₦airaland Forum

Charmingrascal:
Olubukola Abubakar Saraki u ain't seen nothin yet. You will lose everythng from court case(s) to ur Senatorial position to ur godfather post in Kwara politics. Kwarans ar wiser now & we shall send u back to whereva ur father brought u 4rm in 2003. OLE!

You an illiterate just like Buhari.
If only you can read, you wouldn't have embarrassed yourself.

HungerMustGo:
=> I wonder oh!! They will wear all kinds of seductive outfits, use all types of seductive words, languages, eye contacts and body movements on innocent men. Now when the men make moves on them, they shout "HARASSMENT" and society says "YES"

=> Same way they hurt and humiliate men with all sorts of demeaning words that'll make anyone commit suicide and when the man reacts or slaps her out of pain, then it becomes "PHYSICAL ABUSE & BATTERY"

Not Fair!!!

You are disturbed.
You need help!

As a politicalpastor, you should know what to do.

These terrorists should be hanged.

Poor people and violence.

Why are they still alive?

APC and fake news.

GreenNegro:
My love for Xiaomi Cheap brand no be here

Nobody really loves cheap brands.

Denikayan:
Well said.

His Excellence President Mohammadu Buhari (GCFR) will be diverting the economy as it's glaring all infrastructures are almost in place. And will be leaving a blue print behind for Professor Yemi Osinbajo that will propel us to a remarkable distance away from oil.

I guess his "excellence" will be "diverting" the economy into his family's pocket.
Why are most Buhari supporters illiterate?

Illiterate soldiers want to destroy our wildlife.

Don't worry, your 30k BMC package is not yet threatened.

Bobby4090:
Amosun is very powerful in Ogun state but that was when he was parading himself as Buharis best friend. Now that Buhari has left him to his fate he alone cannot withstand what I see as a gang up of Osoba, Tinubu, Oshiomole and Osinbajo. No wonder Buhari is now playing the Ostrich because this gang up is quite formidable and any attempt to distrup it was be costly for Buhari.

Buhari has no influence on Ogun state politics and Osoba has very little political clout.

@OP, I don't know what you mean by "submissive" because it can mean many things
even dangerous ones so it might be difficult for a lady from a rich home to accept such
arrangement because she has been treated well all her life.

That said, you have to be less rigid about your criteria.
Finding a woman who is very comfortable even with families around
will be easier than searching for comfortable one who has no family responsibility.

Whatever you do, make sure you discuss finance while dating, don't assume because
assumptions can be dangerous.

Daeylar:
No, he says he avoids such ladies because even if they were taking care kf their families before they met him, he feels that such responsibilities may shift to him if they get married and he doesn't want that.

There are ladies struggling to take care of their family and there are those who
are very comfortable doing it.
If his goal is about getting a lady with no family, he is better off looking for only-child orphans poor or rich
but he is more concerned about money. There are women from rich homes who take care of their siblings
due to both parent's death(money is not a problem). Such lady will not meet his criteria according to your
quoted post.

He can either choose money or family arrangement. I don't think he can have it both ways.

zaragal:
Just marry a Good girl, who loves and fear the lord. Some rich or well to do background chick comes with a price. Because u might end up being the wife and she the husband, after all....Her father has money.

What you described above only happens to desperate and poor gold-diggers.
The OP is not poor from his description and can take care of himself.

He be like say u never see inlaw with money, wey go frustrate u with their money join na?? . Just slap their daughter and u will build a house in prison....*That was on a little note*

This is actually a good thing, I believe violence should come with stiff punishment
regardless of the victim's wealth. Why should it be okay to slap a poor man's daughter?

ZIMDRILL:
you are too blind to see that, you are the person that you are trying to avoid to marry one day. you said you are supporting your siblings and friends so its ok for you to support your family and friends but the woman you wish to marry shouldnt have family thats needs support from her if she can?

think of it this way right now you are looking after your siblings so its ok if a girl dumps you if she uses your line of thinking ?

You are right but he has a right to determine his specs in women because relationships are never equal.
If he found a woman who can take care of her family on her own(just like he does), I don't think he would
avoid her.

franchasng:
Story story! As if that's how you ladies marry too

Nigerian ladies are very cunning and wicked to Nigerian guys.

When a Nigerian lady from a rich home wants to date or marry, she considers the financial capability of the guy first before considering his handsomeness.

A broke guy dare not say hello to her because to her it's a taboo.

What about a Nigerian Lady that is working and earning good salary like 250k and above, she will never date or marry a guy earning below 300k monthly, that will be a big taboo for her. She considers men only based on how much money they have and not how handsome they look.

Go to US, UK. Canada, etc, Nigerian guys living there will abandon all the sweet looking chicks there and go back to Nigeria to find a broke, poor girl to marry and spend on her to become slay queen and then take her to abroad to become a modern chick, but Nigerian ladies living abroad will rather remain single till death than come back to Nigeria to look for a guy to marry and when they eventually try to come to Nigeria to find husband, they only target rich guys and guys from rich family to date and possibly marry.

They dare not date or accept to date or marry a Nigerian guy living in Nigeria and struggling to stand financially, it is a taboo.

Also a Nigerian guy earning over 500k monthly will just meet one fine broke girl from poor family and start to date her and shower her with love and gifts, and even assist her family and the next thing, he marries her and turn her life around for good without considering that she was a poor girl, but our ladies will never do same if they are the ones that have the money, so Nigerian guys must wake up.

What is good for Paul is good for Peter.

Guys marry your class only!

Stop stooping too low to marry broke girls when you have made it financially. Apply Nigerian ladies wisdom of going after rich and successful ladies of your class too, guys wake up

Me I have made it a priority now never to date or marry below my class.

I cannot date any broke girl, never!

I cannot marry any lady that earns less than 250,000naira monthly.

Marry like Royal families; they marry to keep their royal dynasty stronger and richer not just for love based on physical beauty.

Before u marry her, please check her real financial value and worth. Will she help u grow financially or help u diminish The world is becoming more and more capitalist by the day, so to survive and to build a good future for your kids, think like a capitalist; consider financial worth of your would be wife or fiancé first before u say I do

Guys go for your class, we need to learn from our ladies to avoid regrets

Another irrelevant social media advice that will only confuse fools.
If you are old enough to marry, you would have understood why men generally go for "broke" or low-income
women. Even the OP clearly stated the reason in his post; "they are submissive".

What your advice bore down to is: "hey Nigerian men, stop marrying submissive women".
You now see why your advice won't work?

SAMBARRY:
did you read what you typed at all? She was complicit in her lovers murder? A man she intended to marry, she was part of his death? For money or what? Hiannn


How could she collaborate with the guy she said no to to kill her new lover?does that make sense to you?
Wonders

No Nigerian court will ever sentence a suspect to death based on her story.
Even murderers caught in the act sometimes escape the death penalty.
I am quite certain there was solid evidence against her.

2packer:
Doctors in the house should tel us how extensive they have researched and the possibility of the claim in the quoted video above

Don't fall for propaganda, those people have a hidden agenda.

AntiWailer:
Werey Rey ooo

Stop quoting that attention seeker.
He is encouraged by all the mentions he gets.

harkandey:
with you my brother in crime

I am not related to criminals or their sympathizers.

harkandey:
kidnappers don't usually kill after ransom paid. there must be something behind this story.

Criminal, you will soon be caught.

It's staged.

Demmzy15:
So being secular gives you the right to dress naked and offend your neighbors? Yoruba Christians won't kill me o

I am not a christian.
She went to a public function, if the organizer don't want her, she should have been sent away.

Nyerhovwo101:
save ur self from d ashawo work first before God can save u

beamtopola:
Omo, i just saw the dp and i m like Amen

He is a man probably looking for who to defraud.

Richdad50:
The Country's biggest problem is 'Rural Nigeria'. Their gullibility is astonishing but i do not blame them in totality. I blame our leaders who deemed it fit not to educate them so as to gain and retain control.

Do you have evidence that "Rural Nigeria" vote differently from the cities?

AbdulCLO:
I am shocked that some of the Christians here are supporting what this lady wear. If i may ask is this such of dressing allowed among the Christians? Egypt is predominantly a Muslim country and they have rules and regulations so do you think American lady will come to the country and go to the market wearing Bra and pant? If you are in Rome behave like the Romans and at 40 is this the right dressing to set examples to the young ones? Please leave religion out of it what is wrong is wrong and what is right is right.

At bold, that is because of secularity.
There should be a difference between faith and the laws of a country.

wis3:
It's actually the other way round. She's the one objectifying herself and you don't see anything wrong with it.this was not the norm a few decades back.

If she is objectifying herself, how is it your business?

ifyalways:
Employed by the grandmother, where are the parents?

Now,they will vomit that money they are chasing from every hole on their bodies and still pray they get back their tod's in one piece.

Making babies is not making bread. Plan and create time.before popping children. Its high time parents are held accountable abeg. Im so pained to.think of the pain and trauma the tods are going through now and frankly dont give a toss about the parents.

I pray for the childrens sake, they are found soon and in one piece. Same way i look at parents looking for nannies for their tods online, in this very Nigeria?. Unserious, irresponsible parents everywhere.

Stop being insensitive, not family can have a housewife.
Lots of children are raised with the help of house helps and they turn out fine.
There are more happy ending nanny stories out there which will never make the
news because bad news spread faster.
Most couple I know have had 1 or more nannies for several years and there
has been no incident.
The criminal nanny is to blame.

To those who would hire house helps in the future.
Never hire a foreigner or a stranger.

Chiefjosy:
Shut up weak ass mofo. Pussy nigga

If only your father used a condom?
We won't be dealing with your foolishness.
Get this into your empty skull, I don't engage kids, go play with your mates.

nero2face:
Nigeria girls won't learn a lesson, even as we're reading this on NL, some of them are dressing up to go hook up with a rich stranger...they made themselves victims to devilish people

Don't blame the victim!
You don't even know her story.