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ayox2003: First off, the SoE is a welcome development. Although some people believe its long overdue but I prefer half a bread than none. Even the US didn't expect a SoE, that's why John Kerry said that the troops should be very careful with human lives...like they really care. Huh?

Second, we say our troops are fighting the dreaded Boko Harm, yet their sponsors - those Borno Senators caught red-handed - Senator Zanna and Ali are still walking free around town like a philanthropist. If the IG is soft of them probably because he's also from the north, let the President order the Head of the Military to interrogate them. I can bet that after spending just 4hours in the military custody, they'd confess and name other sponsors of the group. This orange seller might just be a channel and not a backbone sponsor. Once access to money is blocked, gross weakness would affect their logistics. But the president turned a blind eye on those senators because they were not linked to Buhari. Politics!

Third, nigerians are just too emotional about national issues. Instead of taking time to think about the presidents declaration, all we see here is "Kill them all", "those northerns should be destroyed", "they should be gunned down" and other unnecessary statements. We need to quit swimming in the pool of emotion. Let's towel-dry our instant approval and reactions, then sit on the couch of logical reasoning. When someone makes a statement about our country, either good or bad, it doesn't hurt if we take sometime to think about what's been said instead of swallowing it all up hook, line and sinker. The declaration of SoE should not be an end but a means. A means to create the platform for a sovereign national conference. While the military has risen up to save the nation by guns, the civilians (u and I) must also use dialogue as a weapon. We must also press it on GEJ that he calls for a national conference to save the nation by dialogue. Let the northern PDPs come and make their grievances known and each tribe's representative should speak the truth about the state of the nation. Possibly all those northern PDP elites who have been silent about BH would talk, forgive and re-structure their party.

Fourth, those who supports PDP/GEJ should call for federalism. If truly u want crises to stop, then tell the president that he has the power to change things for good in PDP. If he could use such power to re-structure the party to his taste, biting very hard on Amaechi's butts, then such power should be channelled to add federalism into PDP's ideology. That each state be responsible for its development, revenue and security. Waiting for monthly allocation makes these governors less concerned because whether or not they perform, money comes from Abuja. Buhari's CPC stands on federalism. It would solve these problems and a Lagosian would be less concerned about what happens in Borno.

Fifth, the problem of BH was caused by failure of northern military leaders. They spent years in power, yet they didn't ensure that their folks be educated. Unemployment, poverty and illiteracy is very rife in the north. We should learn from this: ethnicity doesn't guarantee competence. Don't choose leaders because they are from ur tribe. Vote for a candidate that has a proven track record. The north is unstable today, who knows what would be of the south tomorrow if we don't have a good leader. Aap!


Frawzey

points one and two are good. We should work on them. Points three and four are your sentiments. Don't play politics. Don't use your speech to wash the head of readers.

Debra851: I am a woman with a Ph.D. from a top American university. People describe me as friendly but men do not look at me or ask me for dates unless I am wearing makeup. Without makeup I am plain looking. Only when I am dressed up and wearing makeup do men approach me for a date! I am still single because most of the time I look plain. Too bad men don't want a smart woman. So can I say that men prefer beauty to intelligence?

dear, i prefer intelligence. My advice, be you. Your man will come

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@poster, its unnecessary emotional stress. my advice, move on.

Wow!!
I love this.
We love this.
Haters, sorry.
This thread is just at page (2) since it was posted. If it was something negative, haters will mess and piss here. An odour that can kill a lot of living things. Thank you God. Thank you GEJ.

Chrisbenogor: How the hell do these threads make front page?


Dear OP,
How convenient for you to suddenly reduce your friend's relationship to just one thing - Money.

1. When should a guy start spending on a girl?
It is not the primary responsibility of your boyfriend to "spend" on you. Infact when a guy starts by "spending" there is a huge probability he wants to "give and take". People are different and I am sure there are happily married couples out there whose husbands do not just dole out candy at every opportunity. Your friends parents/guardians are still alive presume or she should have a job to primarily take care of her, it's her responsibility.

2. Why guys believe in Give and take?
No guy who wants you in a serious relationship would be thinking of give and take. It's ladies like you who have formed the opinion that a guy who is a spendthrift is the correct guy and the more conservative guy is stingy. At that point it ain't rocket science, services has been paid for in cash, the payee expects service in kind for the pizza or the blackberry z10 he bought, simples.

3. Who should call more

My advice is go back and look out for the important things in a mans character that would make him a solid rock for you tomorrow instead of chasing flimsy things like who spends on you or not. Men do not want a financial or even an intellectual liability at home, grow your sense of pride as an individual most especially as a lady and whatever you do kindly stop advising your friend or anyone on what makes a marriage ugly.

Cheers.

I love this.
Spot on.
Thanks.

Being beautiful in appearance is beauty without makeup. You don't apply all those items and bleach yourself to show you are beautiful.Thats fake. Outward beauty is when you are out of the bath tub or shower and you look stuning.

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there are good marriages and good relationships. I'm in one. Four of my male friends are. Five of my females friends are married. Some are not in Nigeria. Its about what do you seek for. Some say 4/10 is ok. While some want 8/10 or 9/10. There are real men and real women, there are also the opposite. In my opinion, as a male, seek a lady with the qualities of a wife and has the heart of a mother. In my opinion, as a female, accept a man with the qualities you desire of a husband and has the heart of a father.

@poster, i don't seek hard-to-get girls. There are guys out there for them. As regards me, i'm not interested. I appreciate a lady with qualities of a wife and the heart of a mother.

slimlizzy: it's just when my so-called bosom friend publicized my privacy in a bid to gain favor from my brother.at first i thought i had somebody as a friend, not until she betrayed the trust. i had learn lessons from that, and nothing in life would ever make me to have trust in somebody again.

wow! " nothing in life would ever make me to have trust in somebody again." That's a sad statement to make. Lady(if you are), we all are interdependent of each other.What of your siblings and parents? To succeed, trust must be part of it. In business, family(your family to come), job,etc, there must be trust.

taharqa: I reside in d Ugbowo and Upper Mission areas; and power has very very significantly improvd in those areas and MOST parts of Benin, except for d FEW things when there are national systems issues like I said. THIS IS FACT. They interruptd light about 20mins ago and just restord it now- this is not unusual to us here where I stay for almost a yr.... NO body talkd about 24hrs CONSTANT supply, dat is not even possible for MANY parts of Nigeria even b4 2015; am talking of significant improvements and real work done. GEJ inheritd a DEAD power sector for Goodness' sake, and only a complete IJIOT wud expect him (or anybody for that matter) to clear d decays of decades in 2yrs. WHAT THA FUVK IS WRONG WITH US

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queensmith: ahhhhhh, nigerian men + inferiority complex = constantly bangin on abt being the head.

Meanwhile, i havent met many men who brag the success of their relationships being purely down to him being the head. Being the head probably matters more to some men than having a successful relationship. Probably because it's their only chance to finally lead something. . . . . You need to start thinking of other ways to take up a leadership position if one will really make up for the shortfalls in life. . . . . . .

I assume those that bang on about it like puppies are still very young and equally unwise, you don't hear such nonsense in adult conversations. . . .head indeed, in this day and age. That marriage is doomed.

better start heading your mentality into the right direction, thats a good place to start

Its unfortunate you wrote this. I suppose you are not married. You can't say this, or have the courage to bring it up in the presence of your boyfriend. If this post, depicts your true self,be also so to any guy. You will see how it turn out. I hope you don't pretend to be someone he (or they) want you to be, just to get married. This is not a mature post.

ambrosini593: Why Are Most Guys Scared Of Dating Or Marrying Working Class Ladies?

Girls are running after working guys but the case of guys running after working class ladies are not always like that. Are they scared of their money or because the guys on their are poor?

No. I prefer working class ladies. I'm not looking for a housewife.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]Find someone else who's less confused and isn't sending mixed signals.[/quote]Exactly.

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xyoung: Na wah oh, som peopl can reason upside down
Picture d scenario, u visit a friend for a job interview/wedding or sometin very important, u decide to pass the sunday at his church and then u see a girl that really blew ur mind and meet all ur wife requirement inside d church in d presence of her family
Knowing quiet well you are travelling back d next day,
How do I handle this issue

alright, i advice you to have a conservation. During your get-to-know each other, you will know her character. But, you are in town for a short time, you can exchange contacts if you intend to follow her up. If not, let her go.

Enjoy your sunday service. Na worship you wan do or what? "Toast", you are not serious. If its on a wedding day, its alright,but with clean intention.

hmm...

[quote author=geez*]What some people fail to realize that if all the Igbos move away from the state, the state won't cease to be an industrial, commercial and major business destination in Africa.

[b]Here's what will happen:
1. Igbo people leave factories where they work as staff and though unemployment rate is low in the SW, the unemployed people will take their jobs. The SW won't notice anything has happened if they relocated the ones they own as they do not control 2% of manufacturing GDP in Lagos
2. The Yoruba tribe is the second largest tribe in Nigeria after the Hausas which means there will still be the human resources to sustain commerce
3. Yourba entrepreneurs will venture into spare parts and electronics business and make for the exit of those businesses. They were the first to establish themselves as Adebowale Electronics and co etc but guess what, these Igbo people came with inferior and substandard goods and rubbished the markets. Besides trading is a no brainier. It's about looking for the cheapest markets to source your merchandise and dispensing them in the most expensive markets. Tell me if Rufai, my driver can't do that. Even my mechanic who is not schooled at all can pull that off.
4. After the north, we have invested the most in agriculture which can and will sustain us
5. Oil? The first question I need to ask is if Nigeria as a country today produces the oil it consumes
6. Leadership. Should have been number one. If you look at the political landscape in the SW and the way we vote during elections, you will realize that we do not in any way tolerate mediocrity. You cannot fail to perform as a governor or mayor and expect to continue in office.

We lead. We always have and always will. Before we were all bundled together under federalism, go into history and find out which region was the fastest developing and most progressive - The West. If we had remained a region, by now SA would be Africa's second best.[/b][/quote]when you are threatened, you talk alot. Go ahead. You are outside the government,go and ask why they've not done what you want(fantasized)?

[quote author=geez*]Little do you know that virtually all markets in Lagos have yorubas as their spokespersons for obvious reasons but brace up for it, we have plans for your criminal brothers that have illegally occupied government land and return to the barren SE every Xmas to boast that they they own Lagos

Yoruba people are truly tolerant. Imagine! 30yrs of illegality condoned [/quote]tribalist, you've started again.

Solozzo: Correct theoretically but most Nigerian women have been brought up to cook and do the housework without question. They feel threatened by a husband who does those things for himself.

its practical. Its already been done. Before she said, "i do",among others, she knew he can cook. She should not be threatened by it, but be delighted.

its wrong. If the wife is not at home,the husband should prepare food. In my opinion, he should know how to cook some kind of food,if not all. The husband should prepare food for his wife when he's home early. The husband and his wife should help each other.

pfii: It's not about my facial picture. It's about the picture of my heart. It's about giving my man the kind of atmosphere in our home that will make him always hate Mondays and look forward to Fridays.
It's about me being his Spinal cord, without me he can stand up str8.
It's about praying and fasting for him when he doesn't even know I'm doing all that.
It's about helping him find great avenues to turn his cowries into kobo and his kobo into Naira and his Naira into £ ¥ € $.
It has nothing to do with d "tongue out" fake dps I put up.

"It's
about giving my man the
kind of atmosphere in our
home that will make him
always hate Mondays and
look forward to Fridays.
It's about me being his Spinal
cord, without me he can
stand up str8.
It's about praying and
fasting for him when he
doesn't even know I'm doing
all that." with this, you got my attention. Thumbs up!

COOLDUN: What this man said is truth, what made you to hate him, might be the things that make other women to love him. He is talking from his experiences, you are here insulting him. Why? He did not say all the women; he only said 75% , which might even be more. Take look at what is happening in the Dim Ojukwu;s family now, and other families out there. Why should a lady ask a man of his financial status before agreeing to date him? Take our lady celebrities for an example, how many of them have you heard that married a no body as a husband? What we hear is Ikechukwu Uche dumps Uche Jumbo, Dbanj denies proposing Genevive Nanji, Kate Henshaw was dumped by his Dutch based fiancée, and now marrying a white man. Ini Edo rumored of having problem with his husband. Oge Okoye dumps her secondary school heart throb. So on and so forth.

My dear try to stand for yourself and not for others, because you are only sure of yourself. There was a lady neighbor of mine then, who was very pretty and attractive with a very nice job then at the mobil in VI Lagos, many suitors were coming but she was looking for a big and financially rich men, till today she is still single at 46yrs , now she is preaching like mother Theresa.

You took this man’s statement so personal. Beauty they say is in the heart not in the eyes, as you are criticizing this man right now, many women are looking for an opportunity to get him, and you don’t have to ask who he is, because your profile has not been published as his. Neither does he know you too.

In every nonsense there is sense, this man really said the truth, I don’t know if you have ever heard this big girls slogan, Is love a food? Many broken marriages and divorce cases we hear today, is because the partners were brought together by wealth , instead of love. When you marry your husband for who he is and not what he is, infact the marriage will be sweeter than honey,while the love will be renewed like an eagle.

Stop cursing the man, as if you are directly affected by his comments. He said nothing but the truth.

thank you.