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she was asking me if i am ready to take risk if she goes out with me.i didnt really understand where she was going by asking me that question until i pressurised her after which she told me that will i be ready for a heart break if she come later 2 tell me that she's no more interested & that she agreed 2 go out with me because of pressure from me.

If she asked u this question, she will not think twice about leaving u, she doesnt miss u, she probably misses your money and the credit. I wont even remind u about not breaking ur current girl's heart, I wont compromise anything with that irrespective of how i feel. Good luck

ima1:
geez a card is not romantic, i will only accept cards when i am my sick bed

Different strokes for different folks i guess, just out of curiousity though, would u consider cash or a mobile phone + recharge cards more romantic?

adconline:
One week of knowing her , she's already asking for money. What do you do?

Waht do u expect? the right question to ask is, Is she a Nigerian?

ima1:
apology accepted whitelexi. but i still stand by my word, if a guy gives me a card, i go use broom pursue am, if you no fit think of a good gift then no even make the effort.

Thats the basis of my argument, if u want romantic, trust me a card is more romantic than many other gifts u can get

Cos ladies r even worse when it comes to Lust at 1st sight

otokx:
there are many types of changes.

Change for the better

being sexy has nothing to do with being romantic, Sweet words, actions that blow the mind, stuff u never expected, stuff u see in movies that bring tears to ur eyes, If other girls can do it to their men, why cant ours? Yet they will expect a man to do and overdo just to please them

When ur friend starts feeling isecure about u, always wanting to know where u are and what u're doing and who u've been with, what do u do to take things back the way they used to be, It feels like reassuring is not helping at all

;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d

So what language is it?

ikamefa:
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ku we bere ede yii mi foo sii wo ka gbo? meaning its a nigerian languge like @ topic requested

weti ri crude! iyi iba wee a?meaning its not crude and yes sexy

Tell me, is it Efik?

Chi-babe:
Who talk am
it's like you've been seeing the unromantic ones!

Guy, naijababes are romantic oooo

Show me one

Naija chics r not romantic and thats cos of the general dating culture in naija, Go to onitsha and say u want to throw a surprise party for ur chic for instance, or u want to get a bit creative just to make her happy, it will surprise u that even in the middle of that party, one rich onitsha market trader (OnMaTa) will use cash and steal her away from u for ever!
It happens daily, girls say guys dont try hard enough; girls say a relationship aint all about money; girls say all the right things in here but the same girls start to trip over materialistic stuff and even forget they had a boyfriend some minutes ago, just out of curiousity oh, how many babes in naija today, whether in a relationship or not, will refuse a relationship from 2face? he's cool, he's famous, maybe rich to an extent, and he can sing romantic songs

Its as simple as that, girls expect guys to throw money at them and when a guy cannot do that, there aint no love, that maybe explains why guys dont bother trying cos they know u wont even remember all that when it really matters

Lai-lai

Hmmmm, looks like an application for a nigerian/american husband, wonders shall never end

Anyways, look at it this way, what are the chances? what are the stakes? what is the feasibility? how much time have we got?, then ask yourself, what is the gain? or what are the losses? what coulda been the alternative steps? can this be fixed? what are the options NOW?

I dont believe a woman should be too choosy because she will eventually be inconvenienced, a man will be willing to change many things to suit u but u can never transform a man to fully meet ur expectations, it will kill the love he has for u. Restricting yourself to one tribe by special preference will make it even tighter, time for these scrutiny is another issue

I really dunno how u intend to breakeven but in all u do, i wish u the best of luck

ikamefa:
uhun pan umon iba e la- woah! what a great thread

Sounds Sexy in a crude way, like the sounds u make when ur peaking, What language is that?

She's my sister and we grew up together

ima1:
whitelexi, its not about money, i personally have never collected money from any guy i was dating, because i have mine, which includes naija guys, i workand make my money so i don't need a guy spending his money on me, i can take care of myself. what i am trying to say is they don't show affection, they could come up with a better idea for gifts than cards, i am 22 years and i don't need a card.

LOL, I'm sorry if i sounded too direct but in matters like this, its always better to say it as it is. It may not apply to u but u passed some comments about not valuing a card and expectations of something more substantial,

Word of advice? That chic is a 2 timing daughter of a *****!!!!!
Leave now or forever hold your peace

katherinae:
whitelexii


take that back take that back take that back take that back, im sulking right now. u know for a fact naija babes are nto like that

sweetheart, I know i can speak for u, your case is different but u will agree with me that many have not got to where few are, and when we speak we dont sample, we talk of the population as a whole so while i agree that there will be exceptions, i have to categorise generally

lol

for me, a relationship or marriage is like an xmas gift, accept it, then better expect to accept its contents! So if a lady says 'yes' she should best expect all that the guy is worth cos guys can be deceptive, the worst daters have the best lyrics that girls would give anything for. Its an unfortunate twist but thats how it is.
Whether u keep running back or not, u said yes in the first place, and we know that there's always a catch in every good deal, so if it looks too good to be true, it probably is too good to be true!

Every woman will want the best from their man, but do they know what a man really can give?

Talk your church-mind or free the guy

jammin:
bloodclaate di i bush to raaseclaate. meaning that you are impressively dressed.

Now thats one hell of a mouthful what language is that, Swahili

Ara Piafu kwa gi ishi, that (in ibo) means may a woman's breast slice off ur head! isnt that romantic?