for only two days. I and my sister support him with 15k monthly which doesn't last up to a week as well.

His lifestyle now is an eye sore , his landlady and neighbor keeps complains alot about him, he is so unkempt, drinks to stupor and sleeps with the small girls in the area. Everyone keeps telling us to take care of our dad as if we don't. We always have to reach him through his neighbours as he always misplace his phone, sometimes seized by those he owes.

We discussed about taking him to an elderly home facility which he declined because he doesnt want to live with a non family member and doesnt want restriction of movement.

My dad is 59 years old.
One of my sister lives with me due to proximity to work while my other sister lives with my mum.
My brother is still in uni and he is not interested in living with him because of his lifestyle.

I really want him to enjoy his old age and care from his children. I have been praying and will keep praying for him. I am also trusting to get good advice from matured people here.

When did he start to exhibit this behavior? I used to know a man who behaved exactly like your dad, if not worse. Years later, we got to know it was a spiritual manipulation. He was put in bondage by his wife's ex fiance.

Ebenezer202I:
you be mumu as you allow make that small girl deceive you

Lol, and why would she? Is COVID-19 a gold mine that someone would wish for?

oliseh99:
Please I need a Neuro surgeon Specialist in the House...My Dad is Dying..
Please i need advise..My father had stroke and they said he has fluid in his brain that they need to do brain surgery
I want to know his chances surviving because right now he can neither eat nor talk.. Please any help or advice in the house i am afraid since he is weak if he can withstand the brain surgery or any other means to dry up the fluid (Hydrocephalus)

Please i need help urgent...
you can call me on this number--0.81.46.3.0.4.3.44

I'm sorry about your dad cos I understand the feeling. Who diagnosed his ailment, and don't you think that medical doctor is in the best position to fill you in? Or better still, a google search will provide more info than what you're seeking for here. I hope you get the best treatment for him.

No problem, as long as you call on all your family members to lead the protest.

Lightangel65:
On Facebook just search these religious forums where they argue about muslims and christains. after knowing i didn't fully believe then i checked the quran and hadith(the paedophiles holy book) and i found out everything was true.

There is even a lot of more dirty secrets, the people leaking these secrects are people who abandoned islam and became atheist or christains.

If you know about Mohammed you would know that his followers are under a spell. He was tormented by a demon who beat him and forced him to recite what he told him which he used to form parts of the koran, then he started asking for help but his Catholic cousin(who he slept with her dead body) being a juvenile about the bible thought it was an angel that why he didn't get help

Damm! I really find this piece very interesting and of course appalling that this is what Islam is all about. No wonder they behave the way they do. I have always said this: "that Koran is misleading cos I'm aware it also teaches about murder". Thanks for the insight, I'll surely dig up more about these.

Lightangel65:
Lol you don't know the bible mary was over 18 the jews jew not paedophiles like you guys she was at marrying age which is over 18 in jewish terms.

Meanwhile

Mohammed slept Aisha at 9years after marrying her at 6 making him a a paedophile
Mohammed raped his jewish wife after killing her husband.
Mohammed and his guys raped lots of people during his crusades.
Mohammed killed lots of people making him a serial killer.
Mohammed was tormented by a devil(jinn) he said so and he should have gotten help before waraka missguided him into believing it was angel gabriel.
Mohammed is a dictator cause he made it so that anyone who left him is an apostate and should be killed.



And the cherry pie on top Mohammed was a perv he slept with his dead cousin...

And you worship this guy are you guys sane

Hmmnnn....I didn't know all these. With a prophet like this, what do u expect from his followers? Pls, how can I dig up more about this Mohammed guy?

azmanaty2:
Send them back to saudi arabia. Muslims have no business being in Europe or any other modern society. Beheading and bombing trait is inborn - in them

You're absolutely right. They can't seem to live with regular humans.

Hmmn...and she was an "EndSARS" protester. This means more people will be infected. Get well soon dear. I don't wish bad health on anyone cos the feeling cannot be described. And if one eventually dies, it is always a slow death.

Coldie:
I no go lie. Nengi get class abeg.

Tacha acts very classless.

Mercy I won't lie ur Igbo accent makes things smhw for u, plus u no get swag most of Mercy's pictures if u look her face e just dae smhw.

The word "class" is often misinterpreted. If you know the meaning, you can never describe someone like Nengi as a woman with class.

Let me school you a little. Looking and dressing well doesn't mean one has class. A woman with class has etiquettes and self respect. She speaks and acts in an elegant manner. She respects people and their opinions, and is not verbally toxic. She dresses well, but doesn't reveal too much. She can also speak on a wide variety of topics because she is knowledgeable. A woman with class doesn't show off or sing her praises.

I could go on and on, but let me stop here. But please, Nengi and "class" are two opposites that cannot merge together. The same Nengi that was fond of body shaming other female housemates and letting the whole world think that she was the prettiest in the house whereas she wasn't.

You're not alone Davido. More than 90% of Nigerian men don't know what love making is about. They just screw and screw and screw.

Falz is a hypocrite and clout chaser. After all the noise about being depressed, he is busy celebrating. I'm not surprised cos he actually looks stupid. A wise man would have been on the low until all these is over.

Is he afraid to stand by his words? If his name has been mistakenly included and a price was to be expected, would he beg to differ?

Muslims have one voice and mentality irrespective of race. I used to think African Muslims were "rugged" until I realized that their western counterparts are more deadly.

Was it not like yesterday that they celebrated an anniversary? Time really flies.

Seriously? And I thought Nigerians were smart. All they need to do is buy "nobody bag is better" sack and empty the food items in it. How will the Government now identify the food items?

hybrid77:
Lalasticlala

Just to be clear, i drove past some soldiers at Express way, Udu, warri, despite heavy security presence.

They requested for my ID which i quickly gave to them..they were respectful and essured that i got to my destination.

I am a doctor and i have to say that, throughout the curfew, i have gone about my daily activities without any form of embarrassment whatsoever.

I am just ashamed that a colleague was humiliated so badly..

The bad eggs in the military may ignite the second wave of #EndSars>>#EndArmyBrutality..

All thanks to the Army for keeping us safe..

Really? I detest 90% of Nigerian doctors. They are egoistic with nothing upstairs.

freeborn02:
So, I have to be his PA for me not to see from your absurd perspective?

Son, do not take panadol for another person's headache. It doesn't end well. I repeat, are you his PA?

She tried to escape? Where the heck was she escaping to? She must have been thinking she was in Nigeria where anything goes. I always say that: "a knife murderer is the most dangerous of all cos it takes a whole lot of energy, hate and anger to kill with a knife".

freeborn02:
L
Even if he decides to mourn on his birthday, you will still have something to say against him.

He doesn't even know you exist. So, your opposing views are unknown to him and your view doesn't matter.

Are u his PA?

I hate cooking, but do it anyways cos I don't trust people to handle it well in terms of hygiene.