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For all we know, the women are currently fighting.

Yes. That is why we want snail baba to leave the scene for a vibrant and visionary candidate who can make an impact within 4 years.

Buhari's boy on rampage.
Buhari and Idris are busy hunting Saraki and Dino while the herdsmen are allowed to kill freely.

This is a joke taken too far. Idris needs to change his script, it didn't work for Sheu Sani and Dino it surely won't work for Saraki.

Anigreat:



This boy is the source of Otedola wealth.

If you know you know

But but just know that Cuppy father is heartless.

Who is the source of your poverty?

openmine:
Its imperative that you read before commenting.....no pun intended!

Go through the Op's post and other subsequent posts,you will notice that she has been the one trying to control and manipulate him.....

He is the one trying to withold an adult's right to travel.

Aside the said lady's trip to abuja which op objected due to the fact that she wasn't convincing enough,I don't see any place in his post where he was domineering or controlling....

And besides,is it wrong to ask a loved one where he or she is travelling to esp if it might be to the person's detriment?

It is good to ask your kid where they are going because you know better but never try that with an adult, at least not one whose livelihood doesn't depend on following your orders. She doesn't have to convince him or any other person. I have no problem with him breaking up with her, his life his decisions. It is just the way he sounded like someone who just discovered a nobel winning invention and his poor attempt at blaming her and single mothers for the decision he took.

In fact Op stated clearly that there were trips he wanted to make but was stopped by the same lady....or didn't you see where he stated that part?

As for my post bro/sis,I was only relating my own experience to OP's post which is very true about "domineering" ladies!

His first post clearly stated her major "flaws", which is that she travelled when he ordered her not to and she refused to give him her family members number. Every other thing was an afterthought.

It is one thing to say that he broke up with her because she is domineering, but entirely different thing to try to make the other party look bad because they allegedly sinned in the past. Is it so hard for the OP to tell the lady that she can't stop him from traveling?

I believe one can breakup for any reason even made up ones but one must also take responsibility for such decisions. Nobody was made to satisfy another person, if you don't like someone, move on, no whining, no generalisation, no victimising or sympathy-seeking.

PearlStreet:
Single mothers and some pussy-niggers with a warped sense of reasoning.

Another jobless one who thinks throwing around meaningless words make him special.

CorGier:
Cecy, no point going all hypothetical.

Her purpose for travelling wasn't for business, OP stated clearly that she was on leave with the lame excuse of wanting to go "relax" someplace else.

In my experience with the "present day woman," if she feels the need to pick a fight just so she could wriggle out her way and leave town, then there can only be one motivating factor;
And that's the presence of one big, black, pulsing and venated cõck somewhere, she's creaming her panties for.
She came back way more relaxed, that's for sure.

Oh, she might be cheating. How is that a news? Isn't it foolish trying to control a cheating partner when you can just dump them?

openmine:
Initially,very nice,welcoming and humble....after some months,they start trying to figure out how to control or dominate you with some little stuffs.....When they don't succeed with that approach maybe due to your stance,they get emotionally defeated and use the weapon of manipulation just to make them look like the victim or that you don't really love them enough....

Did I read a different story? It is the OP that is dominating the lady, you don't blame someone because you can't control them.

gameboy55:
He needed no validation, he only gives advise to others to be watchful, this proves u dnt even read the article before commenting #Nigerians don't read

There is no sensible advice in what he wrote.

"If your single mother fiancee disagrees with you on petty issues or she is not in good terms with her siblings, break up with her"
I see no link between been a single mother and the "advice" in his writeup. You could offer the same bad advice for a relationship
with any other other woman. If you don't want disagreement, staying single is your best bet, there is no way around it.


He took a decision where he was clearly in the wrong but he needs the online brotherhood to validate his feelings.

Moses - The tribalist who murdered another man.

Abraham - The man who wanted to slaughter his son because of the voices in his head.

Noah - The father of incest.

Elijah - The psychopathic pessimist

Daniel - Nothing inspirational about living in delusion

David - The adulterous murderer

Job - the unfortunate lab rat.

Shadrach .. .. - Bunch of not so smart fellows.

Paul - The deceiver who lies for a living.

Jesus - Saying the wrong things cost him his life.


Taking after any of these men will turn you into a cold-blooded evil person or cause you untimely death.

KevinDein:
Yeah, I know this tactics. Trying to manipulate the op into thinking he's the problem...even though this is a woman who clearly stated she wants a man who can take all her bullshhiit but she can't take any bullshhitt from anyone (very clear that she's a hypocrite, selfish and self centered, can't take what she dishes). This is also someone who doesn't even get along with her siblings because as far as she is concerned it's her way or the highway.

Good luck to the loser who would be manipulated into marrying her, the op though dodged a bullet.

Their is no tactics here, the op is the complainant! He needed validation to show that he is making the right decision.

Netanyahu1:
I have come to realize that 80% of all single mothers have one of two problems. Its either that they are totally dull about everything in life to the extent that no man is interested in managing their intellectual deficiency, or they are outrightly wayward to the extent that no man wants to be a party to their stupid ideology about what a marital union should look like.

Pulling statistics out of your ass?
Dull girls are hardly single because they are usually the "submissive" type which insecure men love to control.
So are "wayward" girls who keep several boyfriends, they are never left behind.
When you find a single lady with a child, she is the "cool" type who wouldn't get an abortion like the warward ones
and they are usually the long time lovers who stay loyal in a relationship while their partner play around freely.

@1x2x3
You are a control freak who thinks he is doing the woman a favor. Your future wife is in for a rough ride with your dictatorial tendency.
It won't matter if you marry a 15 or 18 year old, mumu doesn't last forever.

Liar

Pipedreams:
Weak ass man. You wan kpai over woman wey no send your sorry ass? Men need to be polygamists like our forefathers. If wife 2 fxcks up, you switch to wife 7 for more love. Akamu

Maybe love has different meaning to you.

EVILFOREST:
I am part of the LUCKY ONES, I must say.
May be overseas mentality affected her as well, because they really know how to show LOVE.

Overseas mentality?
You are just lucky and I believe you are very tolerant.
Overseas mentality promotes independent mind in women which most African men will find repulsive.

UBGG:
She wasn't without a job and if she had decided to end it, she would not have been missed.

That she was accepted back shows that she was missed. Nobody accept back a bad options unless they can't get over with.

UBGG:
Every time I read of men like you, I appreciate the men in the family.

Now, here's what my brother did when his wife tried to be yours with him. He came home one day with a carpenter, asked him to change the locks and threw the wife out. He let her stay with her family for a year before he took her back.

It's been 7yrs, 2 kids and a woman who knows not to try to be a b!tch with him.

I honestly don't get weak man. I don't. Na wa!!

If the wife was not a jobless weakling, that would have been the end of that marriage.

The topic of this post shows that you are 100% responsible for your family problems. Whenever a person blame others for a matter that is joint responsibility, I know they are the major culprit.
Since you didn't share any specific detail I believe from the onset you were trying to fight their potential influence but you lost out and now claiming victim.
If your wife's parent are not jobless, there is no way they would spend all their time trying to influence your marriage, they
have their own life to live. And if they are both jobless, it is your fault that you married from such a family.

No, a parent advising their daughter is none of your business even though you are the husband.
You don't expect your wife to cut out her parents from her life because she is now married.

The way forward is to ask yourself what you really want, maybe it is absolute control or being contented and not worrying about frivolous issues.
If it is the former you want, you need another wife, preferably one without a family who would be at your beck and call.

A couple's problem begin the day they think they are going into marriage to fight some imaginary enemies. With such mindset,
enemies will keep showing up.

MrMcJay:
Unfortunately, no amount of lengthy write ups can justify a Mobile Policeman posted to a bank in Lagos shooting a rifle in Ekiti and claiming it's accidental discharge.

Did he get to Ekiti accidentally too?

Policemen do get "illegally" reassigned by their superior to protect politicians.
Unless he is on a suicide mission, the assassination story don't just hold water.

Metuh:
UK is really mad sha. And this is just because ONE spy was poisoned o.

The British knows what they are doing, they are very smart people.

How do they know he is fake?

Accidental discharge.

KenOne:
Are you sure a lot was said about Obaseki and Rotimi Akeredolu losing Edo and Ondo. Not forgetting Anambra how we were told Peter Obi candidate will defeat Obiano only for PDP to even come distant 3rd behind APC that we were told Easterners hate so much.

None of the example you cited has Fayose in the picture.

Babyforever:
Bob's hair are actually expensive his cream's business is bumming for him to spend such amount of money on his hair alone

Toyin wants to use Nina to sell her market glad she's doing it the right way

He makes money from prostitution not cream business.

henrixx:
Cristiano penaldos

I know you are still grieving. Accept my sympathy

Ogbanje spirit at work

Fake news.

She is suffering from dementia or part of a criminal gang.

Dumb husband and wife.

This is a criminal case, someone call the NPF.