₦airaland Forum

naijacentric:
u are a fool u can do better dan dis

and you being a KIIIIING Fool decided to mention me

dimexy247:
Are you still available?

I can't but reply this, since 2009 and you still want the person to be available? ah!

another one

white men be taking advantage of Nigerian men's ignorance and gold digging on the rich/best Nigerian women

white men be taking advantage of Nigerian men's ignorance and gold digging on the rich/best Nigerian women

Admin401:
Literally haven't met a Nigerian lady who didn't like money. I mean, if they are out there, then kudos to the lucky men they atttact but in this modern Nigeria, they are as rare as fairy dust.

no be only women like money,leave women alone. You will never meet any human who doesn't like money. even children know and like money, just depends on how/what the person does/intend to make and spend the money.

OP ode! so she has to like some crazy ass smoker just to not be tagged "narrow minded"? lol

highqueen:
shameless girl on rampage.

thats why I hardly take all these ladies that feign religious extremists serious.


90% of them are just same as the prostitutes we see on the road,looking for a cute guy with nice car to destroy his life.

nonsense people.

shut up, she's just a prostitute in church. didn't you read she was dressed half naked? she already went there with a mission. and Church or club it's people like you they get

but that's what the leaders of this country have been doing, or you think they are too slow

Fourwinds:
if you don't open your legs how can a pen..is get in?


use your head

for a 17yr old you are one of the pervs that should be castrated just in case it didn't sink in the first time. you are too foolish to get another mention from me

austyn0:
Xendra can you prepare this meal??

yes na, y not

MISEDUCATIONS:
not every man is like your Ex

nope. I'm still alive, I don't give men enough time to break my heart.

Ariella25:
So this is going to be a long story but I have been dating this Nigerian man for awhile. At the beginning he was nice, attentive, communicative, giving etc and seemed like the ideal man. He’d always compliment me on how sweet and soft spoken I was too. The only thing that made me weary was his father was abusive towards his mother. I had recently been in an abusive relationship as well but he assured me he didn’t hit women bc of his mom. He was always praising her too. I was always told to look at how a man treats his mother so I felt like that attitude was good.

Not long after we had a very deep convo about abuse in relationships and he seemed to kind of take his fathers side saying it was her fault for staying and “some people are just weak while others are strong.” I told him I felt that was slightly insensitive and he just said “I wasn’t saying you’re weak, I’m just saying some people are.” So I just let it go. Sometimes he’d say how he hated women but shortly after he’d take it back.

But now he’s a completely different person. I don’t mind a little jealousy and control but everything has to be exactly how he wants it. Any time I interact with the opposite sex I feel like he punishes me. If I talk to his friends he calls them my “boyfriend” and says go be with them. He says how he can’t trust women because his father said women are the devil. If he flirts with another woman in my face and confront him he just tells me to stop speaking and says this is why he should go date a white girl bc they aren't hard headed (I’m mixed). When I don’t listen or he’s mad he’ll ignore me for a long time. And on top of that his mommas boy attitude changed. He will purposely ignore her calls. He’s let me listen to voicemails of her crying and he just laughs and deletes it. He flip flops between saying he loves her and calling her annoying/ a b*tch.

The thing is he is seemingly only like this with the females in the family and now me. Around other women he is charming and fun. When I brought this up in an argument he said it was because “he actually likes them but hates me.” Only to deny saying it a week later. I told him I’m tired and needed space but he grabbed my neck lightly and told me I’m not going anywhere. But now he’s back to ignoring me.

I hate to stereotype but my friend who is half Nigerian and also dated one for 7 years said it only gets worse and to watch out bc they can be abusive. But I feel like he's not like that he just gets annoyed with me. Is this typical Nigerian behavior? If I act better will he be nicer to me?

if this story is true then you are a very big Ode if you continue with that relationship. most of these Nigeria men with problems usually go for foreign women with low self esteem because they will allow them control the way a sensible Nigerian lady will never tolerate. you see the handwriting on the wall.

darkmarky:
well she hasn't been in the situation that would prompt her to cheat. Look I don't even trust girls nowadays...even the faithful ones are doing whatsapp relationship .

yea, that's because girls can't trust men to stay faithful, put all your eggs in one basket and he'll just waste it.

stupidity:
Should we tell her?

about her stupidity?

mtchwww.....boyfriend not even husband

lol.... I hope she has trained herself to handle heartbreak? because na dis kind people heartbreak dey kill. she won't see it coming

jessca048:
seems like abia is the business hub for baby factory. what is a seventeen year old doing with two pregnancies

wayward men that should long be castrated caused it.

see the men above starring like - how oshiobaba take get this kind woman wen me no fit get

Munzy14:
Why do Africans blame someone for a loss of another. And daughter/Mother-in-laws take the bigger portions of blame.

Afrikaans are just sad people, always looking for somebody to blame for what's wrong with them. how will it be a woman's fault if a man doesn't know how to take care of his family? and are they the only children she has :-/ I know someone who also blamed her sister's husband for being the reason the dumb ass don't care about her family

ko40:
Fugly shapeless looking twin. which guy go kill him mama cos of dis kind things. awon smelos

kill yourself. they are happy

NOETHNICITY:
Educated Christian girls, why are you being treated like a cheap commodity?

What the hell you call appreciate?

Imagine these ones

so it is the women who are exercising like everyone else that is at fault or the worthless man who is using it as an opportunity to abuse them you men don't know what to criticize that's why your sisters, mothers and wife's/future wifes still get abused. smh

emelda86:
Some men are truly scum....
And to think shes asking what to do mumurity of the highest order

that's where I got angry at the zombie, like do you ask what to do with a proven worthless thing like that? unless one is truly dumb

After reading I can clearly say the lady is dumb, and she deserves what she's getting because she put herself there.

....for dating a boy when there are men
After such messages she was still asking for the truth when he came to pack his things. dumb idiotic fool belittling herself

queensera:
Yahoo Boys And Slay Mamas Don Vex For Seun Kuti.


SEE THEIR REACTIONS:
http://www.nairaplus.com/2018/05/yahoo-boys-are-still-mugus-fools-to.html

the first lady that commented is just dumb, she didn't even get the point...... I'm ashamed. she better take that her boutique business serious doesn't require being brainy

boyjo:
All these ladies deceiving themselves, 35k arn`t money o.
Abi, which kain life una wan dey live?

no, it is the men believing them that are deceiving themselves. but then again it depends on the quality of life they want to live.

relationship, the new scam to get free/cheap sex

you don find sex chat tire now na relationship (the disguise )

lenghtinny:
What makes you think that she will stop fvcking around after marriage ....

How the day go be, na from morning you go sabi

don't mind those oversabis, dem no know anything

this dumb idiot, them dey use car take dey sleep with person? this fool will never find love

sorry but this made me laff.

so men or "boys" dey fall in love? well very few ladies still believe boys fall in love and you don't expect a person to give you what they don't believe anymore.
at least that's what y'all say

any guy that does sex outside marriage and still dares insult a girl for not being a virgin na God go punish am.

good for him. he think say na every girl cheap like his baby mamas

smh ..children!
you dey mama house and you dey get girlfriend

Josephjnr:
What about the black women? Black women are desperate for anything they sense is better ...like rich man,celebrity, white man etc

who isn't