₦airaland Forum

Ginaz:
Biko abeg pure lies . She looks like a 60yr old woman from her face . Na just the body young small . Age is telling well on her . Stop the flattery and over hyping.

*roll eyes*

Please why are you angry? What is bitter and worth rolling of eyes in admiring someone's ageless Gene's?

Some Africans really have issues, and you wonder why most of them continue to live in abject poverty.

When you are not happy with others beauty, success and achievements, the law of nature and the universe will shot the doors of beauty, success and achievement on you. Life is a seed brother!

So many people in this forum need to be educated about the implications of their words, hatreds, and anger, because their lack of success and poverty is not cause by anyone but themselves. Their words and the ways they treat others has kept them at the level they are today. You can type anything behind your keyboard because no one knows you or sees you, but those hurtful words you type, the hatred, tribalism, and ethnocentrism you vomit on NL continue to hinder all your endeavors.

Henix:
What is happening to the world? This epidemic is already affecting our business climate in Onitsha. My goods are yet to arrive from China since February, with excuses here and there. Is science failing mankind? Why is the world seems to be finding it difficult to bring out a cure? How long can we survive without a cure to this virus?

Just have a little patience. There are trials and experiments going on now at UNC regarding a vaccine to combat this virus. Also, I wouldn't accept goods from China at this time around, because you never know who packed them. They may have some traces of the virus and that might spread quickly in your community and your country.

Ablemax:
lies spotted

Don't understand what you mean by lie spotted.

However, thanks for reading.

Nigerian military forces need adequate intelligence forces to defeat the boko haram. Rominger around the forest with arms alone can't do it.

They should stop giving people a false hope.

Twice last year he told Nigeria that boko leader had been killed and now, he's making a promise he can't fulfill.

This guy has made a lot of money with this boko haram terrorism and wouldn't want it to end.

iamJ:
All the money he still looks like Clifford orji

Because successful people need no introduction, as their profession and achievements applaud for them.

In contrast, broke people have to spend all their savings to impress people who don't give a bleed about them.

You see someone with iPhone 11 x pro, Gucci head to feet, Hermes handbag worth $15k, but all they have achieved in their lives is owning an Instagram account with 200 followers. You go to their savings you'll only see a total of fifteen thousand naira.

Who are we really kidding?

If you already have a job where you are making more money than 65k then you should turn it down, but if you don't have a job or currently working then it's better than staying idle.

AsomughaChuks05:
And they say Buhari is not creating jobs.

Future terrorists loading!!

Handsomejok:
Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Please what do you suggest I do?

I think you have some mental illness, which I believe needs to be checked immediately before you get out of hand.

I see why your life is filled with ups and downs, simply because of the way you think.

Real men don't talk or think like children; they face their challenges and make them better again, without blaming anybody.

Your shop got burned down, and you have the nerves to blame it on your wife. Well, my question is, how did you protect your shop against fire or flood emergencies to make sure that your goods were safe?

Before you got married you were just caring for your self, siblings and mother, but now that you are married did it ever occur to you that you now have extra mouth to feed, which if fact, has depleted your savings and makes you owe everyone? Is your wife working or just sitting around waiting for you to bring in 100% of the house bills and upkeep?

Please leave your wife alone and focus on training your mind. As soon as you reset your mind, things will start falling in place for you.

Thank you.

wizdomnzube:
Yeah I think you mentioned something like that in your previous comments. You also mentioned that she has been teaching you our language.

Yes, I speak and write Igbo fluently.

wizdomnzube:
Yes I'm Igbo, from Imo State. But let's leave here first, it's a public forum.

Oh okay. My mother is from Imo State as well. Thank you.

wizdomnzube:
Yeah but it doesn't matter. It doesn't stop us from getting to know each other does it?

It will be difficult, because I live in Los Angeles. Distance is far. Are you Igbo?

wizdomnzube:
That's nice. Well I'll love to know more about you tho. How about we talk some where more private. Make we touch down whatsapp..

Would have been great, but unfortunately, I'm not residing in Nigeria.

wizdomnzube:
Wow, I love your mindset. You're right though, Ajebbutter what kinda work do you do?

Pediatrician

wizdomnzube:
Rich man pikin I'm guessing I'm right.....

Oh wow!

Well, my parents wealth is theirs. I work over 50 hour a week and make my own money and pay my own bills.

Nigeria, you guyz are in trouble. With these types of people and their mentality

jantofubu:
Her way of suppressing tension

Not really. The doctor wanted her to play the instrument so that she does not lose her musical sensory.
Please read it again.

musicwriter:
I was talking to someone recently and he told me that ''people in the village eat better food than people in the city.'' I asked him why, and he replied that they eat fresh food. I was taken aback and ever since I've been wondering whether this's actually true.

That's true

xeros20:
This is my sister l have been looking for

Awww, so nice, thanks

wizdomnzube:
Omo ehn, it's obvious you're an Ajebutter

What's Ajebbutte?

Flier:
Its unnecessary,Majority of Yorubas can read English

As in, English is your first language. If you and your family members can speak fluent English, many uneducated and half-educated ones need it translated in their local dilate so they can understand it better.

Have visited Nigeria four times. Mom is Nigerian from Imo State, and she thought me Igbo language and culture. I love the culture. I can write and speak Igbo fluently. I love the village so much. There you can actually eat fruits from the organic trees. My grand mother doesn't buy vegetables from the grocery store. She gets them from the backyard garden. I also love the bushes and the local streams. I love Igbo language. My mom always made sure I learn it, and I have been so grateful that I can speak and write it. I speak Spanish and little German. My college friend Bolla thought me some Yooruba language as well. I regret leaving my cousins and the village. I dont like Nigerian cities, always reminds me of India when I visited. Too crowdy, noisy, dirty, and dangerous drivers.

The more you look the less you see

Ouchbabe:
Pls my fellow Nairalanders,

I have been married for 8years now. My husband is nice and caring but I don't like the fact that he likes moving at night. He comes home as late as 12am.

He is currently looking for a job now and most times his reason for coming home late is because he is hanging out with friends. I have discussed this issue with him severally and expressed that I don't like his night movement. On such occasions he will promise not to come home late but the promise is never kept. I have told him the dangers of moving late in a city like Lagos.

The annoying part is that he is not coming home late from work rather because he i s with friends. Most times our young children will stay up late hoping to see him before going to bed but they will wait in vain as he will not be home before they will sleep off.

Note: Even though I'm working, I make sure the house is clean and food ready before he comes home. I don't nag and I'm good looking.

Pls I need suggestions on how to make him stop this night waka.

Please move to front page for wider view

I know it doesn't make sense, but just leave him alone. Continue to pray for him and being a good wife. No nagging or disrespect him. His lack of job is keeping him out. Hence, he's just too ashamed to stay home even though you don't mind, but man's ego is bigger than this world. Respect him, feed him, pray for him, and do some networking for him and see if there's any job openings around and all will be well. God bless your marriage.

Frank25:
babe he is nt responsible for ur financial problems and u shouldn't take it personal like its a crime to acquire properties he is stinkly rich while u are madly poor thats the difference. Hope i made myself clear?

I come from a country where people work hard for their money and pay taxes. And when they are driving flashy cars no one dare raise an eye brow. Those whose monies are questionable are ashamed to show off so that the general public don't mock them. Also, UNCLE SAM will make sure they prove where they get the money to acquire exotic cars and mansions. Unfortunately your country ( which my mother comes from) thinks otherwise.

The person in question was a senator of one of the poorest constituencies in your country, based on my research. No good roads to drive his fleets of cars, and no accountability of whatsoever as to how he acquireD his wealth. And please, tell me one more time that he was a politician, and my point exactly.

It's not a crime to acquire wealth and splurge, when you truly worked for it, and not with the expense of money that belongs to the people.

Saying I'm madly poor is laughable. But I will not even argue with you.

You think everyone commenting in this NL is from Nigeria, jobless, and poor.

My dear, pray to God to make you or your family members near at least 40% of what and who I am in your lifetime okay. Let that be your daily prayer point, and in Jesus name you will be blessed.

Thank you.

voltron14:
Poor grammar usage.

Hardly scientific, hardly enlightening, hardly intriguing.

...And that soundtrack

Everyone in their movies says "how do you mean" instead of what do you mean.

This dude is totally shameless!

His life, his marriage, and his business. Dont give a crapping flip.

You don't need money to have an idea.

If Nigeria has no money, cut down the house of RAPES and SIN-NET's salaries

Buhari definitely can't give what he does not have period. He has no intellectual or moral capacity to lead.

So stop making excuses for him.

Sunofgod:
He's a racists....im sure.

You meant to say biased I guess.

You can't be a racist to your own race. Example, you can't be a racist to a black man while you are black. Racism is either black, white, or pale.

Fake rev. Father.

God will expose and disgrace you soon.