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[quote author=190-the-clown]im not settling nuffin wif u [/quote]hmmmmm.
I'm nt kidding.

MissCorrection: Personality

we have seen you.
Everyone but you know that was an omission.
Smh.

sometimes it takes someone with no proud peronality, who is down-to-earth, natural and doesn't see himself as all in all to open a thread like this, and i bet you, women will listen.
No one likes a fake, pompous personality...one who never follows his own advice.

Caracta: Your choice
#shrugs#

[quote author=190-the-clown]@caracta

U shud knw dat waz a public stunt -
She's no more and she's gone
Ok nor vex - ttyl swerry



@wiset- do I know u [/quote]

Caracta: Your choice
#shrugs#

na ur date be dat?
Mmmmmmmh

[quote author=190-the-clown]^thats someone's wife so


smh [/quote]LMAO.
We have sth to settle..hop u knw dat.

@190.
If u ask me dat again, i'll knock ur head.

LOL.
190 na young guy oooo.
From a very reliable source (me).

boron10: Acidtalk, lol, the responses you've received so far should be enough indication that signing the agreement would be better idea

make i hear say acidtalk sign dat paper, even if he receives 100 petitions to do so.
Heheheehee.
Nairaland addicteeeeeeedddd

acidtalk: But come to think of it, who takes this Romance Section serious? Definitely not me.

The section moderated by a kid and filled with toddlers.

You sure know sections to meet me if you need mature discussions.

heheheehheheeheh!! LMAO.
Na lie. U're the 'head' of the romance section.
So u're a toddler, ehn?
Now Nairaland knows. LOL.
Pls people, treat him 'jejely'. He's just a todd... LMAO

lmao.
Clowns.

THIS THREAD IS OFFICIALLY LOCKED.
Sexkillz, lock it.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]I knew you had a medical condition demanding attention. What i did not know is how serious it has gotten. It's not too late to go for a psychological evaluation. . .

What a discombobulated specie!
[/color]

xk..sweerie.
Heheehheeheheheheeeehe.

I WOULD LIKE TO INTERVIEW WILLZKID.

acidtalk: Over the years I have always learnt never to follow a superior struggle a lady.

In my school days I had similar experiences with my HOD, 3 lecturers and several 'guys'. I always made of in other areas like being over friendly and spending for them. But I sure had my share of payback time.


No Woman! And I repeat NO WOMAN!! Is worth fighting over.


Girls come and go but bosses and buddies will always stick around.

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i hope your wife is included in that too?
See how 'wonderfully' your brain works.

caukerzee: lmao...i just said that because you talked about unlimited plan. People who talk about bb having unlimited plan are mostly people who cant afford the charges for internet on andriod powerd devices. No offense intended.

and none taken.
And it is 'proud' people who think that anyone that wants to enjoy browsing without interruption/spending much cannot afford it.
Stop feeling like u're anything. People that got it don't make noise...only the ones full of themselves.
No offense intended.

caukerzee: the fact that you cant afford the charges, doesnt mean i cant.

and why do u think i can't afford the charges, Dangote?
Answer the question.... Does it have an unlimited data plan?
Money miss road. Lol

To me, BB is only needed(talking for myself) for its unlimited data plan.
It's internet friendly.
Aside from that..... e5 rocks.

caukerzee: thats just the truth about it. I keep telling them. The use the part of the world they are saying and generalize it. An andriod device can do what ever a bb can do twice better and faster. Its a fact.

does it have an unlimited data plan?

pls does anyone have a BB he wants to quit using? #fully functional#
no payment. See it as charity lol
bring it this way.

Lady Winona: Am I missing something here? I admit I'm not a phone geek but I do know my math and money management. A friend of mine who bought an android cos she was told it's better than BB spends a 1000 for 200MB. With my BB plan, I spend 1400 for 3GB, which if I'm to calculate is abt 15000 for the same 3GB with an android. Does that even make sense economically? Or is there something I don't know

and with #3000 you get unlimited data plan for a whole month.
Works far better that the 3G etc plans.
Am I missing sth too?
Lol.

In case the roles of the couple in the home has been forgotten:
- The man provides for the family financially, and protects his home from harm.
-The woman takes care of the home front...keeps the house clean(inside and out), bears the kids, trains them well, cooks for her family, provides moral guidance to her children, maintains PEACE and harmony in the home, is always available for and a best friend to her husband.
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After all that is achieved, if the woman decides to help her husband financially(probably because his income couldn't provide very well for them), then that is good. She would be doing it because she wants to...because she sees the need to. And NOT because she MUST do it.
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Young men, grow up. Let go of laziness and the thought that your wife OWES you financial contributions.
BE the man of the house as you should. Earn your wife's respect.
Foisting your role upon her will only get you in a situation where you come on nairaland to complain,''My wife does not respect me. Help''.
Let it be something she loves/wants to do. And u'd be surprised what a woman can do for a man who loves and understands her.

spyder880: Pardon my dissenting voice but I think a responsible man should look at the marriage with an eye of total responsibility for ALL financial expenses in the house, very hard but possible, while the wife takes care of every other thing that does not involve bringing in money. The responsible man should note that this is his God assigned obligation and should not shy away from it.

He also has a responsibility to respect his wife and kids, care for them and provide ALL succor for their upkeep. Buy the clothes, the surprise gifts, the eat outs and any other thing necessary for the family happiness.
He should build a house for them, even if its a manual intensive mud hut that he can afford to build, or rent a house and pay the bills. He should pay the school fees of all kids and even train the wife in school if she has educational deficiencies. (if he cannot, he should have as few kids as he can cater for)

The man should feed his children and wife, cmon, what respect will I have if I cannot ensure my wife and children are well fed and happy? I will work till I drop just to make them happy, if the worse comes to worse, even barrow pushing is not excluded from what I will do to make sure I live up to my manly obligations which I stated for myself in my teens.
The man should ensure security, plan ahead for everyone and make sure he is a role model for which the wife and children are proud of.

If you think the marriage is about the man alone, you are wrong. The woman has very heavy burdens placed on them by nature, so should not be bothered with making money for the husband. Pregnancy, child care, house care, etc. The woman should be strong and active to make the house work perfectly, providing a clean surrounding in the home.
She should clean, wash, scrub and arrange all items in the house. She should cook, store, preserve and act as accountant general of the home, spending domestic budgets with utmost wisdom, arranging all purchases of food and other household items while the husband will have more time to make the money.

All the points I mentioned for the woman notwithstanding, she should provide one vital ingredient in the home, PEACE. A ready smile, a listening ear and a pillar of support for the husband. Make sure he longs to return home everyday, make sure you prepare and launch him out to go out next day for his business/work with a smile on his face, recharge his emotional battery, give him the confidence he needs to believe in himself continually.

I cannot bear the thought of my wife working under someone else, who in this world can shout on my wife or make her work harder than I will want for her, for how much sef? How about those her soft smooth hands getting hurt while she is trying to make money, how much sef? I swore to care for her, why should she care for me.

Sometimes the men are lazy, (not all men) and I have seen cases where men marry for the money which the wife can make. Men should start from their teen years to prepare for marriage, save enough because this is one expensive venture that will last forever. Build your house even before you marry, make plans for a happy home as long as 10 years before marriage. Marry a wife to treasure, not to work for you.

An exception to this is where the women has itchy fingers to work, well, she can work but make sure it is not for the money, just for the fun of getting up and going to work to mix with others as she is not in prison.

that is why i like u. A real man there.
Wish we'll have more sensible men like you.
A woman shouldn't work because she HAS TO help the man with finances. How could she have that burden with all the other roles nature naturally bestows on her?
Her contributing financially to the home should be something she does out of pleasure...something she consciously decides to do because she wants to....because she wants to make use of her degree, And NOT because she is OBLIGATED to help you the man(who should be the provider for your home!).
May laziness not overtake the men of this generation.
And someone said 50/50.
50/50? Then what is your role as a 'man?'.
The man that said this(if he meant that) should cover his face for shame .

190: [size=13pt][color=RED]where is seun shaGARRI [/color][/size]

190 u be correct case..
Lmao.
Make seun catch u.

UmericanGirl: This thread will not affect the price of garri indeed.

it might ooo.
U never know.

nobody is buying anybody 2BUFF.
Bride price doesn't mean the lady is being sold. In some cases, the in-laws give back the money to the husband/ask for something very low.
It is a symbol of sort. It shows the value of the woman in the eyes of her family...and paves way to laying a foundation of respect(honour) when she's handed over to the semi strangers(new family) she would be entering into.
What you should say is that the people that still exploit such situations need to desist, and not look for condemnations from posters.
If the men marrying them don't like their culture, why do they come back for more/love to marry Igbo women?
Never heard of building houses or the sort.
Besides, if you encounter that, then quit, cos it is absurd.

PLS IGNORE THOSE THAT WANT TO BRING IN CONTROVERSY HERE.
That is in their blood, let their bitterness eat them up if they want to let it.
The discussions here should be civilized as the topic is.

oh! Some beautiful deliveries from some wonderful brains!
This contest is beautiful. First one I'm really enjoying.
Solid, well-thought-out deliveries.
More power to your elbows, debaters.

Aakon: well i grid my teeth,bulge my eyes,swell my nostrils,with my lower lip covered by the upper,take a deep deep breath,walk away..

lol

190: [color=RED]IF SHE WALKS ON A STRAIGHT LINE TOWARDS YOU THEN SHES CHEATING!!




WOMEN WHO DONT CHEAT ON THEIR MEN WALK IN A ZIG ZAG MANNER [/color]

190. Lmao.
Hahhahahaahahahahhaaaa. Dis boi....u're sth else

politics section and its bruhaha.
I hope some of the judges listed up there will not be the worst thing to happen to the debate, cos going by the exchange of words that took place already, hope there won't be 'bad blood' between the criticized judges and their critics.
Choose the judges veeeeryy carefully(that cannot be overstressed).
They must be neutral characters with long forgotten/NO history of fighting with or holding grudge against anyone(even on this thread).
In the absence of that, NO ONE will take their assessments seriously and there might be fresh fights over that.
Am not impressed with the drama on this thread so far(and the debate hasn't even started).
Could we please respect one another here and leave the name calling(whether Arewa, biafra,etc)outside the door?
Thnx.

[quote author=Dr. Joe]is that the answer to the OP's question? who was the disciple that jesus loved? if you know the answer share it, if you don't, then keep your religious bigotry to yourself. christians are typical of fear, condemning and threatening people with illusory punishments. nonsense!![/quote]there is no fear in christendom.
And i have answered him, dr doom.
Have a nice day.

991: well madam preacher, doesn't it occur to you that there are other religions whose teachings contradict that of the bible you are quoting? do you think they are stupid? now, what do they think of your own religion? 'all you know is not all that exist in this world'. and if you think the rest of the world will perish just because they have a different view on religions/beliefs, 'then you are the one whose eyes need to be open'

we are not talking about other 'religions' here.
Since Christianity is the one talked about here, at least get your facts right.
Sorry for the many people you may have successfully twarted their knowledge of the scripture.
People, READ YOUR BIBLE FOR YOURSELF. DO NOT BE DECEIVED BY ANY MAN.
Goodday.