₦airaland Forum

Ginaz:
What do my age got to do with your background?

I also have JW background. You'll have to get to a certain age before you'll find out how cool your parents are with your decision. It's a good thing you're not baptised sha. It makes things easier for everyone.

Ginaz:
No, I questioned some doctrines in my religion and found out I'm not at peace with it. I don't worship humans, I worship God. So I stepped out to do more research, my family was angry at first but ya, they are cool with me.

How old are you now? mid 20s, 30s? My background is same.

Ginaz:
Congratulations, your wife is beautiful and you're handsome, she has nice smiles. May Jehovah bless your union.

I'm a witness by the way, my family have strong ties in J.W. But I'm now the black sheep cos I didn't get baptized. Lol

You went and joined badt gang.

Badgers14:
This is the way it should be, decent and respectful.

Congrats my guy.

All the best!!!

Not everytime back side pictures. It's really getting sickening.

Kondomatic:
Same way you friendzoned those that are interested in you.


BTW, you're just average, young with assets that are barely there so I don't understand why you see yourself as one of the most beautiful.


Because of your face?

We look beyond that.

She is beautiful if most people she has met think she is beautiful. It's not what you alone or her thinks, but what people say. Like me now, I don't know that I'm handsome but many say I am, so I guess I am. Don't beef me, just appreciate public opinion.

juri:
Please for those who got notification for advanced training, have you ben able to log in to commence the training? Thanks

What date was your induction?

[quote author=Jeus post=56282879]This Lanre Gentry though, Wetin Mercy see for this man.[quote]MONEY.

justi4jesu:
Contact me on whatsapp, yes i can.

Is your phone switched on? I've sent the message since.

justi4jesu:
Contact me on whatsapp, yes i can.

I have contacted you through someone who's already on your whatsapp. The message is already sent.

justi4jesu:
It was single handed by me. Payment was sent to him from my own account and the client was buying PayPal from him. Total $700, and he kept giving empty promises for refunds. It's just a matter of time before he gets you too, you think if there is a dispute with the Ebay checkout and seller refunds him back the PayPal, you think you will get your refund? You are yet to enter his trap.

I need to withdraw funds from fiverr, Paypal. $156. What's your rate? If you can't, could you recommend someone?

Afam4eva:
Our Yoruba brothers can be one funny bunch of people. The same people that when this same Oba made the lagoon statement, because of their bias and hate for the Igbo people, even people who did not support the Oba's uterance told us not to abuse him because he is a traditional ruler. fast forward to day, he's now the worst thing after satan because he dared to insult the Ooni of Ife. This just re-enforces the popular saying that "Injustice anywhere is Injustice everywhere". What goes around comes around.

I clicked "Like" on your observation but it would have been better if in keeping with the fairness that you are advocating you use one of the qualifiers "many", "most" or "some" when talking about how people reacted to the case you cited and the present one. There are people who did not react the way you remember the first time and there are also people who are even unconcerned now. That's a blanket indictment of a group. May that not come around on your group, and any other for that matter.

MayorofLagos:
Nigerians love situations....a monkey cuddles a rabbit in its arms, we will gather there to look.

But you sef, if you see wetin you describe so, you no go join gather look?

TPAND:
This girl doesn't have the clouds. Soon she will fade into oblivion

I would have agreed with you but those hating her are too much to let fade even if she wanted to.

2dugged:
just like the op has stated, this is one of the things causing delayed marriages in women, I remember a relationship expert talking about keeping your options open, from experience, I remember about 4 guys I turned down for my ex,infact I didn't even want to be friends with them cos in my naive little mind, I didn't want to "emotionally cheat", and now, they are married and my ex and I broke up.
ladies wise up, a man who is ready doesn't need a decade to consult his ancestors if you are the one or not,that's a fact,If after two years,he not showing signs of commitment, throw him the question and if his answer isn't satisfactory, walk away o

Instead of keeping your options open when you are already in a relationship why don't you instead be sure the person is ready for marriage before you date him. If he does not take the step in a short time after the dating has begun you free him. That way you don't cheat on anyone. All this keeping options open is just another way of encouraging women to be female dogs. I know a girl with this mentality who thinks she is dating my friend meanwhile we know she has a bunch of other guys she is also dating. She came to visit and he slept with her and after that he has not been able to get into her pants again, but it does not change the fact that he has had his way once. This while she was surely sleeping with other people.
However another friend of mine got married 2015. What impressed him and myself including was the fact that when he met his wife she said she was with someone and she did not want to double date. She told my friend not to call her that she would call him only after she had ended that relationship. That was exactly what she did. They did not even speak on the phone once during the weeks before she ended the relationship. We both valued her for it and she was taken seriously by him. He was not even looking for a wife but my guy was just impressed by her values. All this keeping your options open just muddies up the water and make women loose their values.

toprealman:
Difference between typically average African talent and their western counterpart. Bae, you still need training to process your "gift/talent" to a marketable level. Right now you are still crude and unrefined......some work will be just fine.

I did not read anywhere that she is interested in marketing it.

Michellla:
I can do this too

No you can't. Show us pinshure

Prettythicksmi:
I reject every spirit of baby mama in my life IJN Amen

Na so them dey first dey talk. Until few years down the line....

emeijeh:
If only cable tv was affordable for all in naija.
If only there was constant power in the country.


If
If
If

If only the houses that they live in are also not built under high tension wires.

adewotired:
Ribbon

Nature

franugo:
of course i'm making it personal..i have a mother n several sisters whom i cherish deeply. It puts me in a wrong mood whenever you people make your silly generalisations

I do not have sisters or a mother that I do not cherish. I'm only saying that the institution of marriage makes men expect something that does not exist- a woman who can be rational when things are not rosey. The fact is that they are not meant to be and no matter how much people would like to talk about exceptions to this, every woman starts to loose respect for their man when he starts struggling. It does not matter how much he is striving and how factors are not within his power to control. And when a woman looses respect she cannot hide it. To a woman a man is only as valuable as he is able to provide materially. So a woman's use is really all just to bear and raise your kids. You don't have to be in a marriage to get her to do that and for you to provide for your child. You can get sex without marriage and get real love from your friends.

franugo:
so your mum na baby mama abi? U people just spout rubbish on hourly basis here on nairaland

You are just taking things personal. Who told you my mum is not a baby mama and I'm not speaking from experience?

zinachidi:
events

Savior

LyfeJennings:
Women are very funny beings.
If I have my way
Na baby mama all the way o

I dey tell you. I don't see how marriage benefits a man. Women are better as baby mamas.

tspun:
Jumia Travel , the leading online travel agency,
Its kind of funny how they always tag thereself as the leader, seriously I think they deserve it.

They are the leading online travel agency and they haven't got a single picture to show us of the city they encouraging us to visit. If they are the best it must be a very poor industry.

gypsey:
mate! why the assumption? I don't give a fuvk! about the bloody hijab it's only a fuvking piece of cloth like every piece of cloth, my observations is on the fact that she didn't care about health and safety which should be paramount!

And I am glad you agree the cloth isn't stopping her from wearing a helmet. so why is she not wearing it? that was my main point!.

If you were only concerned about her safety, this part of your comment " she is wearing a piece of cloth on her head in the name of religion, i bet she believes God and his angels will fly and catch her when she falls and breaks her head" was absolutely unnecessary, don't you think?

gypsey:
this is terribly hazardous, has she not heard about health and safety? instead of a hard protective hat or helmet she is wearing a piece of cloth on her head in the name of religion, i bet she believes God and his angels will fly and catch her when she falls and breaks her head. idiot! who does this kinda dangerous job without protective equipments?

How does the hijab stop her from wearing a helmet? You are just offended by the hijab it seems.

mykeljosef:
this is dumb


with the structure of Nigerian poles and rickety ladders


her hijab can trip her for fvcks sake




then the feminist will come n say why didn't men do it



the alfas will say Allah gives Allah takes



discos will disown her n her family afterwards




you are a human first b4 you are a muslim


safety over proving a religious point

The hijab stops at her chest. Please, how is it going to trip her?

hungryboy:
Him no talk lie

Northern votes determines who can become President

Except a Southerner rigs an election
He can't win a free and fair election against a Northerners, who just need a few million Southern votes to win


The only way to end this,
Is to practice the electoral college system practised by the US

But our own will be based on regions

With each region having equal votes




The North

Middle Belt

South West

South East
And
South South

The winner of the most regions
Wins the election

It will not matter if a region has 30million voters
Or 5million

All regions vote will be rated equally

This is false. Do you mean that the elections that brought Obasanjo and Goodluck Jonathan in were not a reflection of the wishes of the electorate?

WriteBoy:
You forgot private jets.

That was barefaced mockery to Nigerians. How can she open her mouth and say she will finish N25M in one month? In this recession!!

If that is not a slight upon all hardworking Nigerians, what is? Answer me, what is?

It is even in the recession that you will finish any amount faster than before. There is inflation. She said she has things waiting to use the money for that will finish it in a week. If she invests it in a business can it not finish in a week? You people better go and wash your inferiority complexes off your vision and leave the girl alone.

CoolKizzy:
please house, after the induction, what next... mine is at enugu

nobosaba
WORLDPEACE

please how was your induction?

I have replied your pm

kwalakwala123:
Chineke meee God of Isaac
Which kain yawa b dis naa. Something similar happened in my village then. They guy got the news while they were already inside the church. He got angry and collected the microphone and ask if any lady will like to marry him right there. Luckily enough for him one fine girl stood up and her parents follow her up to the alter and gave their blessings. The dad requested for just 10k as dowry, which the guys family provided it right there inside the church and the pastor prayed for them. The food and drinks was served immediately after the prayers and the couple travelled to down to Lagos the next. Only visible home five years later with 3kids two boys twins a fine girl. The lady con fine eeeeh.....
But as for the run away bride to be never got married till i left the village.

Thank God say you sef finally leave village. Lol

nobosaba:
Worldpeace am so pained that its now am coming across this topic... am from edo too and was invited. am already in ph, mine is on the 7th... please holla at me....

You went too early for yours, abi? Sorry. I will like to get feedback from you how yours went too. We need to talk. Can I pm you?