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Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 5:40pm On Nov 23, 2012 |
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Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Tgirl4real(f): 5:54pm On Nov 23, 2012 |
Is CC trying to steal my show behind me? Where is my lawyer? [size=4pt]Nice one BTW. U should take up d offer instead and put that talent to use.[/size] |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Odunnu: 6:37pm On Nov 23, 2012 |
chaircover: This is a Preview LOL (I am not on the show ooooo!) but I just had to share this cos its friday and I love fridaysThe show don start - unofficially. Good CC. This is exactly what T-bebe has in mind. @Tgirl - that my number no complete o. There's supposed to be a 'half dozen' single number somewhere, put it anywhere and we have it. |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 7:52pm On Nov 23, 2012 |
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Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by tjskii(f): 7:59pm On Nov 23, 2012 |
Oya na,wher are d oda peopl,so far only cc has contributed Tgirl ow bout this,to get d show on d road,since most of d peopl nominated avn't been abl to contribut yet,wat if any person,that has smthn entertainin or teachabl moments to share bout their marriage ,is allowed to do so |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by RudySmith(m): 5:05pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
Although this is a family event, we all know that in families there r the good, the bads, and the uglies. It will b nice 2 also focus on the hard reality of life for some families out there. So I will like to nominate myself 2 bring a complete different aspect 2 family as we know it. I have a happy family home, successful, very proud of my family and have many extra marital affairs and gf on payroll. My spouse knows about my many escapades and I don't try 2 hide any of it from her. I will try 2 keep it as clean as possible but also as real as possible, if u care 2 accept my nomination since I am fairly new on NL. |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by EfemenaXY: 5:17pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
RudySmith: I have a happy family home, successful, very proud of my family and have many extra marital affairs and gf on payroll. My spouse knows about my many escapades and I don't try 2 hide any of it from her. I will try 2 keep it as clean as possible but also as real as possible, if u care 2 accept my nomination since I am fairly new on NL. Are you serious?? How long have you been married for, if you don't mind my asking? |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 5:27pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
Efe why can't you stay tuned I can't wait ! |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by RudySmith(m): 6:25pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: We r not here 2 judge others but I think this will b a way 2 shed light on the reality of family life, and not the dream that many think they will end up in. We have been married +3 yrs, dated on and off 4 close 2 10yrs, we have 1 child 2gether, I have 1 child from a previous relationship. I have always been honest about who I am and what I am able to offer as a partner. The family struggle is on all front, the relationship front, the parental front and the personal front. |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 6:38pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
RudySmith: You are tripping buddy! why are you spilling the beans! |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Tgirl4real(f): 6:48pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
Sorry guys 4 d silence. Will make updates later. For now, pls joins us at the Lit Debate. Happening live. https://www.nairaland.com/1102291/use-child-soldiers-good-phenomenon |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by RudySmith(m): 7:01pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
jidegirl12: You are tripping buddy! why are you spilling the beans! Spilling da beans is what has kept us 2gether 4 so long, like going 2 da supermarket and knowing exactly what u r buying. |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 7:26pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
RudySmith: Noo I meant you are giving out the story before the show starts.... Whatever rocks your boat man .... it doesn't concern me. |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by RudySmith(m): 7:32pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
^ Sorry, I just wrote about who I am, 4 people 2 understand where I am coming from since I am new here. I thought that what is important is the everyday juicy details, and the main focus of this thread, like a diary. |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 7:36pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
RudySmith: ^ Sorry, I just wrote about who I am, 4 people 2 understand where I am coming from since I am new here. I thought that what is important is the everyday juicy details, and the main focus of this thread, like a diary. Of course the juicy stuff's what makes the show interesting....I can't wait to read your page....like I said if it works for you ... Why not .... Efe I'm being nice o! |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by EfemenaXY: 8:00pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
RudySmith: No one's judging you here. It's all about sharing experiences and having a peek preview of other people's marriages and understanding what works for them. I'm curious though, how does your wife cope with the knowledge that you're embroiled in extra-martial affairs? Or do you have an "open" relationship where she too is free to have a man / other men on the side too? What about your kids? Are they aware of what's going on? |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by EfemenaXY: 8:06pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
jidegirl12: He's not. He's giving us a sneak preview. jidegirl12: Efe why can't you stay tuned I can't wait ! I'm hooked on his story already. It's definitely unconventional (to me, that is). |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by ifyalways(f): 8:10pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
Rudysmith, are you and your wife Nigerians? |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 8:24pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
See all of you are like sharks already surrounding the man..that's what I view in my head Rudy I'd say you keep it as it is until you are endorsed by Tee and then you can open the can |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by EfemenaXY: 8:50pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
^^ Killjoy How else am I gonna get my "kicks" this dull, grey, wet Sat? Lol @ Sharks! |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 9:08pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: ^^ Killjoy I've been looking for you to save me from kobo on that thread! |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by EfemenaXY: 10:27pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
^^ Lol! Babes wetin Kobo do? Anyway, looks like coogar's got your back - your knight in shining armour, I daresay |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 10:32pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: ^^ Lol! He is indeed.... that guitar! ... just tell him to back off..he cannot save me! I had to resolve to liking cooger's post( looks left and right) you know I don't like too much wahala ... we just want them to be family again since the child's involved!( whispers). Sorry o Tee... I need to talk to Efe ASAP that's why I'm here |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by EfemenaXY: 10:53pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
Lol! You'll be fine. It's an internet forum, people are bound to have differing views. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Now tell me, what's this "ish" between you & your ex, Mr G? You falling for his devilishly good looks (again)? Even though the guy nor get substance? He's gonna run back to his wife sisi at the slightest hint of wahala... |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 11:45pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
Of course. Abi wetin I for do now? I know all his agenda.... I'm watching him like a hawk Sisi needs to share too ....lmao ... I think Guitar just came back to his Annie ( or wait who's Annie here?)! I can't laugh jor I'm exhausted! |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by EfemenaXY: 11:54pm On Nov 24, 2012 |
Sharp girl! So you got my drift, re: Annie |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 12:06am On Nov 25, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: Sharp girl! So you got my drift, re: Annie You are bad! I learnt from the Pro |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by agiboma(f): 1:09am On Nov 25, 2012 |
Well here is my two cents: I think the "reality show" is a good idea if it indeed depicts the true "reality " of marriages today and not the ideal or pre concived notion of one individual perception of marriage i.e the OP. So here we go with a "so called reality show" but its not a reality show because the cast is selected by the OP who already has her opinion set in stone of what a marriage truely should be. When here "reality" of marriage may not be the same as another person's reality of marriage. This show can only work if the following is in placed, so far the concept is totally skewed and is rally a figment of the OP's imagination, the concept itself lacks dept. The bottom line is if you want to reach the audience on NL, you should try to incorporate the following: 1.) Include many participants @ least 5 married couples depicting their live, like most reality shows their are usually 5+ people they are following. 2.) These people should be all sorts of charecters, with different personalities, i.e people with open marriages, long distance relationships, etc. 3.) Married couples who are newleweds, long term marriages etc. The concept of "a couple with a good marriage" and a "bad marriage" is so old and 1920's variety need to be put in place to make the concept a little more exciting. Also if possible you can be non bias and actually moderate the thread that would be a welcomed gesture! 2 Likes |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by serubawon(m): 3:12am On Nov 25, 2012 |
Hmmm. I smell a bomb about to go off on this thread. @tgirl. I have a question though. How graphic are these married couples supposed to get concerning their 'good' and 'bad' experiences. You do know that the more colorful a couples' lives are, the more interested members will be in their stories and in effect, the other 'politically correct' couples will quickly lose relevance. So, how do you propose to cope with that? |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by ifyalways(f): 8:07am On Nov 25, 2012 |
agiboma: Well here is my two cents: I think the "reality show" is a good idea if it indeed depicts the true "reality " of marriages today and not the ideal or pre concived notion of one individual perception of marriage i.e the OP. So here we go with a "so called reality show" but its not a reality show because the cast is selected by the OP who already has her opinion set in stone of what a marriage truely should be. When here "reality" of marriage may not be the same as another person's reality of marriage.I agree with some of your points. It would be a good show if we can get away from the conventional happy marriage idea. I'll love to see couples that are very happy in : Open marriages polygamy Atheist/no religion marriage. The "supposed " happy marriage Etc. 1 Like |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Nobody: 8:53am On Nov 25, 2012 |
@ 1 Like |
Re: Family Section Reality Show - Keeping Up With Nairalanders by Wislet(f): 11:45am On Nov 25, 2012 |
yea, I agree with CC. NO JUDGING, NO SNEERS, NO RAISED EYEBROWS OR 'ADVICES'. Just a REALITY show. The participants should lay it down as it is, NO ONE is perfect. There are no prices to be won. No marks to be awarded. . There'll be reactions though, to spice it up |
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