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She's not outstanding in looks but she has 3 Master's Degrees and is in the final quarter of her Phd, currently contracts with the World Bank and is working for the United nations, all at the age of 26yrs!

Guys: If she approached you for a relationship,  would u stay? Please be real

Girls: Would u approach to date this guy if u know he only has a Bachelor's degree, not good-looking and not rich.

Lol, the guy doesnt sound dumb so he should've known the internet is a way of escape and giving the girl access to it is totally out of this world GENEROUS!!! so whats she trying to find? even the CIA are on the Freaking web!!!!!!!!!!

In the world of fantasy for a naija babe dating a naija man in naija, these would sell nicely, but in reality, i dont see 10% of naija men doing half of these all their lives, wait for him to open the doors for u - u'll wait forever, wait for a naija man to cook - prepare to go to ur mum and learn how to cook, and so on,

Be realistic, think of when last your folks in naija even went that far, the europeans will have their ways but their women are also worth doing such for cos what they see as important are not what we see as important and vice versa. Their economies will also promote such cos the difference is clear.

A woman in naija or even africa is a "Woman", and there is a clear contrast btw a man and a woman, all that equal rights and crap they use abroad wont work with us and we know it, thats why we dont have the kind of divorce rates as they do, so quit all the long gist about what the ideal "treat her like a lady" crap, we all know what it is, focus on how to make these a reality and make them work cos right now, i dont see it happenning, maybe at the early stages of the relationship but definitely not sustainable for life

unit:
@whitelexi there is nothing wrong with wanting love n respect whether you are male or female,you probably don't love or respect your lady or you would know how to treat her like a lady,I'll advise you to take some clues from segun111

LOL, u crack me up, just tell me u want to know if i have a lady, but the answer is,  non of your business! And spare me the "£$%^&*(&^%£&^% about learning from someone else, they should come learn from me.

I will even run cos waiting around to catch her red-handed is like waiting to hurt urself even more. If u have all the facts, but u still have not caught her in the act, and u hate to be hurt, and u hate competition, and u know she disgusts u soooo much right now, and u know u're not married yet, and u know u cant forgive her right now, u need to just WALK!

While i agree that on careful arrangement, the devil can indeed go to heaven, i also have to point out that such occasions come only once in a lifetime.


daalu kwa oh!!!

men will be men, girls? i really don't know
@douzy: na ibu kwanu nwa nne'm (so u r ibo?)

walk!!!

I still dont understand why everyone is making this topic a big issue, if this was 1960, i'd understand the shenanigan, but this is 2006 and it will be difficult to find a 14yr old who is not already building castles in her head let alone 22yrs. Its not impossible but u will agree with me that its scarce and peeps like me will look at it as wierd, peeps like u will come out nice with it but in reality, u cant help but wonder. thats the true difference in our opinions, we see it from a realist's point of view, u do it so u sound nice!

My girlfriend? Lesbian? No questions about it! Ja for my life

one person says possessiveness, another says ignorance! u can never satify a woman, its as simple as that

it is very typical for love in naija to be associated to money or the color of money, its also not a wonder that this has come from females

I have a friend in that situation right now, it is funny but it really does happen. The girl in question goes round painting this guy bad but she lives in his house and feeds on him day and night. There's nothing wrong in relying on your guy to provide for u but why do u go around saying nasty things about the same person
The guy is from a mega rich family and i am suspecting thats why she wont let him go, The guy has tried a million things just to get her to leave but she wont, and she wont stop talking and telling lies and being lazy

Lol, its not normal nowww, ok iice, place yourself in her shoes, would u do that normally?

both, not appearing attractive in spirit, mind and body is from the other point of view which i have just suggested, not wanting to date is from every girl's point of view - the way they always protect their major issues that they cant deal with.

The Mouth odour thing comes from both the mouth and the tummy sometimes, u want the breath to improve will sometimes mean asking someone to stop eating foods that otherwise are okay by him. Garlic for instance, some people have breaths stinking of it, u dont wanna ask them not to eat it either. Bottomline: Find out what the problem is and where its roots are and then try to bring it to light in a subtle manner. Speak with a qualified doctor on ways out and practice them, best of luck

Lol@Mukina, How r u today? But seriously, i think its something that has two sides to it like seun said earlier, its not always the guy or the girl, it just happens

its impossible to tell when a man's in luv or not, u will only get confused and fall into the wrong hands again and again. The best way around it is to ignore the fact that they are interested in u, look into ur own heart, do u think u can actually make out something nice with such a person? Do u think it can work out in anyway, what are the attributes about him that u like, things of the heart only, if u look at the physical u will be decieved.
Bottomline is that it should come from ur perspective, not from the guy chasing u around cos at the end of the day, he'll brand u loose and even recommend u to his friends for quick results

Girls have a way of protecting themselves with words from the inside, Look at it from another angle, what if she's not normal, i cant possibly see a normal girl that wont catch the attraction of a man, she must have a big problem, i know girls that men run from, i even know some right now, so if u never made a man turn his neck either cos of ur good heart or good looks or even ur innocence, then u r not normal!

Naturally, I wouldnt respond here but some people here have decided to make a comparison of men and dogs and that is distasteful to my person. I say, men who cheat do so cos their women have failed in their duties, otherwise they wont, when a man cheats, i'd expect him to do so with a woman and his wife ought to go all out to improve herself in other to win her man back. I have seen men who dread to go home after work, i have seen men who have had over 30yrs of hard work and achievements ruined by a woman. I really think women are in no position to blame a man that cheats anymore because it is a shameful thing to come out talking about how ur man left u, he left u cos u were not good enuff! Women do it everyday as well, so just move on and pretend like nothing happened

Plus the guy plus the girl are both full of shit!

Kai!!! your mouth dey boom!!! u don brush at all today

LOL, Love, Respect, I can understand why all those who have replied to this thread so far (apart from my humble self), are females

I particularly love this thread, There are many reasons, the greed, materialism, competition, and conflict are a good heading to each reason. I personally wonder how it will be in the future but this is the current trend

berrye:
Hey guys, I know it's crazy. There's this guy I like and he's giving me signs that the feeling is mutual but he's not saying anything. I don't want to be to forward because I am not entirely sure that he likes me. What do I do?

Point of correction, u dont wanna ask him cos u think its his duty to tell u, thats where ur problem lies, cos some dudes will not come out with it in time to save the fun cos u will eventually get tired of waiting and there will always be someone else who'll be calling out for ur attention, but u will always remember the dude as the guy u liked so much that never came out straight, so why not ask him? yes, to cut the long story short, get chatting with him and ask him, Best of luck with that.

Tall girls are deeper Y'alls

geebabe:
i don't see any thing wrong with it but the guys make it look like its a bad thing.
abi what do u think

Depends on the guy u decided to ask out, He must be razzzzzz to make it look like its wrong or even give u that impression! In an age when dudes are happy to be asked out to dinners and places, some peeps just wanna spoil things!!!

There is definitely Luv@1st_Sight but dont say i told u sha, some peeps on this thread are already victims!!! Use ur tongue to count ur teeth and u will know who!

Why are u acting like u don't know what the average naija girl likes,  In Naija, the lower naija girl will die for a treat at a huge restaurant and a day out to the beach and places like that,  the medium naija girls would do anything for nice clothes, gsm phones, nice wrist watches, and stuff like that,  the high class naija babe will do stuff for a nice car, decent house, posh designer's sets, make up at the classiest centre, visits to classic museums and art exhibitions,  etc.

Meanwhile, outside naija,  just get the girl a rose,  she will give u a nice smile and snugging.

YES!!!!!

I AM BACK OH!

its either the girl is extraordinarily ugly or the one of them have a serious turn off for the other person. Maybe in my granpapa's days, but definitely not now! hell no