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Mind your own business ma guy. What an adult decides to do with their body, or how they chose to live their lives is none of your effing business. Okay?

I masturbate, nack people gf and fiancees, video our sexual acts, do anal, adulterate, etc.

E no concern you ma guy. Mind your own business!!!

Seduce me with wide, straight or cargo, and I might fall.

I dislike skinny and flare... I don't wanna see all your shape. Wait till we're ready to play

Jonathan will defeat BAT in a Free and Fair election

Oga when e reach your turn, divorce the cheating spouse. Una no fit live una lives silently; constantly dishing out unsolicited advice.

PHEV as long as you're in Nigeria, and intend to travel long distance. But if you're to only use the vehicle within town, the FULL EV all the way

Do you have to say everything? How old are the kids?

Omo... If they are old enough to understand, you tell them. If they're too young, write down everything you know, and keep for them. Hopefully, you'll be alive by when they grow. If you're not, let them have your diary

People attach some annoying meanings to things that are not that deep. Just keep the ring, sell it, hand over to you son (or daughter), fling it into the river or flush it down the toilet. It's just an accessory.

The ring doesn't mean shiii if you don't want it to mean shiii

6... Beautiful but illiterate (NOT UNINTELLIGENT ooo, illiterate). The reason is simple... Illiteracy is not a bad thing. My late mom was stopped at "Primary 5 or 6", whatever it was called that time... but that woman is one of the few women I met that have rich vocabs in their mouth. The woman can speak English for Africa.

Everyone can learn; and everyone deserves a chance to grow too. I'll invest in her education, so that she'll stand by my side, and give wise counsel.

Gate Shadow is wavy on a flat road path

DeclanR:
What actually causes high blood pressure please?

Kai. Oga... Use your phone to read. Ask ChatJipiti, copilot, gemini, etc. Read

I hope it wouldn't be late by the time he decides to be a better dad. Money is not everything in child training

Angelfrost:
Una just get luck... Romero is a goat!

What type of goat?

Goallll... It looked easy

Edoblakky:
Reece James was given a worse tackle by these same Tottenham players but the biased officials looked the other way but now, Michael Oliver gave a straight red. The inconsistency is so glaring and gives epl a terrible image

That means they had it coming. Michael Oliver has sha always been a no nonsense Ref

I hope Man U will do better than what they did vs Everton

Red Card to Romero

Kobojunkie:
Dumping a child in another country because you assume the child to have gone rogue is a solution to what exactly? Aren't there child rogues in that country where you sent the child to? Do all children raised in the host country all turn out great citizens and non-criminal elements? So, of what measurable gain is this act of clear child abandonment, abeg?

If I feel my child has become entangled with bad friends (as is the case in this post), and in a country where it is a crime to give corporal punishment... I might as well send him to where flogging or punishment is not a crime! Gentle parenting (or whatever the failed parents call it these days) doesn't work for everyone!

Spare the rod, and spoil the child!
Proverbs 22:15: "Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child, but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him".


You're 14, and already engaging in criminal activities? Seriously? And I cannot even correct you (as your dad)? I can't make you change if you don't want to; because it will be term child endangerment and physical assault?

I'll give African training a chance. If it fails, and he still became a criminal... Well, at least I tried my best. He was already a criminal in the UK!

NavasBit:
Redmi note 11 pro 5g
Mtn

Please which location is this?

Nwunwa:
Redmi note 10
Airtel

I'm a bit confused,does this signify it's slow or fast

100kbs? How Where is this abeg? What useless network is that?

Samantha124:
You already have 3 kids? Damn you're old.. .. Some of us only have 2 cats and no kids yet.. .. Come to think of it, I still have a long way to go..😂😂😂

But I think it has everything to do with one's personality and level of self control... Some kids have been getting flogged by their parents from a very age against certain bad things that they might've done or attempted to do, but they'd still go ahead and do those things until they're old enough to fight back, they become accustomed to their parents' flogging... I've seen such kids before... Same thing goes with those like me who haven't been flogged by their parents at home.

Some will decide not to listen to their parents' advice no matter how much the parents may advice them.

So, it all boils down to one's personality and level of self control.

2 cats? Please add a dog to the mix... You'll enjoy it. If you're in Abuja, I'll take care of the puppy till he's gotten all his early-age shots at 50% discount. **Just for you**

I'm really not old; just a little over 30 .

About kids, I'll say you talk with them first. Then if they refuse to listen, you use your slippers, or belt. If you're a Christian, you'll have to follow the scriptures. Spare the rod and spoil the child! There are some offences that cannot be corrected by talks. You flog the demon out of the child, else he'll grow up to become a manace to the society.

One of my kids would always use whatever he has on his hand to hit his brothers or anyone that makes him angry. Well... We initially thought it was just childish tantrums, and just talked with him and advice him; until he hit an elder. That day, his mom gave him some beatings, and told him she'll report to me when I returned. Well, I returned and added some punishment to the mix. He hasn't done same ever since, even to his age mates!

Staphylococcus:
Some people on the thread would say, your mum should have talked to you about the butt.

Beating will crest some things in your head that, you will never forget. I do many things now involuntarily and it’s all because of how I was raised. There are lines I have been programmed as a kid to never cross.

We got a call from school, my boy went under the desk and was peeping at girls' underpants. We spoke to him, adviced him, but didn't flog him. He stopped. But 3months later, he repeated same. This time, I flogged him very well... It's 6months already or so, and no such reports again.

Those that don't want to flog their kids to correct them for serious offences should know that the child would blame them tomorrow when they turn out bad.

There are offences that can be settled by conversations, advices and talks. Some can be corrected by grounding, taking away certain rights (like no TV for 2 weeks), limiting food (like... No lunch for you for 3 days; just breakfast and dinner, etc), limiting play times, etc. But there are some offences that really need the kid to be flogged and flogged very good. Else, that child would be damaged for life!!!


A former neighbour had a son (for another man) before her marriage. She had a daughter for her husband (her 2nd child for her husband). One day, she saw the older boy (9 years or so) playing with the little girl's privates. Well... The mother did not tell her husband (the girl's father), and she did not advice the boy. She did not wait to even tell his uncle whom she usually reports him to... She flogged him till he peed his trousers. If you don't flog such demons out of the kids, they'll become a menace to the society. Damaged for life.


From the Bible:
Those who spare the rod hate their children, but those who love them are diligent to discipline them. (Proverbs 13:24)

Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him. (Proverbs 22:15)

Samantha124:
Funny enough, as a child I was also cautioned against watching movies consisting of a parental guidance of 16VSN... Up until this day, I check the movie's parental guidance first before I could watch it because I still like sticking to movies consisting of a parental guidance of 13VL or ALL... Maybe that's why I still watch cartoons..

The only movies that I remember watching that surpassed 13VL is Doctor Strange in the multiverse of madness because apart from Venom, I love marvel movies, but I later regretted it because it consisted of horror and I don't watch horror...

And another one is Power series because I love African American gangster movies. Apart other things, I found it interesting.. I had to read what was it about before watching it... But with most movies, immediately I see 16 or 18 as part of the parental guidance, I move..

And before I could also leave home for the University for the first time, my entire family members sat me down and told about the importance of the 7 B's( Books Before Boys Because Boys Bring Babies)... You may not believe this but I stayed single throughout my University days until I did my finals, I only got into a relationship during the later stage of my final year and it was with the same guy my parents separated me from when they took me away to a university that was far from home, we're now engaged.

I could've decided to fight them because I wanted to go to the university that was close to home, but I didn't because I knew they were only trying to do what was best for me... They only allowed me to do a transfer to the one close to home on the same final year.

And my mother is not the religious type, but she told me to look for a church I can go to when I get to the university, which I did and it kept me disciplined because even though I had friends who partied, had multiple boyfriends, and drank alcohol, I didn't do any of those things because I remembered that I made a promise to my family.

And my parents didn't have to shout at me, flog me, or threatened me in order for me to listen... All they did is adviced me.

There are a lot of other things they taught me without raising their hands.

It would interest you to know that if they had just "talked" to me back then, I would have forgotten about all they said. I would have smoked hemp!

I went to a boarding school, and my room mates, friends, bunk mate we're all smokers!!! Nothing would have stopped me from having a taste of it. Well... I never did! I never even collected the blunt! I enjoy the smell of hemp when someone else is smoking it, but I have never tasted it! I still remember mom's beatings even till today (I have 3 kids)!

I can afford to buy as much as my brain can carry and more, but I've never ever bought even the smallest one, I know where it's sold, but don't know who sells.

Don't get me wrong... I'm a very adventurous type, and a wild being. I am very sure if I wasn't beaten when they saw me with the cigarette, nothing would have stopped me! Now, I wish they did same to me about some other vices like having too many female friends. Jeezzz...I had upto 10 girl friends at some point, and we were all good! I wished they flogged me to "don't do that", maybe I would be a good boy with fewer body counts😭😭😭. I was adviced to use protection instead. Now, I wish I knew only my wife

Samantha124:
But it could also mean that she's from an abusive family and she's accustomed to the idea of using violence as it would've been the only thing she learned from home.

If as a child you grow up in a family that uses drugs, chances are you're also going to start using drugs from a very young age because it's a normal thing at home.

Some of these rebellious kids also need help because you'd beat the child up only for you to end up in prison sharing a cell with a cold blooded killer..

There are quite a number of misdemeanors that I was corrected for as a kid by flogging. Truth is... Decades down the line, whenever I want to do them, I remember they are wrong things to do. I once received the flogging when my mom saw me hanging a smoked cigarette butt on my lips. Till this day, I don't and can't smoke (even though I get the urge to try it out sometimes).

Yugoslavia247:
Wow.
You beat women

"Rod" of correction... Bad man is talking about the dick 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Boomkalakuta:
These ones still wan paint Enugu governor good 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Take a look at your first pic , where is the drainage?

There's actually a drainage. Look towards the bike, you'll see the wood they put yhere to use in crossing the drainage. The picture quality is poor imo

Oga... You people reveal too much. Delete this thread, let the world assume you know and have nothing. It's good if you can shock them!!!

CXLVII:
Delta people will never learn!

PDP has fooled them for over 29 years and they keep voting for the disaster!

A state that never had a governor in last 8 years

Omo-Agege was also PDP. They had to choose between the rock and a hard place... I think Sheriff is a better option