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CaveAdullam:
I agree.

But just to add some clarification:

1. Men and women enjoy casual mating.

But the emphasis has always been on who engages/loves casual mating MORE.

Or, to rephrase it, who's HIGHER on the scale when it comes to being promiscuous? This has been the bone of contention.

2. Are men tall? Yes.
Are women tall? Yes.
But between males and females who's more taller?

Do men have high IQs? Yes.
Do women have high IQs? Yes.
But whose IQ is higher on gender, population, and demographic scale?

3. You are only looking at it at the average/mean side. That's men and women share almost the same average height and intelligence.

Meanwhile, on the right side of the curve, men are the shortest and dumbest and on the left side, men are of the higher IQ and tallest.

I don't know, but if you are familiar with the bell curve you'll understand better.

4. Now, if women love sex as much as men (which I don't agree with completely) or even more than men, then why same women are not fúcking the bottom men?

Take note: Only <20% of 100% of men are at the apex. >80% of men are dispersed at the middle and bottom unequally.

So, if you say "women don't fvck bottom men" how come they still enjoy sex as much as men? Hope you get what I'm pointing at here.
(I'm not talking about the pleasure side of sex per se but the quantity of sex).

5. Now, men don't have a problem fúcking any kind of woman. As far as she is a woman (aside from his close genetic line) a man will fúck.

Men are not selective when it comes to sex. But women are selective.

Men are selective because they have a shorter life span (ràpe, paedophiliá stems from these reasons - though I'm not in support of it as is illegal and a criminal act). But I'm just trying to point you to the evolutionary details behind it.

Production of millions of sperms also finds its root here.

Women are selective because the cost of pregnancy is high. Raising and nurturing is a difficult game for women. That's why ova is short in supply. And also the reason women are in charge of reproduction and only allocate pússy to the top men.

6. Do women love sex? Yes of course.
Do men love sex? Yes. Yes.

But how do we know who loves sex more?

Without data and statistics as I have provided in a few pages backward, the sex/gender that will fúck at any time is the one that loves sex more.

That man will fúck high, middle, and low women.

And women desire to fúck and reproduce for the top men only. (Women only settle for the men at the middle or bottom level when they don't have any reserving option. It is an internal and eternal punishment for her).

8. So, you can't say women love sex as much as men or even more than when same women will not fúck >80% of the men population.

Meanwhile, all men desire to fúck every woman in the world.


DAY 358, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Up your game. Elevate yourself.

tee59:
Her beauty captivated you without digging deep to know more about her, before toasting. A cult leader for that matter, you're in already and can harm you if you cut off the relationship. You better watch your steps cus other cult group may be looking for ways to retaliate back and you won't be spared. Watch out niggar.

emmaodet:
I won’t blame those men much.
They wanted to make their wives happy and the home peaceful but in the process, it will turn to something else.
Also, it is always very very hard to change something you have started later in the marriage.

Example- I do wash plates for my wife occasionally when I notice she is very busy or lay the bed but after a while, I noticed she took it as normal.

She won’t lay the bed while watching the tv until after 10 in the evening, expecting me to go and lay the bed.

So when I noticed this after doing it consecutively for 3 days, had to tell myself enough.

Told her she has to be laying the bed by 9pm but she countered that anyone can lay the bed and it doesn’t have to be mandatorily her. I told her as a matter of fact it is her duty and because I am helping out doesn’t mean it is my job and if anyone can do it, why has she not been doing it then? After all, anyone can do it.

So told her henceforth, I am not doing it again.

She formed angry, laid the bed why nagging regularly. I didn’t even look her side for more than 2 days before she came back to her senses. She called her mum and asked her if it is the duty of a woman to be laying the bed or any of the couple can do it but her mum fell her hand and told her it is the duty of a wife to lay the bed her husband will sleep on.

I don’t even care whether the mum supported her or not, have made my decision and if she is not comfortable with it, she can take a walk.

Any man that is not strong will not be able to deal with a modern woman and there are many reason modern men are compromising- they share the house bill so the woman will always push back for a better deal. After all, she is also paying part of the bill.
A man that takes care of his bills will hardly take shit from a woman.
I told my wife if she continues like this, then it is better to have a house maid than a wife because if am giving her and the kids 200k per month, a house cleaner comes twice a week to clean the house and wash the clothes etc yet to cook promptly and take care of the general home is still a problem, then a maid is more productive than a wife aside sex.

If I hire a maid of 50k per month, she will cook my food daily, wash my clothes, take care of my kids etc so while pay 200k for a wife then?

CaveAdullam:
1. Women don't like going against the group because of the herd mentality + the group guarantee more safety than being alone. Again, women can follow the order of one man if she's far from the group.

What do I mean?

2. Our mothers, grandmothers, and great-grandmothers were submissive because the women within their communities were submissive to their husbands. Because that's what the group does and likes. Men were roughly on the same level except for community leaders, kings, etc. But on average wealth inequality was not obvious.

3. If she goes astray, she will be shamed by the group.
NB: Women slút shame other women than men.

4. Back to our modern age. Shaming tactics no longer work because belligerence, arrogance, complacency, dishonor, weakness, pleasure, and materialism are being praised. Social vices are taking the top place of virtues in our society because virtues are deemed for the weak.

5. We are now in a social media age. Women can see men on different geographical terrains in the comfort of their homes. + she's able to get attracted to a tribe easily which can influence her behaviors.

6. Exposure harms women. It corrupts them as they can't handle temptations without a reputable virile figure and a brave woman behind her. These figures guard her and coach her as she begins to interact with the world.

7. Women say they want freedom, but can't handle freedom. You give them an illusion of freedom while raising the bulwark. Women don't act right by their volition, you make them act right. You cooperate with them. This must be done if you want to enjoy them. Any assumption must be jettisoned.

8. This doesn't mean you must act like a commando because if you do, they will resent you. They are like chameleons that will assume the present color closer to them and will change to another once you turn your back. Observe how a mother treats her child, and you'll get a better understanding of how men should treat women - the left hand of discipline; the right hand of love and kisses. Both hands must be present.

Left hand only, she will hate you albeit covertly. Right hand only, she will ignore your boundary and make jest of you. Balance is all that is needed.

9. Women are the way they are today because men don't understand that women are using social media scenes to judge them + are unable to use social media effectively.

Women are not satisfied because they see what's beyond their rank every day on screens, hence, start comparing their spouses to those scenes. If by chance she's able to have a taste of that expensive luxury or cuisine, she will never like to dwell with men below even though she's not better than them by an ounce.

10. The only condition where this is paramount is if she has a good and strong father. Her father becomes a benchmark she uses to select good men. And that's why most women with no good father relationship or absentee fathers turn out worst. The sons become weak, lazy, and effeminate.

11. I like what you did with your spouse. It's not an easy feat for the average man to pull. Why?
A. Blinded by romance.
B. Need a constant supply of sex.
C. High investment in the relationship.

12. Women follow men, anything that men tolerate women explore. If men don't care, women will care less.

We expect women to act right and sensible because they are humans, however, as leaders and shepherds, men must sound it like a band of cymbals in their ears daily. And also maintain the frame.

13. The wife must understand that the husband has power over her and can pull the roofs over her anytime or day, this will at least keep her on track. And as a man, be bold in your ranks and take full charge.

Thanks.

CaveAdullam:
1. You are correct.

Running a family is not easy, especially in this age where the Gini coefficient is high as a result of hyperinflation and taxes.

2. That's why as a man you must choose a woman whose ambition streamlines with yours because in doing so both of you end up pursuing a common goal. There is always great value exchange.
However, men don't care about this if they can provide for the family wholeheartedly, the only challenge is an unstable economy.

3. Once you have started experiencing that financial boom as a man, it is good you set up a business that your wife can fit in. She can start helping you to build part of the family from there rather than you bearing the risk and burden alone. You are the manager, she's the supervisor.

4. Once you begin to share bills with your wife, your authority becomes featherweight. Better to leave her as a full-time housewife and call the shot when you wish than share bills.

5. Independent women have no use for men, once they got the money, they don't regard men, except the men richer than them.

Marrying at your level + sharing bills = marital chaos. You marry a woman that depends on you, not like a dúmbass or a parasite, but an attachment that looks like a catalyst that stimulates your growth.

6. Marriage isn't about equality, nothing itself is equal. It's a leader-follower relationship, men lead, and women follow. And the one who needs the other the least has the most power in the relationship. And if you provide solely, you've all the power to pull the strings at will.

Thanks.

ubunja:
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Stay safe.

ubunja:
it's generally IMPOSSIBLE for a man to love more than 1 woman at a time. Women can do it better. Men can do it but that's a very small minority of men who can master that art. The general dynamic is that man can love only one woman at a time. While he can very well sleep with many women at the same time unaffected. To demonstrate the differences between the genders:
Men can love 1 woman at a time but can sleep with many at a time.
Women can love many men at a time but can sleep with 1 man at a time.
The implications of this dynamic are massive. And it's the difference between sexual cheating and emotional cheating.

A relationship/marriage is not threatened when a man is sleeping around, it's when he starts confiding with one woman and having heart to heart talks with one female and bonding emotionally with her that his official GF/ wife has to worry. Cause that's where the real threat is - since emotionally men can handle only one woman at a time. Him getting Emotional with a woman who's not his own wife is a much bigger risk to the relationship/marriage than him just having random sexual encounters. The random sexual encounters don't mean anything to men cause sex in itself is not an emotional experience for men. But if a man is not even sleeping with a woman but is spending time bonding emotionally with her the damage to his own relationship/marriage will be far greater than if he just slept with the woman and kept his mouth shut and heart out of it.

Men can not be affected on an emotional level by sex. No matter how sweet and delicious a pucc is, it will never be enough to push a man to break up with his GF or wife over it. No matter how good of a fuccer a side chick is, a man will never leave his GF/wife for the side chick. Men will enjoy that sweet pucc for what it is and still go back to the woman they love........ But let a side chick be gentle, sweet, caring, loving, kind, understanding, forgiving, respectful, submissive then there's a problem! Here is where a man's relationship is at risk. Cause now he's being affected on an emotional level. This is where the situation becomes dangerous. And the moment a man engages with a woman on this level, his own GF/wife will sense it right away. She'll literally feel her man's love for her drop and reduce. This is when the man will suddenly be cold and distant with his GF or wife. He'll suddenly be moody at home and start fault-finding and being irritable around his main woman. Cause his heart can only deal with one woman at a time. He has a problem spreading his love over two women. So as he falls deeper for that other woman, his main woman feels it. This is how men get caught when they start cheating, especially since k. men can only cheat with one woman at a time so in the end they end up being Emotional with her. True players always cheat with multiple women and they hit it and keep it moving so they never get invested in any one of the women. Or even if the Players do get somewhat emotionally invested, the Emotional dividend each woman gets is too small to really matter. But if all the Emotional investment is going to just one side chick then there's a problem cause that one side chick is now a real threat.

For women its the opposite.
A woman can be romantically involved with even up to 5 men and none of the men will ever sense it. There'll be no diminishing of love for one man as it all flows to the other men. Generally a man will not sense anything. That's why women are always chatting with strange men in their DMs who are promising her heaven and earth and doing her all acts of kindness and love but she'll be in a fully fledged relationship or marriage all the time. And her husband not feel a thing. However the moment she fuccs another man her BF or husband will sense it. Cause the way a woman moves around her BF and husband after another man has rearranged her guts and fucced her brains out will always be different. There's bound to be a reduction in respect, awe, understanding, kindness and submission inside the relationship and marriage. Many men can sense it, cause their gut feeling is finely tuned to pick these things up. Even without evidence. There's always a change. Even though a man can't quite put his finger on it but he'll know something's up. Most men just won't speak up or do anything cause of the lack of evidence. But in their heart and soul they're picking up the vibe that their woman is riding another dicc. But that vibe won't be there if it's merely the woman bonding emotionally with other dudes in DMs or at work etc.

The opposite for women being that for women their system is optimised to watch out for Emotional cheating,, while a man's system is optimised to watch out for sexual cheating. A woman's sexual cheating endangers a man's legacy far more than Emotional cheating cause if his woman is sleeping around, while she may end up leaving him, the greatest danger is that she may cheat and stay, thereby making it possible for the man to raise another man's offspring. Which is the greatest of betrayals. Meanwhile a man's Emotional Cheating endangers a woman's security cause where a man's heart goes his money will soon follow.

Hence a man who discovers his wife been messing with another man will ask only one question: "did you have sex with him?". Cause to men cheating is not really cheating until the legs open. This is why even to men, a relationship is not really a relationship until the woman's legs open.

Meanwhile to women, if a GF/wife discovers her man has been cheating, what does she ask? Does she ask if her man has slept with that woman? Nope! A GF/Wife's pressing question is always: "Do you love that woman?" Because women understand until you get a man to open his heart you have not got got him. This is why even to women, a relationship is not really a relationship until the man's heart opens. This is all to say a woman will forgive easier real sex but will struggle to forgive emotional cheating.

To better explain this concept...
If your GF discovers that you fucced Maria she may forgive you. But if she discovers you sat down with Maria and shared with her a bond, whereby you were so deep in it that you shared with Maria your life struggles, your life pains, your successes and failures, your hopes and dreams, your anxieties and worries --- this will hurt your GF far more than if you had just fucced Maria and kept it going. Cause see, now you've engaged with Maria on an EMOTIONAL LEVEL.
That level of engagement is only for your main GF.

And the moment you give it to another someone, your GF will sense it immediately. Cause that's the part where your Emotions for your GF will start dropping cause another someone is also getting those Emotions as well. That's the cheating that hurts a woman beyond imagination. The Emotional investment via sharing. Cause that part of you is as important to her as her own puccy is important to you. And no woman wants to share that with anybody else. She wants that deeper knowledge about you to remain exclusive only to her. This is what the first Pic below is about. See Pic 1.
The sharing of deep information must not be done lightly. Cause that deep information is the real you, it is your core, that every woman must work to decipher. You never give it to any woman on a silver platter. When a woman asks you "tell me about yourself", always be vague about your core. Don't straight up dish it out. While you continue to relentlessly diick her down and rearrange her guts, refuse to lay bare to her your dreams and aspirations, your fears and anxieties, your triumphs and losses, your joys and sorrows, your pains and pleasures,,, make her work for it. Your dicc must be easy to get, but your core must be hard to get. It is by controlling this aspect of yourself that you remain Emotionally Unavailable (read: interesting and high value)

A woman must forever be pressed to understand the man who's fuccing her brains out. Keep feeding her crumbs of information to keep her keen. But never the full gourmet. She must always be working to understand you. Remember INFORMATION IS POWER.

That's why women love gossip. While men only have to sleep with a woman and they'll know about her. A man can understand decades about a woman just by one round of sex with her. It's why in the Bible when it talks about a man having sex with a woman it says "...and so and so KNEW his wife", - sex was equated with knowledge. A woman has to study a man and have him expose himself but a man only has to spend a night with a woman and he'll know just what type of woman she has been. Cause a woman's body will always betray her history. That's why women are fighting tooth and nail to have men ignore the state of a woman's body and to never associate how a woman's body is with her sexual history: hence all the talk about "boys don't sag boobs, it's gravity and genes" and "promiscuity don't loosen the vagina". All of which is a lie. A woman's body is the scene of her crimes. And she carries that scene everywhere she goes.

No man wants a woman who has no self control, just as no woman wants a man who has no self control.
But in intergender dynamics self control means different things to different genders: A man has self control if he can fucc without falling in love and a woman has self control if she can love without fuccing. That is why a high body count on a woman is a bad thing cause it betrays a lack of self control. But Feminists sell the idea of a high body count to women as representing sexual freedom and liberty. Which of course women enthusiastically buy into. Cause they need every excuse to whóré. Cause let's face it, sex is nice. And by extension whóring is nice. Which in itself wouldn't be a problem except that women are prone to falling in love via sex and if they have too much sex they end up losing the ability to fall in love via sex, which means sex stops being a bonding experience for them,which further devalues sex to a point that women don't really care who they have it with and where and how. At that level a woman is no longer of any use for a man and has become toxic and is just one step away from finding more joy in diildos and vibrators than real one on one sex with a man. This is the reason why diildos and vibrators are becoming more and more popular as women whóré more and more cause what is happening is that these women are hitting the sex "ceiling" more and more: they're quickly reaching that space where they've fucced too many men the sex has lost its magic and is no longer satisfying. They now need more. A lot of women have reached this level in the West and are now Surviving on toys. Their condition may as well be incurable and hopeless.

Caveat: This "Men can fucc many but can only love 1 and Women can love many but can only fucc 1" dynamic doesn't however hold true when a man and a woman are single.
A single woman is much better able to push multiple sexual setups than a woman in a relationship. Hence for women being single = whóring. And it's the reason why women are easily sold the idea of being single. Cause women can tolerate NO LOVE if they're getting all the sex they want. And they can even tolerate NO BABIES if they're getting good neverending sex. Which brings us to that shocking American statistic that close to 50% of all women will be single and childless by 2030. Which is the single most strongest argument against Feminism and Women's Empowerment yet.

That "45% of all women will be single and childless by 2030" has spooked governments around the world. And the first tentative steps to stripping women of their rights have started in earnest... beginning with Indonesia and South Korea. Indonesia's ban on premarital sex is a preemptive strike against this statistic. And South Korea's president Yoon Suk-yeol (overwhelmingly voted for by young men who expressly pointed out they don't want women empowered) is already working to abolish the country's Women's ministry and is busy doing away with gender parity laws declaring no one will be promoted cause of gender but only cause if merit. Something the West would consider akin to blasphemy. see Pic 2,3,4 below.

But this analysis will need a seperate presentation....


South Korean link: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-63905490

Indonesian link:
https://edition.cnn.com/2022/12/05/asia/indonesia-new-code-passed-sex-cohabitation-intl-hnk/index.html

ubunja:
Do you gents remember the post where I did a break down of the different ways men and women react to Emotional Cheating VS Physical Cheating, (where Emotional cheating is a heart to heart bond with an outside party and Physical Cheating is physical sex) where I said the following.......



Now, an Instagram page (@the_hoe_phase_expert) asked men and women to vote as to which kind of cheating they would each tolerate as a gender. And as I had postulated, men said they'd rather their women cheat EMOTIONALLY, while women said they'd rather their men cheat PHYSICALLY.
Here's the link:
https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm7-dmlgynv/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Those on Instagram can visit the post and analyse the comments. Very interesting as both men and women are responding.

So I merged the results from the Instagram link with excerpts of my own post to make the picture below....


P/S I've been seeing the various mentions here and I'll respond later on today....

ubunja:
if you have been following closely what's been taught on this thread you'd know that going after "20s women" is what is recommended since that's when women are at their prime. A man at his prime (30s) and a woman at her prime (20s) make a beautiful team cause they're both bringing to the table their best. Not left overs.

The teaming up of 30 something men and 20 something women is actually the very thing that older post wall women hate and are angry about. That men their age (30s/40s) want to deal with younger women while they the 30s/40s women don't get any attention is pissing them off endlessly. Isn't this what Feminists are fighting Leonardo DiCaprio over? That he refuses to deal with anything over the age of 25? Isn't this why older hags are calling men "pedophiles" cause once men get their shít together they prefer younger women, red pilled or not? This is something that men naturally choose and even blue pilled men do it. Which is the result of men's delayed peak which teaches them which women to value and which women to ignore. So men, on a natural level been doing things the right way, blue pilled or not.

ubunja:
most definitely bro,, and a woman ignored by men will literally feel like she's invisible and her self esteem will take a hard hit. And when a woman's self esteem is in the dumps you get that puccy for cheap.

And especially if a woman lacks the attention of her father growing up as a little girl, that Will have profound ramifications in her adult life. It's not for nothing that sex workers and hoes most of them have problematic relationships with their fathers. Daddy issues will make any woman seek male validation and attention through promiscuity.

ubunja:
The message that inspired this thread

ubunja:
The Sweetest Thing In The Universe.


PROLOGUE.
All women know that all the social advantages and special treatments they enjoy are because of what they have between their legs. They know that if they didn't have that Golden Vagina, men would not even bother talking to them. Most men don't even like women, they just want to get laid.

NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
And so, in a world where their God-given pussy is relentlessly pursued by men, both for pleasure and for procreation; women come to value tremendously those interactions with men that have as little sexual motives as possible.

Those platonic talks women have with men that are guaranteed to lead NOWHERE sexually are as refreshing as the summer rain on the Serengeti. A man who deals with a woman in the least sexual manner becomes important. His conversation is honey because finally, a woman is treated like a normal human being not a sex thing.

With such a man women can lower their guard, relax their defenses and for once enjoy the company of a member of the opposite sex without having to "watch their pussy". His compliments, his praises and his appreciations are genuine. They're not given to flatter and trick anyone into opening their legs.

A woman will have long conversations on WhatsApp and whatnot with such a man. Even staying up all night. Just chatting.

But this is where it all goes wrong for the man.

As he gives a woman all his time and energy, he disqualifies himself from getting the one Thing he really wants from her: the Golden Vagina. Because the more time a man gives a woman outside of sex, the less chances a woman will give him sex. You see, Pussy is the sweetest thing men know, but Dick is not the sweetest thing women know. That honor goes to something called ATTENTION. Of the non sexual variety.

Non Sexual Attention. Attention from a man but that doesn't lead to sex. Attention outside of sex. This type of attention here: compliments (they raise her self-esteem) "Can I carry your bag" (it makes her life easier), "Can I take you halfway through the dark street?" (it makes her life safer), "Here, take my seat, I will stand" (it makes her life more comfortable). All these gestures and their ilk are more important to women than sex. Because women feel validated as normal human beings not just sex objects. Women dress provocatively for this, not for sex. They use Sexual Attention to get Non Sexual Attention. Women use cleavage, short skirts etc to get men to do them favours that have NOTHING to do with sex.

Non Sexual Attention is the sweetest thing in the Universe for women. While Sexual Attention is sweetest for men.

It is when a guy does Non Sexual favours for women (like opening doors, buying birthday cards) that women remark, "He's such a sweet guy!". Because really that's sweet of him to do those things for women, cause all the other guys just want to fvck women. Women prefer to have such a sweet guy as a FRIEND not a lover. Not because they judge him unworthy of the Pussy but because to women A PLATONIC FRIENDSHIP WITH A MAN IS INFINITELY MORE REWARDING THAN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. Men chase sex, women chase commitment but a man who gets himself friendzoned has offered COMMITMENT without demanding SEX in return. Such a guy is pure gold to women.

This is not to say women don't enjoy sex. They do. More than men even. But between accepting your Dick and accepting your attention, women will choose your attention ANY DAY. And as a man you must start charging accordingly

STOP GIVING YOUR ATTENTION FOR FREE.
Your attention is your most valuable asset.

How do TV channels make their billions? How do magazines and newspapers make their profits? How do YouTube videos generate revenue? Through advertisements. Which rely on ------------> Your Attention.

You just looking. Nothing more.

Everything from news to propaganda to movies all need your attention. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram all need your attention.

Facebook is free. And it always will be. But free as it is, last year 2018, the Social Network made a staggering 56 billion US dollars. How? By selling to other businesses what YOU give it for free. And what is that? Your attention. Your time.

Your attention, something that seems so useless and frivolous to you that you're throwing everywhere willy-nilly is pure gold to businesses.

Best believe it's pure gold to women as well

YOUR ATTENTION IS EQUAL TO HER PUSSY.
Men only give attention to pretty women but will have sex with any woman. Women only have sex with top men but want attention from any man. A man's attention has the same worth as a woman's pussy - it's only reserved for the best.

Just as men only admire the best woman but will fvck any woman who offers; so women take attention from any man who offers, but will only fvck the best man. Women's "look but don't touch" policy crystalizes this: Everyone is free to look but only a select few get to touch.

THE WAR FOR YOUR ATTENTION.
Women's movements like Body Positivity, itself rooted in the Fat Acceptance movement, seek to police men's attention by reprogramming men to give attention not only to pretty women but also to those unpretty.

The Unpretty among women (Fat and Ugly women), do get plenty of sex because men will fvck anything (even the ugliest women somehow end up pregnant). But what these women don't get is attention OUTSIDE of sex: Non Sexual Attention. Non sexual attention will be the compliments, the praises, the favours and the helping hand women get publicly from men eg free drinks and free lifts. Ugly and fat women get none of these but guys will still fvck them. That's the bone of contention.

Without Non Sex Attention a woman only gets Sexual Attention which makes her a Sex Object. Which is the unfortunate situation Fat and Ugly women find themselves in. That's why the most vocal women in the battle against sexual objectification are Ugly and Fat women. Because sex is literally the only thing they're getting from men.

Fat and ugly women have the cooperation of men in the bedroom, but out in the World they're on their own. No man buys an ugly woman a drink. No man gives a fat woman a lift. That fat and ugly girl you only meet and fvck at night, it stings her that during the day you act like you don't know her. That's the bone of contention.

GIVING ATTENTION = NO SEX FOR YOU.
The more you give a woman your Non Sexual Attention, the less chances she'll give you sex. Why? Because she knows she's supposed to EARN this type of attention. With her pussy. There's nothing for free. Just as you're supposed to earn a woman's pussy she's supposed to earn your favour.

That girl you're spending hours chatting with on WhatsApp is a girl who's seeing no reason to give you sex. You're giving her for free the Attention and Validation she usually gets by having sex with a guy, so why must she bother having sex with you? You're already giving her free of charge what she usually opens her legs to get.

Ever had sex with a girl then after she told you she just wants to be friends? As crazy as it may sound, that sex was her BUYING your friendship. All male-female friendships must start that way or it's a Friendzone. The Friendzone is in effect a woman's Harem. Those men on her phone eveready everyday to talk about anything and everything are the male equivalent of sex slaves.

STOP GIVING YOUR FRIENDSHIP FOR FREE.
By nature, women use sex to get attention because pussy is the only thing of value they have that men want, while attention is the only thing of value men can give that women want.

Ever wonder why if you starve your GF of attention she'll have sex with another guy? Why does she not simply get the guy's attention since attention is what you're starving her of? But instead she goes for the guy's Dick? It's because your neglected GF is PAYING for the guy's attention with her pussy.

Not that your girl is consciously aware of the pay principle at play.

But this concept of women buying men's friendship with sex is something we all know at the most basic level. That's why people don't believe a Man and a Woman can be friends without having sex. Sex must happen for the friendship to happen.

One day I was talking to this girl and she was telling me about a certain guy friend of hers she was doing business with. When l asked if she had slept with the guy she replied quite casually, "Yes we had sex, to GET IT OUT OF THE WAY".
It fascinated me. She had paid for the friendship with sex!! And that's how it should be.

Because a woman values your friendship as much as you value her pussy; she must pay to be your friend just as you must pay to have sex with her. Nothing is for free. Never accept friendship with a girl that doesn't start with sex, because a girl will never accept sex that doesn't start with a friendship. Nothing is for free.

If a girl introduces herself to you asking to be your friend, make every effort to have sex with her. If she rejects your advances reject her friendship. You just dodged a friendzone bullet. Remember, in ALL male-female relationships, platonic or romantic, it's always the female who benefits more.

GET SEXUAL ATTENTION FOR YOUR NON SEXUAL ATTENTION.
Next time a woman asks for help with something like her bag, jokingly ask what will you get in return. If she asks what is it that you want, or whatever answer she gives, in a playful manner tell her a kiss will do. Then see where it goes. If she has those pillow breasts tell her a hug is all the payment you need. Such things. That's how you make women pay sexually for the favours you do for them. Forget about the phone numbers. She'll ignore you on WhatsApp anyways. Get paid NOW. And move on with your life.

IN THE FINAL ANALYSIS.
With women, Everything begins with attention.

Women love money but the man who gives them money first gives them attention. They love power but to get the power they must first get the attention of the man with the power. Attention is the foundation on which women build everything. Without getting a man's attention they can get nothing from him.

Men love to look at women. Women love to be looked at by men. The joy of men is in looking, which drives them to porn sites. The joy of women is to be looked at, which drives them to Social Media. Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat etc are the women's Xvideos, PornHub and XHmaster.

TRUE MONOGAMY.
Women value attention and want more of it from different men; Men value sex and want more of it from different women. A woman can choose the attention of 1 man just as a man can choose sex with 1 woman. When a man and a woman can do this, that's true monogamy.
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ubunja:
I'm really loving this Instagram page @the_hoe_phase_expert. His regular polls where he asks his followers (male and female) to vote and express their views on various dating issues are very interesting because they demonstrate core principles of the Red Pill.

Take his latest survey, for example, presented this morning about Women's love for ATTENTION versus Men's love for SEX: He had asked women if their craving for attention can be put on the same level as men's craving for sex, and an overwhelming 93% said "Yes".

Meanwhile back in July, 2019 myself I wrote the Miseducation, The Sweetest Thing In The Universe where I explain this phenomenon in detail: https://www.nairaland.com/5322826/ubunjas-miseducation-sweetest-thing-universe

Here are some excerpts:


Having skimmed through the above, please find time to visit @hoe_phase_expert's post (link below) and especially go through the comments section. Interesting stuff for anyone who wants to understand this topic more:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CnDt8urOSJr/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

sarrki:
Year: 1965

First project in Nigeria:

Through a capital grant agreement between West Germany and Nigeria, Julius Berger undertook the construction of the Eko Bridge in Lagos in 1965:

Notice the badly-beaten construction truck used by Julius Berger in 1965 compared to their new trucks of today tells you that every business started from somewhere......

Then Africa’s longest concrete bridge and the first of its kind, the pioneering design, high quality and timely completion set standards against which Julius Berger is still measured today.

Source: Julius Berger and Bilfinger and Berger.

https://www.julius-berger-int.com/en/company

Now you know.

Kajaard:
Seun a better post subject should have been: How the institution of marriage has been desecrated.

This present subject makes it look like it only happens in Lagos which is very false.

PlayMaker14:
Not just Lagosians alone, 64.38% of South West men are notorious cheaters...

My brief stay in Ogun, Ondo, Oyo and Lagos State made me see how those dudes cheat with pride.

And when you try to advise them, they'll rebuke you and tell you to go and get married.

adeola1097:
I don’t know about other states but for this Lagos, Gbogbo wa kan dora wa ni (All of us just dey f*vck each other) , both married, unmarried and single.

The high level of infidelity going on in this state is alarming that no one cares again. Everyone is just waiting for his/her turn to put a ring on it and cheat freely.

Even Men that get married these days just do so to escape either being called Irresponsible or they just conform to their parent’s wishes.

And I think there’s a notion now that women these days prefer married men to single guys so it’s an open field out there.

Seun:
Written by Shaka Phillip-Jonson

https://twitter.com/beejonson/status/1615880886414614528

johnpalmer774:
Shut up you this Ipob lair always twist words to manipulate his fellow ipob and gullible followers..............let me clarify what Tinubu said in Ogun state for the sake of the reasonable ppl on this forum , Tinubu went to Ogun State during APC presidential primary election campaign and told his Party delegates that EMILOKAN which means (IT My Turn) so that statements is for his party delegates not to Nigerians and i believed he made the statements because he himself knew how much he had contributed or invested both morally, financially and loyalty to the party before he could make such statements and it within his right to make it since its party affairs , afterall he was not the only YORUBA that contested that primary .....so stop confusing people with your lies in other to make a point.

Popesuccess:
I have notice that some of the things we do in this country in the name of culture and tradition is Causing poor Nigerians more trouble and we need to change.

1. High Cultural cost of marriage.

2. High Cultural cost of burial. A man in my church have not being able to perform the burial rites for his mother because he will at least one million to do it. He is the only child.

3. Transporting dead bodies from the place they died to the village.

iwaeda:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/11/peter-obis-alleged-investment-in-anambra-govt-worths-nothing-soludo/

LORDKing001:
So 30m can't be earned legally in Nigeria?
Livestock farming. 50 cows will give you 30m naira do d maths

yashau:
BREAKING NEWS: President @MBuhari will be on a 2-Day Working Visit to Lagos State on the 23rd and 24th of January, 2023 to commission various legacy Projects:

- Lekki Deep Sea Port

- 32-Metric tons Lagos Rice Mill, Imota

- 18.75km Eleko to Epe T Junction express road


- John Randle Center for Yoruba Culture and History

- Blue Line Rail (Phase 1) commissioning (Marina to Mile 2)

- Groundbreaking for the Blue Line Rail Phase 2 (Mile 2 to Okokomaiko)

https://twitter.com/Mr_JAGs/status/1616396349297299462?t=5ZTu1MBi1unT1ldsJ-wvuA&s=19[/quote]Lagos for show!

Idonweak:
From Pinterest

dontrulee:
If it is in this aspect, I have a lot of experience.
I have interacted with close to 3k+ ladies both physically and online and I have noticed some patterns even though there are few variations.

Most ladies will say they want a man who won't ask for sex before marriage. I have realized that all this is just at face value. After whoring with the better part of their lives, they bring up this line just to appear presentable and not cheap for the one they intend to settle down with. It is possible but hard for two people of different sex who have had sexual experiences previously to abstain till marriage. It is much easier for the virgin folks but they still face their temptations.

Weallbloom:
No, it's not. It depends on your level of discipline. Sometimes some women want to entrap you with sex. I had a girlfriend who tried to force me to make a particular change that I wasn't inclined to. I refused. One day I came into town and spent the weekend at her place. She brought up the subject, I told he no change in my decision. She said to sex unless I acquiesced. I ignored her. All weekend se walked naked with the apartment, slept naked beside me, I ignored her.
There are other instances where girls tried to bargain with sex. They met a brick wall.

TheLawAsItIs:
https://saharareporters.com/2023/01/20/peter-obis-pitiable-irresponsible-campaigners-trying-drag-me-2023-politics-sultan-sokoto

Enemyofpeace:
BREAKING: SULTAN OF SOKOTO WRITES;

Hold me responsible if Peter Obi didn't perform well, the problem of the North is from the north, not Peter Obi or an Igbo man, it will be worst and more deadly for the North if Tinubu wins, if they tell you an Igbo man is the problem of Nigeria, tell them Igbo man never rule Nigeria before and north is world poverty capital

Sultan of Sokoto writes to all Hausa and Fulani ahead of election

North has no sense and can't reason far, that's why their life is not regarded as anything, vote for someone who will value you like they value life in Igbo land.

I can't keep calm again, the north is bleeding because of our choice of Presidential candidate, and we must rewrite history by getting it right this time around, voting for someone who Buhari is healthier than, is a legendary stupidity.

Since Fulani has been ruling Nigeria, what has the North achieved, the highest number of beggers still in the North, not the east, all manner of death and killings happen here not in Igbo land while Fulani is in power, this time around let an Igbo man rule Nigeria.

I don't care if after this speech I will be dethroned, but the truth must be spoken, Tinubu can't rule Nigeria, don't ever even dream of it, because the worst will happen, Tinubu is a calamity.

Buhari has failed to endorse him, Obasanjo has failed to endorse him, Johnathan has failed to endorse him.

No past president has endorsed him. Even Osinbajo has not endorsed Tinubu. But it is you, who barely eats a meal a day that is shouting "on your mandate we shall stand".

~Sultan of Sokoto

olasesi:
JJC Skillz Returns To Islam After His Marriage To Funke Akindele Crashed

Clearly, the media still has a powerful grip on people's mind. The original poster could just have said "JJC Skillz Returns To Islam", but he chose something else. This wasn't random. He made the post appear like his conversion has a link with Funke Akindele crashed marriage.
I could not find anywhere in JJC Skillz post suggesting that he returned to Islam because of the reasons people cited here. Do you know that if the post was "JJC Skillz Returns To Islam After visiting Turkey", the derogatory statements here would be something like, "Them done give am jazz for there", "them done promise am 72 virgins", etc. And that would be outside of his crashed marriage. Unfortunately, not many people noticed this. I see hundreds of likes and shares on comments and are considered "smart" or "good". People have not become smarter and I sometimes think people chose to become foolish just to spite you. It is saddening. How can people not notice that they are being used and be smart?

jaybenugo:
Abdulrasheed Bello a.k.a JJC Skillz has reverted to Islam, his former religion, after his marriage to Nollywood actress turned politician, Funke Akindele, crashed, IGBERETV reports.

In an Instagram post he shared, the singer who was originally born in Islam which he dumped for his mother's faith, revealed that he was lost before but he is now found.

JJC wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnQ6C3kAUc4/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

In another post, he wrote;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CnEsDU-oTOt/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Speaking to Muslim News after the Instagram posts were shared, JJC said it was God's design for him to embrace Islam.

He said;

“I was born a Muslim – AbdurRasheed by name. My dad, Bello is a Muslim but my mum is a Christian. Back then I used to go Islamiyah but all I remembered about it was getting beaten. They used to scare us with hellfire so, I never practised.

“It’s God’s design that I will return to Islam. I thank Allah for sparing my life. I am so happy I found Islam again because it has given me peace. It has given me direction and focus. I was truly lost but now, I am found.”

https://igberetvnews.com/1437104/jjc-skillz-returns-islam-marriage-funke-akindele-crashed/

TMSMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1435936/begged-use-condom-married-nurse-tells-lagos-court-raped/