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I dont believe this!!

kennyuche:
Physical appearance+good character=beauty+attraction. Education is secondary.

Naija babe? The bookery will most definitely enter her head

My neighbour and friend has been dating this girl but she always recommends her friends to him for a relationship, this had been bothering him (his girl's love for him) for so long until about a week ago when he actually approached me with the problem and i, out of mere mockery, asked him to go ahead and date any friend she recommends, I didnt know he would take it seriously, but he did.
Now, the same girl that was busy working overtime to hook him up with her friends came visiting yesternite and pandamonium broke loose, the cops had to come to stop the war!!!
Whom do u think is wrong here?

That was more mature, but i really hate to discuss about dumping(s) cos naturally i dont like one and trust me, there's a law called karma

@kokoletz, i dont know if its just me but i can swear that about 3days ago u were indicated as male, and now u r female

omofineboy:
To date a woman at all you need maturity and wisdom, to date a woman thats more succesful than u then you need the wisdom of God

Lol, You will need more than that wisdom when it comes to marrying the woman, because it is one thing to date and another to marry

Hotstepper is a kool nice girl, talk to her, she might just listen

God never gives it all to one person, what are your priorities in a wife? investigate into how well these mean to u, create a list of priorities, check who meets these targets closer and make your decision. Good Luck with that

Follow ur head and not ur heart

acidrop:
who wouldnt Guys want to date rich women or girls from rich homes, most of the time they don't even love her

Lol@kokoletz,  Meanwhile, on a serious note, @acridop just made a huge point,  men sometimes marry though they don't love, is it because they want to identify with the woman's success or academical background? I still think they do so if they allow the success of a woman to intimidate them,  so invariably, would u say they are losers?

Lol, thats a clear example of a woman marrying a man!

ThoniaSlim:
why should he be bothered about her educational qualifications,i think what really matters in a relationship is love,if he is in love with her and he is sure she is in love with him.then why don't he give it a try?who knows he might just be lucky.infact her educational qualifications should spur him up to work harder and gain more qualifications than hers.in my own opinion any man that is afraid to approach a woman cause she is more successful than him is a loser,cause he should see her as someone who would really help him in being successful which is more better than a woman who dosent contribute to the success of her man.and also i believe a woman in love can be tamed to respect her man.

As much as i want to agree that its a wise thing to do, i also think the woman in question really matters. In this case, she's not nigerian but imagine how it would be like if she was indeed nigerian, it would be more like a contest and she'd take advantage of her qualifications cos u and i know how qualifications are praised in nigeria and how everything revolves around what u have. For a man, it may not be too bad, but place a woman there with a PHd and 3 masters the man is in trouble if he cant meet up

Does she like have siezures sometimes?

LetterGirl:
@ WHITELEXI! No whitelexi, I have never went through anything at all like this. I am also not taking it personal at all. What i am stating is what is in the BIBLE. God says you marry to death do part. He did not say cheat because you get bored or your wife did not fix your favorite meal. So i would appreciate you not turning my words around. I would also like to say this discussion was not about when who cheat it is about men, You said so yourself that men leave because of various women or cheat. But if women cheat what i stated regarding the bible also applies. Have a wonderful day Love!

Anything can happen, and nobody holy pass, men cheat, women also cheat, it didnt start today, it wont end tomorrow, but i still stand by the fact that when God created eve from adam's rib, he probably meant that eve should be adam's helper and not his boss!
In the world today, there are many signs of the end time, one of them is women.

From a distance

Marriage can go wrong from many different angles, men and women alike, i personally think that the core reason will be what the western world has done to human race. God created an order and it was understood, a man is a man, and a woman is a woman, but all these have been altered and today, in many marriages, the woman is the man, like she's the man!
Women now have balls as well, i've seen some in mags and tv. So whats this thread about

kennyuche:
@topic. I think the 1st tn da attracts is the looks. If she no fine, e go hard o. For God sake my kids got to be good lookin. What about companionship,, understanding?

Forget about your kids' looks, they will either be hot brained like their mum or, just like u Lol

Yeah, why dont peeps like to post their pics on the site sef? them no want make we see their looks?

ThoniaSlim:
nice.

Which one

LetterGirl:
@ Whitelexi, I thought you always maintained honesty!

Lol, that was just a joke I just couldnt think of what else to tell him

LetterGirl:
@Whitelexi, I am so sorry if i offended you. I was merely kidding,it nice to hear that you are a person that wants to maintain honesty. There is not many individuals as yourself. I was simply stating what i felt mattered in life, being that this is a message board i feel that should be okay to do. I would hope individuals would think or at least consider some of things that i wrote. By the way no i am not a nigerian woman i'm african american/ But i feel there is no difference we are all human beings and god did create us. T'care.

Thanks letterGirl, I'm sorry if i sounded hostile a bit

NOVEMBER 28 CONFUSION WAS MY FIRST WORD

Just tell her u have aids, she will never trouble u again

Hi LetterGirl,  2 things
obviously u don't know me, because my cardinal principle is to avoid telling lies.
secondly, i don't need anyone to help me make up my mind about dating or marrying,  and just for your info, my wifey isn't too far off, she's on this site as well so forget all this.

Thank heavens the girl in the story isn't Nigerian, I only wonder how it would've been if she was

wet ampits, bad body and mouth odour, materialism, sexist attitude, pretence, lies, deciet, cheating, leading on, dirty dressing, lack of focus, lack of ambition, lack of education, lack of manners, lack of trust, lack of fear of God, extreme shapes, working overtime to look good, hostile take-overs, jealousy and over-possessiveness, nagging, and most of all malicious behaviour.

Gosh, Did i say all that

mamaput:
Men stray because they take anything they can get.
At that point they do not use their brain. You put food for them and they eat there and then.

Women stray too but they plan it very well. That means they can wait a week or two to do it.
because they do not want to leave any trace behind them.
They smell their food before they eat it and find out more about it.That takes time.
But men just eat.
A woman will even go as far as taking a shower and inspecting her cloths and her odor.
Women are natural born detectives .And thats just it.

You couldnt have said it better!

But if a man is completely satisfied with his partner, a responsible man, do u think he'll still go ahead and do it especially when he knows exactly what is at stake? Thats where my worry stems from.

thanks but this is not about me though, just wondering if i'll do it if i was in that position, because a friend of mine is in that position right now.

Diss u first

LetterGirl:
@Whitelexi, I disagree very much so with a man that would say it is because of a woman that he cheats. I feel that it is horrible that a woman would lay up and have 4 and 5 children from some sorry  man and then they say they gon cheat because she was not good enough. What the real deal is that the woman was to good for him from the jump and he could not see it. The truth of it is, is this you can cheat get all the sex you want, they have many women that can do it in different positions, different ways the works. But when you decide to leave your home, with your[color=#990000][/color] family you will get your payback it aint even about karma it is about GOD!

Truth hurts like hell, but please, Dont take it personal. You look at it from a woman's point of view and it looks like all men are animals, when u look at it from a man's point also, it looks bad. The morale of the day is that women cheat just like men even after 10 children, u will still see women cheating as well as men. More men tend to cheat after marriage and children, more women cheat before marriage and children, but the bottomline is that it happens so live with it and don't make it look like i pointed accusing fingers at u while making my contribution.

While i clear the air, i'm sure u will also agree with me that karma also knows a woman's name

Lol, I will wait to see it happen in naija! it would be wonderful but i don't see it happening, it just wont work,  everything is sooo hard in that country, even Obj has not done it Lol, the rich and comfy, the poor Lol, I really have nothing against equal rights and called it crap because of the way they are going about it in the western world, it has torn so many families apart and thats no good to the kids who are growing up now as members of gangs.

It would be nice to see nice stuff in naija but i don't see that happenning because things are getting worse daily, and people now have too many things to worry about, it is sad but it is reality. whether or not this changes, depends on the far future,  maybe a day will come when things become better sha
But, there again, this is all fantasy.

wet ampits, bad body and mouth odour, materialism, sexist attitude, pretence, lies, deciet, cheating, leading on, dirty dressing, lack of focus, lack of ambition, lack of education, lack of manners, lack of trust, lack of fear of God, extreme shapes, working overtime to look good, hostile take-overs, jealousy and over-possessiveness, nagging, and most of all malicious behaviour.