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Op u are your own problem. Being a husband/head of the house does not mean dishing out orders.

Leadership is the ability to successfully manage your family peacefully through dialogue.

U better stop being a dictator and learn how to dialogue with your wife. If u divorce her your next marriage will be worse. You say she's disrespectful but even her messages shows her loyalty to u.

SifonAbasi:
When I met my husband my ex was oversea. He came back after my wedding so nothing like double dating. To my knowlege, he doesn't have a fiacee yet. He's not in a relationship.

It's either both guys are fùcking each other and want u to join in or your husband is a freak that gets a thrill from another man fùcking his wife.

Yes, such men exist.

But be careful o!

Your husband is fully aware you are or about to be fùcking your ex and he likes it

COWBOYFAN:
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen

I just had a traditional wedding earlier this month. I'm not based in Nigeria. I provided all the finances for the wedding before I arrived Lagos. Everything listed to be bought for the wedding I provided all. To my surprise wedding that was suppose to take place in a hall had to take place in a cramped sitting room. No food, no drinks, no DJ etc. What did they use the funds for? I don't know. I asked questions and no answers given. To be fair to her family members, I didn't give money directly to her parents or siblings. I gave the funds to my wife to be.

Surprisingly on the day of the small wedding, her uncle was accusing me of not providing money to organize the wedding properly. My heart sank. I look in the direction of my wife to be and couldn't believe what just came out of her uncle's mouth. Whereas I provided money for everything. The wedding prayers went ahead and we were joined together.

After the dry wedding ceremony I began to ask questions but my new wife couldn't give me explanation. Fast forward to last week I was looking for money I kept in my drawer and couldn't find it. I decided to just keep quiet and watch. I set another trap. I had some US Dollars in my wallet and exposed the money for her to see. I went to the shower and lo and behold my new wife removed the dollars from my wallet. I got dressed after shower and we went outside to go somewhere together as my driver was in the car waiting. As we were going, I opened my wallet and saw the dollars gone. I blew a whistle right there and she denied it. I asked driver to return home. I had my parent and siblings at home on that day but I can bet my life on them. I told them what's going on. My new wife was all over the place and shaken. I refused to talk to her. I confided in my mother and explained how I set the trap for my wife. Surprisingly my wife started making moves. She planted the money all over the place which I saw as she was doing. I pretended I didn't see her. I refused to talk to her. All of a sudden she confronted me and attacked me that I suspected her to be the one who stole my money. She started saying she stoop so low to allow herself to be ridiculed in the presence of my family. I confronted her with evidence and she began crying and blaming devil. She has done series of money infractions that I couldn't list here. She fights me for money on daily basis since we got married. No money ever enough.

This is a woman that I gave a car to already and spent so much on to be comfortable. I just bought her another car to be given to her on her birthday. On the day she stole the dollars I had just given her 100,000 naira pocket money for the week. She's been crying and begging for two days saying it won't happen again. She has refused to eat.

Here is the bombshell I just confirmed she's now three weeks pregnant. I can't trust my life with her at this juncture. I'm leaning towards divorce. I'm too scared to be with her. She's too greedy.

Run forest run!!!

But take care of your child.

You guys did not date I'm sure, she's indeed greedy and does not love you one bit.

Divorce her immediately because it will only get worse!

Fatoyionbo is nothing but a child rapist!

Op it's like u have a small dick, if not why are u bothered?

They might use the future generation as bondmen (slaves) to pay back these loans.

donstan18:
A man who married a virgin don't have any business with such fvckery.


Marry a virgin and watch your marriage go smoothly without stress.

So u think just because she does not have sexual experience she won't know she's not satisfied?

Rubbish! Weather u marry virgin or not if u can't fùck your wife will cheat!
Especially the ones that married as virgins, if she's not getting the satisfaction her body craves!

What nonsense is that? If it's the wife who can't satisfy him won't he cheat?

Instead of him to be happy that she's found away to be happy and remain married to him.

cassidy1996:
na your toto go suffer am

Na your mother toto suffer pass!

cassidy1996:
all these girls wey dey naked up and down

Shut up

Mikelarteta:
Madam sincerely if you look that one from both the male and female aspect, 98% of marriage will not stand. Am not supporting cheating but the bitter truth is that we need to learn how to live with it but honestly, play safe if you must play away match.

Hope u will also live with your cheating wife after she brings home stds

Let's watch and see

Elrufia will never be president, NEVER!

Another northern will take over from buhari but not elrufia

hisexcellency34:
Why has Tinubu been silent over this important matter?

Because he is licking buhari's aśs to be president. And we all know that won't happen

wirinet:
It was only hope that was able to present evidence that he got 236,000 votes from 318 polling units.


The onus lies on Ihedioha to present evidence that he got votes from the 236,000 polling units. You cannot expect hope uzodinma or the supreme Court justices to do that for him.

The problem was the admissibility of the evidence uzodinma presented. The lower courts dismissed the evidence, while the supreme Court admitted it. One the evidence was admitted, ihedioha has lost.

Is it Uzordima that should produce such evidence or inec? If one can present his own election results and win why didn't the sc declare Atiku? Because Atiku presented his own version on election results with electronic evidence to back up, while buhari simply asked the case to be struck out for lack of merit. Buhari never presented election results!

Minjim:
Here is a better picture

Was it only hope that got votes from 318 polling units? How did inec over look 236,000 votes?

Abeg leave this lie joor

Lol. Nothing. Before it took 10-13 years to file for a sibling. Now with trump it's near impossible

NwaAmaikpe:




I am proud of him and I hope he does not feel bad about this.

He has the money,
He has the fame,
He has the looks,
He has the charisma,
He has the achievements,
He has the preek

He'd only be a fool to shortchange himself by sticking to one lady when he should use all his spare time in getting his preek wet.
The worst that will happen is that she will leave and another will happily come.
In fact, he should dump the two of them.

These ladies are not loyal.
They're down with you when you're up,
And the relationship is up once you're down.
Then you'd chase after them like a lost puppy while they make you feel guilty for making it fail.

Being broke amplifies your flaws but a rich man is loved and God-sent to them.
Ask Venita or ask Regina.

By default, the most subtle of women is a self-centered schemer.
So you think you're playing her when she actually designed the game plan for you.

Even your own wife who complains that you spend too much time hanging out with your male buddies in your youthful days won't give a shiiit about you when she goes spending months on end doing 'omugwo' at the kids' when you two are aged and your game is up.

Enjoy life now my brothers.
But enjoy it safely.
If you wanna go raw, just ensure you don't let a dumb girl get pregnant for you.

God bless Ubunja with more wisdom so that his miseducations will further free more fvckboy, toycvnt husbands who think the only reason God created them is to lick female butt.
If only they knew they'd have more butts to play with if they never licked one.

Men have been the victim all along, these crafty women are the victors.
They make you feel guilty for wanting more yansh when they won't think twice to spread their legs for anyone who can give them attention, give them money or tell them what they want to hear.

Lacazette please don't allow yourself be at the mercy of a woman because the only thing she can offer to you can be offered to you by thousand others.

Analysis of a boy...

Wayo! She didn't catch it. Her sister gave it to her

I wish her a good husband shaa, she really wants to get married

Prosterity will judge u well. Far better than buhari

CSTR2:
I read it.

The parents were extreme, true.
And they deserved to be punished.

But if their pikin dey hear word, all dis won't have happen.

She got pregnant for Christ sakes. A young girl.

She fell in love with the whom her parents judged as wrong. Her pregnancy was as a last resort to be with the man she's loves... If not she could have aborted it.
Besides the baby is 4months old so u can't say she was beaten because she got pregnant.

She was killed simply because her parents don't want their daughter to be with a Yoruba Muslim

CSTR2:
There were disappointed probably. Small girl wey carry belle.

They didn't know when they finally beat her to death.

Igbo girls no dey hear word. Waka Waka everywhere.

Now she has put her parents in trouble.
And they may be good people who just got annoyed and the devil used it .

U didn't read the article.

Chai

I can feel her pain, her only crime was young love :'

I talk am

Canada should retaliate

What type of stupid mistake is that?

MycroftHolmes:
Timely and expected attack from Iran.

Trump made them look like cowards, and this retaliation (even if much damage wasn't done), would help save their face a bit.

With this attack, Iranians feel they've been avenged of their murdered General, and the US doesn't lose much either. More like a win-win for everyone.

The matter has died, finally

Not a single American or national of their allies was kill ed and u call this revenge?
The day Osama bin Laden was captured, US soldiers blew up a perfectly work ing US military chopper worth $65millon dollars because the battery ran down...
The damage Iran did to the EMPTY military base is nothing. Moreover more sanctions from Washington!
So Iran needs to shut up and stop aiding terrorists!

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Always read to understand okay?

She knew he had a wife and a kid. And yet she got pregnant... That's my question

Whether she wants to have sex everyday with him for the rest of her life is not my business. [/color]

And he didn't know he had a wife and kid? Does she owe his wife anything?
Why did he choose to impregnate another woman?

izzou:
[color=royalblue]But sincerely, why do ladies do this?

You see a male celebrity. You know he has a wife or he has numerous kids, yet you open your legs for him, get pregnant and live with the stress of babymamaship for a long part of your life.

Why? [/color]

I don't understand, why u blame the woman only? Did she impregnate herself? Did olamide not know that unprotected sex will lead to pregnancy? How is it her fault soley?

That's why I like the US no judge gives a shit whether or not you are married to another person or whether the baby was planned or not, or whether u gave money for abortion, once DNA confirm you're the father, u pay child support! No questions

Stevecovey:
Money.

What of The okada man on my street with 7kids from 6women?

A man good with is tongue does not need money to woo a woman, it's only an added advantage.

The simple reason for this us That women tend to believe lies and fall for a lying tongue. If married men lie for you eh, u go know say devil dey learn work!

nototribalist:
Wetin we do na?

Why will everything Islamabad affect Nigeria, are we now a moslem country?

The thing tire me