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My brother was killed by sars and feminist.co gave my family money. Fùck the Islamic cleric

Most Nigerian men are bloody rapists

Like father like son.

abike12:
I don't know why empty heads are going on about feminists in the comments. This is solid advise based on the 4 minute clip (I can't speak for the full sermon). It addresses the needs of both parties and most marriages can benefit from what she has said. So what has feminism got to do with respect?

The shìthead e-rats need their ego massaged...

Juliearth:
Not that I am a feminist, but most "boys" here do not understand what true feminism entails.

Most BOYS here are nothing but e-rats, gambling addicts with no sense of purpose in life, so anything to massage their ego such as bashing women is their point of call.

DARLINGTON869:
Feminists reacting to this thread

T.O.Darling

I'm a core feminist and everything on this post is absolutely true!

Respect your husband. Every human being deserves to be respected.

"Don't marry a man you cannot respect"....

That's the real deal. True talk!

Respect your husband but first of all marry a respectable man!

FBS:
Laughing in Greek.
You wey no get anything already day dreaming of chefs.
Better face your work and don't allow hunger finish you.

Chef ko, bread ni.

Lol.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Hell no

Don't let anybody deceive you...
Even if it is a low budget asss Moda fuckkking house still that money is not going to be enough
By the time you start buying bag of cements, steel rod, three quarter granite, budding, wood work of about your choice of feet
Aluminium be it long span or step tiles or even metcopo

You spoken the truth.

FBS:
Potential billionaire?
You can starve all you want. Ain't no one stopping you.

With all the cooks and chefs at my disposal?


Get rid of the poverty mentality.

Kennedyiheme02:
there are beggers and homeless people in boston

No MIT student is amongst them.

FBS:
Speak for yourself. You are not everyone. To each his own.

I spoke for myself. You people can choose fried rice and egusi soup over a potential world renowned billionaire if you're ever lucky enough to have the options

seunmsg:
It is too early to restart international flights. The virus is still spreading like wildfire in US, Brazil and some European countries. The numbers of people getting infected daily in the country is gradually going down and we need to sustain the gain. Opening the country up for easy coming in and going out may lead to a new wave of infections. The presidential task force should please be guided.

They should take hydroxicholroquine!

We here in Nigeria take so my malaria meds that most people cannot contract the virus and most of those who test positive are asymptomatic.

Open up everywhere, we are covered.

Then the two evils called poverty and illiteracy meet

I no longer go to market because of stupìd idiot male market traders tbat harass women by touching and grabbing our arms.

I nearly slapped a guy who's fingers were almost in my armpit.

I don't know why this nonsense is allowed to go on

Anigreat:
What baffles me is that most of you ladies do not see the ill treatment she meted to my niece.

what if my niece have collapse and die too with the knock she gave her?

Just thank God you are in Nigeria. Cos by now you'll be in jail. If someone hits your child which is completely wrong, still that is not enough reason to commit grievous bodily harm in retaliation! You don't have such right!

I hope she gets well soon and walks away from you. Even your niece is not safe around you. You've introduced violence to her and tomorrow when she starts dating or gets married, she'll feel its normal for her boyfriend or husband to beat her up mercilessly over trival issues. Yes the slap she gave her was wrong but it didn't cause injury nor is it possible to press charges over, therefore its trivial.

You're a young boy I'm sure. Even though I don't know you I can tell I'm much older than you. My first born is 24 so I'm not a baby.

Take my advice and learn from this, nothing is worth your peace of mind and freedom... if you have a bad woman in your life dump her and move on without ever laying your hand on her. You may not be this lucky next time you allow anger cloud your thinking. A word is enough for the wise.

Abasman008:
depends on the way I knock her...a slap might land me in the hospital you never can tell..

Read his post, he didn't just slap her. He said he beat her up mercilessly. That means he hit her repeatedly with the intent to cause grievous bodily harm! Thats a crime!

Angelfrost:
I'm actually far more objective than you are...

If there's nothing to show that a man proposing while standing will be a good husband, it equally goes that adoption of a kneeling posture guarantees neither...

There's absolutely no correlation between a man's posture during proposal and how good a husband he would be in the union!!! Kneeling and standing are postures that can be adopted by anyone whether good, bad or ugly...

Be a good man, propose to your woman and treat her well... Kneeling or standing upright is quite secondary and mundane to the point. Judging a man based on his posture during engagement is not only myopic but laughable!!!

This is my stand!!! This is as objective as it gets!!! Thank you.

You judge the woman's decision and not his...

My stance is they both have ego issues. I just like tge fact tgat she knows what she wants. I also like that he stayed true to his belief.

I hope your stance will be same if a woman refuses to kneel during traditional marriage?

lefulefu:
true..she no like the guy b4 .she just use this as excuse

Yet she was with him for 5years?

DamnNiggar:
She's a big fool

Nope. She knows what she wants. She's not desperate.

Thank God he did not kneel

Thank God she rejected him.

They'll both find their their match.

Abasman008:
if I knock your daughter.. I hope you will remember that it's just a knock and leave me? Mumu

I'll defend my child but I wont land anyone in the hospital. Especially if am a man against a woman!

Angelfrost:
Good luck to both of them... A wise lady would know that it's better to have a loving man sincerely and honestly propose standing upright than a cheating fraud kneel or genuflect in proposal with no intention of ever treating her right...

Kneeling or bowing doesn't show true love. Any con artist can kneel to get what he wants.

Stay objective to the post. Don't derail.

There's nothing to show that a man standing to propose is automatically loyal and won't cheat.

FuckThaMod:
Una no go use small data watch 30sec video and yet una go dey comment rubbish.. She accepted him wholeheartedly

I watched the full video on Instagram. She rejected him and walked away while he and gis friends were begging her..

bomsilaga:
Women are women's worse enemies.
Inasmuchas i dont encourage the cohabiting and beating, i want to say that you need to give your girl a second change and talk sense into your niece.
Consider the following:
1 Any woman you bring in will have same problem because you already set a bad precedence before your niece.
2 She might not even believe that's your niece in the first place
3 Your mother would have schooled the niece before getting to your house
4 Your niece might have eyed your girl codedly
5 Your girl felt threatened because she loves you since you didnt mention she had shown evil tendencies before
6 She knocking your niece's head was your best opportunity to send her away maturely
7 Family members are manipulative.
You should have sent your girl packing a day before your niece arrived and invited her later but gradually making her spend the night. You are not a good example for the girl child.

BTW if you see the way my daughter screams when my wife, her biological mother tries to beat her ehn, you will rethink your decisions.

Give who a second chance? So that he will kill her abi? Let them gk their separate ways. If she goes back to him after this he will kill her.

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

Just thank God you are in Nigeria. If not you'd be in jail by now. You yourself are just as bad or even worse thsn your girlfriend...

You are happy to say that you beat up someons daughter to the point of bleeding as retaliation for a knock? Shame on you! You could have simply asked her to leave!!!

Serginho:
Meanwhile, one senseless bingo thinks anyone was gonno beg her to come back.. � �

They actually begged her to come back. She refused.

Its good he didn't kneel.

It's also good she rejected him.

They'll both find their match

Thank God he did not kneel

Thank God she rejected him.

They both want different things.

He will find a girl that is ok with her man not being able to kneel for a woman.

She too will find a man that will kneel for her.

JAMO84:
I don't get it; Igbo are trying to blackmail APC to give them the presidency, after voting for PDP since 1999! Can you work for UBA and receive salary from Zenith bank?



I AM DONE TALKING

Aren't their Igbos in apc?

Kennedyiheme02:
a woman who is normal without any disability who can't cook and is proud of it is useless and should be spat on

Shes in Boston, go look for her and spit on her face.

FBS:
Nothing is automatic, nothing is perfect which is my point. Just as knowing how to cook is awesome. There could never be nothing wrong with that in 2020, 2030, 2050 or 5045! We all eat. If there are certain things that you can do to make your home better, how is that a bad thing?

Culture is dynamic but it is complex.

If you meet a young girl that is honest, hard working, PRODUCTIVE I mean earns a good living or has such obvious potential beautiful and reserved but cant cook don't marry her she's not good enough for you sir.

Me that knows who to cook, how many times a year do I cook when I have cooks? The little time I have to spend with my family when I'm not working, I refuse to spend it in the kitchen. My husband will revolt sef "now that we are both home lets attend to each other, allow employees do their job " .... thats my man's slogan. I'm grateful to God for that!

My point cooking as a skill for me is not necessary.

Kennedyiheme02:
lol you seem to think a man and a womans path are the same in life... she's only usefull to her company, they'll use here till here ovaries become useless... then we'll see how fr the MiT helps her lol.. who gives a Bleep about MIT... big chicks i know work from home, owning online stores, selling items online without having to own any inventory, and even making millions every single month, i know this cos I'm in that industry, they also get to spend enormous time with thier family.... lol but your freind has probably spent all her life learning and reading books all to get used by coperate industries, will spend 15hours at the office building another mans dream while her ovaries become useless... you're as stupid as she is... guy rest I've called out your foolishness

EDUCATE YOURSELF! THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR IGNORANCE.