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GoodiOG:
knockout

OneKinGuy:
Me best part was 'K, as in I should K/O you'

What is K/O?

I always ignore girls that reply with meaningless words(like "hm" "kiki" "oh" ). If you ain't ready to chat, just let me know. Like WtF is "K"?

Kiddogarcia:
Maybe you are right,but na agbo me I wan sell

What is agbo?

lilvicky68:
There's no comment above yours...

What to you mean, check it well. It's the one taking about rapists.

Ignore that female commenter above.

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Imagine giving a girl money for sex that she will even enjoy more than you, it sucks, but guys keep doing it and I'm not cool with it.

Good one.
Character is what will do the magic!

Leave girls alone, you will not hear.
You are taking them too serious, that's why they are misbehaving.

I think she's right, God will surely punish you if you cheat again.
My brother, the question I want to ask is, what happened to your wife's pvssy?

chatinent:
About your third paragraph, they shed crocodile tears so people wouldn't say they weren't sad.

Exactly. I use to see this kind of crying in some places, especially when our mothers want to cry for a dead person—they would be shouting and shouting, but you will hardly see a single tear. Haha, it's funny.

Try and move this to the romance section, this sub-section is less active.
Mention me when you repost it.

Myketuale:
good morning
pls I need an advice there is this lady that I have been dating for a while now.
last 2 week she upset me so I now blocked her on my whatsapp and deleted all our chat.
So she now said said she's no longer interested again because am someone who gets angry easily and I don't trust her..... To be sincere from what I have seen the lady is pure but my attitude is the one causing the issue btw us. She has never ask me of anything b4, whenever I get her something she would tell me I should wait for the right time.
I always call her on phone but the vibe she's giving me is poor and it's unusual of her.
because I want tins to work out.
My question is should I try to meet her face to face and talk to her if she can accept me back or I should just move on...
Pls help a brother

You reacted too quick by blocking her and deleting the chat history. You took her ways too serious and therefore you overreacted. Girls are never to be taken too serious, especially when she's just your gf(not yet wife).

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When I say too serious, I mean, like making it look like to say she's your only option, girls likes to compete with their fellows. To them, what they can compete with others is what's worth the effort. And when you relate to her like she's one of your options, she would never get tired of trying to make herself your only option.

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Not taking her too serious by making her one of the options is like, not being quick to reply to her chats, even though you are online (well, she may assume you are talking with other girls, but that's alright, it's part of the competition), not being too quick to pick her calls when she call (apart from girls matter, waiting a while before picking calls is important, make u no come look like say you no get job, one or two missed calls before picking would be okay), and others ways...

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I think you should work on your anger issue, you can easily find a book about that on the internet. Try to meet and reason with her, because the problem is from your side, not hers. Even if you decided to move on, it still won't solve the problem, and things will still repeat itself when you find someone else.

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You are lucky you found someone who isn't a liability, so it's not yet time to move on.

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However, you can still create a thread on this, maybe some people can throw more light on this.

Just wanted to update this thread!

You know people do stupid stuffs when they care much about others, they would always try to make things easier for them, even if they have to do it uncomfortably. THOUGH It's good to care about people, but over caring is a bad idea, a very bad one — because it's distractive and time consuming. Trust me, you do not want that.

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People are always gonna be people, they hardly change—always pretentious, displaying fake feelings and emotions that are deceptive. And if you ain't careful, they will most of the time take advantage of your kindness and caring nature.

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So what are you gonna get in all this? Even if you die as a result of over caring, the highest they can do is fake a cry, type 'RIP' on your pictures and update them on the internet, and in about a week or two, you are gone and forgotten.

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They don't really need you, but you will always need yourself, so don't forget yourself while trying to act as if you actually matters to them, the truth is that you don't, so don't act as if you do.

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So, as you can see, over caring is a really bad idea, so give up on crushing yourself over what won't add a value to your life.

DSC7:
If you re dating one you can tell and if ask they will feel reluctant to open up but if they see that their secrets are safe with you, they will tell you... But u must not cheat or jilt them......

Nothing concern me with those girls oo. Not in this life, not even in the next one!

Whether they are Ogbanje or not, niggars go still fvck them .
But seriously, fear who no fear women... The whole suffering on earth was because of a woman (Eve). Asswear, God go punish that woman called Eve.

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Meanwhile, she looks like One of DSC7 Ogbanje girlfriend.

DSC7:
Finally i am just tired of Dating Ogbanje girls....

"Just a guy on a date with himself after a breakup."

So because he told you to stay away from his girlfriend, he is now a simp?
You just misused the word "simp" in this your post.

Deucalion007:
Guys what's the best response for a simp telling me to stay away from his girlfriend?

I personally avoid girls that use to wear this kinda skirt.

[quote author=gaius01 post=101041915][/quote]Thanks for sharing this . When people are curious about you, they can go miles to find out what makes you different, that's why we should not share everything so that we can leave out things that would keep the curiosity going. The day that people stop being curious about you is the day that you will start being boring to them.

The question is how did you know that they are Ogbanje?

donbachi:
Secrets shared with family and friends today,will become their weapons against you tomorrow.

Exactly!

From the way you wrote this your post, it's obvious that you are a guy.

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Sometimes I wonder—do Nairaland pay you guys for wasting your time here?

Stop sharing secrets when you are in a relationship, because it ain't gonna end well. If you can't keep it to yourself, them don't expect others to keep it for you.

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When you share your secrets with others, you would always be afraid to offend them by saying your mind. And if you share it with your gf, you would never be at peace again when you break up with her.

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Do people still do that "tell me more about yourself" conversation? I don't know, but it sucks. What you tell them today, they might end up using it against you tommorow.

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Keep yourself to yourself, if you are to tell anyone about yourself, let it be the things that you could say out in the public without fear, so that they won't be able to use your words against you.

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Sharing secrets with the wrong people is like sharing your nude Pictures with them, you can't take it back and they can use it against you when you guys stop being in good terms.

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When I say secret, I mean stuffs that are too personal to you.

iampeterben:
Thanks sir for the insight.

You are welcome Sir!

greatnaija01:
Na like this people go marry com discover say their wife don do 11 abortions and don remove womb..... wives go discover say, their husbands dey impotent (due to having only ONE EGG) for life.

Finally, even the holy book bible says we should not tell our wives EVERY THING

Any women who has that kind of secret should not near marriage at all, because some stuffs ain't gonna be secret forever—if you won't reveal it, it will reveal itself.