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Probably been on all the levels

I was born into the level 1, grew to be a bad boy and graduated into the level 5 at the Uni, Then i accepted Christ and got demoted to level 3a, and remained like that until last yr, when my outlook on life changed drastically and i knew i had to face reality if i was going to ever get married, so i progressed to level 4 this yr, had a wonderful invincible friend who broke my heart and it hurt real bad, and now i dont mid remaining on level 1, why?
Cos when u find that real one, you dont need to search anymore

I can assure u that many people on this site will hate me for this but the truth is bitter and i never waste time with decisions when i'm in a similar situation. This is not a form of generalization but the truth is many of our girls act like that. While i was in naija, one day i went to the cybercafe and was applying for my admission when this hot and sexy girl walked in with 2 of her friends. They were immediately noticed by all but the trio sat just next to me. I continued to do what i was doing but was able to listen into their discussion, and to my surprise they were actually talking about how their boyfriends were mugus (fools) and how they would get stuff from them at their beck and call, one of them actually wanted to prove this and she called a guy and sounding so sweet, she asked him for a N6000 MTN recharge card, calling him all sorts of sweet names, and a minute later her phone beeped, the text message had arrived, she looked at it and smiled at her friends and said, and i quote, "what did i tell u? the mugu has dropped it, 6K credit".

From that moment, my entire outlook towards women changed, they are able bodied humans, there should be a limit to what and how u give them stuff, dont be a mugu

I really dont see any crap in what the other dude has said, I think if u only feel he doesnt qualify as "ur type" cos of 2 reasons, then u better be prepared for someone a lot worse in the event that u end up that way. there are many ways to work around his failures, what if u leave him and end up with someone worse who has been pretending?
The second reason was more serious than the first but anyone can have a kid, i really think u need to weigh your options carefully cos in the end, its your life

And if u r sure u wanna leave him, be nice enough to post his number and name on the site

LOL, i don't believe this

Hotstepper:
different point of view but u hear alot of Anabra people saying they will never marry im person, atleast da last person.infact, even enugu and abia states people say da same about imo people and ma friend who is 4rom imo said over her dead body will she marry someone 4rom her place which is imo instead, she will marry a white man, Imo people hae diz thing with divorce, something like that unlike say anambra here da traditions r sumhow

I wont even come to the defence of any imo person but i'll speak for myself, Imo people especially those from country5 like me, are always attacked for any act of ingenuity, We are geniuses and cannot help it. When u visit country5 u will agree totally with me, if not for the fact that we have a lousy governor, that state should have progressed well beyond expectations.

Meanwhile, on the issue of marriage, I think whoever says they wont marry an Imo man or woman because of their nature or xter, is not in love, period. Because we all know that all these flimsy excuses are just a way to get out of the situation of marriage.
Your friend wont marry an imo man cos of Divorce but she'll marry an oyinbo man cos they dont divorce?
I think she has more than enough reason not to want to marry an imo man or a black man but divorce should be far from it cos oyibo land is where it originated

lol

Word of advice, Do things naturally, dont go outta your way to impress her and make her feel loved and cared for if u dont wanna spoil things. Bottomline is she will either value the lil things u do or she'll leave u when another person comes along

This is Wierd

YES and it was So Sweet! When girls meet u, they pretend and then something happens after months and they start to show their true color. I grew to love this girl, i was gonna marry this girl, and then it happened, and i was glad it did cos i realised i was about to make a huge mistake and i ended it immediately and felt real good about it

Fast for Nigeria as a whole, they need the deliverance more, More grease to ur elbows while u're at it

How ur bro come sharp pass u

Of course its posible, but its damn too expensive especially if u have to pay high tariffs to get through to them. Some of them will understand the cost but others will always expect u to call like its a free call.

It can be really interesting and nice if u have trust, patience, and understand each other; but it can be a tragedy if someone changes along the line. You might want to give it a shot but bear in mind that it can get intense and u need to be strong to survive if something goes wrong

You mean like ramsey nouah in Valentino?

Not exactly saying u should go back to the days of wrapper and headties with blowse, but actually saying, Cover it all up with a lil more fashion. I wouldn't have my own girl dress hot in public, even when she's standing right beside me cos i dont need no induced competition.
Girls often take it to the next level, u know u look good, u wanna look even better. Do that at home for your man!

Hee Hee

But guys r never described as wowo so pls stop the dissing*** And no Hating!

As for Mukina Maybe we can work out a hook up for u guys eh? eh?? No Problemo

The same way you tell a girl that her breath stinks.

"Dude, did u floss today or something?"

u seem to have an answer to every question   but this time u nearly got it right. It was created to describe girls that look very fine from far but when they are close they are far from fine

and the word was created for who?

nilla:
whitelexi

in that case all gals are fine tooooooooooooo

Trust me, even girls believe and understand that not all girls are fine, where do u think the word 'wowo' originated from?

nilla:



They are looking for fine gals, are they fine

all guyz are fine

I think this question should be directed at the ladies

Cheats, materialism, nagging, cant be bothered attitude, not able to cook good food, and lack of respect for God or Man

Ghana babez

They have never failed to surprise me, sometimes in a good way and sometimes in a bad way, this time though, i am impressed by the courage, hopefully our own will follow suit

Now the story goes a lil bit further cos after the first night of warfare, both ladies have refused to leave the guy alone oh, they both call and visit. What beats me now is, after the war, these two girls (who, by the way were best friends) have now reached a resolution not to let go of the guy, i wonder why
The most natural thing to do in my perspective would be that both girls leave him and move on but now even the guy is at a loss, like he doesnt know who to stay with anymore, he's hooked to practically 2 babes and he blames me for it

Why would they not go? Is it cos the guy is well to do and generous? or is it to spite the other girl's feelings? Has it become a competition? or do they wanna team up and deal with the guy finally? What do u think?

Many will agree with me when i say the finest girls in Nigeria itself are the fulani from Northern-Nigeria, but even they cannot compare to many parts of the world!
Its a hard pill to swallow but its the truth, even Agbani that won miss world was not the finest girl in the contest, she just happened to get the right questions to answer, abi she even got the expo sef, i dunno. But the bottomline remains that with or without make up, naija babes are far from the finest in the world.

Big ups to naija babes that are not scared to face the truth, @desiree, u r a realist and i like that. The sooner we stop decieving ourselves, the better - Go and look at Somalian women, the fine ones, God! u will wonder where we rank!

kiki:
damn girl don't worry u gon get a broder soon we got alot of desperate guys up in here and also welcome and av fun

When u use that word "Desperate" remember the creator of the thread and not guys in the house

i can swear i've heard that story before and truly, thats how it ended, it was actually her dad! I think thats a real warning about girls that just cant trust their men and always strive to find a fault in his activities

be careful, it might just be your daddy

Dalby:
your friend is wrong. if you ask him to jump into fire will he?

But a guy would most definitely question his girl's love for him if she persistently introduced her girlfriends and urged him to date them, wouldnt u agree?