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Righteousness89:
I will be Very Frank with you!

Until the Root Cause of a Problem is Tackled, one might keep Going in Circles. And also using Basket to Fetch Water..

The Same Pattern of your Mum is Exactly what Happened to you.

Its time for you to treat that issue..

It does not look like what can be done by Power.

My Advice to you is to Seek For GENUIE Bible Believing Church. Go there, Surrender to JESUS Completely and Let HIM Work on you..

You need to be Soaked in God to Break Certain yokes and Patterns..

Once the Root Cause is Sorted, other things will Fall in Place..

Thats the worst advice you gave her. What do you mean by going to a Bible believeing church?

yanabasee1:
Let's hope Henry will get it right..... He used to be my role model back then....From his O2 down to Barca.....

no think am abeg

KBARBIE:
May the God Lord save , transform and accept your soul. Ameeeen.

Lol.Christiants are funny

UyaiIncomparabl:
You will say this on the last day.

There is nothing like last days. Wake up

bcomputer101:
Lebanon of all places...


This puss! hustlers can go any length sha

Is that what you are supposed to say in this matter is?

Bigyusluv:
Hello good morning.

Late April during lockdown, my friend sent me a post, which was advertised by her mom customer in need of an accountant urgently, the job was for graduate and I'm an undergraduate, final year thou I should have graduated since 2018 but left school in my first semester 400l due to mental health issues I was facing which no one know( I can't read and comprehend as I used to anymore) got bored of reading and preparing for exams, set eyes on making money. Just too broke at that time.

I applied for the job with fate, and I was called, went for interview thrice before I was given the job. due to my experience of working as an assistant accountant in one big hotel and working as branch manager in another hotel, and not staying far I was given the job. The pay range was 35k based on my qualifications thou.

I started work first week of May, not too stressful but I'm to resume by 6am and close 6pm, daily allowance 2k and my salary ... I do make 50-60k weekly aside my daily allowance and salary.

Reason I'm thinking about quitting is, early June, on my way to work on bike, I had an accident with Keke, which the Keke man was clearly at fault for swerving without checking his side mirror, but then again, it was just the two of us (bike man and Keke man) on the road, same lane, nothing coming back or front of us, yet the accident.

I had a bruise on my hand and a kinda deep wound an inch from my ankle bone. (which haven't gone yet, used original honey to bring out the surface, thou I no longer feel pains, recently it has dried up).

During that accident period nor of my colleagues/bosses came to visit me as I was home for a week. But my colleagues kept sending my own share from the runs money.

Last Thursday on my way to work, very close to my work place, walking on the street that lead to my office and one man I don't know, was inside his shop/house, saying to me, oboy this your leg never go, na wa oh, them wan just spoil ur leg for you, that your place wey u dey work many don run commot there cause of the juju things wey them dey use follow their workers, better dey pray every day and when u enter office guy. I said thank you sire, while getting to the office tears dropped from my eyes as I prayed.

Next day being Friday on my way home, the bike I took we both fell down, falling to where my wound is, I had to be smart and quickly dodge the bike from landing on that leg... I paid the bike man and trekked to the bustop to get Keke.

This job has really changed me from that sad dude to happy dude, due to financial capability right now... I'm now free of debt and brokenness.

Please advise me, cause I'm not really a spiritual person but all these are making me prayerful (never believed in juju and attack before).

You better look for a strong juju priest to fortify yiu you against enemies.

chatinent:
Of course, Christians who want to marry are commanded to choose only a fellow believer. ( 1 Corinthians 7:​39) Jehovah’s Witnesses view this command as referring not merely to a person who respects our beliefs but to one who shares and practices those beliefs as a baptized Witness. ( 2 Corinthians 6:​14) God has always directed his worshippers to marry only those of the same faith. ( Genesis 24:3; Malachi 2:​11) This command is also practical, as modern researchers have found.
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I know some will reprove me saying 'we are all Christians.'
Think: If you marry, will you appreciate if she didn't come to your church? Will it end in happiness? Would you share her beliefs? Even greatly, it will be disobedience to our God. We appreciate marrying people who share our beliefs; it brings happiness and we can avoid marry problems as pre-marital sex, unwanted pregnancies, and STDs.
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Next time when you say 'we are all Christians,' do well to be open-minded to ask yourself if your beliefs are the same with ours.
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Gracias.
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Comments are welcome. I'll respond to civil ones.

Religious bruhaha

There is nothing like rapture And there is nothing like Jesus Christ

NockMedia:
C'mon man, it doesn't work that way. We both know that ladies are the weaker sex. You're not only at a risk of severely hurting her but you also stand the chance of getting locked up. Regardless of whoever started the drama.

Thats when you don't know your rights bro. So women have the liberty to assault menbat will without any confrontations from the men abi? That's why they turn lions overseas ,but here in Nigeria they knw such laws doesn't exist. Mind you if it does you that is saying this will be against most women.

NerdyRudeGyal:
The girls were at fault. I'm not going to take their side b/c they're females. They were 100% in the wrong.

1. Them leaving their seats made them available to anyone else, which is what happens in public settings involving seatings. Unless their names were on the chairs, they should've accepted that the seats were no longer theirs once they got up.

2. The physical assault [which is what it is] was started by one of them who threw juice on his face. I don't blame him for retaliating by pouring a can of whatever on her b/c anyone would've done the same thing in that moment. In fact, another dude would've likely hit her after this but he simply did the same thing she did to him, which I'm not going to blame him for at all.

3. The physical assault was further continued by her when she grabbed him and tore his skin w/ her nails, which again, made him retaliate and which I can't blame him for b/c she had gone too far.


Clearly, the girls felt somewhat entitled and Idk why. They were wrong on all three counts.

I love you. Leave all this women wrapper wey dey blab here up and down. If they where judges they had make a bad one. Kudos to you for speaking the truth dear.

This people don't have sense at all, imagine them sweeping someone who has been in apc for 4years away because he recently decamped to pdp. Was it pdp that have been ruling them since? Politics chai

Nawa ooo

proxillin:
She has been mounting pressure on me to follow her to meet her parents. We have been in this relationship for a year now. Although she is not the only one I am dating. I am not sure of the other lady, but atleast this one is ready to marry me.

I am not sure if I genuinely love her or not, but a part of me love her..A part of me want to treat her bad, whenever I remember what she did to me in the past.

3 years ago, I started noticing and showing interest in her being my junior sister’s friend. I discussed with my sister who encouraged me to approach her that she had no boyfriend. We were on talking terms before which was an opportunity. So I leveraged on that to get closer to her. When she noticed I was getting closer, she started giving me attitudes, stopped talking to me. Finally she stopped coming to our house. She would give my sister thousands of excuses why she was not chanced to come to our house.

We met at a friends birthday party, to my surprized, she warmed up to me, greeted me. I though she must have repented. While the party was on, I asked her to come to my table and spend sometimes with me, she said “ok”. I waited for hours, she didn’t come. I later saw her in the room with the celibrant. I jokingly said to her “You dey whine me abi”. She just went off, started ranting, she said I should say whatever I want to say now infront of everyone..infront of her friends. “Why do you want me to come and sit with you?” say it now “let the whole world hear”. It was so embarrasing for me. I just said to myself “whats there..are they not aldult?..dem never toast all of them before”.

My sister was there, got angry and left us. She had already warned me to leave her alone. That I am interfering with their friendship. On my birthday, she replied to my whatsapp pictures with love and kiss icons. She went to facebook to like all my birthday pix. Facebook was alerting me as she was clicking. She finally sent me happy birthday..where is my cake..we started gisting again. She apologized for what she did that day, that she was not in a good mood that day (someone who met, joked and laugh with me, even agreed to come sit with me on my table).

We continued chattin for weeks, I made sure I didn’t get intimate with her. One day, my sister was playing with my phone, then saw our chats, read through our chats. She was mad at me. She confronted me and nearly slapped her for disrespect. She later calm down and explain to me that if I knew what this girl said about me on group chat, that I would shoot her if I have a gun. She said she didn’t tell me so that I wont feel bad.
She then show me their caucaus group chat discussing me. Tears was just coming out of my eyes. I felt cold. They were just laughing at me. My sister was just fighting for me shutting them off.

This lady said “how come some men behave like he goat. Why can’t he leave me alone?” “am I the only girl on the planet? Oh God I hate that idiot.” “Gosh, I can never be close to such person talkless of dating him” ANOTHER girl said “That’s how those guys are…you need to disgrace him more next time he try something stupid with you. Blahblah.

That’s when I closed her chapter. Blocked her on facebook, whatsapp, instagram. I moved on. My sister did photoshoot for her birthday and some of her friends came. I saw her and just greeted her, minding my business. Then I was dating another girl then, so it’s a win win for all. She stayed behind, when everyone left, she asked my sister to help her beg me. She knelt infront of me started telling me “she was sorry..she was being childish” This was someone that was in her 24 when I was chasing her. I said I forgave due to pressure from my sister. Since then, she will come to my apartment, do my laundary, cook soup inside my freezer. When she is coming from work, she will branch at my place prepare food on my table. At times she offered to sleep overnite, that she cooked till late in the night, which I will refuse.

But one thing led to another, one day, we had sex. And that changed everything. I couldn’t resist her again. But a part of me still hate her whenever I remember those disgraceful moments. Now she is 26, she want us get married. If I marry her, I may treat her bad.

In a dilema seriously and its giving me headache.

Marriage and Dating are two different things. If your love and feelings are in doubt, please let her go. Don't marry

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Cyoung4real:
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Please what is sagelink all about?

Professorcplus:
If these religious money collected by "pastorprenures" were been used as taxes, Nigeria would have been a better country since 90's.

Yet the bigger the money you offer to God, the more God gets happy. Can someone tell me how paper printed by men makes Almighty God happy.

You pay money for God blessings, but God can not bless starving children in the 3rd war zone countries. Your Christians God must be selfish.

What you are simply doing is blessing your daddy GO. Nothing more. Because, he will live a lavish lifestyle with your hard earn money.

Wait can someone tell me the difference between a child that is been scared with ojuju-calaba for not dropping his money and an adult that is been scared with cala-mity for not dropping his/her hard earn money. Nothing! The difference is just age bracket.

See

There is even bank app. Even corona can not stop the work of God. Yet the work is left undone

my brother you have said it all. They are money mongers

Authoreety:
How true is this?

dial *389*30*1# for clarification

dancok:
This is my first salary though but debt was already on ground before the salary showed, so am clearing the debt now and the situation of corona virus now.

I don't how long this will last, so am cautious of my spending.

Have I not sinned? Can I shift my tithe till next payment? Pastors in the house.

So you want to owe ppls money an pay tithe? That's wickedness. God does not need your money. Stop paying tithe. Rather help the poor, windows and less privileged.

Mizwisdom:
I'm not in your category, when the devil lacks ideas he either keeps quiet or responds with insult, I see you have chosen the later.

categories of righteousness abi, na rich people? Church goer, hallelujah. Rubbish

Mizwisdom:
Many people do not contact the virus through Church attendance, Wuhan where the virus originated has only few number of Churches.

Go get sense. Religion or Christianity have blind folded u

donbachi:
E no go come near us...GOD use covid-19 to teach china lesson for destroying churches..for dat reason covid-19 cannot enter the church.

Na so God tell u. Brainwashed Christians. And the people wey get church how far. Sense need to locate u

Amotolongbo:
Oyedepo preaches faith and emphasizes on the practical so much.

This is now the very time to act and prove the faith he has been preaching. If truly he believes in the faith he has been preaching, he isn’t expected to cancel any gathering.

Faith isn’t on tithe and offering alone.

Exactly ,faith is not only on tithe o. Tell them.

MarianaTrench:
This SARS thing is more prevalent in the South eastern part of the country.

Yes,more prevalent in South east than north and North central of Nigeria. They are very quiet and rarely distub anyone in the north. Criminals

constant1960:
We are Just Living in this Country for no reason

China on my mind

i support u bro. Na to go there come back with that corona virus, enter Abuja and infect people there. Nonsense

Means to steal from the treasury. There is no covid 19 in Nigeria. Quote me

deltateam:
Didn't she tell you that she prefers to be anonymous? Can't you respect her privacy Mr chatter.

You just a hopeless and jobless poker. Go get a life.

deltateam:
Call you for what? To take more advantage, abi?

Nigerians and there low mentality. Two ppl have chatted me up privately on relationship matters, and you are here reasoning like a loser. You can as well tell her to call u or chat u up so u encourage and advice her. Stop being fibble minded

Ellacindy:
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Sharp shooter, u better be a good person to her oo

You have a fibble mindset

hopeforcharles:
Keep him at arm's length, make sure u make plans to date and accept proposal from other serious suitors.
Because frlm your post he has lost interest in marrying you.

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hatchy:
Nnamdi Kanu of Biafra is not on that list, that alone makes the list invalid.

The Biafra dilector and supreme head of IPOB is still in the jungle somewhere in Umuahia giving order to his soldiers to bring the Zoo army down.

White cow