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Last week we heard the story of a girl who cursed
her ex who dumped her after 6years of relationship; it got me really thinking , because I'm likely to go through something similar. But, before you castigate me, first make out time and read my story.

I have dated this girl for 6years now; we actually met when we were in the university, The relationship was like heaven on earth, the sex was good and I was deeply crazy in love with her. At some point, she had issues with her roommates and decided to pack into my apartment till when she is able to get hers. It was all ok with me until after few weeks, she told me that her pastor told her that she has a very bright star and that the only thing that will diminish her star is sin of fornication. Although it wasn't a happy news for me but due to the love I have for her, I accept but told her that it would be more easier for us if she could get her own apartment. She agreed to get her own apartment, but that was just it.

We lived together in the same apartment, we sleep
together in the same bed, we do everything that
couples do except sex , not even kissing or romance
was allow. At first it was difficult for me, after many
attempt from me and rebuke from her... I was
unbelievable able to get use it. Sexual intercourse
was totally out of mind when we are together. For
2years, we lived together like brother and sister
under one roof .

During my working days in delta, she visited me.
That night, she did something that surprised me;
after more than 2years ,she made sexual advance
on me. It felt so abnormal and disgusting to me like
a sister making sexual advancing to a blood brother
(Inbreeding). Due to the shock I suddenly started having a severe hiccup. The hiccup was too much that I drank severally cup of water that night, yet it didn't stop.

After that night , everything changed for me, I no
longer feel comfortable staying alone with her or
having any body contact with her. I couldn't even
look her in the eyes anymore like I use to before.
Now, she wanted us to be sexually intimate again
but it's too late, my brain had been programmed to
see her as a sexually no go area (sister). And
anytime she tries to make sexual advances on me, I
will out of shock start having a severe hiccup and
after any of her attempts, I feel so guilty and moody
all day.

Although, I still love her deep inside, but that's just
the love of a brother to a sister. I love talking with
her and spending time with her (she's a fun person
to be with), and I can sacrifice my life for hers; but
I'm sorry to say that I'm not sexually attracted to her anymore; and I which she would understand that.

I'm in a dilemma now, I don't want to lose her , and
the same time I don't want to have her. I'm afraid
that If I tell her that I can't marry her or have any
thing sexual with her, she would curse me for
wasting 6years of her life. But what should I do in
this scenario ? Is there way I can breakup with her and still retain our friendship?

It's obvious someone had been mastubating on that tree All this vaseline crew

Flashh:
[color=#1970BC]Not "he" but "she".

Not a "suspect". She "stoled" a customer's bag in Lekki.[/color]

She is presumed innocent until found guilty by court. It's a mere allegation for now.

Flashh:
[color=#1970BC]Why blur the face of a thief?[/color]

He is a suspect; not a thief

Lalasticlala ! any advice for me?

Lalasticlala! any advice for me?

Adamsdelrio:
Guy, your joystick needs orientation.

My guy nothing do my joystick. The problem is more of psychological. And only when I'm with her

Last week we heard the story of a girl who cursed her ex who dumped her after 6years of relationship; it got me really thinking , because I'm likely to go through something similar. But, before you castigate me, first make out time and read my story.

I have dated this girl for 6years now; we actually met when we were in the university, The relationship was like heaven on earth, the sex was good and I was deeply crazy in love with her. At some point, she had issues with her roommates and decided to pack into my apartment till when she is able to get hers. It was all ok with me until after few weeks, she told me that her pastor told her that she has a very bright star and that the only thing that will diminish her star is sin of fornication. Although it wasn't a happy news for me but due to the love I have for her, I accept but told her that it would be more easier for us if she could get her own apartment. She agreed to get her own apartment, but that was just it.

We lived together in the same apartment, we sleep together in the same bed, we do everything that couples do except sex , not even kissing or romance was allow. At first it was difficult for me, after many attempt from me and rebuke from her... I was unbelievable able to get use it. Sexual intercourse was totally out of mind when we are together. For 2years, we lived together like brother and sister under one roof .

During my working days in delta, she visited me. That night, she did something that surprised me; after more than 2years ,she made sexual advance on me. It felt so abnormal and disgusting to me like a sister making sexual advancing to a blood brother (incest). Due to the shock I started having a severe hiccup. The hiccup was too much that I drank severally cup of water that night, yet it didn't stop.

After that night , everything changed for me, I no longer feel comfortable staying alone with her or having any body contact with her. I couldn't even look her in the eyes anymore like I use to before. Now, she wanted us to be sexually intimate again but it's too late, my brain had been programmed to see her as a sexually no go area (sister). And anytime she tries to make sexual advances on me, I will out of shock start having a severe hiccup and after any of her attempts, I feel so guilty and moody all day.

Although, I still love her deep inside, but that's just the love of a brother to a sister. I love talking with her and spending time with her (she's a fun person to be with), and I can sacrifice my life for hers; but I'm sorry to say that I'm not sexually attracted to her anymore; and I which she would understand that.

I'm in a dilemma now, I don't want to lose her , and the same time I don't want to have her. I'm afraid that If I tell her that I can't marry her or have any thing sexual with her, she would curse me for wasting 6years of her life. But what should I do in this scenario ?

God is the overall chief security officer...

The playful horse face

3. The sexy cow face 4. The adorable dog face

You login on social network everyday, you are meet with hundreds of girls pic making different funny face. And you wonder where do they copy all this from.

Well, here is the answer.





1. The precious pig face AKA the duck face
2. Groupie monkey face

More

Guys! After seeing this pics and you are still disobedient and uncaring to your mother.. Then check yourself because it's obvious you have no heart.

Respect to all mothers!

marsoden:
The man is stark naked, the woman is fully clothed(not even covering herself with bedsheets, but fully clothed)!, yet they are supposed to be having sex? Its either this is a movie scene(which was badly directed) or it was staged(perhaps for blogging sake).

Mtchew.

The woman is not fully dressed, she is tying a towel. I guess the husband was more focus on pounding on the friend, making way for the wife to cover up a little

BreketeMind:
This is a movie scene. Nobody has asked: who snapped the pics?

Movie scene? Like you don't notice the man is completely nude. Neighbours can gather within few seconds

This man recently lost his job, his best friend told him to feel free to come to his house to eat food until he is able to secure another job. Instead of just going to his friends house to eat, this man took the opportunity to start a little relationship with his friend’s wife so he now goes to his friends house to eat food and also sleep with his friend’s wife.

One day the husband came home early from work, open the door with his spare key and found his friend naked on top of his wife.

If na you be the husband na wetin you go do?


www.reportghananews.com/man-caught-sleeping-with-his-friends-wife/

mikolo80:
when they were massacring upandan e de sweet una. when you were insulting your hosts e de sweet una

Go and face the fulanis.. They are slaughtering your pple in Osun and ibadan . You are fighting pple who verbally insult you instead of those who slaughter you in your farms like chicken.

jimi4us:
If am a senator and my number gets expose by SR , hmm them don buy case be that o. Wether they are hiding I. America , UK or even Nigeria I will sue and make sure I destroy them.

This is why you will never be a senator in your life. A senator occupies a public office, and by right the pple he is representing ought to have his number. If you don't want your number to be made public , why run for a public officer

Adex097:
Oh no. WIZKID!! what have you done to me only one thing comes to my mind anytime I see or hear about Linda... I won't say it, no way

Don't mind wizkid; the last time I checked, linda's kitty cat doesn't smell although too watery.

lalasticlala what happened? I posted only one thread and it duplicated itself. Abeg delete one

lalasticlala what happened? I posted only one thread and it duplicated itself. Abeg delete one

sinaj:
You did the right thing in a wrong way.







She is prolly embarrassed nd might come around later.




Av u tried visiting her?

I tried visiting several times after that but no avail; she never wanted us to see eyeball to eyeball after that night..

I once dated a lady few years ago; She was so beautiful, humble , hand-working and intelligent; in fact , she has everything a man can desire from a woman. When we started newly she told me she wasn't ready for sexual intercourse with me yet, I didn't even bother to insist because I was more focus on something bigger with her (marriage).

After about a month or there about of our affair, she came to my house , as we were kissing and groping each other ( through her conduct it was obvious she was ready to get involved sexually even though she never expressly said so) , so I unbuttons her trouser. As I pull her trouser down my nostrils was engross by a fishy sticky smell gushing out from her genital region. It was unbearable but in other not to hurt her ego, I pretended like nothing was wrong. All I did was to carefully use a condom.

The next time she came, I cook up a reason ( like the weather being too hot ) to made her shower, even after the shower, the smell although reduced but was still there. That night I told her that she needs to go for a medical test; she insisted that she was okay and no need for test. I tried to convince her but she remain obstinate (it was obvious she was ignorant of deed), so in the heat of the moment I disclose to her about the foul smell with hope that it will make her change her mind.

Throughout that night, she refused talking to me. And in the morning, few hours after she left, I got a text message from her telling me she was no longer interested in the affair; she even blocked me on all social network and decline my phone calls. That was how that relationship ended.

I felt really bad because I had hoped the relationship will lead to marriage; which was indeed what made me disclose the foul smell to her with hope to help her get a good cure. I guess I busted her feminine ego .



Guys! Was I wrong to have told her that she has a foul smell down below?

If yes, What would you have done if you were in my shoes?

I once date a lady few years ago; She was so beautiful, humble , hand-working and intelligent; in fact , she has everything a man can desire from a woman. When we started newly she told me she wasn't ready for sexual intercourse with me yet, I didn't even bother to insist because I was more focus on something bigger with her (marriage).

After about a month or there about of our affair, she came to my house , as we were kissing and groping each other ( through her conduct it was obvious she was ready to get involved sexually even though she never expressly said so) , so I unbuttons her trouser. As I pull her trouser down my nostrils was engross by a fishy sticky smell gushing out from her genital region. It was unbearable but in other not to hurt her ego, I pretended like nothing was wrong. All I did was to carefully use a condom.

The next time she came, I cook up a reason ( like the weather being too hot ) to made her shower, even after the shower, the smell although reduced was still there. That night I told her that she needs to go for a medical test; she insisted that she was okay and no need for test. I tried to convince her but she remain obstinate (it was obvious she was ignorant of deed), so in the heat of the moment I disclose to her about the foul smell with hope that it will make her change her mind.

Throughout that night, she refused talking to me. And in the morning, few hours after she left, I got a text message from her telling me she was no longer interested in the affair; she even blocked me on all social network and decline my phone calls. That was how that relationship ended.

I felt really bad because I had hoped the relationship will lead to marriage; which was indeed what made me disclose the foul smell to her with hope to help her get a good cure. I guess I busted her feminine ego .




Guys! Was I wrong to have told her that she has a foul smell down below?

If yes, What would you have done if you were in my shoes?

That means war

herbie27:
My hospital is Brethway Memorial Hospital(BMH) PH and wen ever i go there am first referred to old men(professors of medicine) the kind of questions they ask you is as if they are your father and you must answer b4 you will be referred to a female doctor for prescription.

In case of next time, you should come to my hospital. Let see what up there.

HolyHero:
i have made it my life's work to find out the source of its ingenuity

Ride on bro, you are doing a great job for mankind. may God protect and guide your work instrument as it wallow through the valleys of kitty_cats for answers

HolyHero:
pussies are... Are.... Are.... Incomprehensible

Bros, you must have carry out so many empirical research to arrive to this point

herbie27:
I once had an excruciating pain around my lower abdomen, went to one private hospital around my area and registered to see a doctor bt to my greatest surprise a married man was the doctor on duty that day, after much questions he decided that he will have to scan my stomach.

I didn't knw the procedure so i agreed and went in2 the scan room, the guy came and asked me to pull my trousers, that day he saw enough for me to say he saw my private part I was shy at some point and he knew bt as a professional he said "this is one of the things we see everyday" and i understood him cos lots of women where on the queue to see him as well.

Something wey you dey hide hide from young bobos , na him old married man don see and touch sef . That's not fair

emeckzy:
You really kept to your promise of not telling anyone what you saw...





This is a fabricated gist my guy...docs dont need to call you in as a witness, as a matter of fact, you can be in the operation room if the patient requests for your presence or if you are a related. The presence of the nurses alone covers your witness excuse. Try harder next time when cooking such a gist. well done

So with this watery points you stated above , in your mind you have discredit my story. Mr nobody is forcing you to believe my gist k. Take it or leave it , I have made my point .

Doubting_thomas

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#FFC0CB]Coooorrect.
...If he didn't want to be acussed of rape a female nurse would have been a good eye witness.
He just violated her privacy calling the op in.

Donbenedict
...That is/was a breech of doctor/paitent confidentiality.
It was hers to reveal if/when the time came. [/color]

A nurse would not make a good witness if the matter gets to court. Bcus she's under the payroll of the doctor and will be presumed to be compromise. A neutral third party is a best witness