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Very funny thread.

THIS THREAD REEKS OF INSECURITY IN ITS ALARMING PROPORTIONS.
Makes you wonder why some folks take the time to date if their partners aren't worth it. And the moral decadence in the world today- where everyone is a suspect(male/female).
Be faithful to your relationships people!
Change that conniving, player-like, deceitful character that breeds distrust, hate and makes u a suspect where your partner is.
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It's funny as Nairaland is an anonymous forum. We could have two people in a serious relationship outside of Nairaland who both have IDs here, saying a capital NO to each other without knowing. Lol.
What a joke we make of so-called 'love' and 'relationship'.
Abeg disband and stay alone. Make una no dey deceive unaself.

u better tell her, and hear from her.
Be very careful and prayerful.
If it persists, inform the authorities. A threat to ur life is not something to be treated with kid gloves.

TODAY is my birthday.
1st of Nov.

acidtalk: May Hurricane ACID wipe you and your entire family.
No good shall ever come you way from today henceforth.
When people are moving forward you and your family will be going backwards.
When good things are being distributed, you and your family will only arrive after it has ended and will be left with the WORST things of this life.

You think you can curse? Let the cursing begin.

no, my dear.
U're better than this.
I'm disappointed. Come on.

andromida: I see a good woman with poor social skills and that seems important to you. Date her some more, you can help her be better the way you like, be clear about what you want from her. Help her in a kind way, the way you approach her supposed shortcomings maybe the determining factor whether she will change or not. However do not force yourself into the relationship just because she is a good girl be true to yourself and your needs.

I have some male friends who married a good girl or the other and are now miserable because she is not really what they want but they were afraid that they would never find someone like her. Do not make decisions out of fear. It's your life.

@the OP.
Listen to this advice.
Love/marriage shouldn't be a function of pity. Infact, you'll regret it all your life if you do.
What you know you can NEVER tolerate when dating, DO NOT Think that a miracle will happen and u'll suddenly begin to like it after marriage.
So, be wise.
You either can take it or u cannot.
Make ur decision and move on.
Thinking that u can NEVER find another who will possess a good percentage of what you desire/like is not a good mentality to have.
U could even find one better than her.
The question you should ask yourself is: ''Can I be happy with this lady if I marry her?''.
If you can, go on. But if u honestly cannot, do not deceive yourself. So that you do not become a bitter, married man later in your life.
A VERY IMPORTANT RULE SOME PEOPLE SEEM TO FORGET:
NEVER MARRY SOMEONE OUT OF PITY. You will be miserable all your life.

@ age 25........ YES!!
Why do some think everything is about school? We tend to support such arguments with, ''He's not through with school .... He couldn't have gotten a job by then....''.etc.
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Some men have solid jobs by the age of 23-24, not to talk of 25..
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Marriage readiness is a state of the mind.
You could have a 40yr old man who shouldn't by all means and purposes step close to the altar with another man's daughter, because he is not fit to be a husband.
He could be a drunkard, never-do-well, woman beater,etc. Should we then say that because he is a 'grown' (by our own standards)man by that age he MUST marry?
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When a man is ready to shoulder the responsibility of a home, is matured in his thinking, has learnt how to respond to a woman(especially when she acts up), and is ready to learn daily from the elderly ones with a stable home, I'd say he is MAN ENOUGH to go ahead and marry.
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More especially when he accompanies that with a level headed, respectful, and loving choice of partner who is willing to make a success of it too.(VEEEERY VEEERY IMPORTANT, MEN).
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@those crying 'experience'.
For how long are you going to keep jumping from one woman to the other in the name of getting experience. More prompting: How much experience do you think is ENOUGH to acquire before you take the bold step?
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There can never be ENOUGH experience.
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When you have understood to some extent how women think, how to control yourself when they go overboard, how to treat them right, home management(especially the financial aspect), how to be a good husband yourself, then you're good to go.
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As your years in marriage increase, you acquire more experience for 'your own home', cos no two marriages are the same. Same way, no two women are the same.

BLACKBERRY.
Lol
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@grape

pastormustwacc: Na wa o, those boys no finish the job

God have mercy on you.

acidtalk: Bad keh?
I can never worry about anything in here oh!
Can pretend to flare up, rant, insult, mock someone but it all ends as soon as I close that thread.
There's far too much to worry in the real world than loosing one's head over a virtual circle.

i don dey suspect u be oga daily...
Anywayz....peace.

happi birthday ICE

I agree with you.

u no dey feel bad again, abi?
U ok now?

REALITY101: Ham ham ham

@reality...
Dis one na semi laff, abi na semi cry? Lol

@missyB or who's in charge...
Why hasn't Idowuogbo been interviewed?
Oya interview Terry G's sister fast fast.

Yup.
Have been privileged to occupy that position a number of times.
I would say mine started from the Kindergarten till this moment.
It's not easy being a leader, with many eyes looking up to you.
Where a wrong move could cost you loads.
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Being, not just a leader, but a principled one, is no mean feat.
You are threatened, taunted, misunderstood by those who do not see the need to do things following the Due process.
But, the upside is that you are encouraged, congratulated and protected by many who see you as rare. Someone that would never back down...who could look at intimidation in the eye and dare it to make a move.
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Leadership also gives you a special kind of confidence and sense of responsibility..... When you've become used to shepherding plenty.
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One lesson I think our present leaders don't have at the back of their minds is in the form of a question:
''When I step down from this position and become one of the 'masses' once more, would I be happy with the development strides in my area of operation?''.
They do not take the time to see themselves through the Peoples' eyes.
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YES @ OP. Being a leader is not easy. But it also doesn't give the present leaders we have now the right to celebrate and throw money around even as the poorest of the poor is dying.
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When the Standard of Living(let's not mention Cost of Living now) is low, it says a lot about a country and its leadership.

acidtalk: I have been seeing your FUNNY comments lately but I never get your time now.

lol.
Na jokes naa.
Why u taking it serious.
Loosen up.
Ok dearie?

acidtalk: Thanks.
Don't forget to spread the news to our sisters.

ansa me jooor

acidtalk: Go and siddon somewhere.
When you learn to type sense I wil have something to tell you

hey sweerie...
We quarrelling?

lefulefu: u and sexkillz get time sha
time wey i go dey think on how to hustle money na im i go come dey hang out for beach

LMAO!
U neva waka finish?

lefulefu: tank u my sister
me sef no get money again wey i go dey give babe for brazilian wigs

efulefuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.......
Wer hv u been hiding since?

acidtalk: When did you become such a hater?

hey sweetie, i ain't hating.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Please do and stop derailing this one[/quote]-gives him a whack with my bat- LOL.

CrazyMan: Hmmm...a nairaland get together party...if my memory is correct, this should be like the 17th topic I've come across since I joined Nairaland.

Unfortunately all the topics achieved nothing...just regular jisting, till people eventually get tired of making comments, then gradually, the thread would fade. Let's hope this one achieve its aim.

Btw...why is the venue lagos, why not in the East...must everything be held in Lagos?

This is not fair o...we must protest the venue...

crazyman...re u in the East?
No mind them.
Let the Eastern dwellers have their own get-together

for ur mind.

Another question:
(b)how does a nite club improve the lives of the young ones?
Or is it only the older folk that are allowed to enter into it?
If yes, what impact...negative/positive does it have on a child?
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(c)does it impact something/anything positive/negative in the lives of the 'adults' that come out from it?
I mean, what would you say you would have gained as soon as you emerged through the doors?
#still just asking#
-waiting................

davidylan: Increased traffic to the area = increased economic opportunities for small businesses in the area.
Think increased source of tax revenue to the government.

Nigerians are their hypocritical over-religiosity. I'm not a clubber neither do i recommend people go spend their hard earned money there but i would rather a well-run club over a church whose sole purpose is bleeding the ignorant dry anyday.

lol.
Papa davidylan, i asked an innocent question.
Ok....oga davidylan and his insinuations.
Happy now?

@EVERYONE.
BEFORE YOU POST YOUR NEXT COMMENT, LOOK AT THIS PICTURE BELOW.

[quote author=truelove.com]We don hear .Abeg no dey form, you no get shii shii[/quote]lmao.
This thread and the comments.
Smh.
What will a nite club add positively to the lives of people in the area it is located??
Can someone answer this innocent question dispassionately?
Just wanna know.
Waiting........

you are living in a Lagos developed by your people, or that developed by people from other ethnic groups?
Be careful what you wish for.
If you want your land for yourself, then your leaders should allow others that want to go their way to do so too.
But since you can't afford to do without them, keep quiet and stop making noise.
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On another note, Igbos see the insult from these people directed toward you.
It is time you all gathered yourselves together, do away with 'it is my own...it is the government's responsibility' etc, bring your resources together, and with one mind develop the SE.
Turn that place to Dubai.
Cover grounds that the entity, Nigeria, hasn't been able to cover in the whole of its existence.
You have the resources.... You have the manpower.... You have the brains.
Walk the walk, build cities in your area, and let's see which part of the country will have the temerity to try to fight you/talk you down.[quote author=inufele2]Igbos live in illusion if their so called success, I thought they said charity begins at home, how come Igbos have not turn se states to Dubai?
The earlier these leeches leave us the better! Yorubaland will be better without Igbos
Igbos PLEASE LEAVE NOW!!!!!

Go Chelsea!
Go Chelsea!
Go!