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OfficeGirl:
It's exactly 6weeks now and i havent heard from him yet!

Are u expecting to hear from him??

gabrywyl:
Deji, you know, being delusional can be fun. Thats how J K Rowling became rich illusinating of Wizards and Witches and fairy tales. Thats really cool so you should be proud of it

Oh lord, pls spare that gist oh. Being delusional cannot be a fun, just go to any psychiatric home and ask

If u dont buy the raffle, u dont win the lottery pal

y me:
neither is it made of stones honey

The answer to my question is 118 118

Google it!

y me:
My heart is no glass that can be broken o

I aint afraid of no stones

Who u gonna call

MrCrackles:
To all the people who nominated me, Many Thanks!

I dont think i deserve it but oh well!

u'll take it wont u?

Now, even women think they know what men want in a relationship

Thats just plain wrong.

Ben20001:
I'll pretend I didn't hear this

I'll also pretend i didnt hear this

'What will not be' can never be!

Its just so awful when she's got a foul mouth odour, I had one who even had the guts to ask why i never want to kiss her

Amigoz:
@poster

I dont believe in ''unlucky in love''

I do however believe in the choices one make .

As per ur other question, the cause of it may be a bit of digging into ur childhood and ur upbringing in general.  Take for instance if u were wrapped up in cottonwool all thru ur life. The first time u go into the real world without ur parents holding ur hands, it will either make or break u!! B4 pointing the blame @ someone else (cos it is obviously easier to blame some else 4 ur frustrations) y not search urself? Knowing who u are is the beginning of a wonderful relationship with another.

Exactement!!!

I for one, think that nigerian girls dont like to face reality until it bursts open right in their faces. All the fairy-tale talk of the perfect guy seems to have left the wrong impression on them for way too long and the earlier they wake up from that slumber the better for them.

When u go around looking for what u want, spare a thought to ask yourself if u will be be what someone else wants too. Those guys u talk about all the time are human too, they will study u in the same way as u study them, they will discover those things u hide, they will run when u give them cause to. . . No woman is unlucky in love, some are too fast and some are too slow, some are too smart and some are plain dumb, some are too neat and some are filthy, some are very current and some are just old-school.

A word is enough for the wise.

Happy birthday to u, may the good lord strengthen and protect u now and all through your life. . . Say Amen!

Men dont want too much love, that one drives us away

Of course we are romantic

Tgirl4real:
Best Male Poster - Debosky, Pataki, Sauron, whitelexi, ariblaze
Classiest Member - shegirl (arramyjay), whitelexi, Brash, A40, Siena
Member Who's Most Likely To Be A Good Parent and Lover Now/In The Future: whitelexi, Siena, Sissy, debosky, hauwa (and Chamo )

Wierd. This kind of girl will dictate when the marriage will end oh. . . E no go end until she don chop belle full

I have many problems with that thread and many of u are affected. . .  So for international peace and stability, i shall deal with them individually and on my own accord. . .  Bottomline is i will eventually deal with all of them.

You know, if i'd known he was a pot-smoking, wife-beating kind of guy, my disposition would've been different from the start. I think now, that it would be difficult to see positives coming out of him in the near or far future. . . I am in shock at all you've written above, its a shame. . . Indeed it is a shame considering he has a son, you would expect some responsible behaviour to follow through. . . I think its one of those situations where u spend days thinking of what the next move should be. . . Still, u need to act carefully and in the interest of your son.

spikedcylinder:
So we can say three of them are the biggest flirts then?

I think thats safe to say

No, dont give him any BJ's, you are not ready for any relationships, u are only ready for a friendship, there is a difference between the two.
Just move on and stick to friendships, make it clear from the start that it is only a friendship and avoid chopping anyone's cash
That way u will remain a virgin for as long as u like

If u married him for love, bearing in mind that marriage is for better for worse till death do u part, then u cant seriously be talking about divorce, can u? If u truly have an aorta of love for this guy, u should be planning on working it out and not running off on holiday and depriving your son that sweet fatherly love he surely deserves. You've mentioned in your past posts that your son loves him very much, i think u need to think of that before u take any drastic steps. I've seen families break up, i've seen fights, even injuries. . .  But they kiss and make up, the peace in your depends on u, the woman, u are supposed to maintain the peace, i am not asking u to suffer in silence but u are the one who should know when that limit is about to be reached.

Ask yourself this question. . .  Just what if he is telling the truth? I know u are sure he's lying but just what if you're wrong this time? Do u have any plan B's?
I like to look at everything from both ends before i come out with something concrete and i've seen cases where it is not always what it seems to be. . .  I would not want u to allow a mere suspicion push u over the line, no matter how realistic it appears to be.

Tell him u dont like such games, sit-up and perform your duties as a good wife, and try to forget all that has happened. . .  He will respect u more for that forgiving attitude - even if he has done nothing, u will have his love and protection and dedication, plus your son will feel like he's in a complete home. . .  Everyone wins.

sweetpain:
Kindly allow me. All posters here with few exception come across as adults vigorously masturbating in public-both males and females.The moderator on the other hand seem to enjoy his role dishing out warnings of intent to delete posts.I hope you enjoy your tea.

The tea is just right, thanks.

Its not very often that we get such a spell-binding spectacle, I've been sat here for days, enjoying all the spiking and yabbing about who's the biggest flirt and who posts the worst threads
It helps fight the stress when u laugh this hard all the time.

@Poster:

What happens when u meet accidentally?
I mean, it ain't often that a blowed-up mother gets to chat to the mother that blowed him up! Usually, the blowed-up mother has the courtesy to stay blowed up.

Lol, so its a divorce then? interesting. . . At least, the brother now has his freedom to roam if he likes, and it will be nice for him to get a little independence too.

I really dont see the point in naija men getting into marriages where they're made to live like animals even if they're in it for the papers! Life back home is not that bad.

Moyola:
Uhmmn!

What, Look, if I wanted cuisine, I'd have gone to Paris, all right?

Akatamba:
So you are not a Nigerian, what in God name are you doing in here then? You are a MUMU!

Nairaland welcomes nigerians as well as friends of nigeria from all over the world. . . I'm not entirely sure Seun will be happy with your post.

OfficeGirl:
Whitelexiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!!

Officegirlllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll!!!

Can u please add more honey in my tea. . . Just one table spoonful pls.

I aint buying this story cos its so damned one-sided. Perhaps the guy has got his own reasons for finding someone else, perhaps there are issues that led to the marriage in the first place, perhaps there are other hints that have not been brought to light yet.
I dont see any reason why he would accept talking to someone and then start arguing about her being his ex or sleeping with her [A good playa will not rope himself in and then start defending himself - whats the point?]. The co-incidence (or not) of the names matching his ex, and the issues behind him claiming it to have all been planned. . .  Had sex only 6 times in a marriage and yet even have a kid?  It is all so bogous!  
Sometime ago i tried making some thai cuisine which actually cost me a lot buying the ingredients, then i made a whole harsh of it and it was appalling, but thats my hard earned cash in there and i had to eat it. . .  I didnt like it one bit, but i didnt throw it away, the fact he comes back asking for the food doesnt mean he enjoyed it - have u considered he may not want it in the bin just like he said?
If he is even looking outside that marriage, then the poster really needs to look at herself. . .  I seriously think u have your own issues that are killing the brother off, i work closely with people who have gone into this sort of marriage and have ended up damaged emotionally - for life

Just deliver the package and find your way. . .

u need to look at yourself, no one else can help u with this one