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Casemiro:
but the wedding night is supposed to be marked with copulation.

You should still wait! It isn't a must, right?

Well, it's their life. Na their pussy and dick them dey use, so let them continue. "Do what makes you happy," that's what they said!
Honestly, I'm not surprised at all.

Mine is "Poverty," that shit is my Fucking ex.
I mean poverty in everything, including mindset, money, love, whatever the fùck it is!

Then wait! What exactly is your problem? You think everything is about sex?

Karlifate:
Xenry, even Deuteronomy 30:9 supports you;

Yeah! With this, you can be sure that he doesn't encourage laziness at all. Just like Jesus said in John 5:17,
..."My Father is always at his work to this very day, and I too am working."

Create values for yourself.

Love is more than feelings, it's the values that you have that creates the true and honest love and care that people have towards you. So when someone tells you they love you without showing you why, then chances are that they are either lying or lusting after you. Don't believe then when they tell you, "I love you because I have feelings for you," Feelings fades, but values don't. Anything can cause feelings, it could be lust, fear, rejections ... . It(feelings) isn't always caused by love.

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They all won't honestly care unless you give them a reason to. So go out there and create a reason, value ... that will make them want to love, care or respect you.

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So what made you realized that people didn't actually loved or cared for you? That it were all a lie and they were faking it.

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Mine is when I was disappointed because I thought that love, caring ... is reciprocal, I thought that helping people, being there for them, caring for them will also make them do the same for you, but I was dead wrong. My expectations then was different from the reality. So I realized that if you want people to love, care about you, even if it's in a pretentious way, then you have to give them a reason to do so. It's your value that will make them want to do those things for you, not necessarily what you do for them.
So it's better to go out there and create reasons, values that will change the way people see you ... than to do things expecting them to reciprocate it. Nah, it doesn't work that way.

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So what are the things, experiences that proved your expectations from people to be wrong?

God doesn't add, he multiplies.
Just like the popular quote says, "heaven helps those who helps themselves." If you go on believing that God will help you, add strength to your elbow, bring the promising future right to the door of your heart, without you doing something to bring those hopes to life, then you are confusing the reality with your expectations.

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Untill you understand that God doesn't add and that he multiplies instead, you will always keep going the wrong direction.

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God multiplies to your efforts, no matter how little they are—he doesn't add to it, he multiplies it.
So while waiting on God, believing and hoping for the best, try to do something that is worth multiplying. You can't multiple zero efforts, multiple anything with zero and it would be zero. Zero efforts can't be multiplied, but the little efforts that you make can be multiplied. This shows that God doesn't encourage laziness, instead, he encourages hard-working by multiplying what we worked for.

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If you think that paying offering, listening to your pastor preach and later have him lay hands on you will change your life or add anything to your life without you working for those things, then you are dead wrong.

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Untill you get up and do something, don't expect anybody to help you with it, not even God!

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How won't take you from nowhere and raise you up. No! He will only take you from somewhere, and for you to get to that somewhere, you must start on your own. It's your genuine willingness and efforts that will attract God's help to your work, life, business and others! So as you can see now, God doesn't encourage laziness, and HUSTLING shouldn't be an option for you!

Get yourself together, young man. We ain't chasing women anymore, we have diverted to chasing money, that's now our honey, girlfriend and bestie. Poverty is gay, so we would always try to avoid it, do you understand me? Leave those rubbish nollywood movies, why am I even telling you this, I'm outta here please.

"Books," that's what I'm doing. I'm trying to read as much as I can. The knowledge in this world can't be consumed entirely and it can be accessed by anyone with the help of our cell phones and other mediums.
So I'm trying to know stuffs, stuffs like:
1:The ones I know already (to have a better understanding of them).
2:The ones I know that I don't know.
3:The ones that I don't know that I don't know.

If this isn't the usual fake stories that we use to see on Nairaland, then it's a rape attempt and shouldn't be taken lightly.

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When you let your little man control you, then you are in big trouble because it could ruin you.

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However, there's nothing wrong in asking you to give him sex in exchange for his money, but he made the mistake when he decided to force himself on you.

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It's either you pay him his money or you give him what he wants.

Dncl2021:
Wpw @Xenry your comment is wow everything from A to Z you said is spot on. End up being each other's ex is Savage

He better listen ooo! My problem is that they use to make everything easy for those girls. And when they eventually break up and start a relationship with guys like us who have known one or two truths about their nature, they would then expect us to treat them like their ex did, they would try to control and manipulate us. But when we treat them different and refuse to be controlled, they will then call us wicked, stingy, proud and all that.
Well, we all were once weak, change is the only way out! Those girls need to understand that the world of men don't revolve around them,
sex isn't a favor to men, and that not every man out there is sex starved. I just hope the OP will change shaaa!

MadeINchenzen2:
A guy who is sexually attracted to a woman, and wants her body should not approach her with words like she's a nun with high morality values and decency... If she thinks he thinks of her as a good girl, she would prefer to remain his good girl, especially if she likes him.

When he wants sex, she turns him down with the virginity slang

But then goes out and give the juicy pussi.e to another naughty guy who approached her as a naughty girl

Exactly, that's true!
Any girl can be a good or bad girl to you. but it depends on how you treat her.

Why did you create another account today to promote yourself? Nawao for you ooo.

richmond500:
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Space Booker.

This is exactly why I choosed to be single, I no wan stress myself at all at all, I value my peace of mind to the core. Look at what a girl is currently doing to you.

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Now ask yourself, "what have I benefited from this girl?" can you find an answer to that? Those girls are manipulative and their wahala no dey ever finish. And they will waste both your money and time if you don't keep your prick inside your trousers and respect yourself.

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After all, you guys will end up being each other's Ex, so it isn't worth the effort, bro.

Foodqueen:
Take the one u can manage and leave the rest.

Yeah, that's it. Non is without a fault.

You made a lot of sense here. The only difference is that sex favors men mostly. And that women are afraid of pregnancy and being called cheap or a wh0re.

I think this will be a good book to read, here are some quotes from it.

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"Now women are funny animals. You never know when you are with them - they don’t often know where they are with themselves . It’s no good trying to find out what makes them tick. It just can’t be done. They have more moods than an army of cats with lives, and all you can hope is to spot the mood you’re after when it turns up and step in quick. Hesitate you’re a dead duck, unless you’re one of those guys who like slow approach that might get you somewhere in a week or in a month or even a year."

I thought the only ban anti-spam bot use to give is 24 hours ban. How come they served you 10 years ban? The ban must be given by a Moderator.