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EducationRe: Who Else Notice That February And March This Year Are The Same by Xantel(f): 11:21pm On Mar 24, 2022
Noticed it since January
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Npower News Nairaland Thread by Xantel(f): 10:39pm On Mar 24, 2022
[quote author=pgmind post=111328403][/quote

What's the code for Edo State
PoliticsRe: Protest As Obaseki Sacks 513 Sports Workers by Xantel(f): 9:50pm On Mar 23, 2022
Don't know for now the cause but I know one thing about obaseki, you can't be a ghost worker in his time
FoodRe: The Fat Catfish Our Fish Trap Caught. by Xantel(f): 7:35pm On Mar 23, 2022
Amazing
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Npower News Nairaland Thread by Xantel(f): 9:18pm On Mar 21, 2022
ezenwaez:
Please exercise patience
Please what is RRR about?
RomanceRe: Why Did Your Last Relationship End?? by Xantel(f): 9:32pm On Mar 20, 2022
[quote author=MaDaRa01 post=111183916]Anty jeon i have been following u upandan, but u no wan gimme greenlight[/quote

Hanty abeg give am blue light grin
Christianity EtcRe: Share Your Favourite Bible Quotes by Xantel(f): 9:22pm On Mar 20, 2022
The stone which the builders rejected has become the chief corner Stone.
Matthew 21: 42, Psalm 118: 22
FashionRe: Can A Woman Be Comfortable Without A Makeup?? by Xantel(f): 8:55pm On Mar 20, 2022
Yes, very very comfortable
With white powder and lipgloss
EducationRe: Nairalander Bags M.eng With 5.0 CGPA. by Xantel(f): 8:16pm On Mar 20, 2022
Excellent
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Aston Villa Vs Arsenal (0 - 1) On 19th March 2022 by Xantel(f): 6:47am On Mar 20, 2022
Busy Saka
FoodRe: Which Swallow Do You Like Best? by Xantel(f): 10:06pm On Mar 17, 2022
10 8 5 4 3 2 1
EducationRe: Ajayi Samson, Missing University Of Ibadan Student (Picture) by Xantel(f): 5:11am On Mar 14, 2022
God keep him safe
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Arsenal Vs Leicester City (2 -0) - Live by Xantel(f): 4:54am On Mar 14, 2022
Treasure17:
And it's a goal. Arsenal to win the league. Bet that with your salary.
Oga take am easy
RomanceRe: Who Is Wrong Here ? ( Photo ) by Xantel(f): 11:38am On Mar 13, 2022
No child is dull, the teacher was wrong for not giving a hint to that child
PhonesRe: My Boyfriend Is Not Man Enough by Xantel(f): 12:05pm On Mar 10, 2022
Pointless
RomanceRe: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Xantel(f): 7:41pm On Mar 09, 2022
[quote author=franchasng post=110890397]Thousands of ladies have missed their true love as a result of this attitude common among Nigerian ladies.


I am replying to you because your story just brought back a memory like this.


That was shortly after my NYSC. I was working with a very small engineering firm. There was this pretty lady I was so admiring to the extent I confided in my closest colleagues cos we do always meet her at a restaurant during afternoon break when her own company was also on break.


I wasn't good with approaching ladies so i can admire a girl for years without making move. But colleagues encouraged me, gave me strong backing to try and talk to the girl to at least get her number.


After much procrastination, i summoned courage to make a move one faithful afternoon. This was a girl that always stared at me just like I do whenever we cross path at the restaurant. Everybody knew she liked me.


I was shocked this girl told me sorry I am in a hurry. I even begged her if she could give me her number but she walked away. I felt so ashamed of myself. I felt like the ground should open and swallow me. I felt so cold.


Because of her, i stopped going to that restaurant cos I never wanted to set my eyes on her ever again in life.


9 months later. I got a new job and that was going to be very far from my previous workplace. So on my last day of work, I decided to take my closest colleagues out as my own little treat for them. We went to that restaurant.


I was shocked when the restaurant owner came to me that where have I been, that na wa oh, that I just ran away. I told her it was work posting. She then jokingly said your wife from so so company have been asking after you. I and my colleagues were shocked. I just wished I could see her and let her make a move so I could humiliate her publicly.



I hated that girl eh lol.



Dear single ladies, learn some courtesy. It's not easy for a guy to summon courage to approach you for friendship, it takes guts, respect a guy that respectfully approaches you. Not all guys fancy all those hard to get abi forming things. Playboys enjoy it, but most honorable guys on a good mission towards you hardly endure.



So op, forget about the guy cos what he now feels for you is dislike no longer likeness like before and any opportunity he have with you will be for pay back.

But learn from this when you meet other guys, try and observe courtesy and put yourself in their shoes unless the guy approached you rudely. There are several honorable ways to turn down an admirer and still make him feel like a man he is. Dont use your tacky attitude towards your male admirers to spoil guys for other good ladies cos your action may affect his orientation and perception for other ladies he may meet later.



Many guys became bad towards ladies just because of some ill mannered and bad girls they met in the past. [/quote

Thanks for the advice
FamilyRe: My ₦25,000 Low Budget Wedding In Pictures by Xantel(f): 7:19pm On Mar 09, 2022
Congratulations
FamilyRe: Nigerian Woman Gives Birth To Quadruplets After 12 Years Of Waiting by Xantel(f): 6:52pm On Mar 09, 2022
Thank God
EducationRe: How Brilliant Are You? – Lets See If You Can Solve This Simple Maths by Xantel(f): 4:39am On Mar 09, 2022
112
RomanceRe: I Traveled To My Village To Get A Wife, & I Got A Queen by Xantel(f): 12:13am On Mar 07, 2022
I smile in vernacular grin. Anyways best of luck
Science/TechnologyRe: The Tree That Bleeds Like Human (Facts And Pictures) by Xantel(f): 9:06pm On Mar 05, 2022
Wow
AgricultureRe: Goat Multiplier Made Easy, The Reason Why You Should Own A Goat In Your Backyard by Xantel(f): 3:01pm On Mar 03, 2022
Interesting
GamingRe: Only Nairaland Genius Can Solve These Test by Xantel(f): 2:47pm On Mar 03, 2022
1k
CareerRe: Update: What I Suspected About My My Diabolic Boss Was Actually True. by Xantel(f): 1:48pm On Mar 03, 2022
Dealing with that kind of boss is a small thing
RomanceRe: I Think My Girlfriend Is Fetish by Xantel(f): 1:22pm On Mar 03, 2022
You already know the solution
HealthRe: Hfddv by Xantel(f): 4:15am On Feb 28, 2022
Try reading a book, you will doze off
RomanceRe: Erriga: No Woman Can Go 3 Months Without Sex by Xantel(f): 10:29pm On Feb 23, 2022
Partially correct
Nairaland GeneralRe: If You Don't Know The Correct Answer You Don't Deserve Sex. by Xantel(f): 7:48pm On Feb 20, 2022
Mr. Sixty two
RomanceRe: Is Today A Regular Monday Or Valentine's Day For You? by Xantel(f): 9:50am On Feb 14, 2022
Normal Monday
Nairaland GeneralRe: If You Don't Know The Correct Answer You Don't Deserve Sex. by Xantel(f): 9:48am On Feb 14, 2022
Seventy two
Jobs/VacanciesRe: h by Xantel(f): 10:30pm On Feb 10, 2022
Thanks
TV/MoviesRe: Which One Is Your Favourite Movie Among These 4 by Xantel(f): 8:23pm On Feb 08, 2022
Merlin

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