₦airaland Forum

nj11:
So if a guy cheats on you what are you suppose to do,sit at home and cry?
Me if a guy cheats on me with one girl,I'll cheat on him with two guys.It just
feels so much satisfying.

It's your hole now, Na u get am and the scores will be counted on you. Then you will be called a bitch by the society if you are exposed. There are things that men do that women should not venture into this is one of them. The solution is not to f***k around but to quit if the babe cannot cope.

If money can't buy love then ladies on nairaland: Assuming your present lover is a road side mechanic with no workshop, find it hard to feed himself accordingly living in a one room rented apartment with backyard kitchen, Toilet and Bathroom, can't afford to at least appreciate u with gifts and give you surprises. Will you fall in love with him. We are only deceiving ourselves with this love thing with we human the kind of love we proclaim is circumstantial and conditional take it or leave money rules it makes a man a man and buy all things good food, good sex, good women, love, think of anything apart from your soul!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ezinne1212:
I like this, it's honest. So if your gf is also getting some on the side, it's a relationship that will last for awhile. Good stuff, keep it up!

How many times have you heard of a woman in Africa planning to marry second, third or fourth Husband in addition to the ones she had before TABOO.
@poster guy take heart and continue to love your babe why you try AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE to be faithful to her.

That is a mother for you they find it hard to believe that there baby boy or girl is involved in one menace or the other. I pity our mothers.

Tippy Top:
Let the truth be told, Yoruba people can't keep their mouth shut. I think its ingrained or may it is inherited anyway it sucks.

You are a tribalistic maggot for making such statement. On what basis are you passing your judgment.

Imagine the then Shoe-makers and Lesson teachers talking in this manner. 
Jerry Rawlings may be right because over the years Nigeria have done excellently well in ensuring that there is peace and stability in distressed nations of Africa specifically in the West African Sub region. Agreed we left our hair unkempt while we are assisting or advising others to shave there's this is pathetic.

This ranking is right if it is done in terms of quality of football and resource persons mainly players and Technical teams. The major problem our league that h made us to feel that South African, Egyptian, Tunisian leagues and the likes of it is better than ours is because our league lacks proper organization and funding. As far as I am concern Nigeria is still the best in the continent because we are star studded is just that the state of the Nation is telling on the sports too.

YES they can be anybodies friend if you are the complainant with fat pocket. Those bastards, bunch of illiterates and leech.

It can't happen in the present day Nigeria cos there is more money to steal and enjoy and the atmosphere is absolutely suitable for one to abuse power, misappropriate public fund and get away with it. Check out Sam Egwu while his sector is burning he still have the gut to go partying spending 120 Million Naira. Can somebody like him die for Yaradua or make any sacrifice for this nation?

Please change the topic to ALLEGED WORLD BANK DOCUMENT NAMES OF SOME TOP NIGERIAN LEADERS BETWEEN 1985-1999 AND THEIR LOOT IN FOREIGN BANKS because the names of looters between 1960 to 1984 and 1999-till date did not appear in the document.
From Okotiebo the first Finance Minister down to Obasanjo, Buhari, Atiku, Bode George,, Ibori, Agagu, Fayose, Fani-Kayode, Babalola Borishade, Patricia Etteh, Tafa Balogun and co We can't exhaust the list, Nigeria is in trouble because these same people are being recycled and presented to the electorate during our elections.

Yaradua never said he will deal with Fashola He said He will employ dialogue to solve the issue and that if dialogue fails he will employ other means to ensure that either of them is prove wrong or right (Probably the court). Moderators confirm facts before you post them on the front-page there other post better than this in the politics section that u can post on the front-page.

WE ARE NOT READY. The leaders we have right from Awolowo, Ahmadu Bello, Zik to Yaradumb all put personal and regional interest above national interest the bible says "if the foundation is bad what can the righteous do" I say NOTHING. and that is why corruption is right under our skin and we have divided house AREWA, ODUDUWA, OHANEZE, AND IJAW YOUTHS, ELDERS and so on

inki:
imagine if they had pumped that money into d power sector at least my area for get light now,  or did fifa beg them to sponsor shit our leaders are smt else, what do they ever do with their brains when they're on that seat

To strategize on the next avenue to steal. Their brain is filled with one thing to steal!  Steal!!! Steal!!! public fund.

Nigeria is not a country where that kind of move can work our government are shameless the only language they understand is Industrial action or Militant action. If the proposed 1 million people that will participate in the march can join MEND to overcome the oppression in this country where the South owns the resources but the North enjoys the resources then we shall be on the road to REVOLUTION which is the way forward in Nigeria.

Can Nigeria be delivered from corruption? NO because as we are trying to control one fire another is being ignited from 1960 till date. I think we should start praying for ourselves and stop wasting our time praying for Nigeria cos the Nation called Nigeria is Cursed.

TheSeeker:
Cock ---- Oko
  kitten -- Obo
  Breast -- Omun

This our President Musa is a slowpoke I thought he is having enough on his mind (Niger-Delta, ASUU-NASU Strike, HEALTH Sector Problems and so on) than a non-issue like this because as far as am concerned Lagos-State is the most developed and one of the most peaceful state in Nigeria. The letter is not from Musa himself I believe is from individuals that felt Fashola and AC's Performance will expose their non-performance. Musa as a puppet must deliver his masters message anyway and am sure that they will fail again cos they have failed once.

Motorola Talk about with an antenna like network mast.

How did this question made it to the front-page. Not less than 99.9% of men are unfaithful in there marriage it may be regular cruise or fling. Women too plenty now.

Infidelity or other vices in relationship are not genetic. If the history runs in a family then it is a matter of influence.
This issue applies to men too. What of guys whose grandfather, father and siblings have history of not taking care of there family and polygamy which is the root of all evil in Africa.
A Yoruba adage says the child will definitely sow his/her cloth with yarn made by the parents. "Owu ti iya gbon ni omo yio ran"
The home where someone is coming from is an important factor to be considered when choosing a spouse ONLY IF HE/SHE CAN PROOF HIMSELF/HERSELF beyond reasonable doubt that she is not influenced by the family history.

Only if you will steal join the salary but Doctors Salary in say a Teaching Hospital Cannot buy a new Camry 2008 model if the Doctor  fulfills all righteousness by taking care of his family sending his children to a good school and not cutting off his extended family. NO doctor in government hospital earned more than N800,000

They both look like palm wine tapper

A guy should practice the act of taking care of his family right from dating so that he will get use to it in marriage but don't support the idea of a woman mandating the man to give her allowance it should come from the man and that is how it will be sustainable.
It is the responsibility of a man to take care of the woman (Feeding, Clothing and Housing) although it may look primitive but that is how it is in Christianity.
One of the of the reason why guys are stingy is because we keep too many girls above our budget and setting the scale of preference we prefer to spend for a new catch than a the sure girl.

@winnag am not a Tiv man so it wont happen. Are u a Tiv man? wont mind visiting.
@stan P that is the best of all culture especially for strangers its hospitality at the highest.

@A-Town: There is no issue to address here these opinion of yours is not feasible in Nigeria. Wake guy

kokoA:
You guys should not crucify this A-town dude, he seem to have a point but he has proposed it wrongly. Yes "quality" education is worth paying 180,000 or even more for, but for now we don't have that in Nigeria now, I said "quality",so the idea of increasing fees is ill-timed. Let the leaders think of how to resolve the current problems facing our eductional sector first. They need to invest in it before expecting returns, that is how it works. So, A-town, you have a point but don't you think we won't be able to afford that now?

Well said.

Nezan:
In your dreamz, try me, I will kill you

I wonder why youths of nowadayz don't have respect for culture. No be una culture.

A-town:
I don't agree with all of you.
As a matter of fact, this is the only reasonable plan that i have seen from this administration.
University education is not for everybody. Free education up to secondary school stage is enough.
If you really want to go to college, then you should have the brain for it. If you do, there are bursaries and scholarships available.
The reason we have the type of college grads that we have today is because 99% of them used EXPO to get into school.
What is the point of graduating 1 million students every year when you only have 100,000 jobs available.

If you feel you really need to go to college and you are poor and not smart enough, go get a loan.
This may seem harsh but is the best thing that will happen to the education system.
Tertiary education in Nigeria should not be FREE.

@ A-Town: You are suppose to be stoned to death in the Village square. You are a monster.

A road to nationwide unrest, revolution or civil war. I now Know that our leaders are indeed mentally derailed.

Tiv's tradition: entertaining male guest with their favorite wife.