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antysocial:
Hi everyone, I just recently graduated from school and awaiting Nysc. I just got a pre-nysc job which promises to extend to when I start my Nysc. Although I lobe everything about the job but the pay is #25000. Do you think this is a good pay for an Nysc intern?. Also comsider the fact that transport will be abt 10k monthly, so my net income will be about 15k. What do u think? , should I ask for an upgrade or I should not accept the job.
Thanks Guys

Not a bad offer, You are lucky you are getting such. We all start from somewhere.

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Baba, here is my picture.

puccyforker:
you mean concoction and poisoned barbecue
the guy is yet to clear his name on the deep accusations against him on one thread like that in politics section

I'll try to look for that thread so you'll see for yourself

This guy you are wicked o

puccyforker:
you mean that barbecue guy that poisoned someone according to one lady on politics abi crime section

Oh! Don't do them like that

GrammarNazi1:
...she doesn't...

Oh God! Lol . This guy again? Bikonu

hopefulLandlord:
are you saying the Nigerian players didn't work at all?

What useless work?

ikorodureporta:
Whats the role of prayer here? Didnt the Saudis, & Egyptians prayed?


As posted online:




https://www.instagram.com/p/BkDs9I_Fc_D/?hl=en

Faith without works is... Complete it sir

adidison:
Name 2 or 3 talent on Iceland or Iran please! I'll wait

Those teams played like a team of fit players who have enough playing time in standard leagues.

Unlike our team where players sit on the bench in their respective clubs or play in below standard China.

Playing time in standard leagues (Turkey, France) is the key.

adidison:
When Nigeria won Olympics who was our coach? I don't care just get a G D good coach who understands football! This coach made too many mistakes ... Mikel Moses Iwobi and Ighalo were to high upfront ... left too much space in midfield when you don't have Kante ... against Modric and Rakitic (real and Barca) WTF was he thinking!?!?

There is only so much the coach can do! Not much talent in this team since 2013!

CSTR1003:
I am hoping for a Germany -spain rematch.

The 1-1 friendly they played the last time was the highest level of technical and tactical football I have ever seen in my life.
Much more advanced than today's game.

Today, Spain dominated Portugal but Ronaldo proved the difference.


Spain Against Germany, there were no truly dominant side during the match.

Both teams played like masters.

Then I missed the great friendly then. We can hope for that rematch bro. A fan of beautiful and quality football!

Walelavender:
Full time Portugal 3 Spain 3.
What an entertaining match!

Best game of this World Cup for me IMO! Quality football at its finest!

evanso6226:
Two wealthy Nigerian students battered a classmate with a shisha pipe as they rowed over whose dad was the richest.

https://www.clintgist.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/nigerian-politicans-sons-795x385.jpg

Elvis Ilonze, 20, who is so rich he had his Mercedes covered in fur, attacked childhood pal Prince Nnaji at their home in Brighton. Ilonze then chased his friend down along with Daniel Oluyemi, 24, as he tried to flee before beating him with a wine bottle.

They also attacked law student Chiedozie Dibiagwu, 23, who was sat on a chair nearby, and pushed Mr Nnaji's girlfriend Louanna Rayawa to the ground. Ilonze and Oluyemi were both spared jail today after admitting two counts of assault occasioning grievous bodily harm.

They were instead handed a one-year prison sentence, suspended for 18 months, at the Old Bailey following the attack on April 7 last year. .

The court was told Mr Nnaji and Ilonze had known each other from when they were in Nigeria but Ilonze decided to teach his pal a "lesson" after he said he had the richer father.

"Privileged" Ilonze came to the UK to study a four-year Masters of Engineering degree at The University of Sussex, and is one year away from completing his course.

His lawyer Tom Hoskins pleaded with the judge not to sentence him to more than one year in prison as he would face deportation. Oluyemi, who is training to become an accountant at the same university, is expecting a child later this year.

His barrister, Johnathan Page, said that the right place for him is at home, preparing for the "momentous occasion". The judge said: 'Unlike many of the people who pass through the courts you both come from, effectively, backgrounds of privilege.

It couldn't be more childish, effectively an insult on somebody's parents - who's got the richer dad - that started this fight. You both appear to be incredibly immature, perhaps as a result of being cosseted in your upbringing.'

SOURCE : http://www.clintgist.com/sons-nigerian-politicians-fight-whose-dad-richest/

Ayo n pa ni! These ones are definitely full smh

majella4:
A Port Harcourt based lady has taken to Facebook to call out a side chick who is dating her husband.According to her,the lady named Violet is destroying her marriage.Below is what she wrote and some of the screenshots from their conversations...


'Hello world,please I need mothers,wife's,women and men to tell violet brown to free my husband from her charms.what started like play has grown into another thing.My kids and I are not happy cause of her and her boyfriend that is my husband of 11 years'.


Source: http://usascholarshipfree..in/2018/05/port-harcourt-based-lady-fight-dirt.html?m=1

Violet Brown don snatch your husband already madam, you no see the weapons Violet Brown dey carry ni bikonu lol

Amagite:
A Zambian woman reportedly divorced her illiterate husband who sponsored her education, saying she is no longer interested in marrying an uneducated man.

Read the report from Zambian Accurates below...

A Mansa woman has divorced her husband after he sponsored her to school from Grade 9 to University. When asked by the court why she was divorcing her husband 'Vincent', Maria Tembo said she was no longer interested in marrying someone who was not educated, adding that her friends were laughing at her because the husband was illiterate.

The two got married in 1997 and have two children together. The man had to sell his house he built in 1995 in order to take back his wife to school. The wife started Grade 9 and went to university in the school of education. And after being employed, she decided to divorce her husband in favour of a man she met at university.

The court has since ordered the woman to pay her ex husband K10,000 for abandoning him after sacrificing for her for 10 years.

https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/05/woman-divorces-her-illiterate-husband-after-he-sponsored-her-education-to-university-level.html

These hoes ain't loyal smh

HigherEd:
By Chidinma Okeke


Tens of thousands of Nigerian students may spend extra year in specialized institutions after graduation to make them employable.
The Minister of State for Education, Prof. Anthony Anwukah, put forward the proposal at the ongoing Retreat for Governing Councils of Nigerian Federal Universities, organized by the National Universities Commission (NUC) with the theme, “Elements of Statutory Governance, Procurement and Financial Accounting in Nigerian Universities.”


He said the suggestion was being made because many university graduates were not good enough to be employed by industries.
“Law students attend Law School for one year before going for NYSC and medical students go for one year Houseman ship before they are allowed to practice fully, so it will be necessary for other courses to also go through this process,” Mr Anwukah said.
“The Lagos Business School can also serve as a one year after-school training,” he added.
“The universities are producing products that are not matching the needs of the industries. I urged the Committee of Pro-chancellors and Committee of Vice-Chancellor to end the decline in the standard of education,” he said.


“The SIWES projects introduced for a year industrial attachment for students has failed in the universities. It is not doing its role in bridging the gap between the universities and the industries,” he said.
He said that re-schooling would serve as a training ground for graduates to be well equipped on the rudiments of the course studied.
In his address, the Chairman of NUC board, Prof. Ayo Banjo, said the quality of Nigerian universities product failed due to poor quality research, saying, a graduate who cannot think properly is unworthy of the certification.


While calling for adequate funding to enable the universities fulfil its mandate, he said the presence of government subventions must be felt and visible in the Nigerian universities to meet and achieve excellence.
Prof Banjo, however urged the Nigerian varsities to open their doors to West African students to help them boost their revenue and also consider additional reform of the curriculum to help produce excellent graduates.


The Executive Secretary of NUC, Prof. Abubakar Rasheed said the fundamental problems facing the university system are poor leadership, general underperformance and inadequate teaching and learning environment.
He said the consequence of poor leadership had undermined the capacity of universities in achieving its mandate.
According to him, the NUC in collaboration with CPC and CVC decided to organise the retreat for the governing council of all 42 federal universities to provide solutions to the problems confronting the universities system.
He therefore urged participants to remain focus in the deliberations and better equip themselves with proper leadership to move the universities forward.


We’re trying to sell an idea - Prof Anwukah
Contacted by Daily Trust to throw more light on the proposal, the minister said: “We are trying to sell an idea, the proposal is to get into our university system the re-schooling concept, that is you finish your university degree may be add one more year as a finishing school project, I don’t know how it is going to sell ... but the idea has come as a result of the failure of SIWES system in the universities.


“We try to address the relationship between the universities, the industries and the graduates, how they can fit in and we introduced the SIWES project and it is not working and it is not providing that bridge between the industries because the most industries are unwilling to accept most students on the SIWES programme.


“We want to brainstorm and see whether we can add one additional year so that when a student finishes from the university he can now go out to industries for one year internship for that job. For instance, the law department had one extra year after the law programme they go to law school, doctors go for one additional year.


“Are we going to continue with the SIWESS experiment which is not working or we are going to brace up to introduce an additional year of re-school whereby you spend that one year in any industry.
For instance, the Lagos Business School can serve as one year learning experience for students in business, accountancy and others, the NTA school in Jos can handle that of journalists
Experts’ reaction


Professor of Developmental Education, University of Abuja, Prof Salisu Ingawa said that is not the solution and it may never work.
“Who is going to do it, it is capital intensive, how long will it take to come to practice? So all these graduates will be waiting till such institutions are set so that they can get employed,” he said.
He pointed out that the proposed Technology Village which has not been developed should have been able to address such challenge.


“That is why the industries are crying out that graduates of Nigeria are of no value to them because when they employ them they have to retrain them at a very high cost.
He noted that the synergy between the producers of manpower and the end users is not there, saying, “even if they send them for that one year, who will make the input of the content of what these graduates will be doing in the institutions or whatever he calls it, and who is going to pay for the services there, is it the employer?”
According to him, over 50 per cent of the graduates are employed by the public sector, adding that it.


“It should be the smallest sector, ie the private sector is the largest employer but in Nigeria the private sector is narrowing by the day because the ease of doing business in Nigeria is very difficult.”
He however said the immediate solution is partnership with the industries which is the end user.
He called for review of curriculum of universities because knowledge is dynamic and changing by seconds.


A professor of communication at Bayero University Kano, (BUK) Prof Umaru Pate said it might be difficult but that, it is ideal but the implementation is going to be problematic.
Prof Pate said the industries to absolve the graduate when they come may not be readily available and that could mean that the candidates would have to line up for them to be absolved.


He said: “The availability of the supervisors to be taken to the industries is yet another issue and who will pay for their participation in the system because right now some SIWES that some of the departments participate in are experiencing some challenges or do you expect the students to also raise the money or the government to start another NYSC, so the issue of finance is a problem."


On the solution , he said one probable way of doing it is to encourage the various departments especially those professionally inclined to strengthen their industrial attachment and that could mean separating the attachment maybe from 100 level to say 300 level to spend three months in the industry and the rest of the period in the school.
The Dean, Faculty of Environmental Sciences, Nasarawa State University, Keffi, Prof Nasiru Idris said the proposal is not something new.


“You may wish to know that, already Environmental courses, engineering courses, medical courses are all running five year programmes and also, all courses in the Universities of Technology in Nigeria are 5 years programmes and the reason for this is to compliment theories with practice,” he said.
“In developed countries, degree programs are 3 years and they produce the best with no even the so called industrial attachment. Furthermore, government should declare state of emergency in the education sector.” he added.


https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/amplite/minister-wants-one-year-reschooling-for-graduates.html

Extra year for what nonexistent jobs? These people son play penalty go throwin, den dey sleep on okada sef!

Faithway10:
Coming after she was dragged for allegedly shading BamBam for posting a photo of her son and wishing him a happy birthday on Instagram, Teddy A's baby mama, Layla Amani has said she has nothing but love for Teddy A and BamBam.

She tweeted; "I have nothing but love for bam & Teddy so I don’t have time to argue with useless ppl"

She also made it clear to those who think she's still with Teddy A, according to her, they broke up many years ago...

https://www.amagitesblog.com/2018/05/i-have-nothing-but-love-for-bambam-teddy-teddy-as-baby-mama.html

Teddy A the bad boy showing you social proof in action! The two women are cool with him o, no competition, no jealousy bikonu smh

goldcrossxx:
Greetings All,

To all that followed and commented on the thread created by “amaraokafor”, i decided to create a new thread for this as per the advice of a Nairalander. The below is the thread link and also my response.

https://www.nairaland.com/4484675/should-continue-wait-date-another#67236204

I have been following this thread on proxy and never wanted to comment because, i don’t believe in seeking emotional advise from a Public forum due to the fact that many advisers may be underage, inexperienced and would advise you based on what they have read from one party.

The young lady in question comes from a family of 2 girls and 4 boys of which she’s the 1st daughter and the 2nd is as well single. The relationship is also not 3 yrs as she indicated but was suppose to be exactly 2 yrs on the 1st of May.

A new relationship is always very sweet but the challenges that will follow is what matters most because relationship itself is filled with uncertainties just the same way as life. The way a relationship is handled is what justifies what the outcome would be.

The lady in question is nice and as humans, we all have our flaws. Yes, i am a very quiet and reserved person that hardly go out so it’s safe to say that i am an introvert while she’s not that type. I won’t completely analyze everything and what caused it but i will try within my capacity to disclose some so that those that gave their one sided advise can rethink again.

I am not a married man, as a matter of principle and respect to whoever i am involved with, i don’t double date. My problem with the lady in question was bourne out of the fact that she was disrespectful to me several times, domineering, unstable in the relationship and sometimes blackmail me to achieve her desires and a lot more. Those were what caused our problems from the first few months of my involvement with her. Several reasons may have prompted her actions but i don’t see it as being enough for someone you genuinely love.

I told her from the 1st 3 months of knowing her that marriage is what i want and she agreed accordingly. She met with my family, i met with the parents and made my intentions known to them in less than a year of relationship commencement. In fact if not for the financial challenge due to wrong projection of business dealings, marriage would have happened 2 or 3 months after.

Before i met with her family, she ended the relationship twice and threatened that she will proceed with the next man available that love is not a criteria for her in marriage. After i met with her parents, she did same to the extent of giving me a deadline that if i don’t fulfill her rites, i should go my way which she executed her threats. I will be begging for her not to leave, the mother will beg, the father will also talk to calm her down, people from my side sef the same thing. I HAVE NEVER ENDED MY RELATIONSHIP WITH HER even when i had reasons to have done so but she has done so numerous times.

I later spoke with the Dad and told him that immediately finances arrive, i will come in to do the needful. The man told me no problem that he understands the economic situation and once i am ready, i should come in. But my woman was still not stable as it was one issue after another. The same woman that told me when love they sweet that, she would stand by me through thick and thin but when water pass garri, she said NO that it’s only in marriage.

Already people close to me that knew me and her already were concerned about her actions, the way she talks to me, etc and majority told me outrightly to withdraw. I never did but believed she was going to change. As a concerned man, i do sometimes meditate because no responsible man wants to end up with a woman that doesn’t respect her man and can easily be unpredictable in her actions.

I commend her though for her sacrifices. She rejected a guy that had cash, built house and was relatively very comfortable because i knew him. In fact, at a point it was like a competition and my blood pressure was affected when the guy was policing her bumper to bumper since they lived in the same state.

To cut the story short, after several happenings resulting to series of emotional injury, she apologized that she won’t disrespect me again and even knelt down when we finally met to beg and i accepted. Weeks later, she wanted us to meet but i wasn’t chanced to see her and told her i will let her know when i am free. During this time, i was observing her actions but she got upset and told me she doesn’t want the relationship.

I called to resolve the issue but she wasn’t forth coming. Relationship or marriage ooo she said she’s not doing again. I informed the parents and they said it’s not the first time that i should remain calm. I kept calling for resolution in the month of November, December(she only agreed to see me once and her actions weren’t the lady i used to know), January and February but still no show.

Note: Her words to me when she responded was that she can ONLY be my friend that if i don’t want friendship, i should go my way and if i continue to disturb, she will block me. Also note that my finances started picking up late last year and improved early this year to the glory of God.

I continued to beg through the mum till i stopped after realizing that it was stupid of me to have done so. Reason being that i won’t marry the mother and she as a matured lady has the final say to this. I am a principled man and she knows this because Rome wasn’t built in a day. But as a man, i cannot subject myself to all those shenanigans which has always being the problem from the onset. What you beg to enter, you beg to sustain.

So the relationship officially was 1 year and 6 months when she ended it. It was the aspect of reconciliation that kicked off just last month. So my people, even though me i dey sometimes hide inside my shell, i hardly go out at night and i also admit that i can stay for a while without seeing her, but the 4 months is not justified here. Is it not one that you have a relationship with that you can see?

My write up isn’t to castigate her person and it’s also never to praise myself. Seeking emotional advise on Nairaland isn’t my thing but i felt i should throw some light as this will also aid others that wishes to give advise before doing so.

Remain blessed all and excuse my typos.

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So you took your time to actually give a response to a disrespectful and rude lady? Lol. Ever heard the saying silence is the best answer for a fool?

No time to check time and no patience for bullshit bro.

Evablizin:
You're mean.

Which one is mean, I cosign that brother, no patience for bullshit, keep divorcing until you get that one with her head screwed on right. You only have one life to live, enjoy it, do not endure it, YOLO.

HeWrites:
A Nigerian lady identified as Uche Favour on Facebook took to her Facebook page to advise on what to do when their wife starts cheating.

Read what she wrote;
"Men as soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless."

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/05/dont-wear-anything-to-bed-nigerian-lady-advises-men-with-unfaithful-wives.html

https://www.torimill.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/uche.jpg

What is this one saying? So a man is the reason a woman who behaves like a child cheats? Smh, certified fish brain, I have your certification ode

Not in our generation. Very rare so if you do indeed find that love, please hold on tight.

2buffagain:
"Did I Commit A Crime For Been Good To Her"

Always.
Never be good to bitches.
You have to be an asshole and self-reliant to deal with the women of this generation
Whether it be an evil asshole or a good asshole, just sha make sure you've fully evolved into an asshole before you deal with them.

Be selfish with women. Always. And all will be well.
The alternative just makes you weak, and no woman wants that...no matter what they say. They deeply crave punishment.

Please never take this man's advice. Seems assholes and douchebags are winning with our women smh. Don't try to be what you are not, be you, don't let these girls get to you, go foreign bro if you are finally at your wits end bro.

eazycash:
during my undergraduate days around 2010.i met this bae in my aunties yard in lagos.she was good to me and ask alot of question about education. i pick interest in her and decided to help. thou from her background and etc. things weren't good at all. i registered WAEC for her and paid all the bills. fast forward to 2011. she started disturbing me, telling me that she gat nothing to do with the WAEC certificate, since, it is of no use if she didn't make it to university. i beckoned on her to relax and wait for me to graduate first. but she keep on pressurizing me. i gat no option than to register jamb for her.during the process, something weird happened. she took in, been a sharp guy, i decided to abort the baby, i tried all means with the help of my friends who were medical doctors, all to no avail. friends ask me to let her go and deny the pregnancy, but i didn't. i kept her under my roof, paid for everything payable. and she delivered a baby boy. i still persist she must go to school. fast forward to 2015 after my service year. i registered jamb for her and help her got admission into law.but things turn around after @APC government came into power, business were not moving as usual and we resorted to looking for help after paying for clearance and acceptance fees.we finally got help from one the honourable member from my L.G.A.the main koko is that no more respect, she even leave the baby under my care and never care much about our baby any longer. i tried reasoning with the man wife to see whether she can advice her to calm down but every effort proves so abortive. the honourable wife is even the one telling her to live her own baby and spend the night in their home. my brothers am confused and need your advice on what to do. should i let her go.

Another heart rending story hmmmm. Be you bro, don't let her get to you. My 2 cents.

zerro:
tanks bro.. wat u said is exactly wat i did, really helped

You are welcome bro. Keep trying, they can not all be the same, that is my belief.

If they are the same to you, go foreign bro, at least you have peace of mind you exhausted all your options with them.

Take care bro.

daviesblaze:
so you mean he should accept the adultrated product when she comes back abi?

More like finished, not adulterated products lol

zerro:
Not realy good with write ups, pardon me..
Have this my girlfriend of over a year now, we both have been hapy, do everything together, loved and cared for her, looking forward 2have a future with her, did all i could to make her happy will always be there wen she needs me. never for once did i cheat of break up with her, but all of a sudden she changed, from a loving girl to mean and harsh person, had to rethink, but cudnt find anywhere i wronged her, asked her several times all she could say is nothing, kept lying to me until she opened up that their is this other guy disturbing her, but she hasnt agreed, okay then have u told him u are not interested? , she said no, that shes confused, i was really shocked,no more happiness in me anymore,is it a crime to love?.. never believed ladies can be this way, have a burning hatred in me now, will make sure i take away the joy of any girl i come across in this life.. at the edge of breaking up with her, never wanted to, but her actions just got me thinking
now shez asking me to give her sometime to amend her behavior. that shez not aceptin the guy, but the truth is av lost my trust in her.,who knows what she myt do next time

Wow is all I can say.

I know how the heart ache feels bro, I am in your shoes too currently.

But I am not giving up, I will exhaust all my options before I finally go foreign.

Exhaust your options bro, at that stage, go foreign.

It will be a decision you will never regret.

So it does not feel like we hate our women when most of them seem to prefer rough guys.

Do not be tempted to be a rough guy by the way.

I will not.

My 2 cents.

hammed71:
what are you still doing in Nigeria

Came back home to earn my degree as there was no money to complete it abroad then.

Saw a Canada immigration service on this same nairaland but their cost is too prohibitive at 270,000 naira.

mighty2:
Everybody Want To Move To Canada Without Even Know Anything About The Country Talkless The Risks Therein. Yeah, Before You Migrate to Canada, Read What This Twitter User Has To Say Concerning The Dangers You Will Face
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Source: http://kunlexwap.ga/a-must-read-read-what-this-lady-has-to-say-concerning-the-dangers-you-will-face-in-canada.html
Lalasticlala

Right about that area of expertise, but why do you need that when you can work simple jobs and still pay your bills and even have little left to save? This is why you should learn things like plumbing, forklift driving, welding, barbing and hairdressing to earn the mega bucks.

Coming from someone who stayed in Canada for 5 years, a place where things work, little to no racism, strict gun laws and what have you.

If I had the chance to go back to Canada, I would in a heartbeat!

You can never starve in Canada as long as you are not lazy!

My 2 cents.

Jman06:
I will happily marry an uneducated maid who is clean, has good manners, and can take good care of my home when I'm not around. I'll choose her over a graduate who lacks manners. I don't care how academically smart a lady is. Academic intelligence is different from natural wisdom after all.

Exactly, I don't even mind that so called village girl that can do what you mentioned bro. I wan eat the degree graduate ladies get? Abeggi