₦airaland Forum

tope2000: im angry with u . . .how can u say i deserve the award for biggest flirt

Lol, i didnt say it oh, I only observed that which over 15 Nairalanders said in their votes. . . You know na, Democracy has its ups and downs, sometimes it comes in shock doses too

bluespice:
its emotionally and physically demanding
a pointless waste of time, affection and resources

Still u cannot eat your cake and have it

Go to Dubai for instance, and see how a polygamy is run with peace and joy. . . The entire family dines together, there is a very cordial relationship between the parents and kids. . . The men have peace of mind, there is enough to go round over and over again. I have friends, and i've seen things with my own eyes. . . If there is no greed, or jealousy. . . and there is more of love, respect, tolerance, and money. . . it works well

Ouch Ouch Ouch

LadyT:
You are wrong is favours women who are so fedup with the crap they get from men they need a sperm donor. But due to culture and saving face they lay claim on being someones 15th wife they start breeding and go about their bussiness all under the guise that they are "Marriage" and have an ADE ORI.

If they're fed up and hate polygamy, why go into it in the first place. . . Why even save your face through that medium? Why not just remain single, or be a single parent?

It is a matter of choice. Some people will opt for it, others will not.

**osisi:
You have absolutely no right as a man to tell us how good polygamy is
Let the women,who are the ones getting done,say so.
Let the kids who are the products of the the wonderful world of polygamy tell you so

I sense alot of personal agro coming from your post, there's no need to get worked up. I just made a point, the fact that it doesn't appeal to u doesn't make it sour. . . The fact that it has not worked in a few cases doesn't make it impossible. There are many women today who would gladly grab polygamy with both hands.

And dont make it look like polygamy favours the men, it also favours women who'd rather know who their hussy is with at every moment

Ouch!

Polygamy has been around for a while, where it works - it definitely works. . .  In other places however, greed and jealousy turn it into a complete failure. It wasn't rubbish in the days of old, it still isn't rubbish in some parts of the world today.  If planned well it certainly will work, and although nobody who has experienced western education and civilization wants to go in that direction [myself included], many would kill to be in one.

It seems the only way to contain man's desire for multiple relationships, and woman's quest to know man's every move

Control freaks like that remind me of that Josef Fritzel that locked his own daughter in a cellar, raping her over and over again, and having child after child with her but ignoring her to the extent of dementia. . . 

_{Why do girls even date people like that??}

Lawd have mercy

Ben20001:
^{lexi and crackle has kicked off the presentation of the award}

you people should leave our Tope alone o

Not so sure your Tope2000 wants to be left alone oh, she's in line to recieve the biggest flirt award, that means she no dey gree leave guys alone

As far as i'm concerned, the word cheating can mean playing foul in a game or something, i dont believe in all this rubbish western mentality where a woman imposes herself on a man to the extent that his every move is monitored like he is expected to cheat at sometime. It is now a stereotype, when i go into a relationship i expect some freedom to meet other people and even flirt around if i want to. We are only dating, not married, and if i flirt with other women, i'm not necessarily sleeping with them. Besides, girls like some attention from outside as well, so. . .  

Instead of cheating, i prefer to use the word double dating. Its not something i've done but that makes more sense, especially if you're not yet married to each other. Kai!

Feminine? u wish. . . Nothing, absolutely nothing about me is feminine. . . Physically, i'm massive, strong manly look and deep voice too. I have never cried from physical or emotional pain except as a baby. . . I dont cross dress, braid, do tattoos, or wear make-up, I like extreme stuff, live on the knife edge and never feel fear for the unknown.
I dont even think or behave like the feminine folk. . . If i was to be reborn 100 times, i'll still come out in a man's form!

I can live with everything

. . .  Except forming, as far as i'm concerned, no woman can show me anything that i've not yet seen so when they form to be something they're not, i know, and it irritates me.

. . . Except poor Hygiene, if a girl has any form of skin infection or odour or untidy hair in public and private areas, or disgracefully dirty clothing and underwear, or skin and nails that have not been well taken care of, it irritates me.

. . . Except bad Morals and behaviour, I will watch very closely within the first few days and i will always spot it from a distance. The language, the attitude, the 'I cant be bothered' attitude, the 'wateva' kind of attitude, the silly things that girls demand, every one of it just irritates me.

Every other thing, i can comfortably live with.

Well, the biggest flirt has got to be between Sauron and Tope2000. . . They've been most nominated in that category

spikedcylinder:
So you can see the blood?

Cleanliness is next to Godliness abi?

Girls are fond of wearing red or black but with white u can tell from a country mile

If its not white, as in pure white. . .

The question is 'why did he stop loving u'
Saying 'he never did' is incorrect.
Some girls need to sit down and ask themselves these questions so as to not make the same mistakes or improve at the least.
When people meet, they only know little about each other, as the months pass they discover more and more. . .  If the guy suddenly takes a step back, there is something he has noticed, he has thought about whether he can tolerate it or not, and he has finally decided it is not worth the trouble. Most times, it is a hygiene related issue with the girl. . .  You will not believe what lies beneath the beautiful faces and fabulous clothes/shoes. . .  Other times, it is something behavioural.

I just think its good for girls to take a step back from time to time to perform an analysis, because if it is not addressed in time, it follows them to mr. husband's house, and when mr. husband cannot bear it anymore, extra-marital affairs could develop and then it becomes a complex issue

Ladies can only get hard for those they can get hard for
There are guys who actually select the girls they target.
Guys will not stop playing today, tomorrow, or for ever. . .  They are only being very smart about it

This is the logic behind it all: Tell a girl the truth and she freaks out - Tell her a lie on the other hand and she's all over u!. . .   So, tell her she's the only one and life is peaceful, shikena!

Jcob:
@ lexy, ow is tonia?

She's very fine. . . Just a lil too busy nowadays for NL all the time

Jcob:
Lie lie awards, don't tell me Yicob deserves an award, after wooing 200000 ladies on NL

farotika:
Bros, u mean the god u're serving allows polygamy

If i'm not wrong, Abraham had more than 1 wife or concubine, so did moses, isaac, solomon, david and the rest of them in the old testament. It wasnt a sin at the time. . . u can argue that the new testament says something else but it doesnt condemn marrying more than 1 wife, it only condemns adultery and fornication

Finest girls in naija reside in Lagos - they know whats up too, try unilag if u really want to see some forming

Bayalsa state has some of the sexiest bodies u will see anywhere around the world, usually lightskinned, they are very good swimmers and have athletic bodies - This type will treat u to very nice and exotic things.

Cross rivers state has girls with the finest skin texture, they'll come in a balance of light and dark skins, but the dark skinned ones have got a special type of 'Dark' that u probably will not find anywhere else. They're made to satisfy men in everyway u look at it, u will take some wonderful memories away to wherever u're coming from. . .  thats if u can find your way out of the state.

Enugu state has got loads of hills and valleys, and in the old day, their women used to climb down these hills to the rivers to fetch and carry back to their villages. Due to this everyday activity, they've had to adapt over the generations and today they have many girls with very strong looking legs, very curvy and smooth, and usually have something very substantial sitting on those legs. . . . the rest is up to your imagination.

If u like very dark girls, u might wanna check out babes from the middle-belt parts like Benue and Kogi states, usually pretty but the dark ones are really dark

You will find girls who know whats up in abuja too but they also have some malu there who know nothing, especially the traditional northerners there, they do know how to slice suya so dont be a victim.

I will not advice u to try taraba state and states around it on the map because they practice sharia law and u may lost one or two body parts if u r not careful enough.


_{Service with a smile}

I think instead of cheating [as it is now called], a man should just practice polygamy if he can afford it
That way, he is not doing anything wrong in the eyes of God and man!

Abi women, wetin una think?

camelot:
sure both should be faithful , but i discovered that most married men are so promiscuous

Do they chase men or women?

Tgirl4real:
and who will the winner be

Believe me, i know a few who'd nominate me

We should also have provision for a 'most annoying NLander' award. . .

Principle 7 - Never give a 2nd chance
Principle 8 - Never expect a 2nd chance

Your boyfriend probably has principles which he has been sticking to, but if the love is strong he will forgive u - thats from my own experience by the way. He will be wary of u, he will also bring it up when u argue, but the immediately important issue is that he will forgive u and be willing to stop the hurt he has caused u so far. It is only where the love is not strong that he will harden his heart - in which case you're better off on your own.

I blame u for cheating, but i also blame the guy that took advantage of the distance between you and your boyfriend [assuming he knew u had a bf]. . . I think he has satisfied his momentary desire and lust, and ruined something that meant much to 2 individuals. . . It is very easy to forget he is the main culprit here because women are more vulnerable, but i hope u, and many girls reading this, would have learnt that guys can also step in to ruin something good if u are not careful.

Face your exams for now, and then return to this issue after. Good luck

debosky:
I can't understand the reason you'd charge for internet banking

It reduces demand on bank staff and branches - you should offer it FREE so more people use it and reduce your costs in branch banking. Sadly, money grabbing seems more important to many banks in Nigeria.

I bank with these animals as well, my account has been with them since the 90s and i noticed recently that anytime i make an online transfer or use the internet banking portal for any activity, i got charged at the end of that month, this started late last yr. . . I called them and expressed my dissaproval because for those of us abroad who cannot visit the branch, the internet is our only means of running our accounts from here.
I have since opened a GTBank current and savings account. . . I'm in the process of transferring the funds to that one. . . At least they dont charge for the internet banking and have no minimum cash limits

This is an open invitation to come and find trouble, there is no way people like me [who speak with reckless abandon] can answer that your question without having people [like some people i know] on our necks.

Tender some life insurance and we will consider talking.

JJYOU:
some people spoil what will or could be with bad ugly rumour character too.

Yet some people dont even need to spoil it with anything, they just manage to spoil it sha

Lol

@Beat Girls u for add gabrywyl for most delusional