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Family › Re: You Must Marry Me - Lady Tells Married Man by wristbangle: 8:31pm On Jan 28, 2020
Wickedtruths:
Yes na.
She dey romance section dey shout men are scum.
grin
Family › Re: You Must Marry Me - Lady Tells Married Man by wristbangle: 8:24pm On Jan 28, 2020
Lalasticlala, is that the picture of Adenike pressing her phone? cheesy
Romance › Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by wristbangle: 7:33pm On Jan 28, 2020
This intending couple got serious issue pertaining to financial prudence.

The groom has N4m and wants to blow N2m on honey moon trip to only dunai when he can budget N800k for himself and wife with a travel agency, get nice vacation packages in Dubai, Oman and Singapore plus surplus food and more tourist attractions to behold.

On the other hand, the wife is a spending spree. With N1m, they can have quality wedding celebration if well planned.

I understand the groom does not want his reputation dampens with his in-laws but they are the ones who want to spend, so why the fuss?
Travel › Re: 20 New Coaches Arrive For Nigerian Railways: Lagos-Ibadan, Abuja-Kaduna by wristbangle: 4:23am On Jan 28, 2020
A right step in the right direction. This is a way to di-congest the overpopulation in Lagos
Politics › Re: MURIC: "Amotekun Is A Christian Name, Must Be Changed" by wristbangle: 10:23pm On Jan 27, 2020
GamalNasser:
Leopards will be suprised to find out they are classified as Christians by one communal fool in Nigeria
grin and to add, they will surprised to find out that they are now pastor.
Celebrities › Re: Grammy Awards: Burna Boy Loses To Angelique Kidjo by wristbangle: 9:00am On Jan 27, 2020
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



A well deserved win to Kidjo.
The content of her songs are out of this world. She is a mix of Maya Angelou and Miriam Makeba.

Music lovers and genuine content critics like myself would have given up on the credibility and essence of the Grammy Awards if another undeserving artiste had won this.

Sentiments aside, Nigeria is yet to replicate another Fela Kuti in the global music sphere.

Fela is the only Nigerian deserving of a Grammy.
Because music is not about dancesteps or groupie trends but about a movement, a message, reawakening a consciousness and yet the melody from real musical instruments.
This is a reality lost on today's Nigerian artistes aside from Asá who still lacks in consistency.

As an African act, till your music can be accepted by Pastors, Imams, Youths, elders, global leaders, United Nations and illiterates, then you stand a chance of being an African Album or winning a foreign award in Music.

Nigeria and Nigerians must understand that club bangers do not translate to foreign awards in global music.
This is best that has ever come out from your mouth.
Romance › Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by wristbangle: 4:21pm On Jan 26, 2020
Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend who I really love so much, we were friends before I started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring, love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.

I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me. I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed up of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.

Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her?
You are not serious at all. Go and ask those who married in the name of beauty. You will hear tales my moonlight. You better stick to her before you lose her to a sharp man.

Every woman is beautiful if you can put up ways to make them more appealing to the sight.

The 10 years challenge comes to mind when you see before and now pictures of some ladies.
Politics › Re: Boko Haram, ISWAP Clash As Members Turn Guns Against Each Other. Many Killed by wristbangle: 5:28pm On Jan 25, 2020
grin May the enemy of my enemy fight each other to death
Romance › Re: Should I Give My Husband My Car?? (photo) by wristbangle: 1:50pm On Jan 25, 2020
Scripted story though it happens.
Politics › Re: LSPWC Begins Rehabilitation Work On Lasu-iba Road Intersection (Photos) by wristbangle: 1:16pm On Jan 25, 2020
I must commend those residing in this area. Their lifespan is at serious risk
Family › Re: Edo Man Returns Wife To Her Parents, Says Her Virginal Is Too Wide by wristbangle:
pocohantas:
And how do you convince yourselves, all our vaginas will be the same, irrespective of our size, race or age?

It is not our fault too. Increase your dick size or go look for a perfect fit.

Read those links for yourself. You need them more. Awon set Churchill.
Same 2 u as well and preach it to your kinds. wink. Awon set Cucumber.

Best wishes.
Family › Re: Edo Man Returns Wife To Her Parents, Says Her Virginal Is Too Wide by wristbangle:
pocohantas:
Things can be done to make it narrow, you should read about that and stop showing ignorance in 2020.

There are provisions for people who are displeased with their sexual organs - albeit with consequences.

However, you men should learn to admit that some of you have small dicks. It is nothing to kill yourselves over. The dick comes in different sizes and horsepower, just like the vagina. Face that bitter fact. Okay?
Seems you are the bride in question because I don't understand your fuss. undecided

Are u insinuating Kegel exercise or operation will bring it back to default? You must be kidding me. See, when the tissue elasticity in female reproductive organ is weak, it becomes difficult to gain it's strength because it is one of the most delicate part of the human system. You are the ignorant one here, do you want me to send links for you to read up?

Guys with small dick is not their fault, they were born with it. Natural enhancers can do justice to this and if they use artificial aphrodisiac to make it big and dies in the process of sexual rendezvous, your kind will not show remorse rather jump to the next D.

Question that needs to answer is, were ladies born with wide V. ?
Family › Re: Edo Man Returns Wife To Her Parents, Says Her Virginal Is Too Wide by wristbangle: 11:01am On Jan 25, 2020
Didn't he test it before saying I do?

Prevention is better than cure.

pocohantas:
To a penis that looks like over-used eyepencil, every vagina would be wide.

I am not implying anything, just saying...
To a well that is wide, nothing can be done to make it narrow.
Family › Re: I Allowed The Devil Into My Home by wristbangle: 10:54am On Jan 25, 2020
genq:
Hahahhahahahaha. You must be one of the active NL misandrists on this section constantly insulting men and forming 'girl power' - Now you created another profile to confess your sexual frustration grin

This is why il never take women seriously on this forum. Sexually starved pigs!
At bolded, that was really uncalled for. We still have the good ones ( women) out there. At a point, humans fantasise on many things when busy or not, which could be good or bad. Embracing the bad aspect in mind is one thing, putting it into practice is another. The OP is at the first stage and before the situation blow out of control, she has humbled herself to seek help/advice from people. Don't add insult upon injury and please work on your thoughts, thanks.
Family › Re: I Allowed The Devil Into My Home by wristbangle: 10:37am On Jan 25, 2020
healthserve:
The most important thing is what I want to hit on before this thread degenerates into a squabble. And it is take it easy on yourself. Your high moral standards and etiquette along with your principles, beliefs, values and self expectation has placed you on a pedestal where you expect yourself to act in a certain manner and form. So to win this war, you must first and foremost win the battle in your mind. Yes, every thing goor or bad in this instance is in your mind and to end this struggle the battle must first be won in your mind. Hence I recommend this tips:



1. You'll make new resolutions and you'll fail yourselves many times. But be prepared to forgive yourself before you fail. Being able to pick yourself back up and move forward is one of the routines you should embrace enroute your destination to get healing.


2. The mind is the largest sexual organ. Stop feeding your mind with crazy sexual stuff. Infact Place rules on yourself not be participate in anything sexual outside your hubby.



3. After you've forgiven yourself, adopt the belief that marriage isn't all sex sex and sex. And you'll sacrifice what you don't receive but stay contented. Mental contentment is one of the sure ways to deal with mental wandering. To win this war, you must treat yourself with love and kindness and not condemn yourself in anyway however bad, lest through your own cycle of thoughts you slip into being guilt tripped by your mind and loose focus on healing beyond scars



4. Try new things and fill up spare hours. Place yourself in a new fellowship or activity group where you'll use more of your free time to practice. The rule for change has always remained the same and one I recommend to myself many times is to replace a bad habit with many good habits and practice. Spend more time on activities to have your mind filled up.


5. What you feed your mind matters. In place of sexual arousing information, try spiritual affairs so the sector of your mind producing this thoughts would be flooded with light and you can fix the gaps within your walls and have the breech sealed.
Apt advice. Jaw dropped and you deserve a medal for this golden information.

OP here is the answer to what you are currently battling with.

Best wishes.
Romance › Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by wristbangle: 10:05am On Jan 25, 2020
The submission from guys on the first page has addressed this issue. Emotional tactics are common with Nigerian ladies the moment they have seen a better ship to sail on.

Expedite your mind into business engagement rather than suffocating yourself on a cheat.
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by wristbangle: 11:34pm On Jan 24, 2020
Mandeyy:
What can they give in return? Must it be the men that will be givers all the time? She should have helped her man to seek a solution to his problem. A woman did it for her man who had the same problem, instead of being promiscuous.
I tire! Not like the man is impotent and infertile. His longevity in the sex act that is under siege.
Family › Re: Wife Dumps Her ‘One-Minute’ Husband For A Corper In Nasarawa by wristbangle: 7:47pm On Jan 24, 2020
ComradeShegs:
So because she exposed his sexually inactiveness, he decided to further show his weakness by exhibiting this wickedness. If only he was transferring such energy in bed.

P.s - Some women also need to watch their utterances in public. Some of these men out there are beast in human clothing.
Some women actually made the beast in some men. How can she exposed her husband's sexual weakness in public? It's like vice versa when a man announces to people his wife V. is wide like borehole. How do you want the public to perceive her?

Two incidents where I blame the man is his uncontrolled anger to have matcheted his wife and failure to solve his sexual weakness.

What women want in a man is good sex, money and attention. Others na jara.
Crime › Re: Slap & Die: Man Killed In Awka With Just One Slap, Slapper Arrested (Graph Pics) by wristbangle: 10:40am On Jan 24, 2020
It's a pity. There is no life in that niggar again, once a living corpse. He is just like someone struggling not to fall from a cliff but just a touch made the person fell.
Family › Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by wristbangle: 11:30pm On Jan 23, 2020
Women in the house, though you might say no man is worth giving full satisfaction. If your man is the caring type and possess all the qualities you want, depriving him will make him switch and never look at you again. Many marriages had gone through OP's stage without survival and it starts right from bedroom miscommunication.

The longevity of marriage starts from good bedroom communication and when that is threatening, walls of marriage begin to break.

See it from another angle. Don't always see it from your emotional angle.
Family › Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by wristbangle: 11:10pm On Jan 23, 2020
Vortex369:
Well, your last line was a question: What I think?

Are you sure you really want to know what I think?

Since you asked for it, then I have to tell you what I think and the reason for my conclusions.

I think you are stupid, and I am not joking. I think you are one of the stupid husbands who have no idea what Fatherhood means and what being a real man in your home entails and how to be a husband to your own wife.

The reason I think you are stupid, is because at this stage in your Life, when your wife is strugggling real hard to bond with the young kids you still are worried about your silly sex life.

You have failed to be an alpha male, a real man, a true husband, who will cuddle his wife and his children and generate happiness for your wife. What bothers you is sex. Do you have any idea that it is sex that brought those children to this world, and when they come, you now sound as if those kids are inconvenience for your silly sex life. Do you even know how silly it sounds?

My advise is that you grow up. Call your wife and kiss her then apologize for complaining about Sex, and move into your bedroom and nurse those children to reach an age of grace.

It is not you that should be complaining of sex dimwit. If your wife needs sex, then become creative, you can make move in the kitchen, bathroom, toilet, under the bed and even at the BQ for a change.

You must not come here and lament about this nonsense again.

Do we not have real men again in this forum that will chastise these Indomie men?

Take charge of your home and bear all inconveniences. Life is not a place for perfect joy and happiness. Embrace the sorrows and pains.
Madam, your submission is blunt and truthful but where you goofed was the insult thrown at him. That was very low and uncalled for.

Instead of stupid, words like unserious should do. I feel your pain as a woman but thread carefully. He hasn't done too bad as a father. We should give credence for his patience all this while.
Family › Re: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by wristbangle:
This may come late but still an advice. I took time to read your story to analyse your complaints. Here are my observations.

1. Your level of sexual combat is high which you are accustomed with your wife but the new situation looks alien to you. You were not prepared nor have foresight your sexual life can hit the rock owing to your wife's less sexual attention. The blame could stem from your constant intimacy in your dating and early marital period. It's a good thing but sometimes we create space to overcome the temptation of constant sex and cuddling. You need to give her time to recover from her emotional state of child bearing. She is now a mother of two and her level of thinking might not what it use to be. Make her feel special and chase her like you just met her. The more women grows, the more they want their husbands to spoil them. Doing this without noticeable change, ignore her advances when she needs it the most.

2. You should place restriction to the children sleeping between you and your wife. Be in control and sternly inform your wife to put the children at their bed cart or you will leave the house for both of them. How can an eight year old not bold enough to have her room to herself?
Crime › Re: Fatai Yusuf (Oko Oloyun) Shot Dead By Unknown Gunmen by wristbangle: 10:01pm On Jan 23, 2020
Who did he offend to have warranted his killing? May God deliver us from the hands of wicked people
Politics › Re: Maerskline Plans To Dump Lagos Ports For Onne Port, Stakeholders React by wristbangle: 7:02am On Jan 23, 2020
It's better. It's a way to di-congest Apapa port which has been overlaid with burden of cargoes and makes vehicle movement difficult.

The question is that does Onne possess the necessary infrastructure and security to contain Maersk cargoes?
Politics › Re: Amotekun: ‘Lunatics’ Join Solidarity Rally In Ekiti by wristbangle: 10:17pm On Jan 21, 2020
JubrinElSudan:
Two mad men names don appear for national Newspaper and i still dey here sad angry
grin Nawao! This guy don break my ribs with laugh
Politics › Re: Alhassan Saleh: Amotekun Shows How Primitive Yoruba People Are – Miyetti Allah by wristbangle: 10:01pm On Jan 21, 2020
This man has finally lost it. I don't know why he is so scared. The thing pain am reach him blokus

The guy up me has something to say. Amotekun777, over u
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For 2019 NNPC Graduate Trainee And Experience Hire by wristbangle: 8:49pm On Jan 21, 2020
Teaser4:
I never check my dashboard since the last time wey I print my interview letter. . yeh Mogbe!!!!!!!
Wo! Apo! We plenty
Politics › Re: Amotekun: ‘Lunatics’ Join Solidarity Rally In Ekiti by wristbangle:
See news headline grin

Wetin Chibuzor eyes no go see finish for container cheesy
Celebrities › Re: Eniola Badmus Shows Thigh And Cleavage In A New Video by wristbangle: 8:24pm On Jan 20, 2020
seankafor:
To give this one head go sweet kiss
Bros, are you okay ?
Politics › Re: If Fulanis Go On Strike For One Week Nigerians Will Know Their Worth, Miyetti by wristbangle: 6:49pm On Jan 20, 2020
sarrki:
Madam Kautal have you also reason this ?

If Niger deltans youth blocked the oil facilities?

Lagos locked up there seaports

What will happen?

Cattle can be imported from anywhere so oil too

But did the Northern part have the capacity to sustain without oil?

That’s arrogance
I am so glad you are seeing the truth bro
Politics › Re: Amotekun: South West Governors Say They Won’t Back Down by wristbangle: 6:54am On Jan 20, 2020
EmekaMD:
I don't know why Amotekun kees sounding like a terrorist organization to me
Just say you are scared your cows will not get killed or arrested. Abi iru radarada wo leleyi?

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