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honeric01: No man, only went to jele simi

lmao

honeric01: No i don't understand that, please let me understand better

no Sir.
But, let ME understand....
Did u attend kindergarten?!

honeric01: Wetin be that?

heheheheheehehhehehehee.
I've noticed you men like the word 'gold digging' so much.
So you'll better understand a sentence when it's included in it. Lol.

@topic.
SUMMARY- my 2 cents:
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NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING FROM MEN.... And yes, there are gold diggers.
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Gold digging is in 2 sections.
(1). The good gold diggers who look for a serious-minded man with prospects and builds with him... Add value to his life, help him make good plans with the little he has and watch it boom.
(2). The baaaad gold diggers- who only want the sweetness of the moment. Your ambitions, dreams and targets are not their concern. ''be quick with the money jooo''. The exit door is always left open.
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On the MEN ANGLE..... Where do I start? ANY MAN that is looking to cling to ANY woman for money/to be established(the shameless olofofos with sugar mummies, green card husbands, young grandfathers, etc). Aah! Shame shame shame
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It's better for a woman to look for a rich husband(sometimes you can't pass the blame much)... the economy is not helping matters......than for a man to shame the word, MAN
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On another note, Nigerian men pls learn to build your women up. Bashing them constantly makes you look weak and pathetic. Try to see the good in people more and condemn less. You too are not in any way close to a 5 star. You hardly see women deriding men even when the crop of men being churned out from different families these days is below par in percentage.
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See the positive in women...before you know it you'll attract the good hearted ladies as friends-who'll be drawn by your attitude toward them, and from there your wifey will surface.
Constant negativity has a way of attracting the worst of the worst toward you.

okpara ugo: In a bid to get a wife, my guy has been hoodwinked by several ladies. He approches them on a marital stance, he dates them for say 5months and talks about marrige along the line. On proposing, he finds out the girl doesnt even have marriage in mind, she was just playing along to siphoon his money. About 3 ladies have done this to him and he never slept with any of them yet he has parted with so much cash. Yes, they are all around 24/25yrs old while he is about 30. This shows you those ladies dont want to build with him.

Now one of them came back to say she is now interested after being jilted by another guy she was expecting marriage from. Sincere marriageable men know that an average Nigerian girl is deceitful and a money monger.

Why your guy spend money on top those ladies head? Abi im be their papa?
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Some men never hear/learn. Why u go spend like that for person wey no be your wife? Abi na INVESTMENT you wan do? U wan brag later say na you contribute for im refurbishment?
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Mtcheeeewww. No spend for am, and see whether im go stay with you still.... That is the point. You can buy small small things for birthday/celebration/congratulation. Apart from that, na you be im family wey suppose pay im school fees/house rent/exhorbitant shopping/ carry im family for your head?.
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Even if it's a lady that is from a very humble home, she would have shown you that she was sensible/would stay with you even if you spend on her or not, before you decide she was worth helping out/taken care of.
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Make una dey there dey take una papa money dey pose/be wasting the little you make. Nowadays you have 'women wrappers' wey women fit confuse sotay dem go fit spend their entire investment for them.
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Later, nairaland no go hear for them. Dem go come here dey display movie title...... ''The heartlessness of women, Heart Breakers, Is There Any Wife Material Nowadays...?''.
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Excusez moi, biko. Lol.
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If you want to give out your money, make sure it's with no strings attached....that is, you want to give it out because you like giving. But as for that one with strings attached...that one you go spend your life savings to impress so that she would think u're husband material, hear me...U WILL BE DISAPPOINTED.
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You cannot buy love/commitment with money. She'll be with you for a while. When the road gets bumpy, express road always has a U-Turn.
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Never spend too much on a lady during courtship, because in the short run, it will become a yardstick for your qualification(even if she never thought she'd think of you that way). Money/wealth has this feeling of pride that comes with it if not checked...that's why very few can stay if that affluence suddenly (puff!) disappears.
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Throw away your investment on your WIFE oooo, not a GF. Unless u're one of those rare men that have the giving heart, who won't come here to cry and whine. We've heard enough.

hehehehehehehehehe

^^^^^ essay.
Makes sense though.
But u musn't be a 'do back' guy.

yea, I agree with CC.
NO JUDGING, NO SNEERS, NO RAISED EYEBROWS OR 'ADVICES'.
Just a REALITY show.
The participants should lay it down as it is, NO ONE is perfect.
There are no prices to be won. No marks to be awarded.
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There'll be reactions though, to spice it up

dmcdad: Lol... How you take know say na fake?

find bedroom biko.
Una dey too force am

dmcdad: Who u referring to ma'am

u and ur NL wife

[quote author=noble_gas1]Are you married or single?[/quote]could be unhappily married.
Sorry lady.

1. Emphatically yES
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2. Take me aside quietly, sit me down and tell me(no anger in voice).
One thing I thank God for is that I listen,and feel people's emotions.
Even before he tells me, I'll know I hurt him.
Won't be surprised I'll be the one to go to him first.

dey chase all ya NL wives till u become lik dat man. Heheheheeheehehe

de pic no wan make u see am.
U can manage dis one.

,......,..

abeg make una carry una fake love enter bedroom biko.
Loool.

babyface333: Hahahahahaha

If a girl does not like you, you have just 20 percent chance of getting her. i am tired of seeing all these rules on how to get a lady, how to do this, how to do that. There is no rule to attraction.

Simple just be yourself to any lady you like and you want, if she likes you, i mean the chemistry is there between the both of you then you have 90 percent chance of getting her, but if she doesnt like you, my brother forget it, that is women for you, unless you have the bargaining power............ chedahsss..... you know what i mean.

cheers................

thank u so much.
Aaah!
Lol

Is this a Status Census?
Ok.

when a lady observes a man and digs his character and person, forget matter. Much story is not required.
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Those that keep wooing till eternity are those that refuse to accept the tale-tale signs that they're not wanted/ Or are too proud to let their friends know they've failed a 'project'.

acidtalk: Women now justify their cheating nature as a way to revenge men cheating on them too.

oga Acidtalk enjoyin his married life on a Saturday (pic)

troy20: it realy is a hard life.both parents play alota important roles unfortunatley most of them dnt seem 2 take notice of.no man is born a monster.i came 2 observe human beings r fragile beings n its d early experiences of childhood dat shape dat much sort afta hot personality of d adult man.i grew up with a distant father dat always had a sneer on his face weneva he sees me(up till nw) and a very abusive mother.i had a very low exteem cause i felt unlovd n lonly al my life so d abuse kinda affectd my perspectivd about women.most fathers unestimate d fact a male child sees them as d first role model n greatly look up 2 them.so wen de arnt available de clive more 2 thier mum.so if unfortunately d mum becomes abusive den she evidently aided in creatn a thug n a monster.wel i didnt turn out a monster i waz able intellectualy improve myself n undastand reasons 4 my flaws

I so love the humility of this MAN.
U will make the required difference starting from yourself down to your generations after you.
God bless you.

irunmoleaiye: i don't think dis is medically possible. but who knows, it might be the work of the holy spirit

Do not blaaspheme the Holy Spirit.
Be very careful of the words you say before you regret it for eternity.
God is not your mate.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Seriously, these dudes are funny[/quote]

pleep:

Abeg...

[quote author=Mr..Cork]huh? ..u beg for her number? [/quote][quote author=pleep]

Yes. Mr Cork would date them.
Make ur white girlfrnd catch u for that computer.
Lol.

CrazyMan: If both of you are gainfully employed, and she's decent and responsible, why not....

must she be a worker Oga?

CrazyMan: Say wetin happen...I'm not jobless please, I've got other reasonable things to do with my time.


Isn't that madness...I mean you see someone crying, and instead of asking her what the problem is, you grab her tight, that's madness from my point of view.


She's not my wife, so she has no right to my phone.


Another madness...


I'm not santa clause...if we going to date, then it would be for love, nothing more...


Why...


I think I can do this...


Gosh...I don't sag


Sorry I don't use female pictures as my wall paper...


I think you're selfish.

this man sef

NO. The men of today are not trained to be men in the real sense of the word.
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A man well brought up commands respect., he respects and honors women because he sees his mom in them., he is hardworking(not the flock that marry grandmothers and innocent, unsuspecting young ladies for green card/to get money out of them).,.
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Makes you wonder at the society of today. The elders no longer imbibe those needed morals....or if they do, the intended recipients don't care to listen/learn.