₦airaland Forum

I don't know what to tell you, but I know if I feel this way I would not marry

mchww...broke people marry everyday. as long as you are not expecting anybody to drop their standard for you. cut your coat according to your cloth and you will wear in peace

philo04:
when martins was 20 playing for inter to be honest I was 14 den I use to watch him play how come martins is now 2yrs older than me ....?

football doesn't allow them to age fast

mcthwwwwww

pftt.. nothing will tap Nigerians from any slumber.
no.7 is true though

magicminister:
Nice!!

Congratulations to the latest couple in town.
People saying “it’s only because he has money” are the biggest fools on earth.
Is this not this sameness nairaland that we see poor disabled man or woman tie the knot with someone that appears physically healthy.

Only those that think extremely low of themselves and have no personality would think all it takes is money.

God bless you joor!

Beautiful!
I love to see couples who have grown old together, may God continuously bless your Union.

hmmm! my story want just be like your own .......Men!

oh dear!! such mentions y'all made my day...or at least what's left of it

chuckjonesautos:
Sheer Jealousy and Envy.. admit it...

OK oo

wonder y I don't like his face

HBD tho! wishing you better years ahead

Sheuns:


This just proved that majority of our armed men are not only useless but uneducated as well. Imagine a cop going online threatening to kill someone if he was the one filmed?

Useless set of ne'er do wells intoxicated by their uniforms and guns.

We have no security in this country.

abeg leave Nigeria own for police, .....

lefulefu:
who told u the malaysian based guy is not sending her money .if he send her money u think she will tell u.the point to note here is that this ur babe no love u and neither does she love the malaysian based guy but she considers the guy a better option since he"s overseas based(foreign league) and you na home based(Eyimba FC). Her plan is to dump u and marry this guy and with luck this guy might take her to malaysia.this is her plan my guy.

sounds like the truth

LordKO:
@OP

You've no shame at all! Only small-minded people like you goes to places where they're tolerated. Noble people only goes to places where they're celebrated. The girl isn't to be blamed at all because she's obviously not the pretentious type, you won't say she hid her relationship with the Malaysian based guy (citing your submission) - which is her preference - from you.

Yes, the emotion of love is the strongest of all emotions and this is the reason why it's important for one to lay his/her principles before talk about looking and choosing a companion either for dating/marriage, so that in the event someone you fell in love doesn't possess at least 70% of the important attributes that can complement yours, you use his/her negative attitudes to neutralize the love emotional attachment towards her and automatically untangle yourself from her emotional grip and move on with your life.

Now, go and set your emotional firewall password with goodness and learn to always give same without being servile - and withdraw it from anyone that fails to sustain it with goodness too, but not necessarily in equal measures - and in so doing you will say bye bye to toxic relationship and heartbreak.

Love (and other attributes of goodness) isn't a sign of weakness but strength, however, unprincipled people like you and your ilks always make it to seem so, through actions and inactions like this.

Healthy relationship isn't negotiable.

how can one person make sooo much sense is this really from a naija guy??

so she ended up looking like this? SMH

Chikita66:
Why would I stoop so low to insult a guy cos he didn't toast me when I have enough toaster offline and more online.

this op is just dreaming, which girls resort to insults unless they are children.

what is she returning bride price for the man never touch you? tchwww

this is absolute trash, any body that mistakes these attributes for love is doomed for an abusive relationship.

serves all of them right, it's still a man's place to propose to a lady when he is ready, no lady should attempt to trap a man before he considers himself ready to cater for a family. unless she wants to be the bread winner, and that would only work out if she is proposing to a woman rapper.


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Skidoolina:
someone should help me call the Mods to push this to front page!!!

you can call them yourself, just say lalasticlala or mynd44 whichever of them you know.


hey, I just called them for you.
....I pray the baby is found safe and sound.

doesn't matter, this people don old, nobody should vote for any of them jare!

I was going to say its a nice development until I saw minimum standard dem no well, dem know God standard

na lies when poor men take dey tie women down be this, a man will treat you the way he has trained himself to treat his woman, rich or poor he is who he has trained himself to be. the rest na story.

hopexter:
95% of women share the same idea with her which is not easy to come out with, but a woman like you who sleeps with both past and present lovers still condemn her. This is why she mentioned pretenders like you....

past, present...pretenders kido pls I'm not your mother

Jman06:
This story is fake!!!

yea... its just one of those lies to discourage men from waiting till marriage.

we all know its a lie but we'll comment anyway

Asowari:
is marriage all about sex

she no wise, she be oloriburuku

na dis kind thread nl guys children dey like, now they can pour out their frustration

tchww...
ogechi ololo ko' ogechi olodo ni

after you have done it